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Just left London today and I'm currently in Vienna.

Started the sorting process about 3 weeks prior to trip. Basically, to sort out all the pros. A lot of pros, so if was going that rout prefer Diva, Babylon etc.

Narrowed the list down to 5. Did VC / FaceTime etc with them to check vibe and seriousness. 4 out of the 5 were in constant contact, I. E. Multiple texts / pics during the day.

3 of the 4 seemed really excited about meeting. So was going through the mental brain damage of narrowing it down to 1-2 because my trip got shortened. Would have only an evening, next morning / early afternoon before leaving.

My type: 8. 5+.

Blonde / Brunette.

5'3".

Super fit.

White / European.

Under 30.

The day before my trip one of them asked what time the next day I was leaving so she can plan her work schedule. Which I knew she was coming to pound town and staying over. She was lives in Manchester and works as an aesthetician.

Then she asked if I would pay for her train ticket. Started to think she was trying to pull a low key scam, but told her to send me the link. She chose the economy ticket and it was only 120 £ round trip, so even if she flaked no big loss.

I having been staying at the Mandrake lately in London and it's a great 5* boutique hotel near Mayfair etc. Has a great bar / lounge, the vibe is very nightclub like, rooms are great. Turns into a club lounge in evenings. Has only 35 rooms. But has large lounge right in the middle of the hotel. A little pricey about 700 £ a night for a king room with terrace etc but the vibe is worth it. They have vibrators, gels, silk ropes, blindfolds etc in your room if you want them (but have to pay). The key holder for your room is one of those whip things.

Paula shows up to the bar where I was waiting for her in casual attire but looking crazy attire. First thing she said was don't worry my heels and dress are in my bag. She has 2 drinks, I'm deep into Michters bottle. We go up she goes into the bathroom, does her makeup, comes out in an incredible dress and we head out.

Dinner: Koyn-Mayfair, a favorite sushi / Japanese restaurant of mine. Great dinner, drinks, we are vibing. She's polish, I speak fluent polish so she is now in an even better happier place.

Head back to hotel. Bar closed. MGR says you can drink whatever you want as long as it comes out of a bottle, he doesn't make cocktails LOL.

Have a few more drinks head up. From elevator to room action starts. One in room she gives whatever I want except anal, asks me not cip because she is not on bc. I give her oral first she has a screaming orgasm. Then gives me an incredible BBBJ. Then I pound her out in every position, we take water breaks and I bust in her mouth.

Wash up. Go to bed. Wake up. Go down for breakfast. Come back. Fuck again. Shower, call her an Uber. Slip 300 £ in her bag, she has never asked for any money and she goes to the train and I head to airport.

Total damage:

120 £ train.

Dinner:400 £.

Bar:80 £.

Uber:15 £.

Voluntary donation:300 £.

I don't count dinner and drinks as cost of fun because I would go to such places anyway.

Great experience. She has texted me all day.

Vienna right now is looking like a bust on SA. Flakey.

Turned my tinder Profile on. Let's see.

Otherwise, plenty of pros.

[QUOTE=Chola;2829058]Thanks for sharing. Could you please post the experience in Madrid? Especially prices paid. Thanks![/QUOTE]I've had three girls there. $300-400 seems the going rate. There will be higher asks. But you should find a 7-8 girl in this range. And of course Vive is fun if u prefer in person nightclub selection. 250/hr.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2827757]Howdy all. I'm a longtime Seeker. Usually in Latin America. Got a trip coming up to Eastern Europe. But I'm flexible on where in Eastern Europe. I'the love to go where seeking is bangin. But all of the cities I poke around in have very limited options. Like when I look at Estonian or Romanian cities, girls 18-24, there are only a small handful, which means maybe a few are actually active and available. I know from a lot of experience that the best cities are the ones where there are tons of options and you can pick and choose.

Anyone know which Eastern European cities are hopping for this activity?[/QUOTE]Belgrade in Serbia.

And you will go crazy with the SA women.

Or Istanbul in Turkey.

I know it's not EE but you will get everything on SA.

Peace.

Will be in SFO soon. Started SA reluctantly because I know US socks.

