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[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2833636]
I do not needs 9's or 10's. 7/8's work.
I have the money, but very little time now, plus I love fucking different girls.
Life is great, killing at work and socially.[/QUOTE]This is the PERFECT QUOTE and summary of seeking.
Cheers Mate.
Keep going.
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2830573]Spain is full of SA hotties. Just keep at it. You will crack the nut. Smoke show wanted 1000 but settled for 400. And now she's going to travel w me (fingers crossed) so just keep at it. If you are ok with a full bodied girl I can point to one in Madrid who is a nice girl and a ton of fun in the bedroom.
Ps if u dont wanna use gift, allowance is a bit nicer word than ppm. Tho in Spain it prob doesnt matter.[/QUOTE]I should've had more faith. Both my sa dates last week in Spain were grand slams. Unfortunately I couldn't finish with either, might need some advice on that part.
The first one was a day date where we went out and then had lunch. Back at the hotel and ended up having close to 3 hours of sex. Lots of DFK and in all kinds of positions. The highlight was when she said she liked anal and I had one finger up to the knuckle in her ass and two more in her pussy with her in doggy. I'the never done anal stuff before so was a little iffy but what an experience. Jr wasn't fully cooperating when we tried to do anal sex but it was basically 3 hours non stop. Her pussy was pretty wet the whole time and she may have come a few times. I've had issues finishing before when girls use lube and wondering if ribbed condoms would help.
The second was even better because we had a better connection. Her english was better and she caught me a little off guard with her curiosity and just vibe overall. I wasn't sure what to expect because she has dyed hair and more of an alt look and I wasn't sure if I'the be into it. But when she showed up she was super cute and I was game. After dinner we went to the rooftop bar at the hotel and had a drink and chatted. Some good flirting and physical contact sitting next to each other and I was already having a good time. Back in the room she was an excellent kisser and lots of DFK as well. She really liked doing p2 p slides but wouldn't go bb. She really liked being on top and kept biting my neck which I like. The best part was letting her do some light dom on me. She also said she was into kinks and I told her I wished I lived in Spain so I could experiment with her. I think we were at it for over 2 hours but again I couldn't finish. Before she left I fingered her to finish so at least one of us came.
I didn't mind not finishing because I enjoyed spending time with both girls. The most frustrating part for me is I've had 3 excellent experiences in spain but haven't found anything like it here. Maybe I'll have to find a way to move there LOL.
I haven't usually had performance issues but the day before my dates I saw wg and finished there. Usually once a day isn't an issue though. Last weekend I saw Noleta at Diva who Steve has recommended in London and she immediately said too much wanking LOL when I couldn't finish. She was right on the money too. The times I was able to finish the girl wanked me or I wanked myself before she sucked the last bit. I just didn't expect the sa dates to be home runs so I didn't want to save it in case they were busts. I know I wanked too much the week before the trip but I thought a few days would be enough to recover. Has anyone else had this death grip issue and has it gone away? I've never had it this bad before. When I went earlier this year but hadn't wanked in a week or more I finished with 4/6 girls in 3 days.
My other question for everyone is do any of you feel bad seeing wgs and sa girls back to back? I'm not doing bb like some of you but still don't feel great about it. One of the pleasures of seeking is the girl feels like a GF vs an escort, and especially when I like them I worry about spreading something.
On your performance issue I got nothing. Last time I was able to come the first time but the second time I just could not. And I don't go for 2 hours. I go for like 10 minutes so it's a bummer when that happens. Tho other times I can go 4 firms in a date, twice at night and twice in the morning. So who knows.
On the spreading. Yeah. I think about that. I always use a condom. But they are not fool proof and really not not for HSV and HPV. Truth is I spend the week after an SA binge looking at my dick for anything.
[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2834515]I should've had more faith. Both my sa dates last week in Spain were grand slams. Unfortunately I couldn't finish with either, might need some advice on that part.
The first one was a day date where we went out and then had lunch. Back at the hotel and ended up having close to 3 hours of sex. Lots of DFK and in all kinds of positions. The highlight was when she said she liked anal and I had one finger up to the knuckle in her ass and two more in her pussy with her in doggy. I'the never done anal stuff before so was a little iffy but what an experience. Jr wasn't fully cooperating when we tried to do anal sex but it was basically 3 hours non stop. Her pussy was pretty wet the whole time and she may have come a few times. I've had issues finishing before when girls use lube and wondering if ribbed condoms would help.
