Printable View
[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2602425]All of that said, I've had girls who expect and want nothing at all. For me, I like to give them something (especially if I don't plan to see them again), so I don't feel like I'm giving them the wrong impression.[/QUOTE]So that helps you not feel guilty while helping them feel like you saw them as a hooker? I would feel guilty by treating a chick I knew not to be a hooker like that.
[QUOTE=Bruno562;2602315] I totally agree. Loutron is an OK change of pace spot but the service is super mechanical and unremarkable. [/QUOTE]That's Colombia generally, "put on a condom, don't kiss me or mess up my hair, and leche baby. " Most of the discussions here involve finding experiences outside these norms.
[QUOTE=Bruno562;2602315] the exact same experience when I was there last week. The location is very nice, and the lineup is above average. I've certainly gotten a lot less for $86, [/QUOTE]Yea you can certainly waste more money in the states, but a blow up doll with a pulse and snippy attitude is always a waste of money.
[QUOTE=Bruno562;2602315] However, you're better off using Tinder, SA, Facebook to get the most bang for your peso. [/QUOTE]Careful with Tinder, is where a lot of the drugging are coming from. Facebook can be good, especially if go with the second and third string. The flaking out from the hotter girls is widespread.
[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2602425]If she's really a nonpro, she either won't ask or will frame it toward "helping her" with her bills. If a girl is clearly not a prepago, then I don't talk money (so they don't feel I'm trying to imply they are a prepago). Rather, I will give them some cash after we have been together and tell them it is to help her with "her things" or "her bills. " All of that said, I've had girls who expect and want nothing at all. For me, I like to give them something (especially if I don't plan to see them again), so I don't feel like I'm giving them the wrong impression.[/QUOTE]Your answer came right on time. A girl I saw two years ago medellin just hit me up and she wants to see me. Now we talk all the time every since I left. So I didn't know how it would be this time. So I asked her would it be for business or pleasure. I explained that Business will be pay her and she go or we do Novia things like eat dinner and hang out. She said that she understood how it was last time and that she wasn't going to ask me for the cash but I know that she needs things here in Columbia. And I read what you said and I gave Heard the answer that yes I'm not paying you I just want to give you money so you can have nice things.
[QUOTE=Shamester;2602404]Hotel Dorado La 70.[/QUOTE]Can you elaborate on this? Like girls at the hotel bar are prepagos? Or this spot also has spa services? Curioso.
Leraldin just came through, with the famous tattoo. Nice and tight!! Nice girl give her a FB call. She ic suede toy taking a thousand after bang photos. While it's cool to see them in your room in the pictures for nostalgia later. What's up with that LOL. She took 15 in my phone and 20 in hers. I wonder if she is trying to get discovered.
[QUOTE=MilkDog08;2602411]The waitress in the fries place under my building is cute. She knows a American tourists gettin prepago I assume. If I get her to let me take her out, we sleep together, will she ask cash. I don't want to disrespect her. How do you talk the non pros.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure if any one guy can answer that for any other guy. You hit the nail on the head if you focus on respect, every girl wants to feel respected even the putas. You have to go by what's in your heart, your gut and be in the moment. I agree it can be tough in Colombia because you may risk insulting her if you offer her money after or for sex but forget about preconceived notions of money and sex from the United States. For a lot of women here and I'm not talking about prepagos, money equals love. That doesn't mean it has to be a lot of money it just has to be proportional to what you can give. They think if you love them you will share with them. Not automatically but the culture is there. Before I've had sex with a regular girl here I have said, "Obviously you're not a puta but I would love to help you with a gift." Gawd, when I see it written down it looks horrible. I admitted I did it I didn't say it was good, jaja. If at some point you feel like you want to give her some money and she doesn't speak English and you don't speak Spanish just take whatever you want to give her a maybe a hundred and fifty could be more could be less, palm it into her hand gently and repeat the words, "regalo, regalo, regalo. " That word means gift.
This could have absolutely no bearing on your situation or your personality but I have often found this old saying to be true, If you can make a girl smile she will hold your hand if you can make her laugh she will follow you up the stairs to the bedroom. Happy hunting.
I just got back from Bogota and am already planning a trip back to Colombia in the next 2 weeks or so. I want to go back to Bogota and also visit Medellin, Barranquilla and San Andres island. I can speak good enough Spanish that I feel comfortable travelling around the country alone but its not perfect by any means I would like to meet a girl who can speak at least basic English. I know they exist. Where is the best places to look in Bogota and Medellin?
This is a hotel across from SanPeter. It is not a spa nor does it have working girls. I asked for a spa near San Peter and Shamester responded with that. Probably thought I was looking for a hotel near San Peter?
