Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Bloomberg;1205420]. According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. ?[/QUOTE]Not just the men. Was having a fun chat yesterday with a girl who will be a future conquest (well she did say she will dance for me in her bra and panties so I'm fairly 101% sure I'm she will be a new conquest LOL) anyways she was telling me about her past boyfriend.

She said,"we dated for 6 months and I stayed honest to him all the time, I never played at, all even thought I wanted to ". It made me smile.

The DIAwomen that I have met up with have all been regular women, none looking for, or even expecting money.

All have been well experienced, a couple with kids.

All in the 25 to 33 year range.

I paid for taxis, and whatever it is that we do. Eat, drink etc.

I think that all of them just wanted someone to treat them with respect and make sure that they had a good sexual experience.

G

[QUOTE=Bloomberg;1205420]According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. Once you make it clear to a girl that you are not interested in something for the long-term, most of them are also willing to have something short-term with you as long as something is in it for them.[/QUOTE]FreebieFan: "Not just the men. Was having a fun chat yesterday with a girl who will be a future conquest (well she did say she will dance for me in her bra and panties so I'm fairly 101% sure I'm she will be a new conquest LOL) anyways she was telling me about her past boyfriend."

FF is so correct. Young pinoy run around on their gf, causing plenty of pregnancies and broken hearts. At the same time, many pinay, knowing / fearing this, will do the same thing. They do it quietly (therefore, maybe not socially acceptable, or as the pinay say: Secret!). Have had oodles of pinay in my bed who had a solid bf or husband. Much lower incidence of this outside phils. Always amazed by this. Have heard lots of excuses why she's there with me, when she could be at home with her bf / family / husband:

* You good f*cker to me. My bf not so good the sax.

* I need some help ($).

* My dream to f*ck foreigner. You have a blue eyes. Never I meet other foreigner. This dream to me. Never been hotel before.

* My hasband no like to facking me no more.

Had a wonderful encounter with a 20-year old girl. Met her online on one of the dating sites already two months ago. Finally after chatting about nothing for a while we met after she told me that she trusts me and only wants to meet because she wants to have hard sex. Well who am I to deny that to her.

She told me that there is some foreign boyfriend who visits once in a while. But he is only sweet to her and she claims that his way does not satisfy her. For the long-term she wants to stay with him because he has promised to marry her.

After our second meeting she asked me if I would take her if her boyfriend broke up with her. I asked her why she didn't break up with him. She told me because if she would end up alone or poor she would never forgive herself for letting a "rich" western guy go. One thing I learned from this is to watch out not to become someone safety cushion.

[QUOTE=Bloomberg; 1205981]Had a wonderful encounter with a 20-year old girl. Met her online on one of the dating sites already two months ago. Finally after chatting about nothing for a while we met after she told me that she trusts me and only wants to meet because she wants to have hard sex. Well who am I to deny that to her.

She told me that there is some foreign boyfriend who visits once in a while. But he is only sweet to her and she claims that his way does not satisfy her. For the long-term she wants to stay with him because he has promised to marry her.

After our second meeting she asked me if I would take her if her boyfriend broke up with her. I asked her why she didn't break up with him. She told me because if she would end up alone or poor she would never forgive herself for letting a "rich" western guy go. One thing I learned from this is to watch out not to become someone safety cushion.[/QUOTE]I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.

Op·por·tun·is·tic.

&8194; &8194; [op-er-too-nis-tik. Tyoo-] Show IPA.

Adjective.

1.

Adhering to a policy of opportunism; practicing opportunism.

Had two Dia new chatmates lined up. First thing is get the sex edge taken off by regular fuckbunny in Manila. She knows my exploits and is ok with it.

Initially planned to fly the Butuan girl to Manila and stay with her for a week. When trying to decide a Ormoc chatmate wanted to meet me too. So I thought better to go to cebu.

Booked a ticket for butuan girl to come to cebu and spend 5 nights with me. I told her if things are not working out she can go back early. I timed it right and flew into cebu and she was waiting at theairport. Her flight came in around the same time. She was all friendly and lovey dovey during the trip to the hotel. I will post a report on the nice hotel I stayed in the Cebu thread.

In the room she immediately started complaing about being tired and hungry. Ordered some food and after that let her take a nap. Soon got cuddly with her and sex was just ok. She told me she does not like sex much. Anyway I got two more pops at night. In the morning she complained of stomach ache and refused all sex. She started talking about how poor her family is and she is the eldest in her family and it is her responsibility to support her family etc. I told her to find a job. Anyway next four days with her was not good. She got the mens and complained the whole time. She refused to go anywhere out even though it was her first trip to anywhere. I think she was looking for a sponsor only. After this I immediately contacted Ormoc girl to come and meet me the day the first one left.