The second was even better because we had a better connection. Her english was better and she caught me a little off guard with her curiosity and just vibe overall. I wasn't sure what to expect because she has dyed hair and more of an alt look and I wasn't sure if I'the be into it. But when she showed up she was super cute and I was game. After dinner we went to the rooftop bar at the hotel and had a drink and chatted. Some good flirting and physical contact sitting next to each other and I was already having a good time. Back in the room she was an excellent kisser and lots of DFK as well. She really liked doing p2 p slides but wouldn't go bb. She really liked being on top and kept biting my neck which I like. The best part was letting her do some light dom on me. She also said she was into kinks and I told her I wished I lived in Spain so I could experiment with her. I think we were at it for over 2 hours but again I couldn't finish. Before she left I fingered her to finish so at least one of us came.
I didn't mind not finishing because I enjoyed spending time with both girls. The most frustrating part for me is I've had 3 excellent experiences in spain but haven't found anything like it here. Maybe I'll have to find a way to move there LOL.
I haven't usually had performance issues but the day before my dates I saw wg and finished there. Usually once a day isn't an issue though. Last weekend I saw Noleta at Diva who Steve has recommended in London and she immediately said too much wanking LOL when I couldn't finish. She was right on the money too. The times I was able to finish the girl wanked me or I wanked myself before she sucked the last bit. I just didn't expect the sa dates to be home runs so I didn't want to save it in case they were busts. I know I wanked too much the week before the trip but I thought a few days would be enough to recover. Has anyone else had this death grip issue and has it gone away? I've never had it this bad before. When I went earlier this year but hadn't wanked in a week or more I finished with 4/6 girls in 3 days.
My other question for everyone is do any of you feel bad seeing wgs and sa girls back to back? I'm not doing bb like some of you but still don't feel great about it. One of the pleasures of seeking is the girl feels like a GF vs an escort, and especially when I like them I worry about spreading something.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2834515]I should've had more faith. Both my sa dates last week in Spain were grand slams. Unfortunately I couldn't finish with either, might need some advice on that part.
The first one was a day date where we went out and then had lunch. Back at the hotel and ended up having close to 3 hours of sex. Lots of DFK and in all kinds of positions. The highlight was when she said she liked anal and I had one finger up to the knuckle in her ass and two more in her pussy with her in doggy. I'the never done anal stuff before so was a little iffy but what an experience. Jr wasn't fully cooperating when we tried to do anal sex but it was basically 3 hours non stop. Her pussy was pretty wet the whole time and she may have come a few times. I've had issues finishing before when girls use lube and wondering if ribbed condoms would help.
The second was even better because we had a better connection. Her english was better and she caught me a little off guard with her curiosity and just vibe overall. I wasn't sure what to expect because she has dyed hair and more of an alt look and I wasn't sure if I'the be into it. But when she showed up she was super cute and I was game. After dinner we went to the rooftop bar at the hotel and had a drink and chatted. Some good flirting and physical contact sitting next to each other and I was already having a good time. Back in the room she was an excellent kisser and lots of DFK as well. She really liked doing p2 p slides but wouldn't go bb. She really liked being on top and kept biting my neck which I like. The best part was letting her do some light dom on me. She also said she was into kinks and I told her I wished I lived in Spain so I could experiment with her. I think we were at it for over 2 hours but again I couldn't finish. Before she left I fingered her to finish so at least one of us came.
I didn't mind not finishing because I enjoyed spending time with both girls. The most frustrating part for me is I've had 3 excellent experiences in spain but haven't found anything like it here. Maybe I'll have to find a way to move there LOL.
I haven't usually had performance issues but the day before my dates I saw wg and finished there. Usually once a day isn't an issue though. Last weekend I saw Noleta at Diva who Steve has recommended in London and she immediately said too much wanking LOL when I couldn't finish. She was right on the money too. The times I was able to finish the girl wanked me or I wanked myself before she sucked the last bit. I just didn't expect the sa dates to be home runs so I didn't want to save it in case they were busts. I know I wanked too much the week before the trip but I thought a few days would be enough to recover. Has anyone else had this death grip issue and has it gone away? I've never had it this bad before. When I went earlier this year but hadn't wanked in a week or more I finished with 4/6 girls in 3 days.
