this report is about some small tips to pick-up girls in night clubs (discos) of riga. i'm writing here about places i know, and i cover mainly russian places (i don't go out in latvian places). i use the word pick-up, because pro action is almost non existent in these places.
[b]general note[/b]
finding pros or semi-pros in clubs are not very easy. city is small, and everyone is knowing everyone. there is not this big anonymity of the city which could allow someone to discreetly work on the side to pay her studies. girls will even be afraid to be seen with foreigners (especially in high style place), as their peers would catalogue them as prostitute.
if you pick up normal girls, you won't get them to your hotel on the first night. this could happen, but don't count on it too much. best strategy is to write down their numbers (buy a local chip card to have a local phone, it will cost you less) and to call them back the next day. invite them for a drink in a nice place (sky bar at hotel latvia, golden bar on gertrudes 33), for diner, or even better to jurmala (beach resort located 20km from riga, bring bathsuit if you come to riga in summer). after, it's a matter of skills!
[b]russian/latvian[/b]
i'm referring to latvian crow, and russian crowd. as you know, riga is roughly inhabited by 50% of latvians (people who are here for centuries) and by 50% of russians (people moved there during the soviet era).
latvians are more down to earth and quiet. they go out in places looking more like pubs or student places, they listen to rock music, dance salsa, drink beer and are usually more accessible.
russians are more crazy and full of energy, loving everything golden, going out only in vip places, listen to russian pop, drink champagne, dream about dior glasses and vuitton bags, dress to impress, and will usually ignore you.
[i know, i'm talking about extremes, but this illustrate the difference, that's the point]
russian girls are usually prettier, and their sense of party is great (but if you enjoy more the pub atmosphere, you'll prefer the latvian way, try your luck at pulkvedis bar).
tips about what you should do/how you should look (to pick up normal girls)
russian girls pay lot of attention to the way you dress. forget the short and the italian football t-shirt. wear designer jeans, nice shoes and an expensive shirt. what you want to avoid is to have "tourist" written on your face. dressing nice is the first step, and will help you being noticed by the girls.
don't think that your foreigner passport is the key to their heart. this is in fact exactly the opposite. girls usually don't want to associate with foreigners in the first place, they don't care about your money (they care about money of course, but not yours). so the best way is to go easy on the girls about being a foreigner (don't scream "bella bella bella" or something like that). better try to act like the businessman used to be here, not the guy wanting to score before the next morning flight. try to see on long term, not short term.
the best is to speak some words of russian. it will put the girl at ease, and give you opportunity of some laughs.
always act as a gentleman, always be in control. girls here are excellent drinkers, you will be surprised.
[b]velvets, 9 skarnu iela[/b]
quite a nice place for dining (good food, quick service). especially in summer when the terrace is installed on the street. after 22h, bar is transforming to dance club, as there is a special place with dj in the back. this place is quite known for presence of tourists/expats, and some working girls are hanging around there. usually they are quite obvious (alone, at the bar, smoking and drinking cocktails).
at a time, management of the bar could arrange you meeting with escort girls (for "diner" only, rest of evening depending of will of the two persons). i don't know if they are still doing that.
as this place has its reputation about foreigners, most of the girls there won't be too much against speaking with you. good place to get some phone numbers. however, not the best girls are going there.
mainly russian crowd.
[b]essential, 2 skolas iela[/b]
young and hype latvian crowd. always lot of people from thursday to saturday. it's like a big factory, with 3 different dance floors and 6 bars. no working girls there at all (from my experience). most of the girls are young (18yo), wanting to party, usually drunk and ready to be offered cocktails. you'll probably end up paying for some drinks and doing nothing at the end, but this is useful to get phone numbers and arrange meetings the next day. however, be careful, young boys are pretty aggressive there if you talk to your girlfriend, so pay some minimum attention.
there is one dance floor, vip style, where audience is more russian and little bit older. usually same crowd than from fashion club (see below).
[b]fashion club, 2 terbatas iela[/b]
considered to be the best club of riga for high style russian crowd (local oligarsh and their vuitton bag girls). very good music, nice atmosphere. the club is quite big, two dance floors, one casino (with vip area, limited access), one sport bar and many place to sit and talk. on a saturday evening, this is the place to be if you want to see the most beautiful girls of riga. they are all dressed to impress, and you'll think you are in paradise. it's not unusual to have 70% of girls on the dance floor.
however, most of them are there to dance and have fun with girlfriends, and not to meet people, especially foreigners. if you can't speak russian, dress in shorts and drink beer, you won't get any opportunity to approach these beautiful girls. for russian women, style is important, so dress to impress if you want to go in this club and be considered. don't act like a boy in disneyland, look as you own the place, and don't dance around the girls looking like a pervert in needs. avoid coming there in packs of male friends.
stay at the bar on the main dance floor, you'll be in the center of the action, and you'll see most of the girls coming there to buy some drinks. try to engage conversation there. there are some pros working in the club, they are usually sat at this bar, but they are not obvious.
in this club, security is very effective, but extremely firm. i have seen girls harrassed by some drunk guys calling security and throwing out the guy. always stay in control of what you are doing.
[b]voodoo club, in reval hotel latvija[/b]
used to be a good place some years ago, now it's just a place for tourists where 90% of the girls there are commissioned on the drinks you will offer them. total waste of time, possibility for action is extremely limited. avoid.
mainly russian crowd.
[b]roxy, 24 kalku iela[/b]
you have hit a wall in fashion club, girls in essential are turning you down? go to roxy! a place where everything is possible! many young girls are getting drunk and crazy. many washed up pros. it is customary to try everything there, you don't care to offer money to anyone for action. this can be hell or paradise, depending of your luck. i would advise this place to end the night and finish yourself with vodka.
mainly russian crowd.
[b]studio 69, 96 brivibas iela[/b]
located in the same complex than "la rocca" (disco for **** girls, avoid), this place is a classy strip club where rich russian crowd likes to come and show off. some girls are working there (you can't miss, they are usually dressed very very sexy) and will ask you to buy them some drinks (no, you won't get any piece of real action).
russian music is often played, and vuitton-bagged girls enjoy dancing there under close surveillance of their boyfriend/sponsor.
this is quite a locked situation, with not so many opportunities, but it can be worthed to pay one visit.
i don't think you'll ever find one latvian there.
[b]final note: sponsoring[/b]
you have spent a few days in riga, and you have found one nice girl with whom you had some nice time. but now you have to go home. what to do? if you want to see her again, and be sure of that, you can become her sponsor. of course, you need some skills to put the subject on the table, but the idea is to give her monthly amount of money and in exchange she will always be here for you when you come. this can be as blunt as cash, or you can also make her some nice gift. it's only about finding the right way (some girls won't accept money, or pretend to be offended, etc).
this sponsoring relationship is not strange at all for russians. it's just some kind of arrangment between you and the girl (but in their mind, this doesn't make her a prostitute, this is different). amount of money and frequency can be very different! i have seen everything.for one pair of shoes to 1000€ per month.
good luck!
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