1. Setup time for meet and greet. Sends pics, chats. Wr agree on time and bar.

Two hours before. Hey, I need to find caretakers for my grampys. Could you send $? Here is my cashapp. I say anything possible but we first meet. No $ before meet. She goes "you think I will come for free? My time is valuable".

I didn't tell her my time is valuable too. But simply blocked her.

2. Claims to be a student. That too a PhD. I ask what field etc. She claims a field on which I did Masters. I poke further. Loses steam and goes "I was scared and deenrolled".

3. 2nd message goes "I need $800 for meet and greet. I don't waste time".

This is such a large amount of weeds.

Talking to my employer about transferring back to Europe in 2024. Shithole.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2829683]Will be in SFO soon. Started SA reluctantly because I know US socks.

1. Setup time for meet and greet. Sends pics, chats. Wr agree on time and bar.

Two hours before. Hey, I need to find caretakers for my grampys. Could you send $? Here is my cashapp. I say anything possible but we first meet. No $ before meet. She goes "you think I will come for free? My time is valuable".

I didn't tell her my time is valuable too. But simply blocked her.

2. Claims to be a student. That too a PhD. I ask what field etc. She claims a field on which I did Masters. I poke further. Loses steam and goes "I was scared and deenrolled".

3. 2nd message goes "I need $800 for meet and greet. I don't waste time".

This is such a large amount of weeds.

Talking to my employer about transferring back to Europe in 2024. Shithole.[/QUOTE]USA sucks in soooo many ways these days. Not just girls. Def move back to Europe if you can imo.

Ouch on the scam 2 hrs before. I've hit this twice in maybe 50 dates and it was years ago. But damn it's the worst because you are all primed and ready and May have even driven to the date. Total biatches in this one. Boo.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2829683]Will be in SFO soon. Started SA reluctantly because I know US socks.

1. Setup time for meet and greet. Sends pics, chats. Wr agree on time and bar.

Two hours before. Hey, I need to find caretakers for my grampys. Could you send $? Here is my cashapp. I say anything possible but we first meet. No $ before meet. She goes "you think I will come for free? My time is valuable".

I didn't tell her my time is valuable too. But simply blocked her.

2. Claims to be a student. That too a PhD. I ask what field etc. She claims a field on which I did Masters. I poke further. Loses steam and goes "I was scared and deenrolled".

3. 2nd message goes "I need $800 for meet and greet. I don't waste time".

This is such a large amount of weeds.

Talking to my employer about transferring back to Europe in 2024. Shithole.[/QUOTE]Welcome to America LOLOLOL! I got hit with scam number 1. In fact, I had already driven to the restaurant and got a table. I just told the obvious fraudster "good try", blocked whoever it was and laughed it off, and then enjoyed a nice meal out. At least I didn't have to drive far at all. But now maybe you have seen in short order exactly what I'm talking about all the time. Welcome LMAO! Not laughing at you but at the BS that is Seeking in America (the only place I have ever used it). We can either laugh or stay mad. I choose the former (as well as not giving Seeking anymore of my hard earned money)!

Not intending to make this beautiful forum political. So, looking for a one line high level answer, Steve.

Why do you say leave US? Political climate or economical climate or something else?

I definitely am not liking US after living in Europe. Want to move back not just because SA sucks (seriously. That is a minor part of larger life) but because overall it seems "blah". Money is great but that's about it.

So, curious why you said what you said.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2829718]USA sucks in soooo many ways these days. Not just girls. Def move back to Europe if you can imo.

Ouch on the scam 2 hrs before. I've hit this twice in maybe 50 dates and it was years ago. But damn it's the worst because you are all primed and ready and May have even driven to the date. Total biatches in this one. Boo.[/QUOTE]

I am definitely laughing it off. One last chance to SA in US.

These bitches are not worth synthesizing stress hormones.

I am visiting Germany, Spain, Belgium in July. Back to my old SBs. They make me release dopamine.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2829720]Welcome to America LOLOLOL! I got hit with scam number 1. In fact, I had already driven to the restaurant and got a table. I just told the obvious fraudster "good try", blocked whoever it was and laughed it off, and then enjoyed a nice meal out. At least I didn't have to drive far at all. But now maybe you have seen in short order exactly what I'm talking about all the time. Welcome LMAO! Not laughing at you but at the BS that is Seeking in America (the only place I have ever used it). We can either laugh or stay mad. I choose the former (as well as not giving Seeking anymore of my hard earned money)![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2829776]Not intending to make this beautiful forum political. So, looking for a one line high level answer, Steve.