This ormoc girl is really pretty with nice young body 21 years old. She made me very happy. She is super horny and very affectionate and a keeper. In fact I extended my stay here in cebu. While chatting I thought the Butuan girl will make me more happy but turned out it is vice versa.

So it is hard to say who clicks and who does not.

Ok this is for all Manila based guys.

Had a chat today with a 20 year girl from Taguig. I started chatting with her only yesterday, and today she chirps up, with a " Hi Hello,". Then she says she's sad. So I lamely ask why. Its her kids 4th birthday, father of course is no where to be seen, and will I buy her kid a gift.

I basically told her to get lost with her sorry begging.

BUT for a guy who wants to be a hero, it could be the day to buy said girls kid some plastic crap and get a lay in exchange. You can find her in YM on ljbente4. Must be worth a try for someone.

Interesting post, but what does opportunism mean?

[QUOTE=Westcoast1; 1206044]I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.

Op·por·tun·is·tic.

&8194; &8194; [op-er-too-nis-tik. Tyoo-] Show IPA.

Adjective.

1.

Adhering to a policy of opportunism; practicing opportunism.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1206189]. .

Booked a ticket for butuan girl to come to cebu and spend 5 nights with me. I told her if things are not working out she can go back early. I timed it right and flew into cebu and she was waiting at theairport. Her flight came in around the same time. She was all friendly and lovey dovey during the trip to the hotel. I will post a report on the nice hotel I stayed in the Cebu thread.

In the room she immediately started complaing about being tired and hungry. Ordered some food and after that let her take a nap. Soon got cuddly with her and sex was just ok. She told me she does not like sex much. Anyway I got two more pops at night. In the morning she complained of stomach ache and refused all sex. She started talking about how poor her family is and she is the eldest in her family and it is her responsibility to support her family etc. I told her to find a job. Anyway next four days with her was not good. She got the mens and complained the whole time. She refused to go anywhere out even though it was her first trip to anywhere. I think she was looking for a sponsor only. After this I immediately contacted Ormoc girl to come and meet me the day the first one left. .[/QUOTE]Sammon your post is a vindication for my opinion and that of many others who caution against flying unknown girls in from outside places to spend time with you.

In effect you "wasted" 4 days with her when you expected a great time.

At least the Ormoc girl saved you.

I know some guys have struck it rich but for me it is just not worth the risk.

To fly a girl into Cebu is like bringing sand to the beach but if it works out then hindsight is king.

A good reminder though to those who are contemplating such an activity.

Ok so we know as guys were always checking girls out, always scoping the scenery, always looking at T&A and mentally undressing girls.

As I mentioned here a few weeks back I'm working on a girl fro my next Manila trip who has stated 100 times she hasnt seen or been with a guy for 6 years since she gave birth.

Yesterday met online a lady who says she's ready and available but in her case says it only 5 years. Lives in Cavite runs her own business, has free time but the only guys she chatted with are jerks. But she's ready to give it up in a moment for the right guy.

Today I'm chatting with an ex lover. She and I met in 2002/2003. Cute, small and before making love she would undress me and massage me, even gave my feet a foot spa once. Really the kind of lady who treats her man like a King. Well our last sesaion was in mid 2003. So today I sak her if she had dates for the weekend. She says she hasnt had dates in a long time. I ask how long. She says last man she kissed was me. In mid 2003. Thats 8 years ago! Damn if I go 8 days I'm already climbing the walls and watching porn!

[QUOTE=Gangles; 1205716]The DIAwomen that I have met up with have all been regular women, none looking for, or even expecting money.

All have been well experienced, a couple with kids.

All in the 25 to 33 year range.

I paid for taxis, and whatever it is that we do. Eat, drink etc.

I think that all of them just wanted someone to treat them with respect and make sure that they had a good sexual experience.

G[/QUOTE]Your report is right on the money. Let me add my 2 cents.

I have lived in Cebu over 5 years and have dated on DIA more times than you can shake a stick at. Most of the woman I have encountered are looking for somebody they can have a little fun with, talk to and can have sex with without the whole Barangy finding out she is boning somebody.

Most of the times when I offer even a small amount they get offended as they feel you are playing them cheap. They say I have fare. As I am a avid Jeep rider most of the girls are too.

They tell me they can appreciate some good conversation and if we would just listen and talk you will hear the stress about them working 12 hours a day since 16 to only send their money back home to support their family. They can't talk to their family about it and they can't talked to friends because it is a Taboo because of the " Culture here". So when they get a chance to have a decent nights sleep in a decent place with no noise, get a decent meal and just feel appreciated then they do not want your money just your time.

