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[quote=thatguy865]i believe one reason for this is the women overall seem less interested in gfe's and more in getting as much money as possible.[/quote]
that is not the reason. that is the consequence. consequence of what? the consequence of our behaviour. also as exploited by business owners who see the trends and ride them to make more money, rather than to create a good mongering experience.
[quote=betong]i've watched exactly this process in thailand over the past few decades[/quote]
i've only been here for a very short while, so i don't know what it was like a few decades ago. i wish i did. i can say that it's possible to find true smiles and lovely experiences if you can see what's in front of you, even in pattaya beer bars. sometimes that's someone who just arrived from upcountry for the first time. but there are good-hearted veterans also. as long as you treat them the way you want to be treated.
people [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] on the walls and complain that everything stinks of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url].
(only my opinionated two cents, worth what you paid for it, etc.)
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[QUOTE=Carmex]Maybe we just had bad luck. Repeatedly. Over and over, every night. But I kinda doubt it.[/QUOTE]
Well...yeah, maybe you did have bad luck. I took a trip in April-ish and was ready to write the town off completely. About a 50% runner rate. Then the next trip I took, I had 4-5 barfines in a row that were among the ones I've ever had. One was a four-rounder, and another made me go buy Cialis to make sure I could keep her satisfied. Both gave great BJ's. I can't remember details of the others, but I do remember being damned impressed (and surprised). So yeah, it's possible to hit a bad luck streak.
But in general I would certainly agree that you have to have your ducks in a row in AC these days. You can't take anything for granted. Maybe Cebu is better; I can't say because I haven't been there.
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[QUOTE=Rocksoff]That is not the reason. That is the CONSEQUENCE. Consequence of what? The consequence of our behaviour. Also as exploited by business owners who see the trends and ride them to make more money, rather than to create a good mongering experience.[/QUOTE]The owners have nothing to do with the girls being runners or telling a customer they are on the "mens". The girl being a runner doesn't bring any money into the bar because most of the girls don't return to the bar. And if she is telling a customer she's on her "Mens" she isn't getting bar fined so therefore the bar looses out money there.
Its the amount they have started paying these babes, convincing them that they are something special by calling them spotlight dancers and raising their barfines to a ridiculous amount. The amount the babes are making just for dancing, 340 pesos a night and the additional amount they make from LD's is more than good enough that the babes don't feel the need to go out with a guy unless they really are into him. And Once there if they don't feel like they are being treated special. They will run.
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Perimeter & Fields
I was in AC for a weekend a couple of weeks ago. Maybe I had a unique experience, but I enjoyed it quite a bit. I bar fined one girl each night. One from fields and one form perimeter. Both were GFE and neither wanted to leave the next day. I am still in touch with them via email and phone. I plan to see them again when I return in a few weeks.
Just my peso worth.
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[quote=thatguy865]the owners have nothing to do with the girls being runners or telling a customer they are on the "mens". the girl being a runner doesn't bring any money into the bar because most of the girls don't return to the bar. and if she is telling a customer she's on her "mens" she isn't getting bar fined so therefore the bar looses out money there.
its the amount they have started paying these babes, convincing them that they are something special by calling them spotlight dancers and raising their barfines to a ridiculous amount. the amount the babes are making just for dancing, 340 pesos a night and the additional amount they make from ld's is more than good enough that the babes don't feel the need to go out with a guy unless they really are into him. and once there if they don't feel like they are being treated special. they will run.[/quote]my experience in angeles is that befriending the mamasan (buy her some drinks, tip her occasionally) is the surest way of avoiding a girl who will run on you. call it peer pressure but a girl won't run on a guy because the mamasan will give her a hard time. imho, girls will run on a guy that they feel they can take advantage of without repercussions.
its also good to speak to the mamasan about the girl before bar-fining her. if you are a good customer, mommy will tell the girl to make sure you are happy before leaving you.
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[QUOTE=Wytboi N Asia]I was in AC for a weekend a couple of weeks ago. Maybe I had a unique experience, but I enjoyed it quite a bit. I bar fined one girl each night. One from fields and one form perimeter. Both were GFE and neither wanted to leave the next day. I am still in touch with them via email and phone. I plan to see them again when I return in a few weeks.
Just my peso worth.[/QUOTE]
I'm glad you had a wonderful time in AC, but be careful Wytboi! AC girls are notorious for separating men from their money...even over long distances. One week/month your exchanging harmless emails and phone calls with Ms GFE, and the next week/month Ms GFE's mother is in the hospital, her brother needs medication, her father lost his eye glasses, her sister needs tuition money, her aunt just had an accident, or any two-trillion other excuses they make up to squeeze you for money. Keep in touch with them, Keep a pleasent attitude with them, but avoid sending money. It's ok to be Mr Nice Guy to a point, but don't let the girls take advantage of you. I'm not saying you're a sucker, just sensing that you are new to the game.