Why do you say leave US? Political climate or economical climate or something else?

I definitely am not liking US after living in Europe. Want to move back not just because SA sucks (seriously. That is a minor part of larger life) but because overall it seems "blah". Money is great but that's about it.

So, curious why you said what you said.[/QUOTE]Yeah don't want to go too political here either and caveat is I've only visited. But I would say I would say in nice European towns and villages there is a more old world feel. Classier. More respectful. Charming might be the word? The US feels like one big crass commercial these days in so many ways. Maybe I'm getting old but I like something a bit more classic and traditional (in my relationships too! Where women are women, not men. LOL).

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2830240]Yeah don't want to go too political here either and caveat is I've only visited. But I would say I would say in nice European towns and villages there is a more old world feel. Classier. More respectful. Charming might be the word? The US feels like one big crass commercial these days in so many ways. Maybe I'm getting old but I like something a bit more classic and traditional (in my relationships too! Where women are women, not men. LOL).[/QUOTE]Same here. In a decade or two, I will definitely be retiring anywhere else other than the US. Although I am not so much into Europe. Good to visit as a tourist but can't see myself living there. Just visited Lisbon and Madrid. Don't see the hype of these two cities or countries. Panama is still my preferred destination.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2829776]Not intending to make this beautiful forum political. So, looking for a one line high level answer, Steve.

Why do you say leave US? Political climate or economical climate or something else?[/QUOTE]Is it just me or do you feel like our votes do not matter anymore? It seems like all the decisions are being made behind the scenes by bureaucrats and we do not know who they are. I was shocked when some Democrats on the political forum here actually said they would find Hiliary Clinton and Joe Biden guilty of the same law Trump has broken if they were indicted. Okay, if what Trump has done is worse than what the others did, then his punishment should be more severe, but if Pence, Hiliary, and Joe Biden broke the law, why did they skate? And who made that call? Will we ever really know?

Covid policies were run by the private company that is the CDC. We did not vote on Covid policies or even have our representatives vote on that. The only bipartisan thing being done now is spending money on wars. How much money do we need to spend on defense really? I don't know what you put the odds at of nuclear war with Russia, but one thing I was thinking about when I was in Colombia was, wouldn't it be nice not to have nuclear missiles aimed at the country you live in?

I saw this graph and today and it blew me away. [URL]https://mishtalk.com/economics/the-great-debate-are-americans-better-off-today-than-in-the-1980s/[/URL].

I shake my head because I did feel wealthier and more optimistic in the mid 1980's than now.

My grandparents bought a lot on a lake in Michigan in the 1950's for $300. My parents sold it for $500,000 a few years ago. We used to swim, fish, build rafts, and water ski on that lake. It was open to everyone. Now it seems like it is just the elites. My cousins own a business up there and they have to import workers from Eastern Europe and the Caribbean to work for them. Doesn't it cost too much for people to have kids now? What is up with that?

I have made fun of the food in Colombia forever to the great offense of my gal but when we went up North of Bogota into the mountains, I had to apologize and eat crow. Beautiful country. You go like 30 MPH most of the time, behind slow moving trucks, occasionally you get a cow, dog, or chicken in the middle of the road. We stopped and got an arepa at a local joint not the typical corporate crap like you see in the USA. Simple. Delicious. Fresh squeezed OJ that was amazing. Do you know when you can just tell if you are eating good and fresh versus filled with preservatives and other crap?

So I meet my gal's family, and they are wonderful people. Family grows its own vegetables on a garden on their farm. Cows, horses, sheep, and goats have abundant fresh grass to eat. They also have a few places in the small town they rent out and one they live in. Housing is very affordable, and yes, I was told you can leave your front door unlocked.