Now there are a few wolf in Sheep's clothing who will play good innocent and virgin and try to sleep with you and then try everything in the world to extort money from you but I have not encountered that.

There is one girl that is a member because she was recommended by a member of this forum for her REAL Estate that actually stole money from me 2x. I set her up the 2nd time to be sure. This is another issue because I am tempted to write the whole story here on DIA as a Monger's code of ethic's we should not be sharing stories we here on ISG and sharing them with others and when others are warned in private they should not refer the person anymore if it's proven she is a thief. Funny because I gave her money or let her do odd jobs to make money without sleeping with her.

[QUOTE=Andre007; 1206385]Your report is right on the money. Let me add my 2 cents.

I have lived in Cebu over 5 years and have dated on DIA more times than you can shake a stick at. Most of the woman I have encountered are looking for somebody they can have a little fun with, talk to and can have sex with without the whole Barangy finding out she is boning somebody.

Most of the times when I offer even a small amount they get offended as they feel you are playing them cheap. They say I have fare. As I am a avid Jeep rider most of the girls are too.

They tell me they can appreciate some good conversation and if we would just listen and talk you will hear the stress about them working 12 hours a day since 16 to only send their money back home to support their family. They can't talk to their family about it and they can't talked to friends because it is a Taboo because of the " Culture here". So when they get a chance to have a decent nights sleep in a decent place with no noise, get a decent meal and just feel appreciated then they do not want your money just your time.

Now there are a few wolf in Sheep's clothing who will play good innocent and virgin and try to sleep with you and then try everything in the world to extort money from you but I have not encountered that.

There is one girl that is a member because she was recommended by a member of this forum for her REAL Estate that actually stole money from me 2x. I set her up the 2nd time to be sure. This is another issue because I am tempted to write the whole story here on DIA as a Monger's code of ethic's we should not be sharing stories we here on ISG and sharing them with others and when others are warned in private they should not refer the person anymore if it's proven she is a thief. Funny because I gave her money or let her do odd jobs to make money without sleeping with her.[/QUOTE]Great report. Tell more Andre007.

[QUOTE=Westcoast1; 1206044]I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.

Most of the pinays on DIA are hard to carry an intelligent conversation with. The ones who can are often westernized types. I ran into one who as proficient in English, her American husband had died and she returned to Manila, probably because she could not continue to afford the high prices in her US city.

She has American citizenship but is living outside Manila. We started talking and I realized that she is Americanized and kind cheap. She has money but wants to keep it. She offers me a place to stay in her new house, but no air cond, although she has one in her room. But she wants me to pay utils and food.

Well I would have done that anyways but her asking tells me she is cheap, because I would have only been there a week ro two at most.

Then after promising me this and talking about and making me think she is thinking of me as a possible partner, she suddenly tells me that she had retired doctor US friend who is coming in Jan to meet her and they will return to US to visit her grandkids together. You think should could have mentioned this guy before I wasted alot of time chatting with her?

This shows how living in the USA ruins any pinay. They will become just like American C*ts. Stupid of me to even talk to her once I found out she had lived for several years in the USA.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1206266]. So today I sak her if she had dates for the weekend. She says she hasnt had dates in a long time. I ask how long. She says last man she kissed was me. .[/QUOTE]That's remarkable FF.

Just yesterday I was chatting to one of my friends from Cebu that I met in February this year who was asking if I can come down soon and see her again.

When I enquired about her love life she gave me EXACTLY the same story that you got. Verbatim."Last guy I kissed was you". Exact words.

Now it is only since February but this woman is hot and very gregarious and likes sex a lot. There is NO WAY she could possibly be truthful, and I thought how silly of her to expect me to believe it.

My reply to her?"Same for me honey. I have been too busy. You are the last woman I have been with too".

Her response?"Talaga. That's great baby. So we will be really horny for each other when we next meet".

What a laugh. What games we play? How we humor one another with BS?

[QUOTE=D Cups;1205310]WOW, HW, thanks a lot! I sent her a message and hope to get a reply! As luck would have, I'll be in Makata early next month and hope to meet her! Thank you, very, very much. If you're in town, let me know. The San Mig is on me![/QUOTE]Wish I could be there to enjoy that San Mig with you D Cups. Unfortunately, I have not been able to get back to Phils since 2009. I live vicariously through the stories that you and other mongers post on here, hoping that I will be able to go there again sometime soon. I hoped to go last year, but an unexpected move put me in debt so bad I could barely keep my head above weather. And this year was not much better. I'm trying to get a job back in Asia again, so I can get around to all the fun spots more often, and with less expense. I'm determined to make it back there again as soon as possible.

I hope you hook up with the DIA cutie I sent you. Please make sure to post about your experience with her.

Enjoy!

HW