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[QUOTE=Easy2007]Jodi, I like your reporting style. Its similar to what I find, out there in the real world as opposed to the fantasy world of some peoples minds.
Keep up the good work.[/QUOTE]
Yeh, the real world is full of shit and arseholes. But some of us prefer to be turned on by more positive and more fun things.
Mutally pleasurable sex is not just a fantasy.
My view is that once you collect a set of superior girls, that it gets difficult to find new girls that can be competitive in both looks and performance. Perhaps can find a new stunner with average performance or a good performer with ordinary looks.
But to make my list of regular repeat girls, I really need girls to be superb in some way and well above average in both looks and performance.
On this trip I tried a total of 11 new girls, I think. 4 Soapy girls (Ida, Tarawadee, La Belle), 2 Oily girls (Luxury, Angel), 4 Bargirls, and 1 other category. Of these 1 bargirl (Shark) and one Oily girl (Angel) were good enough in both looks and performance to be definite repeats. Two others go into the maybe category on basis that they are stunning and performance could improve.
Repeat girls from the past: 2 Soapy girls, 1 Oily girl, 3 bargirls, 3 ex-P4P girls. Two of the bargirls may get dropped from the list as not quite making the tough standard now.
I don’t feel that I can be bothered trying so many new girls on my next visit to Thailand, and bargirls are starting to boor me in general. Having threesomes has started to loose its appeal.
Next visit might just go back to concentrating on MP girls, and mostly with my favourites, as I used to do when had a full time GF. The best MP girls seem generally superior to bargirls IMHO. Good looks, non-bargirl personality, and stamina ;)
There will always be special exceptions.
Despite all the distractions, I still miss my ex Thai GF. Somewhat jaded? A few days of no sex will soon get the desires fuelled up again and the sex addict in me will re-emerge.
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Yeh, the real world is full of shit and arseholes. But some of us prefer to be turned on by more positive and more fun things.
Mutally pleasurable sex is not just a fantasy.[/QUOTE]Mutually pleasurable sex is fine, however, mutually pleasurable sex should be done on an even basis.
Quite simply if someone is taking money for sex, then fuck them, they do what they are paid for.
I have plenty of freebies and also pay for plenty too, but the effort goes only into the freebies. The paid for ones do what I want, and if I feel so, I may try my best to make it mutual. But not all the time.
Do you pay someone to cut your lawn, and then help them cut while they watch?
A dose of reality is always good. And does no harm. Annies is ok for some people, but really, Jodi summed it up quite well.
I am sure that the same girl would say exactly the opposite when talking to a young guy.
Everything is a game!
We should always keep this in our minds.
Italy 1974
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]The Suzi Wong bargirl says that she never goes with young Farang guys. She just refuses them. Why is this?
She is a popular girl due to good face, fun character, and tall curvy body (but not much tits).
She claims young guys are “ngee ngao” which means difficult, stingy, untrustworthy arseholes. She claims they are arrogant and "up themselves" as well.
O.K. there are exceptions of course.
She only does short time as has to go home to parents each night.
Young Farangs will try to get excessively low price and then expect several sex sessions for the very low money and even refuse to pay if they are not totally satisfied.
She says its just not worth bothering with them. She has more respect for herself than to accept them. She is good looking enough to get a better class of older customer that doesn’t come with all these hassles.
Not all bargirls think the same as this girl. Some may actually like young guys.
But my advice to the young handsome spunks, is to try to look older, more dignified, show the girl respect and consideration, be fair, and above all else, more generous.
I always believe that if I try to give the girl a good time and make her have fun, I will usually have a good time too.[/QUOTE]
Mick Licker, the girls tell you the things they think you want to hear. Of course if you're an old duffer the girl will tell you she doesn't like young handsome men. If you're a young handsome man she'll tell you she doesn't like old men. The reality is that most girls will go wild for a young handsome man. Instead of believing the nonsense the girls tell you, talk to some of these young guys and I can assure you they don't need your advice on how to get laid in Bangkok.
[QUOTE=*****man]Mick Licker, the girls tell you the things they think you want to hear. Of course if you're an old duffer the girl will tell you she doesn't like young handsome men. If you're a young handsome man she'll tell you she doesn't like old men. The reality is that most girls will go wild for a young handsome man. Instead of believing the nonsense the girls tell you, talk to some of these young guys and I can assure you they don't need your advice on how to get laid in Bangkok.[/QUOTE]
What if you are an old, fat, balding, but VERY hansum man like I am?
In any case, I would bet that the ladies who claim that they don't like younger hansum men, in particular don't like their lack of financial generosity above all else.
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]You never had a bad session, ever? :o
But I agree with your sentiments.[/QUOTE]
I have had obviously quirte a number of not-so-good sessions, in BKK and elsewhere, but everything is about expectations. For instance, I went recently with one of the model Czech girls at palace in FRA, and had what other may call "bad "sessions. I just wanted at least bang a super model, and was successfull in this. Was it a bad session? Not for me, since I did not expect any more.
[QUOTE=*****man] I can assure you they don't need your advice on how to get laid in Bangkok.[/QUOTE]
Wait -- so how do we get 'laid' in Bangkok if we're young and hansum? I am only 19, the son of a wealthy businessman and paid for sex numerous times during my trip there. Don't tell me to look online because it almost always never works. Maybe you meant the long-term residents?