I loaded in my gal, her daughter, and two of their cousins into our mini SUV and headed out for a day excursion. Sure, the gals have their phones and tik tok and IG and the like, but they are drawing, playing like I did when I was a kid, working real jobs, smart as whips, and happier and more talented than any other young Americans I have met.

So we go to a dinosaur museum, and it is really nice. Then we head to a chocolate museum. The town square is big, gorgeous, and the sun is setting over the mountains, a stunning view. The museum is a gem of elegance in a city that is quaint, and the chocolate, OMG the chocolate, I do not know if I have had better.

We then have dinner, and I saw a place with rotisserie chicken. Again, it is nothing fancy. I pay like $10 for five people to eat. It is simple. It is just chicken, arepas, and potatoes, but it was so fucking good and again your body is thanking you for eating it.

I look at the people and the women. Obesity is there but it is a fraction of what it is in the USA. The women have one kind of look to them but they were some amazing looking women in these country towns, and everyone was nice. I wonder to myself why the people are so thin and happy. Is it really because the people in the USA are so undisciplined or is it just because we have so much unhealthy and addictive shit put in our food? How happy can you be if you are morbidly overweight or obese?

When I was in Colombia, for sure there were the hooker types out for a buck but in no other country did I meet women who were really interested in me and not money. I even had one woman try to give me the money we agreed on back to me. Why were so many people in this country so much less materialistic than richer ones? And yeah, DF, I get Medellin is as materialistic as anyone in the world, but that is Medellin.

Yeah, the roads sucked. The internet sucked. The latest and greatest tech gizmos were not around, but does that really matter?

I agree that the USA is the best place to make a living, so I am not going to check out of the USA just yet, but something is fucked up when a nation as poor as Colombia seems to have people way more happy and healthy than we do.

I've been messaging girls on sa ahead of a trip. I have a few leads but sa is starting to feel like work when I know there are good options where I'm going. And I don't have to worry about my stuff in the hotel room. I had decent conversations with two different girls but both fizzled out when financial details came up. I know steve suggests not bringing it up directly but I feel like I wasted my time. The first one expected 3500 eur and said her only other arrangement had a 20 k monthly allowance.

The second gave me the "I'm not an escort and just because we're meeting I won't have sex but we can see how chemistry is" but asked for an allowance. I was tempted to offer her 100 eur even though I've never paid for meets before. I countered and said we could meet for a drink first and a date later in the week if the chemistry was good but she declined saying I was expecting sex. I told her yes, for an allowance that was my expectation but I was happy to meet for drinks without expectations. I asked her about previous arrangements and she expects allowance for the meet and then more if there's intimacy. Probably dodged one here.

I know I probably messed the second one up but what could I have done differently? Offered the 100 eur? The chemistry on text seemed good so I mightve had a shot but she could equally have been a rinser.

The two good experiences I've had on seeking abroad have been with girls who were basically using seeking for sw. One told me straight up when we met and the second made it clear in her messages. She still had a regular job/intern but loved sex.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2830496]I've been messaging girls on sa ahead of a trip. I have a few leads but sa is starting to feel like work when I know there are good options where I'm going. And I don't have to worry about my stuff in the hotel room. I had decent conversations with two different girls but both fizzled out when financial details came up. I know steve suggests not bringing it up directly but I feel like I wasted my time. The first one expected 3500 eur and said her only other arrangement had a 20 k monthly allowance.

The second gave me the "I'm not an escort and just because we're meeting I won't have sex but we can see how chemistry is" but asked for an allowance. I was tempted to offer her 100 eur even though I've never paid for meets before. I countered and said we could meet for a drink first and a date later in the week if the chemistry was good but she declined saying I was expecting sex. I told her yes, for an allowance that was my expectation but I was happy to meet for drinks without expectations. I asked her about previous arrangements and she expects allowance for the meet and then more if there's intimacy. Probably dodged one here.

I know I probably messed the second one up but what could I have done differently? Offered the 100 eur? The chemistry on text seemed good so I mightve had a shot but she could equally have been a rinser.

The two good experiences I've had on seeking abroad have been with girls who were basically using seeking for sw. One told me straight up when we met and the second made it clear in her messages. She still had a regular job/intern but loved sex.[/QUOTE]Remind me where you are traveling to? That will give some context to help.

