[QUOTE=Steve9696;2840618]Currently in Athens with a true ten unicorn found on Seeking. Some may know her as Smoke Show from a few months ago.
First to address the question of there is no such thing as a ten. I also used to believe this. Yet when I met her in April I thought she was a ten. Then, as the months passed I said surely she must be a 9. 5 and my mind is romanticizing her. But nope. Sitting across from her at dinner I couldn't help but stare. And I thought, what could be improved? The answer was nothing. Nothing at all. Her lips and eyes are crafted as if to describe the perfect woman. Later in bed I concluded her body is perfect in every respect as well.
And she is a truly lovely person too. On the way home from dinner she asked a homeless man if he'the like the steak leftovers she was carrying. Just out of the blue. She is a sweet soul.
The bad part is the sex was mediocre in Spain and that hadn't changed. Boo. But the optics. Wow. We will of course have more sex maybe we can improve. But mostly I intend to just enjoy life with this amazing unique creature.
[/QUOTE]Other guys have said 10's are flawless. I am not sure if such a thing exists and if so, what is the point of even talking about it?
The first 10 I ever saw was in a strip club twenty or so years ago. Somehow she got prettier every time I saw her. One time I was at the club, and she just smiled at a guy and said Hi. That guy had a GF working at the club. Later on, the GF got together with a different guy, probably promised him some pussy, and they were going to beat up the 10 for "trying to steal her BF". That is where I got my definition of where a 10 comes from. She is so beautiful that she drives both sexes crazy. The 10 was like, " if I wanted your BF, I would have him. ".
I laughed as I realized I was describing maybe the first known 10 in literature, Helena of Troy. She was the woman who had a face who launched a thousand ships right? Who says you did not learn anything in high school? LOL.
And Steve, yeah, the sex was not that great. Still I remember once when we were done, I just looked at her mesmerized. You know how you can just stare and look at a fire for hours? It was like that.
I was engaged to a woman who was close to a 10, and after we broke up, I just was determined to get as good or better again, and man it was hard. There were so many dead ends, so many crummy dates. I have been accused of saying all my women were 10's but there were maybe four to six women I met after the ex-fianc that were as pretty or prettier than her.
My current gal is the second prettiest woman I met in Colombia. I really did not have any outside interactions with the prettiest one, and truth be told, she was what you would expect from a 10, materialistic and stuck up. What was surprising was that she was slightly above average in bed.
My current gal is a different story. She had an eating disorder in her teens but now it is like when she is unhappy or stressed, she does not eat much, works out more, and looks better. When she is with me, she is happier, eats more, and looks worse. LOL. So when I met her, she looked her best.
I had noticed that with one girl with an eating disorder in college. She got the best looking guys even though she was like a 7 or 8. I think it was because she did not have the ego that other women did and wanted to please others. It seems like all the 10's have a bit of a screw loose: borderline, bipolar, narcissist, histronic, OCD. For me, eating disorder and ADD have been the least toxic of all the mental issues. If you want a 10, you are going to have to put up with some shit.
So yeah, the first time we were together, people went nuts like I described: horns honking, guys screaming, walking into a restaurant and everyone staring. I wanted to say, "Are you seeing this?" What I learned is that she was used to it, and slowly, I got used to it too.
Since we have been together, I think she has drifted down to the 9 or 9. 5 range because she has been happier. I have less angst that someone is going to try to steal her away or stalk her or whatever.
So the really hard part is not just finding a 10 bur finding one who is not stuck up and good in bed. Those are the true unicorns. And I wonder if there is really even a happy 10. Once they found the right guy and are happy, aren't they going to let their looks go a little?
