Takes some guts to write what you did
I appreciate your frank candor and that you did not try to pad you results and experiences. I believe there are more guys in your situation than we here about. My wish for you is that you feel great about your experiences in Medellin. For me, it's my Happy Place and has exceeded all my expectations. I have stopped waiting for the bubble to burst or the axe to fall because things have gone well for me for awhile now. No matter what happens I can look in the mirror without any regrets, and if I die tomorrow, I die a happy man. Now, back to you (By the way, I am sarcastic, attention whoring, asshole and I will never change). The fucking auto editor here sucks.
[QUOTE=Regnom3000;2581620]She takes me to the room and I tell her I'd rather skip the massage part and just make out for a bit. We start kissing a little and I can tell she's not super into it (and to be fair, if I was fucking for 8 hours a day I probably wouldn't be either).
As we're both dressing and getting ready to leave I talk to her about the splits she has with the casa. I tell her I'd be down to pay her double what they do if she'll do house calls. She said she normally doesn't do that but maybe in the future. I take her number.[/QUOTE]First off, this is not the girl to be following up with for your more warm and fuzzy repeat date back at your hotel. Don't make excuses for her performance, that's entirely counter-productive. Empathy is good, but don't show sympathy, and don't take on any chica as a reclamataion project. Plus, I bet you $100 bucks she would be a no-show.
The girl who you pick for that should have rocked your world, knocked your socks off, and made you believe you were the best fuck she had that week (LOL) even though we know they are Oscar worthy actresses. Sounds like you did not run across a girl like that, and you chose the tallest midget in the room, but IMO you are setting yourself up for more disasspointment.
[QUOTE=Regnom3000;2581620]To wrap this whole thing up I got questions for y'all. Do I try to hire Mel out and give it another shot? Do I try another casa / escort and see if the experience is better? Or stick with non-pros and see if I can find one that's down for something casual?
In my perfect world once or twice a week I'd have the girl over, we'd smash, watch a movie, eat some ice cream, smash again, and then I'd call her a cab home.
Is that a service I can hire for? Ha.[/QUOTE]I think a guy like you needs a mix of prepagos and non-pros. Somewhere betwixt and between you will find what you are looking for, probably when you least expect it. I read that back and it sort of sounds like a nebulous, bullshit answer, but that's the playing field when you are the kind of mongerer who wants more than a wet mudhole to fuck. I am similar, and you desrribed one of my typical dates. Sometimes we also go out. If it's end of the day then she might sleep over and we fuck again in the morning. A couple of them I can't get rid of and I have to kick them out. 80-90% of my encounters are with the same 12+ chicas. I like to always introduce a little new blood to keep thing interesting and the rest of the girls on their toes. Half of them fuck me for "free" and others I pay a flat rate no matter how long they stay. Free is in quotes because we all pay one way or another, and I would point out that the average American marriage is the most expensive way to roll, , especially after a divorce. Everything I spend in Medellin is a small fraction compared to what I would be spending in the USA.
Your dilemma, like most problems on this planet, can be solved or at least dramatically improved with two things, time and money.
I may not be the guy to listen to for advice here because I don't have any social media accounts, I have never set foot in Poblado, and I haven't been to 90% of the "spots" discussed on this board. What I don't see discussed here much and I consider the Holy Grail of building a list of go-to girls is personal referrals from the girls you already fucked and liked. Tell them they can hand out your number or even bring a girl over, whatever. Your number will get spread around faster than you realize. The start is slow, but thanks to the math of geometric expansion, a person telling a person, telling a person, the numbers quickly grow to more than you will need.
To keep it under control, always ask any chica who contacts you, from whom did they get your number? I use Whassap for all this. That's how I do 98% of my communications with Colombianas. Is Whassapp considered social media, IDK? Ask her to send a foto. After she sends face and body shot, ask for a pussy pic but don't pay for it unless she is so beautiful that it motivates you. I have never paid for fotos but in the right spot at the right I would do it. I used to exclude girls who would not send a free pussy pic, but then I got fat and happy with more great chicas than I needed, so I relaxed that rule.
To quote a fellow mongerer Orgasmico, "Everything is negotiable. Success depends on you. No one can tell you how successful you will be".
I have one question for you. Will you return?