You keep citing that "study" and I can't sit on my hands any longer
[QUOTE=Paulie97;2596245]But it simply isn't so. In spite the popular phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," a number of cross cultural studies find substantial agreement in what constitutes physical attractiveness. Dismissing it all as "relative" or "subjective" makes for good chit chat, but the issue is far more complicated.
"While individual and cross-cultural differences exist (see later), this politically correct view of beauty is to some extent false. In fact, agreement between individuals is one of the best-documented and most robust findings in facial attractiveness research since the 1970's. Across many studies it has been found that there is a high degree of agreement from individuals within a particular culture and also high agreement between individuals from different cultures (see (2) for a meta-analytical review). If different people can agree on which faces are attractive and which are not attractive when judging faces of varying ethnic background (e. G. 23), then this suggests that people everywhere are all using the same, or at least similar, criteria in their judgements."
[URL]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3130383/[/URL][/QUOTE]First of all, it's not a study. That is a literature review article, and clearly you are not well versed in the field. I used to do invited peer reviews for scientific and medical journals. You are in way over your head on this. Allow me to assist you.
The paper proves nothing. It is in a journal about "philosophy" which technically is not a science. Your "study" would not pass the muster to be published any reputable scientific peer reviewed journal. To prove the point you seem so earnest to make, you would need a double blinded, placebo controlled, randomized trial that gave observer responses to a sufficient sample size of different girls in a social setting comparable to mongering and used the same kind of scoring system we are talking about here on this board, basically a one to ten scale.
Obviously, this paper is not even close to that. I glanced at the citations and I am not going to spend my time looking up all those other papers for you, but again, nothing has been proven. In fact to quote your own paper, "exactly what it is that makes a face beautiful remains poorly defined." And as another monger here pointed out, the study was about faces only and not overall attractiveness.
It takes more than a Google search and a single article to prove anything of worth. In fact, the majority of all published "studies" are garbage. If you want to make a huge stretch, sure you could argue and say some people are generally found more attractive than others but that by no means makes a girl who one monger thinks is an 8 or 9, automatically and 8 or 9 for everyone. I don't think anyone would argue that point, so even your most basic supposition about the topic, goes nowhere fast.
I am done with this topic and I am sending it after a quick write. You may certainly have the last word if you wish.
Keep On Keepin' On.
La isla, fade dos, where else should I go
Hey guys,
Trying to plan an action packed trip with Medellin, Cartagena and.
Bogotá! Wondering if it's better to go to la Isla and Fase dos during the week or if it's worth waiting for the weekend. I know in Bogotá Santa Fe is much better on weekends. Where would you spend one weekend?
Any tips on the best massage parlours or other spots worth hitting up. I will stop by gusto to check the scene there. What are the best hotels or airbnbs that are girl friendly these days?
Dude, if there's a spark in her for you, then go for it
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2595686]No idea if this chick is a 3, 7, or 11. All I know is that she came over this morning for a couple of hours for 150,000. She walked through the door, dropped to her knees, and started sucking my dick. Then she asked me if I wanted a massage. Then after the massage she fucked the brakes off of me and went to get a hot washcloth when we finished. Then she came and cuddled up next to me.
This chick was definitely one of the best GFEs ever. She had a very bubbly personality. She is smart as hell. Psychology student. Spoke good English and was telling me Albert Einstein quotes and shit. I was stunned. When we left out, she did not count the money. She just gave me a big kiss. Fuck repeating. I am thinking about marrying her, regardless of her being a 4 or 6.[/QUOTE]I've let a few slip thru my fingers that I shouldn't have. You obviously had a great run. Maybe it's time.
I agree with your pricing barometer
[QUOTE=Chicafan;2596681]I suppose "most" will come for that. It depends on a few things. Quite a lot of girls won't come for that. If a girl that was last month working in a cheap club or centro then gets a FB account 150 might seem like a lot of money. But there are quite a lot of girls out there that think they are a higher level. Maybe they are maybe not, but perception is reality. Another game the newer guys might not realize they are a pawn in is when the girl agrees to 150 but is sifting through her offers to see who might be willing to pay more. You might think you have a date with her but by the time tomorrow night arrives she has disappeared or is online but doesn't answer. There's no doubt that over time one can develop a list of decent girls that will come for 150-200 but it's also worth reminding ourselves that when asking a very good looking girl to come for $50 US she might consider it slightly presumptuous that being a complete stranger you think gifting her $50 US is a grand gesture. Just don't be disappointed if some girls you wish you could be with don't think 150 is a big deal.
If a girl starts at 300 and you negotiate down to 150 she's going to see you as a hit and run and probably only comes if she's in need, has a deadline, is behind on rent, a sick child. It's true that there are a lot of girls that come for 150 ish, I'm not disputing that. But higher quality girls are out there and 150 won't buy them much and they know by the time they get home and have made a couple of stops on the way they will have nothing when they get home. Also, a mediocre girl might be friends with a girl that can command a higher price, and is worth it, and her friends shares that some guys pay her 500 k or more and the mediocre friend mistakenly thinks that's the price she should be asking..[/QUOTE]Your thresholds sound about right to me. I don't know about Fase Dos. Sounds like a padded bra.
1 photos
Time for a reality check when it comes to the 1 to 10 beauty scale of a woman.
I have had some truly beautiful women in my life and get it that there is usually a marked difference between their beauty and their performance.
I like others have had a 6 that after spending a few hours with them became an 8 or better and also have had a truly 8 or arguably a 9 (Moscow in 1994 and Czech Republic circa 1998 and Rio circa 2001) and would never even think of a repeat as their was little connection on any level with them, but it was fun.
So there is always talk about the rating 1 to 10 and I see some photos that have been posted on these boards in the past 15 years or so and the comments that go along with them as I too have posted many photos of women from my adventures but it is time for a reality check for all of us.
Here is the baseline, it is the Victoria Secret women, undoubtedly every one is a 10. So using this as the benchmark we all need to reset out view of what a 10 is, myself included.
Here in Medellin over the past 10 years I have encountered a handful of beautiful women, probably 3 that have stood out in 10 years and maybe close to a thousand encounters.
So using the new VS as a baseline the best most beautiful woman I have been with in the all of Colombia has been at best an 8 on the scale.
Typically I weekly have a few 5's, a few others who are 6 to 7's and seldom an 8 and never ever a 9 or above and this is in 10 years and a thousand encounters including the clubs, the mall, the FB chicas, the high end clubs and discos and everywhere else including the elite clubs / bars of high end Bogota bars.
As this VS photo shows that to be a 10 is a complete anomaly as you need height, above 5'-10" minimum, lean body / MBI, shapely legs and body with a perfectly symmetrical face. There are perhaps a few thousand women in the whole planet of 8 billion people who fall into this category. This is what is needed to be a 10.
Much love and respect to all! Now I return you all to the normal broadcast, just keep in mind the new reference point.
The Tall Man.