My other question for everyone is do any of you feel bad seeing wgs and sa girls back to back? I'm not doing bb like some of you but still don't feel great about it. One of the pleasures of seeking is the girl feels like a GF vs an escort, and especially when I like them I worry about spreading something.[/QUOTE]First. Congrats. I knew you could find the gems. Now as to your questions.
A lot of your ability to finish prob has to do with the condom. Ribbed won't help. That's for the girl not for you. What are you using now? Of US brands I recommend Skyn as thinnest and most responsive. But the Japanese ones are even better if they fit you. The Okamoto 01 and 02 are amazing. But unfortunately even the large are tight if you are a thick guy. If you aren't as thick then high recommend. Worth every penny.
Even with good condoms it can be a struggle to finish that way. Definitely let her finish you with a BBBJ. It may take a while. Like after fucking a long time go to BBBJ to finish. She may have to put in 15 minutes or more. Make sure she does plenty of BLS as this is key to getting there. As a worst case scenario put her on BLS and get your shaft super sloppy. Her on BLS and you on hand work is pretty much a guarantee. (At least for me. I can still cum after a ten girl week w this method).
Finally on STD if you are not doing bareback fucking I wouldn't sweat it. You are not going to catch anything of consequence with a condom on and your unlikely to catch anything thru BBBJ. Many of us have been BBBJ for 20 years and nada. It's not impossible but if you are not trolling the bottom (and SA you are def not) then you have little to worry about. Get a home STD test and check every few months just to be sure. Least that's my opinion.
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2834724]First. Congrats. I knew you could find the gems. Now as to your questions.
A lot of your ability to finish prob has to do with the condom. Ribbed won't help. That's for the girl not for you. What are you using now? Of US brands I recommend Skyn as thinnest and most responsive. But the Japanese ones are even better if they fit you. The Okamoto 01 and 02 are amazing. But unfortunately even the large are tight if you are a thick guy. If you aren't as thick then high recommend. Worth every penny.
Even with good condoms it can be a struggle to finish that way. Definitely let her finish you with a BBBJ. It may take a while. Like after fucking a long time go to BBBJ to finish. She may have to put in 15 minutes or more. Make sure she does plenty of BLS as this is key to getting there. As a worst case scenario put her on BLS and get your shaft super sloppy. Her on BLS and you on hand work is pretty much a guarantee. (At least for me. I can still cum after a ten girl week w this method).
Finally on STD if you are not doing bareback fucking I wouldn't sweat it. You are not going to catch anything of consequence with a condom on and your unlikely to catch anything thru BBBJ. Many of us have been BBBJ for 20 years and nada. It's not impossible but if you are not trolling the bottom (and SA you are def not) then you have little to worry about. Get a home STD test and check every few months just to be sure. Least that's my opinion.[/QUOTE]I used skyn regular ones. I've used okamoto 004 before but I had one break last year with an sa girl. I'll go back to trying those.
Thanks for the tip. That's basically what I did with the first diva girl I saw in London.
I'm not that worried about STDs, more concerned / guilty about seeing wgs and civvy / sa girls back to back. Especially since I'm starting to date again at home. How do you guys handle dating regular and sa?
Recap: Traveling in US and out of 30 odd messaged, two moved text and both fizzled. Prepared for a dry tour.
Day of: Had a few 5/6's shortlisted but never reached out. Day of travel, while at airport, shot out a few messages and boarded plane. Landed. Response back from one. Seemed legit. Quickly moved to chat. No BS, no baits. Fixed dinner for evening. Back of mind, "wow. This one agreed so soon. There must be a catch". Mentally prepared to sleep alone.
Head to dinner. What looked 5/6 on pics turned out 6/7 in person. Small win.
We chat, we order food. Convo flows. She works office admin. Along the way I drop few questions and cross verify mentally what was told on text. Consistency. Check.
