I got chatting with a DIA girl, and I run her name through FB. She has almost 20 accounts. Why do you think that is?
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I got chatting with a DIA girl, and I run her name through FB. She has almost 20 accounts. Why do you think that is?
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?
[QUOTE=Forest; 1205037]Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?[/QUOTE]Where did you read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with westerners? Maybe if there is a big age disparity (that spells hooker-trick) this could be true, but otherwise not. What many of them will have a problem with is going to your room because they don't want people to think they are hookers. Although I have met women on websites, living in Thailand it is much easier to cold approach women than wasting hours on a website and in instant messenger. But I can assure you that it is not as easy as DIA in PI. IMHO Thai women have much more book smarts as well as street smarts.
[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1205060]Where did you read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with westerners? Maybe if there is a big age disparity (that spells hooker-trick) this could be true, but otherwise not. What many of them will have a problem with is going to your room because they don't want people to think they are hookers. Although I have met women on websites, living in Thailand it is much easier to cold approach women than wasting hours on a website and in instant messenger. But I can assure you that it is not as easy as DIA in PI. IMHO Thai women have much more book smarts as well as street smarts.[/QUOTE]Thanks. THat is a clear answer. I would guess my information came from this site, but I did not list all of the modifiers I should have. I am in my mid fifties, I like my women in their early 20s, so I suspect that dating a Thai woman in her early 20s might be difficult, especially if sex was an important reason for the hookup. As for meeting women in stores, restaurants, etc, I think this works everywhere in the world better than web sites (or at least anywhere where I monger). But, with the web, arrangements can be made ahead of time thus maximizing the use of one's time.
I would love to arrange something with a Thai woman for the week I will be there in June, but I wonder if I will just be wasting my time.
By the way, I tried to do a search for DIA in Thailand, but the new search engine is impossible for me to master! Its one thing to RTFF, but to do this right, I would probably have to devote several solid hours!
Hey D Cups!
I found this profile while trolling DIA today. I think she is one you would really like, just from the look of her. ;)
http://www.dateinasia.com/radaza+amor.html
Enjoy!
HW
[QUOTE=Forest; 1205037]Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?[/QUOTE]I had my DIA date come all the way from Udon Thani to Bangkok to meet me for a weekend; And then she suggested to go to the weekend market in BKK; So it is definitely not true that they do not like to be seen with farang: Of course, you have to behave in public, so no no hugging or kissing or even holding hands on the street: But other than that, no problem:
[QUOTE=Forest;1205037]Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA? If so, how does it compare with the Philippines??[/QUOTE]One radical difference is the age range that the girls are looking for. Check it out. In the Philippines a majority have no problem meeting older guys. Not true for LOS girls. Seems only the LBs have no problem meeting a 50 year old.
[QUOTE=Fatboy 1980;1204924]I got chatting with a DIA girl, and I run her name through FB. She has almost 20 accounts. Why do you think that is?[/QUOTE]One for each sister.
[QUOTE=Forest; 1205037]Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?[/QUOTE]I have met about 6 DIA ladies in BKK from DIA. All turned out to be extra nice freebies. Age ranged from 22 (I took her on a business trip to Singapore with me) to 40. Didn't seem to be difficult and no one had an issue being out in public with me. I think its how you play it. In Thailand if you come across as a superstud they label you as a butterfly straightaway and will have nothing to do with you. Try the nice approach. Works fine for me every time I have a BKK trip.
[QUOTE=Forest; 1205037]Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?[/QUOTE]I used DIA on my first trip to Pattaya and I was successful. I meet about 3 different girls. I was able to "Pop" 2 of them and the other one just visited. 1 actually work in a Soapy and the other was a go go girl and worked in internet Cafe. They did not want anything from me and even tried to refuse taxi fare which I paid.
I was told by my friends in Thailand that I was not going to be able to score on any Thai girls as I do in the Philippines. It is much harder and selection is less but I have never had problems in any country.
I used DIA to hook up with a non-pro in BKK last year. She was working as a graphic designer (so she said). Anyway, I think she just wanted a good night out, so I paid for her drinks (not expensive in BKK) and I took her back to my hotel and rogered her silly. Afterwards, I gave her taxi fare because I didn't want her to stay.
[QUOTE=David_33;1205130]One radical difference is the age range that the girls are looking for. Check it out. In the Philippines a majority have no problem meeting older guys. Not true for LOS girls. Seems only the LBs have no problem meeting a 50 year old.[/QUOTE]Yah, young thai girls have no interest in older foreigners unless money is involved. 25yo+ girls are easier to bang for free in LOS.
