Here is what I did last night
I am not comfortable with offering more money if the girl "does a great job" or "makes me happy." I realize this works very well for many punters and good for them. But I have run up against too many sweet young things whose idea of "great" and "happy" are miles away from what I'm talking about. Especially if they only have their experiences with other, possibly much easier to please, punters from which to judge. Inevitably, there is a 99% chance what appears to work and work very well for most punters will NOT work for me. So I need to be a lot more specific than that. It isn't the easier or more comfortable way to go for sure. Far from it. But, like many things in life, it gets easier and the results more frequent the more you do it.
This is what I did last night in the one and only Nana Plaza go-go bar I went into around 10PM, Mandarin Bar.
I walked in, looked around and immediately spied a sweet young thing that did it for me for her face and body head to toe at first glance. I sat in the booth right under where she was dancing. Eye contact and smiles. Another girl comes over and plops herself next to me. "Buy me a drink?" No, honey, I just sat down and want to relax a few minutes. Ok, she gets up and leaves, pouting. Mamasan comes over and says Hi, I squeeze her hand and say "Sawadee khrup" (Hello).
I scan the room but my attention goes back to the one dancing on the table in front of me. More eye contact and smiles. She gestures that she is cold because she is dancing in front of the air-conditioner. I gesture for her to come down for a drink. She is happy. Small chit chat about our names, where you from, blah, blah, blah.
When her Ladydrink arrives the mamasan comes over again and hits me up for a drink. I smile and say no, maybe later and gesture to the girl cuddling next to me. Did I break a rule here? I couldn't care less. She smiles, understands and tells the girl to "take care of him."
As she finishes her Ladydrink I ask my girl how much for barfine. She calls over the mamasan who shows me a card that says "1,200 baht barfine, ST 3,000 baht" etc. I say thank you I will talk to my girl about it.
"You like to kiss?" (similar to Natty's key question, as I recall!), pointing to my lips and her lips.
Yes.
We give it a try right there in the bar and she opens her mouth slightly for our tongues to touch.
"Do you sa-moke (smoke, blowjob) for me?"
What?
"Sa-moke. Not cigarettes. A blowjob. Sa-moke me (pointing to my dick)?"
Oh. Yes.
"How will you finish it for me?"
(confused look, understandably and not unexpectedly).
"Will you make me cum inside your mouth (pointing inside my mouth), 2,000?"
Yes.
She smiled when she said it as though she'd never heard of a girl finishing a blowjob any other way. But that was just my backup plan question before the next, far more important question. Her English and my Thai were too shaky to take a chance on this one. So I typed it out on Google Translate and showed it to her:
"We boom boom no condom, 2,500 baht".
Yes, ok. You want to pay bar now?
"Yep."
You want me to go change now (gesturing with both hands about changing into street clothes).
"Yes, honey." And there was no discussion about me prepaying in the bar. I only prepaid the barfine in the bar. I paid her the 2,500 after we were finished in my room.
All went very well in the room, no unpleasant surprises, no tricks. This method works about 60-70% of the time for me in Bangkok go-go bars and it way predates the coronavirus hysteria if that is in anyone's mind. Yeah, maybe I could have kept it at 2,000 baht. But doing that has triggered more back and forth in the past that I am too weary of after all these years. I like the element of surprise and disarming them by offering them MORE (just 500 baht) than they thought they had in their hand just a minute ago and that seems to diminish or even eliminate any argument regarding what I am now asking them to do for me instead of a mere blowjob with a real blowjob finish (BBFS+CIP). And if there IS any further balking about it in the room, at least I have a BBBJ+CIM agreement in the bank for less money. Not 100% guaranteed. Nothing is in this hobby. But pretty close.
She really was a lovely sweetheart. I will repeat. If I have time while cruising the scene for other fresh 19-20 year old cuties.