Am I doing this right? Planning trip to MDE for the first time
Hi everyone,
This is my first post here. I have been lurking around for the last two weeks in preparation for a trip to MDE next week and I am very thankful for all the input so far.
I am having some trouble and hope some of you can help me learn the strides of this great hobby.
The last time I was mongering was in 2010 in Cartagena, and I have great memories of going to la Dolce Vita and just looking at the menu and takings someone back to the hotel.
I have read that Haven is a great place that everyone recommends, but does anyone have any experience with Art Boutique Hotel? Company already has a room booked there for me and I wanted to ask if someone knows about their chica policy. Room is booked for 2 already though.
The last time I was in Cartagena I had a great time and the last chica I was with I spent 3 days with, also taking her back to Bogota. Besides all the fucking we were having loads of fun and she didn't; charge extra, so why not right? Thing is we've stayed in touch the last 10 years and we've seen each other in different places of the world. She was working in Mexico some time and we met a lot of times while I was travelling for work. At some point we stopped fucking because age caught up with her and I didn't feel like it anymore. For some reason, as crazy as it sounds, we still talk sometime and have still meet for drinks whenever we are in the same country. She offered to take me tour the chica scene in Medellin. She still works and she knows I'm not interested in her, but she will spend the first night showing me around.
But now to my real issue. I am a nervous wreck whenever it comes to approaching women. Even if it is a working chica. I never know if you need to do small talk or if you go straight to the point while approaching? I have been reading that you have to prepare a facebook list of some. What do you write to them? I made an account a week ago and started adding friends after I followed some previous facebook report from here. I then started doing this on an Instagram account which got blocked after the first five DMs I've sent. This account is blocked until Friday. I know now that you have to change the texts to not look like a bot now. Lesson learned, but still I need to prepare my list right? Is Facebook or Instagram better. The UI is better on IG and if IG works, I'd rather focus on that one.
So how do you talk to them? Do you do small talk? Do you compliment them? Or do you go straight to the point? I've tried all kinds of openers. I speak Spanish, so that's not an issue.
From saying I like your pics, I would like to meet you. Let me know if you are open for it, to Ill be in Medellin. Do you escort?
By now I've added 50 chicas. I've written to 40 of them. On Instagram, girls started following me all of a sudden. Do you take those seriously? Or are those mostly bots? Do you just talk to chicas you have added yourself to avoid or do you follow back and talk to them? I'm kind of worried of finding a scammer for some reason.
Of all the girls I've written to, 3 have responded. 1 does only Onlyfans and when I asked her if we can meet, she said plain no. The second one said she sold OF content, and she would meet me for 500 mil. I was like that is too much! I pay 150 k + taxi as I've seen in the forum.
She just said "hijupueta mas canson" which translates to something like what an obnoxious fucker and she blocked me.
The other one has not responded yet. So am I doing this right? Am I adding the wrong girls. I get confused because I want to hire them for their services but don't know If I should just say hey I want to fuck for money. Do you do that?
I do feel comfortable that I won't be going out alone the first night, but I want to have everything prepared to go out on my own afterwards. I have anxiety issues that I'm trying to face and I always get nervous when I go monger. Probably the reason I have not done it for such a long time. I'm really looking forward to change that.
Last question before I end this post. I see that everyone is amazed at centro and parque Lleras. I had a great time picking someone at Dolce Vita. Would that be something similar to what Zandaly or La Isla are in Medellin? Or is it more like Loutron?
I was also looking at spending a night at Mansion. I only have 4 days and I think I'm trying to see as much as possible not considering that I can only fuck a limited amount of time each day.
I'll happily report about everything when I get back.
Thank you in advance for all your input.
This community has been great help so far.
Cheers,
Chopari.
What is it about having hundreds of FB contacts?
Hi.
This post is not about you but what is it with guys here that feel they need to have an extensive list of FB contacts? What exactly are they trying to accomplish? I read so many here complain that they don't get responses back. Why should the FB girl respond if you are not going to physically be in Medellin anytime soon? " muy canson " meaning 'very tiring' . The girls don't want to be bothered with this. If you want a response, send a friend request with a message or just a message telling them when you will be available. If you are not going to be there anytime soon then wait. I have been going to Medellin for a good 5 years now and see mostly FB girls. Most of them I contact via messenger and they are not on my friends list. Why not? Because you don't need to this. I checked my FB periodically and trim down the number of contacts. I have 80 right now which means I should consider eliminating half of them.
[QUOTE=ChaiSam;2611896]Hi everyone,
This is my first post here. I have been lurking around for the last two weeks in preparation for a trip to MDE next week and I am very thankful for all the input so far.
I am having some trouble and hope some of you can help me learn the strides of this great hobby.
The last time I was mongering was in 2010 in Cartagena, and I have great memories of going to la Dolce Vita and just looking at the menu and takings someone back to the hotel.
I have read that Haven is a great place that everyone recommends, but does anyone have any experience with Art Boutique Hotel? Company already has a room booked there for me and I wanted to ask if someone knows about their chica policy. Room is booked for 2 already though.