[QUOTE=Rguy89]Wait -- so how do we get 'laid' in Bangkok if we're young and hansum? I am only 19, the son of a wealthy businessman and paid for sex numerous times during my trip there. Don't tell me to look online because it almost always never works. Maybe you meant the long-term residents?[/QUOTE]
I'm willing to bet anyone could get laid in BKK. All it takes is $. Why do you think so many "losers" in their home countries come to Thailand.
[QUOTE=Dreams]I have had obviously quirte a number of not-so-good sessions, in BKK and elsewhere, but everything is about expectations. For instance, I went recently with one of the model Czech girls at palace in FRA, and had what other may call "bad "sessions. I just wanted at least bang a super model, and was successfull in this. Was it a bad session? Not for me, since I did not expect any more.[/QUOTE]
I just went with a model Brazil girl at the Palace and had a wonderful session. I wasn't expecting it to be bad either.
So I don't do Thai girls exclusively LOL ;)
[QUOTE=*****man]Mick Licker, the girls tell you the things they think you want to hear. Of course if you're an old duffer the girl will tell you she doesn't like young handsome men. If you're a young handsome man she'll tell you she doesn't like old men. The reality is that most girls will go wild for a young handsome man. Instead of believing the nonsense the girls tell you, talk to some of these young guys and I can assure you they don't need your advice on how to get laid in Bangkok.[/QUOTE]
Yes I am sure you don't need any advice and you will believe yourself rather than certain bargirls. But I give advice for newbies that might benefit, to tone down the arrogance, be easy going and not too demanding, etc.
No no, these girls have known me for a long time. There is no point at all to telling me bullshit and sucking up. They know I appreciate natural straight talking, and have seen me reject the sucking-up bullshiter types. They were merely explaining why they had avoided certain customers when I had noticed. I have seen which other customers they have been with plenty of times.
[QUOTE=Easy2007]
A dose of reality is always good. And does no harm. Annies is ok for some people, but really, Jodi summed it up quite well.[/QUOTE]
While I am not an Annies fan, its no surprise that you liked Jodi's attitude, while most others didn't.
I you payed someone beautiful to play pool against you, would you expect them to lose on purpose because you are paying or would you like her to try her best to beat you.
The answer is we want them to play properly and "for real" and even enjoy the game.
Paying for sex is not at all like paying to have your grass cut.
Bad analogy!
If you like to be just a receiver of paid service, good for you, but many will think you are missing part of the experience.
Purely receiving service is boring to me and not much of a turn on.
[QUOTE=Member #2041]What if you are an old, fat, balding, but VERY hansum man like I am?
In any case, I would bet that the ladies who claim that they don't like younger hansum men, in particular don't like their lack of financial generosity above all else.[/QUOTE]
She doesn't know what is going on outside of what she sees on Thai TV or what the other ho's tell her and you can tell she is lying when her lips are moving.
The last time I had one tell me she likes my type rather than setzy man because "setzy man is buttafly", I'd stop off for a cold one on one of the sois w/her and BF the cutest one I could get and tell the last one to get lost. I love the reaction I got. They need a dose of reality.
No you have got a very wrong analogy there about playing pool. There is no analogy that will suffice in being "comparative". Lets just say, when paying money to a girl for sex, you are in complete control, and the performane should be how you want it. You may or may not help her, make it mutually pleasureable, or not, however, as it is "paid for" you should get a service level that is at least "satisfying".
This is where a problem comes from in the mongering world.
Tips are tips.
Tips should be payed down from "standard" prices based on bad performance, and not "up from standard" on good performance.
Too many girls tell me that most farangs are stupid, and happily pay normal tips for bad service and higher tips for "normal", so they are not challenged to give good performance and happily become lazy.
Quite simply, if 1500 Baht is the tip for FS at an oily massage, then 1500 Baht should only be given if you are happy. You should not give 2000 Baht. And if the service was not good, you slip them 1000 Baht and tell them that service was not good enough.
If service is bad then feel free to stop the massage or service half way through, give them a small 500 baht tip, and leave the place early saying you are not happy.
You are a customer of a paid for service, and you should not suffer bad service.
Sadly there are far too many people who happily whinge and moan about poor service and still pay full tips, and those who think they are "Mr Special" and pay 2000 or 3000. You should know the girls do not like you anymore, yes they like your wallet and yes they will come running to see Mr Wallet with a big smile, but at the end of it you are only receiving "normal service" that you should have got for much less.
Tips should always start at standard and go down (and not up unless there are very special circumstances).
From April this year more and mor girls will be on the P4P scene, more supply means that service levels will go down, and thats not going to be helped unless people start to take service levels seriously, and expect paid for service to be good.
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]While I am not an Annies fan, its no surprise that you liked Jodi's attitude, while most others didn't.
I you payed someone beautiful to play pool against you, would you expect them to lose on purpose because you are paying or would you like her to try her best to beat you.
The answer is we want them to play properly and "for real" and even enjoy the game.
Paying for sex is not at all like paying to have your grass cut.
Bad analogy!
If you like to be just a receiver of paid service, good for you, but many will think you are missing part of the experience.
Purely receiving service is boring to me and not much of a turn on.[/QUOTE]
Thinking about getting my teeth clean in BKK, any good places near Nana, aside from Bumrungrad.
Thanks in advance, LBM