YM
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[QUOTE=Yella Man]I'm glad you had a wonderful time in AC, but be careful Wytboi! AC girls are notorious for separating men from their money...even over long distances. One week/month your exchanging harmless emails and phone calls with Ms GFE, and the next week/month Ms GFE's mother is in the hospital, her brother needs medication, her father lost his eye glasses, her sister needs tuition money, her aunt just had an accident, or any two-trillion other excuses they make up to squeeze you for money. Keep in touch with them, Keep a pleasent attitude with them, but avoid sending money. It's ok to be Mr Nice Guy to a point, but don't let the girls take advantage of you. I'm not saying you're a sucker, just sensing that you are new to the game.
YM[/QUOTE]The best one has to be that she is now pregnant from another client and needs cash.
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money
[QUOTE=Yella Man]I'm glad you had a wonderful time in AC, but be careful Wytboi! AC girls are notorious for separating men from their money...even over long distances. One week/month your exchanging harmless emails and phone calls with Ms GFE, and the next week/month Ms GFE's mother is in the hospital, her brother needs medication, her father lost his eye glasses, her sister needs tuition money, her aunt just had an accident, or any two-trillion other excuses they make up to squeeze you for money. Keep in touch with them, Keep a pleasent attitude with them, but avoid sending money. It's ok to be Mr Nice Guy to a point, but don't let the girls take advantage of you. I'm not saying you're a sucker, just sensing that you are new to the game.
YM[/QUOTE]
excellently written YM! I totally agree with you and would like to add that I can hardly count all the e-mails I have received because of "emergency money"! The very best one was: "darling, you need not send all too much! 500 US bucks are perfectly fine"! :)
Cheers!
Hesekiels
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[QUOTE=Yella Man]I'm glad you had a wonderful time in AC, but be careful Wytboi! AC girls are notorious for separating men from their money...even over long distances. One week/month your exchanging harmless emails and phone calls with Ms GFE, and the next week/month Ms GFE's mother is in the hospital, her brother needs medication, her father lost his eye glasses, her sister needs tuition money, her aunt just had an accident, or any two-trillion other excuses they make up to squeeze you for money. Keep in touch with them, Keep a pleasent attitude with them, but avoid sending money. It's ok to be Mr Nice Guy to a point, but don't let the girls take advantage of you. I'm not saying you're a sucker, just sensing that you are new to the game.
YM[/QUOTE]
These girls are definitely are viewed as cash cows by their family and friends. Why?
Because when they go home they take gifts to all, show off latest cell phone, nice clothes, jewellery, cosmetics etc which their poor family have never seen. And to boot they tell stories about generous western men they met and how she is in love with one special man who promised to marry her and take care of her for the rest of her life.
Only after few years they realize the truth.
Sometimes it is really true that the mother is sick etc. Whatever the emergency is they want money from the girl. The girls see theselves as the benefactor of the family as well. I was giving some money to a bargirl and explicitly told her to open a account and save money because my gifts are not forever. She gave all the money to the family. When finally I stopped she accused of abandoning her. I told her to start earning money.
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[QUOTE=ThatGuy865]The owners have nothing to do with the girls being runners or telling a customer they are on the "mens". The girl being a runner doesn't bring any money into the bar because most of the girls don't return to the bar. And if she is telling a customer she's on her "Mens" she isn't getting bar fined so therefore the bar looses out money there.
Its the amount they have started paying these babes, convincing them that they are something special by calling them spotlight dancers and raising their barfines to a ridiculous amount. The amount the babes are making just for dancing, 340 pesos a night and the additional amount they make from LD's is more than good enough that the babes don't feel the need to go out with a guy unless they really are into him. And Once there if they don't feel like they are being treated special. They will run.[/QUOTE]
Over the last two years, runners no longer seem to be an exception. I make it clear to the girl I expect an overnight, but even then still get some who dress upon completion. That said, if I want them the next day and make that clear, then they do tend to stay around. Tips are also an incentive for them to stay around. But I also find those I am happy for them to leave, so at times a runner is a blessing.
Prices have remained relatively unchanged on Perimeter road during that time, but many of the Fields bars are paying huge incentives to get girls, then passing this along to the customer. The concept of short time on Perimeter seems to be a dying option, with more girls basically doing a short time but charging the full bf. Seems a short time price requires a lot more negotiation and agreement than being a menu item. Despite the high prices on Fields, many of the girls are starving, moving to Perimeter, seeking volume both in lady drinks and bf. On Fields bar owner described it as an exodus, so perhaps in the long run customers do have a say in what they are willing to pay and tolerate. A bar and the girls make no money if the customer is unwilling to pay the price of either the lady drink or bf. I get my girls on Perimeter, then take them to fields to enjoy the show and atmosphere. In most cases its the same quality of girls, the drinks are the same (a San Mig is a San Mig, at 60 or 90 peso), and some of the perimeter road bars are doing shows now (Stampede, Eruptions and Emotions).
