Negotiations. Maybe a few of you will find this helpful
You can learn what to do and what NOT to do, from me. These are the inner workings of a mind from a girl who will obviously take money for sex, but does not consider herself pay for play. One time she held out on me for weeks until I admitted that I was not paying her for sex, that she was a "friend" who I was helping. This mentality is common and is good to be aware of.
{2:44 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": today if we are going visit?
{2:48 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Yessssss, I'll feed you if you want and more. I would love to see you. Send me a picture of how you look now. I hope you are fat.
{2:50 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Yes I'm fat.
{2:50 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": But help me with the rent.
{2:50 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": I have to pay it on Tuesday.
{2:53 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": You are going to give me to pay the rent.
{2:53 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie".
{3:00 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: wait a minute.
{3:02 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I can give you 200 and that includes everything, including taxi and tip, and I will forgive you the MANY times you promised to make love to me for free and never did.
{3:03 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I don't care if you're fat. There is more of you to love.
{3:04 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Send me a picture of you today.
{3:07 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": I need 350 to complete the lease.
{3:07 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": And I'll make love to you.
{3:11 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Of course you will make love to me including taking it up your fat ass. But I never pay that much. IF you treat me right and make me happy, MAYBE I can see you twice by Tuesday and give you a little extra money. Or you can't see me and get ZERO. What is your decision? Come now and I'll feed you too.
{3:11 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Normally I wouldn't even pay 200 but since I like you and you're a friend, I'm going to help you.
{3:14 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": But you're going to help me with the 350.
{3:15 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": I need to pay the rent.
{3:44 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I won't pay 350. Your only chance for that from me is if you treat me right tonight, I'll bring you back tomorrow and pay you another 200 for a total of 400.200 tonight, 200 tomorrow. Take it or leave it. Your choice. That is a fair and good deal between friends.
{3:44 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Make up your mind and tell me now. I will not wait.
{3:46 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Since your last message, three girls have texted me and are asking you to come by, and two will be just for the taxi fare. Come now or don't come at all.
{4:08 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: You have five minutes to reply or I will choose another girl. Make the smart choice and come. I'm being nice, I don't even have to pay these other girls.
{4:12 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Okay, stay with the other girls. You are not going to help me, I won't humble myself before you.
{4:12 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": you can call the other girls ok.
{4:15 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: You're not my girlfriend. That has yet to be determined. I will give you this last chance. You're making a bad choice if you don't come.
{4:17 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Bring your beautiful fat ass here now.
{4:18 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I'll give you a minute to decide.
{4:20 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Ciao, love.
{4:20 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Good.
{4:20 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Bb.
{4:20 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Enjoy with the other girls.
{4:21 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": I told you that you will help me with 350 and you don't want to help me so if you want, call the other girls who don't ask for money.
{4:22 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Ok.
{4:23 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Are you deaf? You can read? Listen you stupid cow. I already told you how to get the 350. That is YOUR decision if you do not choose to take advantage of my generous offer.
{4:24 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: you're crazy.
{4:24 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Why am I crazy?
{4:24 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: OMG.
{4:25 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Because you don't recognize my generous offer, obviously.
{4:26 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": I do recognize your offer but you always humiliate me comparing me to other girls and calling me names.
{4:27 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": you always compare me to your other girls.
{4:28 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I don't mean to humiliate you. I was rude. I apologize for calling you names. In fact, I obviously like you and I much prefer you if I am willing to PAY when the other girls see me for free because I lick their asses and pussy so good for them.
{4:28 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": uyyyy that is rude, you lick ass and what if they have it clean it?
{4:29 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Ok.
{4:29 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Then I'm going in two hours.
{4:29 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Obviously the chicas take a shower immediately before I lick them. And you're a girl who doesn't even kiss so I'm not surprised.
{4:31 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Smart girl. Don't keep me waiting or I'll send you home on just the taxi fare.
{4:43 PM, 8/29/2021} "Rosie": Well I'm coming.
{4:43 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: Kisses.
{4:45 PM, 8/29/2021} Ostee: I suppose the address to the hotel would be helpful. Text me when you're in the cab and send me your Google location, please. I am eager to see you. I am sorry for calling you names. I love that you are fat.
It doesn't happen often, but it does happen
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I forgot to add this to the Whassap transcript
There is no excuse for rudeness and I normally do not call chicas out of their names. However, I know "Rosie" and she is different. At the very least she has a learning disability if not an impairment. You can kind of sense it by the way she fixates on the 350 mil COP over and over again. I am not above using that to my strategic advantage, so I do still qualify for asshole status. I called her a stupid cow to snap her out of it. For her, dangling a carrot is not enough. Sometimes you have to smack the mule on the ass with a board to get their attention. The name calling didn't bother her as much as when I mentioned other chicas. I did it for effect and not for cause. After tonight, she will act as though she is my exclusive steady girlfriend, The first time I reject her for another girl, probably on Tuesday, or I refuse to give her money without sex, she will storm off in a huff. Wash, rinse, and repeat.
I got to lean more towards your side on this one
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2598680]Shiiii-iii-it man! It does not cost me $5000 to live in the States. When I did have a mortgage, it was only $630. As I have said before, a buddy of mine pays $250/month for a 3BR 2BA apartment in Medellin. Even if he was on drugs, I don't think he could go through another $1200 each week.[/QUOTE]But there are a lot of variables. If you are trying to recreate an American lifestyle in Poblado, sure it's easy to burn through 5 K USD per month. But then to my way of thinking, why move here in the first place? I call that living like a King when all you need to be is the Joker.
I was happy staying with my GF in a $111 per month Strata 2 casa on the side of a mountain in San Javier. That is a little too extreme for most gringos. I just set Catgirl up in a high rise 3 BR 1 bath ground floor apartment in Aurora in a great neighborhood, for $123 per month, not including utilities and Internet.
I have done a fairly detailed spread sheet analysis and I can live here in Medellin for 40% of what it costs me in the states, and I have no mortgage or car payments in the USA. Here, that would include a moto, no car, and use of public transportation. And a lot of free sex. Another huge variable is how often you pay to play. If you are going to pay a girl every day that will easily double your cost of living. But by living here, you should supposedly be able to lean Spanish and network to save money.