Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=WhoMadeWho;2825943]Which do you prefer (MTY vs CDMX) and why?

Other than chicas, any good hiking around MTY?[/QUOTE]Both cites are great, but are more long term destinations. If you are able to travel often they both are great. If you are just going one time and going strictly for girls then stick with Tijuana or GDL.

CDMX is better for girls and Restaurants, but very expensive now, especially with the current exchange rate.

MTY is cheaper, not as many girls available, but still great. Restaurant are okay, but in comparison to other cities in Mexico, they are not that great. Service is definitely inferior to other destinations. Lots of places to go in MTY for hiking, but be prepared during the summer the weather can get very hot.

I am here now and killing it. The great thing about both destinations there just is not a lot of competition from other sex tourist. MTY is very expensive to travel to, but Hotels and Restaurants are cheaper, then CDMX. This helps keep the guys out a lot of the low end sex tourists.

I'm kinda jealous. At my peak, I had a collection similar to yours, but plus a few years, because I prefer mid to late 20's instead of early 20's. And this was in the states, where it's tough. 500 sterling or usd?

[QUOTE=YoungWolf994;2825983]Long time lurker so thought I'd make an account and write a mini-report of the SA scene in London.

It seems that price has gone up lately and quality down compared to what I've been reading in this thread. Most girls I seek are asking for 500 ppm+ and not willing to budge. If I try to negotiate down, most of them simply block you. Here are some of my latest scores:

24, English, IG gym girl type 8/10. Great pair of naturals. She works an office job in a small town outside of London. Likes money and sex and she's a great girl to be around, very down to earth. She is very submissive and likes to please. She told me she likes to suck cock and she is very good at it. She gets wet very fast and it only took me a few pumps for her to reach orgasm. She likes being chocked and called a good girl. In fact, she was always asking me to call her a good girl. She is now my regular. I give her 500 per meet.

22, English rose, University student 8/10. Petite, blonde blue eyed girl. Very pretty face, little PAWG thing going on as well. Quite innocent but been in the game for a while. She's a nice girl to be around. The best moment is when her mascara runs down her face while sucking cock. She takes it deep and is very determined. Beautiful and pink pussy and it tastes great when doing RO. She is my semi regular now. I give her 500 per meet.

22, French University student 9/10. Petite, brunette and very pretty face. Great pair of naturals and tight body. She is fun to be around, we have lots in common and she likes to dress up for me. Sex is great and passionate. I gave her 500 per meet. She's now back to France for the summer break.

22, English University girl. Quite plain looking girl, your average English girl 7/10 but good body. She makes up for it in bed though. Absolute anal * and just wants to please you and likes taking cock in all of her holes. I gave her 350 per meet. Not seeing her at the moment.

This is my first year on Seeking and I'm still trying to learn how to do better at it. London has a great scene, but it's pricy compared to other countries. I don't mind paying as long as I meet an 8/10 and above. Life is short and I don't want mediocre sex with average looking women, as bad as that sounds. I have harvested over 30 phone numbers and I'm going to go through the best of them this summer.[/QUOTE].

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

Depends on the country in my opinion. Maybe meet her first and see what vibe you feel.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?[/QUOTE]If you've been with her before, then you know her a lot better than we do, so none of us can you you useful advice. But if you've never been with her before, then I would definitely take a pass. The risk-return just ain't worth it.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?[/QUOTE]Can be lousy, or OK. I have travelled with 2 SBs. The last one got a bad attitude and was mean to me after 3 hours of a weekend trip to Vegas. The one before was more mellow. You find out a lot about them, whether they would make good marriage material or not, and of course they are checking you out too- if you are generous, buy them clothes or not, give them spending cash. Its a no-win no-man's land and chances are you or her will not have a good time and someone's expectations will be shattered.

[QUOTE=Midwestern;2826322]If you've been with her before, then you know her a lot better than we do, so none of us can you you useful advice. But if you've never been with her before, then I would definitely take a pass. The risk-return just ain't worth it.[/QUOTE]Haven't met before. Was thinking video call to gauge it. This is my issue with seeking. I'll be in a place with good options so no need for seeking but I'm still looking LOL even though there's more risk.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?[/QUOTE]Yeah, I would not do it. I had SBs I had known well cancel on me at the last minute. In general, it was 50-50 if they would show up. The funny thing is the women would always say the same thing, a sick or dead father. My friends started giving me shit about it. They said I needed to stop asking women on trips because the death rate of fathers was skyrocketing.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?[/QUOTE]I am always careful. Everyone hides something. What I find important is whether she values the money or the experience. It can be a bit of both. If she values money, then a trip is wasting her time because she is paid less. However, if she values the experience, it can create a better SD relationship. The experience must be something really out of this world. First class travel, 5 star restaurants and hotels. This can be more expensive, but worth it.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826427]Haven't met before. Was thinking video call to gauge it. This is my issue with seeking. I'll be in a place with good options so no need for seeking but I'm still looking LOL even though there's more risk.[/QUOTE]And GD, you reminded me of a gal I flew into San Antonio. She was a medical student and personal trainer. She was tall, thin, smart, ambitious, and had a sexy CEO type voice. She was going to cure cancer and obesity because one was not enough. She was such a smart energetic person I was thinking maybe she could. So we are walking around the riverwalk, and there are sparks of love in the air. For real.

It is time to go to the hotel, and she wanted a lot at the time for our day but I thought it was worth it. Well, that changed.