[QUOTE=Regnom3000;2602479]Can you elaborate on this? Like girls at the hotel bar are prepagos? Or this spot also has spa services? Curioso.[/QUOTE].
I have given money to non hookers as well. The people in Colombia struggle for things we take for granted. It is definitely appreciated
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2602430]So that helps you not feel guilty while helping them feel like you saw them as a hooker? I would feel guilty by treating a chick I knew not to be a hooker like that.[/QUOTE].
Medellin seems to have been recovering from the restrictions of the Pandemic. Now there are many options and girls available. Parque Lleras became ridiculous. There are many many women walking around. The only problem I saw is that they are asking for no less than 300 thousand Colombian money. I think this is an exaggeration because the girls are not the seem 8 or 9 that used to be in this area. Gustos continues being a good spot to pick 8 or 9. The price is still a little high adding the liquor which is really highly priced. I think this is not for everyone. The party is ok but if you come with a group of friends that are really ready to party and drink like crazy. I visited some Salas in the area and encounter a pretty new spot that has as a manager a well known woman in the business in Medellin. Apparently she opened up her own place and it is now trying to catch up with customers and girls. When I went there there were 7 women. One of them was a 9, beautiful sweet Venezuelan girl. Wendy is her name. There was another one little thing that was very hot and flirtatious. I think her name was Martin, and a couple more that were hot friendly and ready to jump to bed. In general was a calm place, nice clean, rooms were also pretty comfy and showers inside the rooms. The price was 90 thousand Colombian pesos one hour and 60 thousand Colombian pesos half an hour. The girls ask for extra if you want something like oral sex bare skin, or if you want anal. I had a good GE with Wendy. Beer was 5 K Colombian pesos and half a bottle of local rum was 50 k. I found this a good place, they even had a VIP room with pole dance. Once you texted them in wassapp they add and send you status updates with current girls and sometimes mini clips. +57312XXXX516 the name of place is called Aventura and it is around the Centro area.
Try a few of the places in Centro. It seems the more you pay in a casa in Medellin the less you get.
[QUOTE=SunDevil;2602277]I decided to partake into a non SA endeavor for old times sake and went to Loutron. The facility is still in the same spotless location. The cost was 330 mil and I chose a girl named Rebecca. The same women who worked manning the cash register are still there. They did not recognize me after about a 2 year long hiatus, plus me wearing a mask did not help.
After the massage and perfunctory performance, I have realized why I keep sticking to SA girls. The Loutron girl would not allow any kissing nor digits in her vagina. How is she supposed to feel her G spot without that? Also during oral, which was covered as usual, she kept examining whether I climaxed or not. After she rode me for a couple of minutes, she hopped off and examined the rubber and declared that I had indeed finished. I was not in the mood to argue, plus I have already seen about 5 SA girls this week, and this encounter was a total turn off and I did not get want to rescue it. I took a shower and got dressed.
There was no small talk involved as well, which I enjoyed with SA girls and the escorts from Montreal and Toronto, who also provide kissing and CIM, as part of their services. I had mainly gone to Canada as part of my mongering adventures during the past couple of years. The services provided in that country by professionals have spoiled me. So no more massage girls for this monger here in Medellin.[/QUOTE]
Get you ass down here on the double. Booty is every where!129395;129395;129395;.
I don't know what they think, because I can't read their minds. But I have never had a girl react negatively. They typically seem grateful. To me, if you give them money because you chose to do so. And she never asked for money. And there was never any discussion / agreement about money before the date. You are not treating her like a hooker. I never want a chica to think that I am trying to trick her into fucking me for free. I have had many non-pros in Medellin who I have not paid, although perhaps we ate or had a drink. Some others I have helped with some money, particularly if I get the impression they need it. I will also give a little money if a chica seems to be looking for something more serious and committed and I'm not. Because I would never want to think that I was some way misleading her just to fuck her. And, yes, that makes me feel better.
Just because you help someone with money, IMO, does not necessarily mean you are treating her like a hooker. But everyone looks at it differently. I honestly have gravitated more towards non-pros and have been very happy with them. On occasion, I see a prepago I've seen before or will try a prepago who's new to the game, but that's not my bread and butter any more.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2602430]So that helps you not feel guilty while helping them feel like you saw them as a hooker? I would feel guilty by treating a chick I knew not to be a hooker like that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IamLookin;2602570]I have given money to non hookers as well. The people in Colombia struggle for things we take for granted. It is definitely appreciated.[/QUOTE]Likewise, I struggle for things that Jeff Bezos takes for granted. What if a non-hooker (as was another poster's experience) picks you up in a Mercedes. Are you still giving money to her?
[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2602594]
But everyone looks at it differently. [/QUOTE]Out of curiosity, do you give similar amount of money to women that you don't have sex with or Colombia men that are poor?