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Truer words were never spoken here
[QUOTE=Orgasmico;2576740]Everything is negotiable. Success depends on you. No one can tell you how successful you will be.[/QUOTE]I would add, there is a ton of good advice here, but one of the most valuable pieces of life advice I got many years ago, from a person I barely met in passing was when she told me, "Don't ever let anyone tell you that you can't do it". You determine your course, not others. When someone tells you it can't be done, they are really projecting themselves into the situation and saying, "I haven't done it, and I don't know how to do it". That doesn't mean it necessarily has to stop you or that you won't succeed.
Heck, I have been told at every major turning point of my life here in Medellin by family, advisors, and naysayers, "Stop, don't do it, turn back, you're crazy, it won't work, you're in danger. " Could it all still blow up on me? Perhaps, but the likelihood appears to be less and less as time goes by, relationships solidify, patterns are formed, trust is built. You can't be ridiculous about it. And you have to know yourself. No matter what my future holds, I have no regrets, and the epithet on my headstone will read, "If I Die Tomorrow, I Die A Happy Man. "
This is hilarious and serindipitous, I Googled "epithet" on line for the spelling (had it right), and this was the example given, "Old men are often unfairly awarded the epithet "dirty".
Gratuitous fotos. One more foto of BarbBogota from my recent Sugar Daddies post, the other four are mi novia around our old apartment in Medellin.
More like taking cheese off the burger since he wanted bareback, jajaja
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2576749]How do you offend a sex worker by talking about sex? It is like offending the cashier at McDonald's by asking for cheese on your burger.[/QUOTE]But yeah, this dude is going to want to lose some inhibition. I am all for spontaneity in sex and goin' with the flow but in general the more specific you can be with a prepago, especially a new one, the happier all parties concerned will be.
How does this effect you for leaving Colombia and returning to wherever?
[QUOTE=SlapShot10;2576843]Welp, looks like I have COVID. [/QUOTE]Will you need to have the result of a negative antigent test before you fly anywhere out of the country and how long will that take?
First time staying in El Centro
I just spent 3 nights at Hotel Nutibara. It is the first time I have stayed in El Centro although I have spent plenty of time before walking the streets during the day and visiting the casas.
I really enjoyed the vibe en Centro. In some ways it looks like a European city, but with the chaos of a busy Asian city. People are for the most part very friendly and "real", there is a lot of energy about the place. Bit of a freak show though. Many crazy looking people about.
Lots of bars to drink, girls on most corners, in the bars and in all the short term hotel doorways. Plenty of casas and chica-bars. Personally, I found better choices in the casas, and there isn't that much difference in price between casas and street workers.
I stayed at Hotel Nutibara. Again a decent choice. Reasonable price, if dated rooms. Nice staff, no worries with bringing girls.
I felt perfectly safe in the day time. So many people about. The sun sets quickly and the place empties fast though, but at least there are plenty of bars within a couple of blocks of the hotel.
My main concern was food. It is absolutely dreadful. No choices apart from fast food Colombian style which I would never eat. There are a couple of places nearby within walking distance but they are lunch-only places, plus not open on Sundays or festivos. So the next time I will book for midweek. .
Overall, definitely an experience that I would repeat. Centro of Santa Marta is still my preferred choice because at least I can least well there.