[QUOTE=Madisonguy;1185347]Maybe someone can help me out. I thought DIA was a real site but from some of the postings I've seen it's basically sounding like a independant hookers site. Are all the girls on there going to negotiate a rate or are some going to act like a girlfriend? I didn't have girls in MBC talk about money so I'm surprised to hear it is so common on DIA. I met a guy who is getting married to a girl of DIA on the plane so it can't be all of them, but is it a huge majority? Anyone?[/QUOTE]I think the overwhelming majority of girls on DIA are looking for some sort of Long term relationship, ideally marriage but if not some sort of long term support. Of those probably most would accept some form of shorter term relationship if they believe they are going to get something out of it. Eg The hope that something might happen and the relationship does become long term, that they might earn some extra pocketmoney or get some gifts, that they may get a good time, be taken somewhere nice etc or where the gap between your attractiveness and her attractiveness is not too large the pleassure of being with you. Very few are on the site to be treated as a free hooker.
The difficulty comes because a the site's censors and be Filipino culture generally makes it pretty difficult for girls to be straightforward and up front about what they are looking for.
Relatively few, other than the more experienced and jaded girls will explicitly ask for money, however apart from the relatively few women who are well off through family or other support, or those intent on playing the long game (not taking money to convince you that they are a good girl who is good marriage material) , most will appreciate some sort of modest financial reward tactfully characterised, as something to get you home, for your kid, etc etc.
This topic does come up frequently and several guys usually pipe up to say that they never pay a cent. All I can say is that it's not my experience. It's possible that they are talking about "sub prime" women, or they are devilishly good looking / skilfull / amsuing or simply they insensitive to what the girl expects.
[QUOTE=GregLondon; 1205317]I think the overwhelming majority of girls on DIA are looking for some sort of Long term relationship, ideally marriage but if not some sort of long term support. Of those probably most would accept some form of shorter term relationship if they believe they are going to get something out of it. Eg The hope that something might happen and the relationship does become long term, that they might earn some extra pocketmoney or get some gifts, that they may get a good time, be taken somewhere nice etc or where the gap between your attractiveness and her attractiveness is not too large the pleassure of being with you. Very few are on the site to be treated as a free hooker.
The difficulty comes because a the site's censors and be Filipino culture generally makes it pretty difficult for girls to be straightforward and up front about what they are looking for.
Relatively few, other than the more experienced and jaded girls will explicitly ask for money, however apart from the relatively few women who are well off through family or other support, or those intent on playing the long game (not taking money to convince you that they are a good girl who is good marriage material) , most will appreciate some sort of modest financial reward tactfully characterised, as something to get you home, for your kid, etc etc.
This topic does come up frequently and several guys usually pipe up to say that they never pay a cent. All I can say is that it's not my experience. It's possible that they are talking about "sub prime" women, or they are devilishly good looking / skilfull / amsuing or simply they insensitive to what the girl expects.[/QUOTE]After meeting over 20 girls now from various dating sites including Tagged and Facebook, I also found that most of them are looking for a long-term relationship. A foreigner is considered to be rich but some girls also mentioned that they consider foreigners to be more faithful to them. According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. Once you make it clear to a girl that you are not interested in something for the long-term, most of them are also willing to have something short-term with you as long as something is in it for them. This can be a nice meal, some tuition money, some pocket money, a small present, some attention, a pair of shoes, a new T-shirt, load for the mobile phone, etc. I even met one girl so far who just wanted to have sex with a foreigner because a friend of her had done the same and she wanted to have some nice story to tell as well.
It is important however not to forget that having sex with a girl like this and paying something for it one way or another does not mean the girl is a prostitute. One girl created a scene in my room because I wanted to use a condom and she didn't like that because condoms are only used with prostitutes? She was not a prostitute so why should we use one, when I insisted she started shouting why I was thinking that she was a prostitute. Guess why the population here is booming.
One other thing that strikes me is that the younger girls 18-20 are easier to get and more fun to be with compared to older girls. 25 is the max for me by the way. Maybe the older ones just have had more bad experiences, any thoughts on this?
[QUOTE=Bloomberg;1205420]One other thing that strikes me is that the younger girls 18-20 are easier to get and more fun to be with compared to older girls. 25 is the max for me by the way. Maybe the older ones just have had more bad experiences, any thoughts on this?[/QUOTE]Don't set rules for yourself Bloomer.
Use these ages as a general guide but that's all. As the girls all say,"age is just a number".
I have had some sensational times with 40 yos and some dreadful times with 18 to 25 yos, and vice versa.
No rules. Pot luck.