Regarding the $$ discussion it depends where you are going. I hope I never said don't bring it up. I always do. But it's not presented as sex for money. My patter is basically after some chat and moving to WhatsApp:

"I see our date going something like this. Have a nice dinner. Prob drink a bit too much. Laugh till it hurts. And if we vibe like I think we will, spend some private time together. Allowance of course. On the off chance we don't vibe we can part after dinner no harm no foul. How's that match what you are looking for? ".

She will usually say sure if you get to this point. Then you can discuss price. You don't need to be any more explicit than what is said above. You would just say "Did you have something in mind for gift/ allowance?" And she will either say or ask you to go first. If you go first say "what I have done in the past is 400. I hope that works for you because I think we will really have a great time. " Notice no $ sign. Outside US you can be more explicit.

Hope this helps.

Was recently chatting with Sylvia and came across this report from our first date. May have posted. Don't recall. But it's a fun read and got me to reflecting longer term SA relationship s and how they grow more complex and more real and therefore have ups and downs. I'the guess I'the say I have three ongoing relationships and they aren't without their intrigue and drama.

Shayla — My home girl. My mistress. We've been dating weekly and more for 18 months. Have flown her on vacation and work with me three times. The highs are very high. But then there's the complexity. She has some emotional issues and if you hit her up before 2 pM you would swear she hates you. LOL. And then at night she's fun. Birth control is totally whacking out her sex drive and that's made things harder. There is drama now where there was none 12 months in.

Alexa — My Vegas girl. Just saw her again for a couple days. First met her in 2019 and I guess our rate of speed is a few days together once a year! We do fall back into it pretty effortlessly. But FUCK that girl can talk a blue streak. I mean nonstop 24 hours! I've even coined the term "conversational blowjob" where she will chat, suck dick, say a few more sentences, suck dick, and so on. Good news is this leads to 45 minute blowjobs and it's sorta kind fun. But damn can't say it's very românticos intimate. Our sex is just a bit more mechanical now.

Sylvia — Met Sylvia in London a bit over a year ago. As you Will see in the adventure below, there is a razors margin between walking away and having a long term girlfriend. After the great time below I flew her on Vacay to the Mediterranean and we had the best time. Only downside is she's so tight and not so wet and I am thick, so we've had our struggles. After that vacay we met for a night in London and my party girl had disappeared and was replaced by a girl who wants to order take out and watch Netflix (this happened with Kayla my FL girl also! So I just let it run cold. She even deleted her Telegram acct because she felt dissed. Well what do you know a month ago she cashapps me a dollar (only way she could contact me. Clever girl) and says she wants to reconnect if only as friends. Weve been chatting ever since and now she's asking when we can travel together again. I really do like this girl but damn I got to have good sex so I'm in a quandary. Right now I'm putting her off but damn I miss her. When she sends voice messages in that London accent. Damn.

Anyhow I guess I'm just rambling but perhaps the point is that it's wonderful to have long term girls and I wouldn't trade them. But they develop complications as all relationships do. So beware!

Good luck out there! The gems exist! Get your miners hat on!

P.S. Going to have to post the story separate due to character limits.

[Read post below this first for context]

First, the good, the bad and the ugly of Seeking. Good -- great actually is Sylvia -- what a gem. But I also had to sift through piles of dead leads and one beautiful girl who strung me on with great text game and a meetup plan and hit me up for travel funds a few days before (thank her for not being last minute). But this let me go to my number 2, Sylvia, who, having met up, I am 100% confident is better than the other girl.

I met Sylvia two weeks ago on Seeking. And what a wonderful case study of how razor thin fate and decisions are. We had lovely chat, but at one point we couldn't agree price and we both walked away. Fortunately she messaged a few moments later saying she changed her mind. I proposed a compromise and we continued onward. This AMAZING experience might not have happened but for that minor little change of heart. And she is over the moon that we met -- I was her first SA and a total home run it was in both directions.

The other great thing about this date is that its living proof its not all a bunch of pros. Sylvia just finished law school and is fucking smart and articulate as fuck. She could run circles around most of us talking politics, anthropology or whatever else you might want to talk about.

