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Just been made aware that girls must be at least 18 to sign up for DIA. Therefore, those 16 and 17 yr. Olds who are eager to 'test the waters', start by.
Inflating their ages, (along with their chests in those triple padded bras). So that partially explains why that 20yr. Old you met may really be 17.
That's happened to me more than once. How do we spell "JAIL BAIT"?
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone;1217396]The other very noticeable thing is what attention working girls they are. Many on DIA are just there to talk to men for pseudo-intimacy. They do not intend to marry, nor do they intend to give sex. They just want some new guy to talk to.[/QUOTE]Bingo! This is true of most dating websites around the world, even the legit ones. I have been on some sites for years on and off. And I see some of the same girls there that were there years ago when I signed up. Even some that I have already been through. I don't think they do it intentionally, but it's the attention they get from so many guys that keeps them coming back and not settling down, and as you said someone new to talk to every week while they are at work or whatever.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone;1217396]It's not just the Phil. This is a characteristic of all women. Women are bigger bull sh*ters than men. But I think they actually believe their BS.[/QUOTE]Todays words of wisdom! Could not agree more. Women often act from what they consider moral high ground, in order to make men feel like like they need to qualify. And as you write, they believe all of this crap. As much as I love women, I must admit that they are often first class leeches in many respects. Thousands of years rewarding conservative behavior with survival, makes them inclined to "stay in the cave" both physically and in terms of how they view themselves and any form of slightly deviant behavior. Look at a cafés in the west and see who is there, creating consensus with each other and munching away on the preys and nuts that Mr Stoneage brought home (symbolically). This evolutionary selection of conservative and consensus seeking eye servants also makes them inclined to wanting to "be good", and this can be used in the most simple punani-strategies. Make them feel good about themselves and they will throw their wet panties in your face. Give them a huge female reference group (like Brazil or even better Germany) that takes it deep down the ass, and they "will try as long as you do not tell my friends".
You can not really blame anyone for their disability to see and understand themselves, so you just got to love them, treat them good and have fun.
Do not try to qualify. Lead the way!
B.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone; 1217396]It's not just the Phil. This is a characteristic of all women. Women are bigger bull sh*ters than men. But I think they actually believe their BS.
They take their stone cold requirements for money, prestige, power and security and bend them into words of love, romance, etc.[/QUOTE]If a girl genuinely believes her "BS", then it's not BS. It's only BS because you disagree with it.
Women are biologically programmed to seek high-status guys, a survival mechanism instilled over hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. When they see guys with high-status traits, their brains (programmed for survival) will release chemicals to make them feel this sensation of "love", just like guys feel it when they see an attractive women. So it's not BS.
This attraction mechanism is involuntary and subconscious. She doesn't even know it's happening. So she'll genuinely think she's attracted to a guy because of his humor, his sweetness, his looks or his education.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone;1217396]Can you imagine how many Filipino guys feel when they see Filipinas throwing themselves at foreigners and rejecting them with disdain?[/QUOTE]Actually, some Filipino guys who are probably laughing at us!
Hate to say this, but many P4P Filipinas have Filipino boyfriends. They go for foreigners for money. They go for Pinoys for love.
[QUOTE=Barba;1217512]As much as I love women, I must admit that they are often first class leeches in many respects. Thousands of years rewarding conservative behavior with survival, makes them inclined to "stay in the cave" both physically and in terms of how they view themselves and any form of slightly deviant behavior.[/QUOTE]Be careful in complaining about leeching. Because if women didn't leech off men, they will need men less. The most basic exchange between men and women is love / sex for financial security.
In most parts of the Pacific Rim, there is negative population growth because women have plenty of economic opportunity. Japan has such a strong population decline rate that, at this rate, there'd be no one left in Japan in 300 years.
So I say, let them leech! You really think most young supple Filipinas would give us mongers even a second look if we had nothing to provide financially? Yes, they'll still have need for love / sex, but they'll likely seek them from young, attractive Pinoys.
At least three of my former girlfriends. Lookers all, have won the lottery and married older white guys.
One of them has filled her Facebook with hundreds of photos of her privileged new life in the USA. The
Message spreads faster than the flu in winter,"This could happen to you, too!" Almost all our eager.
Young ladies know someone who knows someone who 'hit the jackpot'. This is a major driving force that.
Motivates so many to make themselves available and provides 'lucky us' with a seemingly endless supply of nubile companions. So, to scorn those guys as being dumb pricks, is most ungracious and fails to recognize that they provide the fuel that ultimately delivers lots of these young babes to us.
[QUOTE=FurryFriend; 1217697]If a girl genuinely believes her "BS", then it's not BS. It's only BS because you disagree with it.
*Sociopaths believe their BS and it IS BS.
Women are biologically programmed to seek high-status guys, a survival mechanism instilled over hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. When they see guys with high-status traits, their brains (programmed for survival) will release chemicals to make them feel this sensation of "love", just like guys feel it when they see an attractive women. So it's not BS.
*Ok if you say so. It's just a theory, there is no proof of that. If you have proof of your biological theory let's see the cites?
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Actually, some Filipino guys who are probably laughing at us!
Hate to say this, but many P4P Filipinas have Filipino boyfriends. They go for foreigners for money. They go for Pinoys for love.
*Some are no doubt, but that's not going to happen to me. Also the Filipino guys.
CLAIM that we only get the ugly ones, haha. That's more BS to soothe their wounded egos.
Be careful in complaining about leeching. Because if women didn't leech off men, they will need men less. The most basic exchange between men and women is love / sex for financial security.
*I agree with the exchange theory, but that's true in all relationships-they are based on agreeable exchanges of value. It's not just sex for financial security, it's sex for love-women want to believe they are loved; according to your theory because they are programmed to nest and keep the relationship stable for purpose of raising young and to keep the male from wandering.
