well, friday night i finally got scammed in angeles. i've probably had well over a hundred barfines in ac, but eventually, the odds catch up with you. anyway, i'll give a quick overview of what happened and then i want some advice on how to handle the bar when i return tonight. i won't mention the bar at this point for a couple of reasons, but i'll just say it is one of the largest and well known in ac.
so, i'm walking past the bar friday night and see a cute doorgirl. i talk to her for a minute and then ask her inside for a drink. she tells me that she is a waitress (just talking to the doorgirls outsite and they wear the same uniform) and has been there for a year, but never had a barfine. she seems like a very nice girl. i figure she might be a cherry girl, but she never mentions it, and i don't care because i like working on cherry girls as i go to ac just about every week and they make good girlfriends if you find a nice one.
she is very eagar to barfine with me, so we go. from her interaction with all the other girls there, it really did apper that i was her first barfine. it is possible that all the other bargirls were just playing along, but i would think that is unlikely (but who knows).
so we go to crystal palace to hang around for a while. she gets quite drunk, and i get the impression that she is not some simple virgin bargirl, but i also get the impression that she likes me. some girls are quite indifferent to me, and some girls really like me (like girls everywhere), but i was quite sure that she liked me. anyway, after about an hour or so, we head back to my hotel. she tells me that she does not want to go to my hotel, but wants to go to my house in subic. i explain to her that is not going to happen, and she appears dissapointed, but she agrees to go my hotel. from the way things went at the hotel, i get the impression that she is certainly no virgin, but the barfine thing is new to her. she has no condom, so we have someone bring one to the room. as we start to have sex, she tells me it hurts and that i must stop or she will call the police. what the fuck! everything was a rather typical barfine experiance, and then all of a suddden that. i actually didn't even get my dick inside her. i immediately stopped and said she should just go home. she apologized, said that it just hurt, and wanted to continue. but obviously, this was way to weird (and potentially dangerous) so i said no. she tells me that she wants me to take her back to her bar. when we get there, she wants go inside and have a drink. she was all smiles around everyone in the bar, we had a drink, and then she wanted me and her mamasan to go to a private place and have a talk. i was getting stronger and stronger bad vibes from this girl, so i said no. she then wants continue to go barhopping. i said no. she then says that she wants to go back to my hotel and spend the night with me. i obviously say no to that as well. we say our goodbyes, and i go back to my hotel to get some rest (big mistake! when weird shit happens, get the fuck out of dodge). about an hour later, the phone rings and the receptionist asks me to come down. i find two police officers there, "inviting" me to come down to the police station.
i won't go into the long drawn out affair that went on at station 4 (the angeles police station), so i'll mention the key points. she said i raped her. she wanted a 100,000 pesos. the police were definately not part of this and i got the impression they were on my side (i have dealt with crooked police and staight police in my 5 years out here, and these guys were "relatively" straight). the conversations would have been completely different had these guys just wanted to get money out of me. they told me that if she insisted, they would have to file a report, and to avoid that, it would just be easier to give her some money, but it was up to me. he asked me how much i could get right now, and i said about 22,000 from my atm. they said that she wants 30,000 (after various negotiations), and i said i'll try, but i may only be able to get 22,000. we go to my atm, i get the 22,000 from my atm. i tell the officer that i can't get 30,000, and he just says to talk to her directly to see if she will accept it. we get back, and she appears quite distraught (not sure what happened while i was gone), but her attitude had totally changed. i tell her that i only could get 22,000. she doesn't say a word and i give her the 22,000. we sign an agreement and thats that. while chatting to the policeman on the way back, he explains that at first she said that she was a virgin and i took her virginity, but later recanted under questionning. it also appears that under no circumstances would they have actually made an official report of this (due her lying). my agreement to pay her 30, 000 was apparently made before all the facts came out, but i had agreed, and the cops had no interest in saving me any money. but if i had pushed this, i could have gotten away without paying anything (which i suspected, but the 22, 000 was a relatively small amount to me, and i saw no need to take any chance over huge consequences with such a small amount.
so what really happened? here is my best bet. she was working as a virgin at the bar (pretending to be a "real" cherry girl), and she thought i had got my dick inside her, and that i would tell, and she would no longer be a cherry girl. also, she was upset that i was treating her like just a typical barfine, when it was her first barfine and she thought i would be her boyfriend. she tells everyone at the bar that i took her cherry and gave her nothing. she decides that this is an opportunity to get some money.
of course this could have been a well planned out scam from the beginning, but that is not the impression i got.
so, the point of this post is to get some feedback on the best way to handle this situation when i return to the bar tonight. i plan on seeing the manager and demanding that the bar give my back my 22,000. of course they will refuse. i will then say "that must mean you guys are in on this scam, and i will have to set up a meeting with harry the horse (a very well known local expat reporter on the barscene who is widely followed by all locals). he will certainly publish my story, which the bar will not like. i am quite sure that if agree to not follow though with anything and forget about the 22, 000, at least i will the girl fired and blacklisted from all the other bars.
any other ideas on how to handle this?
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