Thanks guys for all your suggestions. I will just keep on ignoring here since there is no upside to answering her.
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Thanks guys for all your suggestions. I will just keep on ignoring here since there is no upside to answering her.
[QUOTE=Azertiefou; 1151013]Hello,
I search agency escort in philippine who are good with real pictures of girl.
If you know a site, Thank you answer me[/QUOTE]Are you doing a research or window shopping?
I had a similar scam in similar situation recently.
A woman that I had spent a couple of days with on my last trip goes quiet, no emails or YM messages, then tells me that she is pregnant by me.
I immediately suspected a scam, because I have had a vasectomy. She knew that, but insisted that the child is mine, because she did not have sex with any other guy at that time.
My first response was to tell her that I am very happy to have a child, but I have to be sure that it is mine.
There are legal issues about registration at my embassy for citizenship, and the embassy will check everything.
What is the due date for the birth? Can I come to the hospital when the baby is born so that I can watch the birth?
I want to come to her house to talk with her about the baby, and to enjoy her pregnancy.
I asked her for her home address so that I can come to see her, and to discuss the situation with her mother, since the whole of her family will be affected.
She would not tell me her home address, or any other personal information that I asked for. I did know her full name, and her date of birth, plus the city where she lived.
I said that I will have to get a sperm count for my vasectomy.
(I did not actually do this, but I told her that the sperm count was zero, and I can not make anyone pregnant)
Then I told her that since this is a citizenship matter, I will need a DNA check to confirm that the baby is mine.
I then told her that I had gone to see an ob / gyn about the date of birth, and the ob / gyn said that it was not possible. (I did not actually do this, just told her that I did).
I asked her to take some photos, so that I could see her big belly and my baby, but none came.
Then I told her that I had engaged my attorney in the Phils for advice, since it is a matter of paternity, citizenship, and other legal responsibilities that I had.
Then I told her that my attorney had engaged a private investigator to find her home address, so that I could come to see her, and confirm that she really is 8 months pregnant. Her response is that she can met me somewhere else, no need to get her mother involved. No need for a private investigator.
Her responses to this stream of messages had become increasingly defensive, and eventually, she said that she would not ask me for money for the baby, since I did not seem to be very accepting of my situation.
My response was that I am very pleased to have a child, and very pleased to support it, but I must be sure that it really is mine, and my attorney is concerned that if the facts are not correct, then this becomes a matter of extortion and fraud.
She is now becoming hysterical, because her scam could putt her in Jail.
I told her that I had kept copies of all of her texts, emails and YM messages, because my attorney wanted this as documentation of the real situation.
All communication suddenly stopped.
Total, deathly silence.
From my perspective, the best form of defence is attack. If she is going to play hard ball, then I am going to play harder. If she is right, then I am pleased to be part of it.
If she is scamming, then the stakes for her are become higher than the potential rewards.
Turn the game around from one of defence, to one of attack.
Well done! The most perfect, elegant response to a scam artist that I've ever heard.
Actually, with girls asking for "tuition" fees, I do something similar: I want to know in which school they are enrolled, I want them to scan a document from school confirming this and I want to know their grades from previous semesters.
Only one was decent enough to provide me all this information (separated mother of three, doing a re-training as nursing assistant). She's the only one (so far) that could count on my help and support.
[QUOTE=GoodEnough;1151469]Well done! The most perfect, elegant response to a scam artist that I've ever heard.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gangles; 1151467]My response was that I am very pleased to have a child, and very pleased to support it, but I must be sure that it really is mine, and my attorney is concerned that if the facts are not correct, then this becomes a matter of extortion and fraud.
She is now becoming hysterical, because her scam could putt her in Jail.
I told her that I had kept copies of all of her texts, emails and YM messages, because my attorney wanted this as documentation of the real situation.
From my perspective, the best form of defence is attack. If she is going to play hard ball, then I am going to play harder. If she is right, then I am pleased to be part of it.
If she is scamming, then the stakes for her are become higher than the potential rewards.
Turn the game around from one of defence, to one of attack. [/QUOTE]Best thing to do is stop communicating if you know you are unlikely to be the father.
Do not threaten any way in case you want to visit Phi often. Phi people are capable of violence if they know of your plans and find irrespective of if her complaints are baseless.
Threats do not work. In thirld world countries the police or judicial system are least worried about extortion or scam unless it includes murder, kidnapping etc.
It is practically impossible for the girl to be scared. No Phi attorneys will take your case of extortion even if you try to hire one.