In most parts of the Pacific Rim, there is negative population growth because women have plenty of economic opportunity. Japan has such a strong population decline rate that, at this rate, there'd be no one left in Japan in 300 years.
So I say, let them leech! You really think most young supple Filipinas would give us mongers even a second look if we had nothing to provide financially? Yes, they'll still have need for love / sex, but they'll likely seek them from young, attractive Pinoys.[/QUOTE]*Yes as one old rich codger said."I know she wants me for my money, but at least she WANTS me."
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1214954]Waste of time for me.
Almost all women on that site are seeking marriage.
My profile specifically says "not looking for a wife", and it did not get any takers.
The same profile on DIA gets 10 hits each day.[/QUOTE]Cheers for that Red.
[QUOTE=FurryFriend;1217697]Be careful in complaining about leeching. Because if women didn't leech off men, they will need men less. The most basic exchange between men and women is love / sex for financial security.[/QUOTE]Be careful not to miss an opportunity to totally misunderstand a post.
B.
[QUOTE=Questor55; 1217753]At least three of my former girlfriends. Lookers all, have won the lottery and married older white guys.
One of them has filled her Facebook with hundreds of photos of her privileged new life in the USA. The
Message spreads faster than the flu in winter,"This could happen to you, too!" Almost all our eager.
Young ladies know someone who knows someone who 'hit the jackpot'. This is a major driving force that.
Motivates so many to make themselves available and provides 'lucky us' with a seemingly endless supply of nubile companions. So, to scorn those guys as being dumb pricks, is most ungracious and fails to recognize that they provide the fuel that ultimately delivers lots of these young babes to us.[/QUOTE]This kind of reminds me why western world CEOs get paid obscene amounts of money. It is NOT the extra amount of money that motivates them, but the motivating effects it has on the corporate underlings whom all aspire to the top seat. So, the success of a few Philippinos to 'hit the jackpot' motivates the remainder to work through the white visitors so that they too can dig for gold.
Actually I really appreciate your insight on this [B]Questor55[/B]!
And in many cases, it is probably enjoyable, they get a decent bed (at least for a night) , some nice food, more than their taxi fare home AND still might be in the hunt for that overseas jackpot of lifetime income, lifetime social service, medicare etc etc. Certainly worthwhile banging a few old codgers.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone;1217901]*Yes as one old rich codger said."I know she wants me for my money, but at least she WANTS me."[/QUOTE]Since when is fair exchange a robbery? I'm thinking when I get older it won't matter to me either. I will have all my bills paid off and won't have any responsibilities. When I die I won't be able to take anything with me. So while I'm living those last years I might as well enjoy the party. Most women are going to be with you for your money (read security) whether you are young or old. It just might be a little more apparent and in your face when you are old and they are young. The game has not changed and it never will.
So how do you guys usually go about sealing the deal? I'm going to be in Manila for a couple of days in Feb so I've already been putting out the feelers on DIA. Do you just straight out say you want money for sex, or do you meet and hope you can talk about it then?
[QUOTE=Fatboy 1980;1218088]So how do you guys usually go about sealing the deal? I'm going to be in Manila for a couple of days in Feb so I've already been putting out the feelers on DIA. Do you just straight out say you want money for sex, or do you meet and hope you can talk about it then?[/QUOTE]Sloooow way down, Fatboy! If you are going in February, then wait until a few weeks before to really put your quest into operation.
The only reason to be chatting this early is for practice at honing your 'gamer skills'. You want to avoid those long, everyday, meaningless
Chats unless you are really into self abuse. Most of us with more experience, know that filipinas usually have very short attention spans.
So, capitalize on that. Start late and build quick. And definitely DO NOT talk about cash until you meet. Even then, play it by ear.
Cash doesn't have to be the issue. Maybe you can score with a meal and taxi fare. RESEARCH HERE TO LEARN LOTS!
[QUOTE=Fatboy 1980;1218088]So how do you guys usually go about sealing the deal? I'm going to be in Manila for a couple of days in Feb so I've already been putting out the feelers on DIA. Do you just straight out say you want money for sex, or do you meet and hope you can talk about it then?[/QUOTE]You are trying to meet regular girls on DIA. Need to feel her out what she will do. Suggest getting together in your hotel. If she comes sex is kind of guaranteed. Money is not discussed with these girls. Just say you will take care of her whatever it means. But remember these girls are in it for money except rare chances she wants to make a impression looking for long time relationship and support.
You cannot treat her as a sex worker. Sometimes the girl will ask for money to meetr you. These are pros or semi pros.
Do not send any money before meeting.
Short and simple advice from Sammon, but a good summary. I've had much better luck with regular women (from DIA and otherwise) outside of Manila, so good luck to the original poster.
[QUOTE=Sammon; 1218145]You are trying to meet regular girls on DIA. Need to feel her out what she will do. Suggest getting together in your hotel. If she comes sex is kind of guaranteed. Money is not discussed with these girls. Just say you will take care of her whatever it means. But remember these girls are in it for money except rare chances she wants to make a impression looking for long time relationship and support.
You cannot treat her as a sex worker. Sometimes the girl will ask for money to meetr you. These are pros or semi pros.
Do not send any money before meeting.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=X Man;1218202]Short and simple advice from Sammon, but a good summary. I've had much better luck with regular women (from DIA and otherwise) outside of Manila, so good luck to the original poster.[/QUOTE]Actually a couple of girls tried giving sob stories about paying for college and asked me for money. I shut that down quick, LOL. I don't have much time in Manila, so I just want a couple of sure things. I have a lot of time yet, so I'll just keep looking to see what's out there.