a very brief Ermita bar report
Everyone knows the meat market at La Cafe. When I'm not in the mood for that, I've gone cruising at a few other places.
Cafe 28 is on Mabini between Salas and Padre Fauria. Pool table, young bartenders, but very few people in there. I understand it's a newer place, just needs better publicity. Staff is friendly.
Amazonia on del Pilar between La Cafe and Padre Fauria St. Waitresses in uniforms, pool table in the back. FLs onsite, but didn't partake. They have ST rooms upstairs, 600pp/3 hours. The FL I talked to wanted 1500pp for ST; I wasn't interested in taking anyone at the time so I didn't bother to negotiate. That one was doable, but her friend trying to pitch her was not. YMMV.
Butterfly Bar on del Pilar between Amazonia and Padre Fauria St. Two pool tables in the back. German menu; guess it must be one of them running this place. Dang cute dancers who are fun to flirt with. There's a DJ spinning tunes for them to dance to. Fun watching that. Don't think they are available for takeout though. One in particular had a rather bubbly personality that belies the tough life she has. Low key vibe, very few customers. FLs walk in from the street to check out the customers, then leave if there's nothing going. OK by me. Some potential, but hard to say, I'm not a student of what makes a bar work or not.
A few other places on del Pilar in this area, but I didn't step into any of them.
I don't mean to preach but...
[QUOTE=Finrod]I dropped into G-Point last night to talk to the manager. And the girl was there. So I talked to her. She maintained her innocence. She said if she had done it, why would she show up knowing I was still around. Good point, that, but I was not entirely convinced. I will say there is the slightest doubt at the moment: as in a tiny chance that the hotel housekeeping helped themselves to it or a tiny chance that I had a senior moment and put it someplace then forgot that I put it there. I have done that often enough back home. Though I did search around a bit, I didn't search every last nook and cranny of the room.
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On a personal note, I take my reputation and integrity very seriously. As a result of that, I try to respect other people's reputations equally seriously and try to make absolutely sure before I act that I'm without any doubt before I go around accusing other's. That's just me.
In that light, when you had just stated that there was even a hint of doubt about the situation, that perhaps someone else could've taken it or maybe you even misplaced it, is it prudent to go ahead and accuse another person regardless?
Maybe you're leaving and going back to wherever your home is, oblivious to the situation and probably don't care, but the other person is left in the aftermath of suspicion and doubt. Is it really worth it to damage someone else's reputation over what you stated as a "paltry" amount when you yourself have expressed doubt about who the real culprit was?
As I said, I don't mean to preach and I'm not trying to question your character, I'm questioning the decision.