This is a age old scam putting paternity even here in USA. All are lkooking for support and free money.
[QUOTE=Sammon; 1151556]Best thing to do is stop communicating if you know you are unlikely to be the father.
Do not threaten any way in case you want to visit Phi often. Phi people are capable of violence if they know of your plans and find irrespective of if her complaints are baseless.
Threats do not work. In thirld world countries the police or judicial system are least worried about extortion or scam unless it includes murder, kidnapping etc.
It is practically impossible for the girl to be scared. No Phi attorneys will take your case of extortion even if you try to hire one.
This is a age old scam putting paternity even here in USA. All are lkooking for support and free money. [/QUOTE]Sammon.
My guess is that Gangles knows this already and I don't think he was suggesting hiring a Phil attorney for real. Most Filipinas that we meet are extremely poor and in comparison we are very wealthy. They know perfectly well how corrupt the judiciary and police are and threats can and do work, especially if they think you have the means to bribe the police or officials or you have some connections. IMHO they are even less likely to know which cases an attorney would or would not take on, when the client is backed up with the financial means to engage legal counsel.
I once threatened the landlady of my regular gf in Alegria when she caused some really unwarranted and upsetting mischief to my gf. I was very angry and told her I would pay the local Barangay police to arrest her and you should have seen the genuine fear on her face and her grovelling apology to my gf
[QUOTE=Sammon;1151556]No Phi attorneys will take your case of extortion even if you try to hire one.[/QUOTE]Are you kidding? In the Philippines, an attorney will take any case, no matter how nutzo, as long as they get their fees up front.
[QUOTE=Radical Guy;1151660]Are you kidding? In the Philippines, an attorney will take any case, no matter how nutzo, as long as they get their fees up front.[/QUOTE]Same goes for any dirtbag Attorney in the good old USA. It's not about winning. It's about separating you from your wallet.
[QUOTE=Ekspat; 1150832]Just to share.
I ride a big bike in Malaysia and once I bought a liquid called Rain Move. It's to put it on the visor of the helmet during rain, so that the drops don't stick to the visor. Better and clearer sight.
I had it in my backpack, forgot to take it out and used that backpack for my trip to AC. Neither in KL nor in Clark they detected it (250ml!) and the stuff is declared on the bottle as [b]flammable! [/b]
Welcome to flight safety, hehe. On the other hand they make a huge noise because of a bottle of water.
Cheers![/QUOTE]Hi Ekspat. Hope Malaysia treating you well. I left Manila last night to fly back to Taipei.
Was tired from too much bonking so when I come to the hand baggage check I notice there are no plastic bins for shoes. They are expected to just go on the belt. I asked the security guy why we pay p750 if they couldn't even provide plastic bins.
The guy must have heard this 1000 times. He snapped and said " Its different in Philippines, why do you white people all complain about this "." Every day I hear this same story about no plastic bins" " Go complain to my supervisor " he shouted.
So yeah they make fuss about water, we apparently make fuss that a noisy hot airport has inadequate facilities for which we and every other passenger pay P750 every exit. Philippines boleh LOL
Looking for the SMS gateways for Smart and Global.
I do not text but want to send SMS messages to phones in the P. I. With my email program.
Can do it stateside via AT&T and other carriers.
Marconista suggested "You can try [url]www.chikka.com[/url]", but would be more comfortable using my e-mail program.
Thanks,
Slim
If you read my post, you will see that I made no threat.
Her fear came from the possibility that a PI would actually check barungay records and find her address. And that a PI would actuallly sight her and her condition.
She created her own fear.
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Just got home I will give a report of my great time in manila and cebu. I wanted to ask you did anyone have the same experience I did with immigration. The officer there said did you go to Philippines to meet your gf I said yes he told me never marry her never bring her here to USA I said why. He told me he seen to many come here and divorce they just want you to come here. I said thanks you just ruined my day he said just trying to help you.
[QUOTE=Bonkers1;1153788]Just got home I will give a report of my great time in manila and cebu. I wanted to ask you did anyone have the same experience I did with immigration. The officer there said did you go to Philippines to meet your gf I said yes he told me never marry her never bring her here to USA I said why. He told me he seen to many come here and divorce they just want you to come here. I said thanks you just ruined my day he said just trying to help you.[/QUOTE]Yes. He was just being nice to you. He didn't tell you any lies. It's good to see that immigration was looking out for your welfare instead of harassing you.
I received a similar comment from Immigration in Lax. Had the feeling the guy was ex-military and probaby knew what he was talking about.