When I went to kiss her, she was like, "No, I don't do that. " Then she put two condoms on me (safer that way) and gave me a BJ where I could hardly feel anything and when we went to the main event, she went into trainer mode. I am fucking her from behind and she is like, "Yes, you can do it, 1,2,3,4, keep going. " I have had worse sex, but I do not think I have been more disappointed with the sex ever in my life.

If she was as good in bed as she was outside of it, I may have married her.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2826530]And GD, you reminded me of a gal I flew into San Antonio. She was a medical student and personal trainer. She was tall, thin, smart, ambitious, and had a sexy CEO type voice. She was going to cure cancer and obesity because one was not enough. She was such a smart energetic person I was thinking maybe she could. So we are walking around the riverwalk, and there are sparks of love in the air. For real.

It is time to go to the hotel, and she wanted a lot at the time for our day but I thought it was worth it. Well, that changed.

When I went to kiss her, she was like, "No, I don't do that. " Then she put two condoms on me (safer that way) and gave me a BJ where I could hardly feel anything and when we went to the main event, she went into trainer mode. I am fucking her from behind and she is like, "Yes, you can do it, 1,2,3,4, keep going. " I have had worse sex, but I do not think I have been more disappointed with the sex ever in my life.

If she was as good in bed as she was outside of it, I may have married her.[/QUOTE]Hahah that's a real bummer but a great story. Seems like the consensus is too risky and hard to pull off. Another redish flag is her profile lists her location in the US, but profile text says she's in a European city. Profile doesn't seem like a scam and I'd have to imagine there's easier scams than going after guys who want to meet in Europe. I think it's more likely the meet is like Elvis' though, expensive and not worth it. I guess there's always an angle on seeking.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826637]Hahah that's a real bummer but a great story. Seems like the consensus is too risky and hard to pull off. Another redish flag is her profile lists her location in the US, but profile text says she's in a European city. Profile doesn't seem like a scam and I'd have to imagine there's easier scams than going after guys who want to meet in Europe. I think it's more likely the meet is like Elvis' though, expensive and not worth it. I guess there's always an angle on seeking.[/QUOTE]There is no way I would take her on a trip or fly her to me if we have not spent time together in person. I would need to have spent both time outside of sex in a public setting / restaurants / shopping / tourist to observe her demeanor. If she checked the girlfriend / sex boxes then I would do that. Otherwise, are you sure you want to commit the money, time, and possibly worse outcome?

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2826288]Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb?[/QUOTE]Agree with other posters. Have a few thoughts: did you end up trying to do the sb thing in bcn earlier this year?

If not, I would try to go practice the methodology of the messaging / transfer over to text-whatsapp / video / first date chemistry+bedroom (IE the filter process). Have your backup p4 p options ready.

Do Steve's best-3 recruits / dates set up and you never know. My travel experience comes also with civvie girls or escorts off the book. You need to just have your instincts sharp and escalate as you go, rather than trying to go straight for extensive travel with someone you've never met.

If anything, book travel on the fly after you meet a few of them (or book somewhere less $ intensive / easy to book last minute). Having booked for 2 adults in hotels (as a default) it's easy usually to add another flight / train / etc to the mix if you have already booked everything.

Hope this makes sense, the short of it is, don't give up on the idea of SBs+travel, just get your horse before your cart. You never know, the first SB encounter may go really well and you can figure out a destination together!

F.

P.S. Elvis, that is a nightmare scenario of meeting an amazing women outside the bedroom and having a super subpar experience in the bedroom. Always a risk, regardless.

[QUOTE=Foolish;2826774]Elvis, that is a nightmare scenario of meeting an amazing women outside the bedroom and having a super subpar experience in the bedroom. Always a risk, regardless.[/QUOTE]This is why I believe people must definitely engage in pre-marital sex before tying the knot. You need to be sure that you're sexually compatible as well as compatible in other important ways as well. Forget about all of the morality bullshit and keep it practical and for real! You already have only a 50/50 chance of the marriage succeeding. Don't make the odds worse by not being sure you're sexually compatible [B]before[/B] you say, "I do". So, here's to pre-marital sex! Ha!

[QUOTE=Foolish;2826774]Agree with other posters. Have a few thoughts: did you end up trying to do the sb thing in bcn earlier this year?

If not, I would try to go practice the methodology of the messaging / transfer over to text-whatsapp / video / first date chemistry+bedroom (IE the filter process). Have your backup p4 p options ready.

Do Steve's best-3 recruits / dates set up and you never know. My travel experience comes also with civvie girls or escorts off the book. You need to just have your instincts sharp and escalate as you go, rather than trying to go straight for extensive travel with someone you've never met.

If anything, book travel on the fly after you meet a few of them (or book somewhere less $ intensive / easy to book last minute). Having booked for 2 adults in hotels (as a default) it's easy usually to add another flight / train / etc to the mix if you have already booked everything.

Hope this makes sense, the short of it is, don't give up on the idea of SBs+travel, just get your horse before your cart. You never know, the first SB encounter may go really well and you can figure out a destination together!

F.

P.S. Elvis, that is a nightmare scenario of meeting an amazing women outside the bedroom and having a super subpar experience in the bedroom. Always a risk, regardless.[/QUOTE]I did try seeking in bcn. I had one flake but one good one as well. I also had a good experience in Paris where the girl came to meet me in Paris and then stayed over. My travel plans are unfortunately already set with hotels but it would be easy to add a flight.