Finish dinner and decide to hit a bar (Steve, this idea of yours always. Always work). On the way, gently grab her waist. Feeling the vibe, went for a kiss. Nice engagement back. Game on.
We go to a bar but they were closing shortly. Grabbed a quick drink and we discuss arrangement. Then, we go to next bar, couple more drinks. Now, the hands are intertwining. Seated same side. Feel her thigh. All heating up.
We grab a bottle of wine, snacks and go to my room. On the way, my hands around her waist. Now, I let it slightly wander to the under of her breast and soon, found her nipples while in elevator.
We get in to the room. As soon as we got in, she was all over me. Within minutes, we both were down to bare minimum. And gosh. She was already soaking wet. I was surprised and she goes "I got wet the moment you plucked my nipples".
Can't wait. Slid the junior in. We went at it in multiple positions. More than an hour. She begged for me to CIP. I could feel her IUD while inside and made a split second decision to do it (worried a bit next AM but not much).
We cuddle for a while and later we go to shower. Things got frisky in shower again and we had another round right there.
Then, we slept like logs.
Next AM another 45 min session before she had to go to work.
Home run in US! It finally worked.
Damn guys. It's a regular fuck fest in here. Great job! I am glad to see living proof that it's out there and you just have to find it. Even in SF!
Could you share the price you got in SF without any other specifics on the girl?
On condoms. Don't bother with the 04. May as well use Skyn. You simply must try the 01 tho. Nothing else comes close if it fits. Get the large. I wouldn't trust Amazon or EBay for this seems like there could be counterfeits and this is not a place to mess around. [URL]Www.allfromjapan.com[/URL] that ships real Japanese products straight from Japan. Worth the extra cost for this item.
Finally on the civvies vs SA chicks thing. You have to deprogram a bit. First. Know that man was not made to be monogamous. Not in our DNA. Period. We can stereotype polyamorous folks as odd somehow. But that is flat out wrong. Other way around. Man was built to be polyamorous so don't let someone convince you otherwise.
Second. Don't treat civvies and SA girls differently. They all deserve respect and quality time w you. But there is nothing wrong with dating (fucking) two civvies. See point one. And this nothing wrong with dating an SA girl and a civvy back to back. They are both girls and you are a polyamorous guy (as all basically are). Don't fight it. Don't worry about it. Just go forward with respect for both parties and rock on.
[QUOTE=Gfefan;2834804]
Finish dinner and decide to hit a bar (Steve, this idea of yours always. Always work). On the way, gently grab her waist. Feeling the vibe, went for a kiss. Nice engagement back. Game on.
.[/QUOTE]What's this idea. Do share.
By the way, someone on this thread once mentioned having a bottle of rose in the room. I tried it once and it worked like a charm. Now I do it every time. It does a number of things. It shows hospitality and foresight. It keeps the alcohol party going. And it gives you something to do.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2834922]What's this idea. Do share.
By the way, someone on this thread once mentioned having a bottle of rose in the room. I tried it once and it worked like a charm. Now I do it every time. It does a number of things. It shows hospitality and foresight. It keeps the alcohol party going. And it gives you something to do.[/QUOTE]Haha yeah rose in the room is my go to. Easiest way to start the party — a couple glasses of wine. Plus it makes a nice break between rounds.
As far as the other idea it's certainly not original to me. But I often "bounce" girls from dinner to another more personal venue like a rooftop bar or something. This not only extends the date (which I like) but allows you to get closer (rather than opposite sides of the table) and do some minor escalation — touching / kissing to cement the vibe. I find it very effective.
P.S. Everything I know about dating and closing the deal I learned from the Nanpa (Japanese street pickup) forum at Attraction Japan. LMR, ASD, persistence, strong frame. Etc.
I think the idea of 5/6 or 10 nis subjective. For me Jennifer Lawrence is a 10 but someone else might find her a 8.
But anyway, things have been so rough in the US that I thought there is a 95% Chance that she will as me for $, about 30 minutes before dinner. I didn't.
Expect her to show up.