Another example, one Fields bar charged 1,000 peso to enter and watch a beauty contest which included free local drinks and canapy's (I don't even know what these are). Every Monday, a group of Perimeter road bars put on fun shows, provide a full meal, free local drinks for the customer, 100 peso lady drinks, all for 500 peso. Canapy's must be much dearer than food.
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[QUOTE=ThatGuy865]The owners have nothing to do with the girls being runners [...] Its the amount they have started paying these babes, [/QUOTE]
The owners have everything to do with the amount they pay the babes.
But anyway, I think we're basically in agreement ;-)
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[quote=philosophery]my experience in angeles is that befriending the mamasan (buy her some drinks, tip her occasionally) is the surest way of avoiding a girl who will run on you. call it peer pressure but a girl won't run on a guy because the mamasan will give her a hard time. imho, girls will run on a guy that they feel they can take advantage of without repercussions.
its also good to speak to the mamasan about the girl before bar-fining her. if you are a good customer, mommy will tell the girl to make sure you are happy before leaving you.[/quote]for me the best way to prevent a runner is to make sure you get to know the bab. i have not had a runner in years. but i know plenty of guys who have.
first of all, when the waitress comes over and ask do i want to buy the girl a drink i always say no. this is to see how the girl reacts. if she immediately gets up and leaves then i know it was about earning the ld money and not me. if she want to be with you she will sit for a few more minutes even without having a ld. after couple of minutes i will then buy her a ld. i see how we click, if all goes well i still do not bar fine the bab. i make an excuse why we can't get together that night and schedule to meet her either the next day or later in the week. the next time i return to the bar i see how eager she is to see me and keep me company. its at this point i determine whether she is bf material. since i have been going there for years i have plenty of old time favorites that i can see while i do this process with new prospects. so after the first nights i have lined up the new ones to see the remaining nights and i keep the rotation going the entire vacation. this approach works for me and it seems by the time a girl comes to my room we have developed a repore and i receive the gfe i seek.
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complicated?
[QUOTE=ThatGuy865]... After couple of minutes I will then buy her a LD. I see how we click, if all goes well I still do not Bar fine the baB. I make an excuse why we can't get together that night and schedule to meet her either the next day or later in the week. The next time I return to the bar I see how eager she is to see me and keep me company...[/QUOTE]
TG:
is this approach not a little too complicated? Just wondering!
Cheers!
Hesekiels
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Hesekiels (wish he had a nickname....) makes a good point. I think this strategy works best for people who live in PI or come often. Those people probably don't need advice...
Nevertheless, I think the TG concept is valid. Chat up the ladies like a Casanovva, be friendly, be mysterious, make jokes....etc....
The way I depart from TG is I would be more likely to barfine that night. But sometimes I don't, and come back the next night. It does create a different vibe.
I drink a bit, so I do keep a pen and paper to keep notes. I don't have the photographic memory i thought I had. What was I talking about?
Oh, In the event that I was out in the afternoon, and already was spent from the night before, I would definitely take names and numbers and write things down in case excessive consumption consumned my short term memory...
Nevertheless, I always meet ladies in AC who say, "Oh, you don't remember me?"
The problem is even worse in Cebu where there seems to be less turnover.
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[QUOTE=Hesekiels]TG:
is this appoach not a little too complicated? Just wondering!
Cheers!
Hesekiels[/QUOTE]
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trip report
Just returned from 3 weeks in PI. The first week was in manila to meet a girl I met online. After that went sour I made a bee line for AC. Take bus from trinoma mall 132 pesos trike to mo's place 80 pesos.
Mo's place: great location, rooms can be noisey. Room 1 and 2 are semi quiet overlooking the pool. Room 1 had poor internet at best other rooms were much better. The food at their restaruant was Great it was the best of any hotel in AC. Mo's place is in the heart of Fields Ave. So for a first time or seasoned vet it is a good choice. Get your discount card when you check in. Mo's is also the home of 2 strip clubs, both clubs are open 24/7
Vodoo's the girls are super friendly! EWR 1100 peso girls tip 200 short time and 500 all night. Treat the girls nice and they will give you the attention you need. I always bought the girl I was with atleast one meal. After a few days I had a girl refuse to take a tip.
It is all in how you treat a girl
Ac 1600 2000 pesos had a hard time getting rid of the girls.
Manila 5000 peso for 3 hours most were ready to leave after 2 (waste of money)
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