The last time I was in Cartagena I had a great time and the last chica I was with I spent 3 days with, also taking her back to Bogota. Besides all the fucking we were having loads of fun and she didn't; charge extra, so why not right? Thing is we've stayed in touch the last 10 years and we've seen each other in different places of the world. She was working in Mexico some time and we met a lot of times while I was travelling for work. At some point we stopped fucking because age caught up with her and I didn't feel like it anymore. For some reason, as crazy as it sounds, we still talk sometime and have still meet for drinks whenever we are in the same country. She offered to take me tour the chica scene in Medellin. She still works and she knows I'm not interested in her, but she will spend the first night showing me around.
But now to my real issue. I am a nervous wreck whenever it comes to approaching women. Even if it is a working chica. I never know if you need to do small talk or if you go straight to the point while approaching? I have been reading that you have to prepare a facebook list of some. What do you write to them? I made an account a week ago and started adding friends after I followed some previous facebook report from here. I then started doing this on an Instagram account which got blocked after the first five DMs I've sent. This account is blocked until Friday. I know now that you have to change the texts to not look like a bot now. Lesson learned, but still I need to prepare my list right? Is Facebook or Instagram better. The UI is better on IG and if IG works, I'd rather focus on that one.
So how do you talk to them? Do you do small talk? Do you compliment them? Or do you go straight to the point? I've tried all kinds of openers. I speak Spanish, so that's not an issue.
From saying I like your pics, I would like to meet you. Let me know if you are open for it, to Ill be in Medellin. Do you escort?
By now I've added 50 chicas. I've written to 40 of them. On Instagram, girls started following me all of a sudden. Do you take those seriously? Or are those mostly bots? Do you just talk to chicas you have added yourself to avoid or do you follow back and talk to them? I'm kind of worried of finding a scammer for some reason.
Of all the girls I've written to, 3 have responded. 1 does only Onlyfans and when I asked her if we can meet, she said plain no. The second one said she sold OF content, and she would meet me for 500 mil. I was like that is too much! I pay 150 k + taxi as I've seen in the forum.
She just said "hijupueta mas canson" which translates to something like what an obnoxious fucker and she blocked me.
The other one has not responded yet. So am I doing this right? Am I adding the wrong girls. I get confused because I want to hire them for their services but don't know If I should just say hey I want to fuck for money. Do you do that?
I do feel comfortable that I won't be going out alone the first night, but I want to have everything prepared to go out on my own afterwards. I have anxiety issues that I'm trying to face and I always get nervous when I go monger. Probably the reason I have not done it for such a long time. I'm really looking forward to change that.
Last question before I end this post. I see that everyone is amazed at centro and parque Lleras. I had a great time picking someone at Dolce Vita. Would that be something similar to what Zandaly or La Isla are in Medellin? Or is it more like Loutron?
I was also looking at spending a night at Mansion. I only have 4 days and I think I'm trying to see as much as possible not considering that I can only fuck a limited amount of time each day.
I'll happily report about everything when I get back.
Thank you in advance for all your input.
This community has been great help so far.
Cheers,
Chopari.[/QUOTE].
I guess they do it because they don't know how else to prepare?
[QUOTE=IamLookin;2611924]Hi.
This post is not about you but what is it with guys here that feel they need to have an extensive list of FB contacts? What exactly are they trying to accomplish? I read so many here complain that they don't get responses back. Why should the FB girl respond if you are not going to physically be in Medellin anytime soon? " muy canson " meaning 'very tiring' . The girls don't want to be bothered with this. If you want a response, send a friend request with a message or just a message telling them when you will be available. If you are not going to be there anytime soon then wait. I have been going to Medellin for a good 5 years now and see mostly FB girls. Most of them I contact via messenger and they are not on my friends list. Why not? Because you don't need to this. I checked my FB periodically and trim down the number of contacts. I have 80 right now which means I should consider eliminating half of them..[/QUOTE]Thank you for clarifying it not being it about me, but since I am the one that asked all these questions I do have somewhat of an answer. I am planning my trip for next week and my understanding from everything I've read so far is to come prepared by creating a friend list and contacts for when you visit Medellin. I'm not at all social media savvy and I would rather not go through this process. I do not own a FB account and created one just in preparation for the trip. I am really bad at texting. When I'm going to a chica I'm trying to avoid rejection that I usually face.
I can understand where she is coming from by saying canson. They probably have so many people adding them and asking the same questions over and over again. My intention is not to bother her, but to know if she works and if I can have her as an option to plan my trip. My preference would be a place where you go and the process is as uncomplicated as possible. No prior preparation necessary. In a safe location. I'd rather not go through the whole Facebook process, but from what I've learned it is one of the most important aspects of trip preparation. If I didn't get this right correct me.
Hope this sheds some light on the why.
You said you don't add them as friends but contact them when you're there. If that is the way to go I'll do so. I want this whole thing to be as smooth as possible because as you might read from all of the above I am waaaaay nervous.
I also want to be able to live one of the great stories I read on this forum in real life. Adventures in MDE that you won't forget for the rest of your life. Good FB seems to be the key to do so no? Everyone seems to have an extensive FB booty call list for their trip to MDE.
Or is going to la isla and taking her out to the hotel and option?