Frankly speaking, a 10 with bad attitude. I would walk away. A 6 with good attitude, my junior would respond.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2834898]Dude, why bother with 5/6's? You got lucky she turned 6/7, but if she didn't would you still fuck and pay her? Easier to just rub one out, free of charge. I know, it is tough to play in the US, let alone SF, but damn, I must be really desperate to fuck a 5.[/QUOTE]
All the platinum pussies quoted on the very second response.
$1000 for 2 hrs,$1500 for overnight.
One decent girl quoted $700 because she thought I am a nice guy (LOL. Discount). But, she wanted $200 on table if I decided not to take her back to room. Frankly speaking, I did not like any of those talking $ even before we met.
This one, after we met, and had a heating up kiss on the road, while at the next bar quoted $500. Boom. Agreed.
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2834822]
Could you share the price you got in SF without any other specifics on the girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2835063]Really Cane and MiamiBoy? Youre going to come in here and shit on some guys good experience? He had a great time. That's all that matters. We are here to support and help each other (IMO). I mean free speech and all that but why even spend the time to criticize someone else's choices? Let's focus on the positives. Someone in our little group here just got laid. That's awesome![/QUOTE]Hold your high horses bro! I wasn't "shitting" on anybody. I was talking about [B]me[/B] and how I do and cast no aspersions upon anyone else. If someone fucks a fugly according to even his own optics scale but is happy with the outcome nevertheless then more power to him! My only point was that my own personal "constitution" if you will won't allow me to do that (I can't even get hard unless I feel she's a 7). So Stevie don't preach!
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2835063]Really Cane and MiamiBoy? Youre going to come in here and shit on some guys good experience? He had a great time. That's all that matters. We are here to support and help each other (IMO). I mean free speech and all that but why even spend the time to criticize someone else's choices? Let's focus on the positives. Someone in our little group here just got laid. That's awesome![/QUOTE]Yep, these guys are way to caught up on 9/10's. I been some of these places where they claim they are meet 10's, I sure as hell never saw any 10's, when I was there, running the streets. Also some guys are now claiming to have multiple 10's at one time this almost impossible.
If this was my whole goal in life, I guess I could make it happen. 6. 5-8's are fine for me. Heading back to CDMX this weekend, life is good. I am having the best time of my life. I have about 8-10 girls lined up after to weeks back on the search in CDMX.
Thanks, Steve / Magicsheep and others who jumped in on my defense. Really appreciate it.
Cane and others who referred to fuglies. Its ok. No offense taken. Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder (or beerholder). I have learned to take opinions on any forums not personally because people behind keyboard don't know me. So, I don't generally get offended.
Having said that, this is a happy forum. At least I am here "escaping" from real life for happy moments. I'd strive to keep it that way and help fellow members where I can.
No offense taken with your comments. No hard feelings.
Cheers everyone. Let's move on. Someone please post a successful fuck story. Will ya.
[QUOTE=MagicSheep74;2835250]Cane, you said it yourself! (I was talking about me and my own personnel ' constitution).
Hey Dude, nobody gives a flying f. K. You're just one of these guys that logs on every day and spreads your opinions around the world. Over the last few years, none with any valve.
The guy had a good time, end of story. Stick with banging fat-ass Brazilian up the poop shoot.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gfefan;2835349]Thanks, Steve / Magicsheep and others who jumped in on my defense. Really appreciate it.
No offense taken with your comments. No hard feelings.
Cheers everyone. Let's move on. Someone please post a successful fuck story. Will ya.[/QUOTE]If you are ever in Prague, or fancy a sugar babe for a European trip, I could not recommend this lady highly enough. Met her in Prague a year ago and was blown away with the overall package. Beauty / Brain / and Personality. Looks 9/10 for sure.
Just back from a 3 days trip to Geneva with her, and it was an amazing experience.
[URL]https://www.alitgroup.com/companion/Playmate%20Noemi[/URL]
Best European cities for seeking in my opinion. London and Madrid. Don't commit to dinner at a fancy restaurant for the first meeting. Meet for a drink, be prepared to leave in a hurry and also be prepared to CIM.
London Seeking Recommended. Search on. Thebest - 9/10 Brazlian - 450 a night GDP.
Madrid Seeking Recommended. Seach for. Samantha - 9/10 Venezuelan - 400 Euros' - 6 hrs meet. Filthy.
Enjoy.