As a result of being brand new to the game and having a bright future ahead, she was super paranoid about sending photos and stuff. She'd send expiring photos on a short timeline. At first I thought she might be a scammer and didn't' want to be documented but she is absolutely 100% the professional girl early in her career looking for some fun and cash is a side benefit. And fun we had.

We met up for dinner as per the usual playbook but man did it evolve to the amazing party evening after that. I know some guys just want to go back to the sack ASAP but I LOVE having a girlfriend out on the town and a really full evening (we spent 8 hrs this first night before crashing together in my room). After dinner we walked hand in hand through Hyde Park. It was getting dark and when we got to the other side, it was chained up and we had to jump the fence. What a trooper in a dress and heels!

I had to pee like the end of the world so we found the closest bar / club we could and it was in a toney part of town. Really amazing place, with hookah / shisha and a wonderful young high end vibe. There was a belly dancer and Sylvia was sorta dancing in her seat -- so I knew she was my kinda high energy girl and asked her if she wanted to go dancing. Damn, yes she did!

Well it turns out she is a wild party girl at the club and rivals the famous Thifany for being a true life spirit of energy. And I love her moxie. When we enter the club its packed body to body but she wants to get a table. I've been here before and know there are only like 2 booths and there is no way. Undeterred she takes me by the hand and wends her way to the back of the club. Theres a corner booth but it has glasses and bottle of champagne on it, but she plunks herself down anyhow. I join her and not much later someone comes and says they had poached the booth and hope it was OK and we admitted to being poachers also and all shared it. Tho we were 99% on the floor anyhow. She was just so confident poaching that booth. What attitude!

So we dance ourselves silly for a couple hours and it really brought me back to my time with Thifany. Thifany was a 9+ and Silvia is clearly an 8 but the same energy and sexy dancing vibe. We were mixing it up with others in the club. One big party.

Back in the room the sex was hot and heavy. She totally got off on DATY and fingering, with two fingers upping the intensity level significantly. As usual I was a beast to get off when mega drunk but with BJ and several rounds of fucking I finally came in mish, which I love.

I was worried because goddamn London and their tiny rooms with a single twin bed but we crashed at 3 AM as spoons and just spooned the whole night as the only practical method of sharing a twin. And it was nice. We both slept the sleep of the dead.

Breakfast the next morning was fun and comfortable but day two was even more interesting with the introduction of a work friend to the mix. (Never sexual). I thought after all the cloak and dagger she'the want to keep things private but when my friend checked in she was fine with meeting him.

This led to an amazing night of the three of us with no one feeling like a third wheel as she was equally engaging with both of us. I lost my jealousy hangup with Thifany because I woulda gone nuts otherwise but it served well here. Happy to share her all you like but I know who's fucking her tonight!

So we had an amazing dinner with vibrant conversation, some amazing drinks and then searched high and low for a club open past 11 on Sunday WTF. Literally wandered about for an hour before a pedi-cab guy said he could take us to a place open till 3 and I pay him what I feel. Sounds like a scam. But my glass half full personality paid off and he dropped us at a club and I gave him 20 which he was happy with.

This club far exceeded expectations and turned our plans completely 180. We planned to sit and talk in another quiet pub like atmosphere. But here there were no tables and the music way too loud to talk. So we adapted!

Sylvia and I joined a small handful on the dance floor and got the party started! As time went on the club filled and we were pulling wallflowers into the game, including my shy friend. Sylvia was so great. She would dance with him, even doing back grinding totally bringing him to the party. And I just loved that she's so open and free.

She was definitely the IT girl and several guys were engaging her to dance. I don't really mind but when they got too handsy I had to back them off a bit. I don't think they believed me when I said she was my girl. LOL. We kissed a couple times which I hope sent a message. On balance it was fine and non threatening tho one dude was pretty stalker like and I had to tell him to back off more than once. All in all It was another amazing night.

We left shortly after a small fight broke out at 2 AM and made our way home. Of course we were too pooped to fuck but fortunately had a BJ before dinner and didn't feel the need. Next morning we had lovely morning sex before I had to leave for the airport.

We spent less than 48 hours together but it felt like a week and was just one off the hook party. So smart. So sexy. So 24. So free. Only on Seeking baby!