Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=FilthyBeaver;2852001]It's all about their motivation and a small amount of chemistry. I met a girl and we had an amazing connection at dinner. Ended up being tye most I've ever paid and wouldn't do it again but I had a great time. She was supporting herself with no help from her parents (so she said). She needed the money and wasn't repulsed by me. Winners all around.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure what you were trying to say. Chemistry is important, for me as well. But it's not something you can easily understand from a couple of photos. My point was that the girls don't really know what they are doing, or even what do they want. And to be fully honest - I willing to make an extra effort for someone with potential to be exceptional, but those two were more or less usual young bimbos.

There are definitely fewer profiles in high col countries. Admittedly I only use seeking so maybe there's a similar nut to crack in each country but I haven't had much luck finding them. In places where pfp is legal it's just too convenient and dare I say cheap to find it. Genuine GFE from a bonified uni girl will always be the holy grail for me and I sweat that has more to do with luck than anything else, seeking is the best place to score that IMO.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2852127]This is going to come out awful, but I'm still going to say it.

This is why I don't do seeking in high COL countries like the Nordics, Germany, Austria, Belgium, etc.

The social safety net is too good. Not that there aren't girls who need the money. But not enough.

London is an exception because it's such a magnet for people of all stripes and it doesn't have the same social dynamics.

But I don't see the point of seeking where there isn't a true density of girls who really want to be on the other side of the equation. Not that there are none. I'm just talking about quantity and density.[/QUOTE]

Figured it's a Google voice number. LOL. Called from a random different number.

No answer. Perhaps, she changed her number. Perhaps, she let her subscription expire. Whatever.

Will stay silent for a while. Give another try. If nothing works, screw it. Plenty of fish in European waters.

[QUOTE=Intelligencium;2850812]Maybe something's going on in her personal life? Either something bad or something good like finding a BF. I would stay mum for a while or check to see if you can help in any way.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2851678]Argentinian women are considered to be the most liberal and beautiful in South America? Can anybody who has had and SD / SB relationship shed some light on how it compares to CDMX and Medellin scene? Asking because general impression is that Argentinian women are haughtier than their South American sisters.[/QUOTE]I was planning a trip to BA and with what I was finding was they were all wanting fairly steep allowances for a country that is in such bad shape economically.

Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2851340]The rates you paid in the past are no longer valid. $100-$125 can get you a 7-7. 5. But stunners 8+ are asking 200 USD. Top shelf girls want $250-$300+. Most importantly, 90% stick to asking rates and won't budge. I think CDMX makes more sense right now, because it is closer to the US, the food is better, and the rates have become more or less the same, so going to Colombia doesn't really make you save.[/QUOTE]I'm sorry MiamiBoy1, but are you talking about Colombia? Because, if so, your prices are completely off. I have spent around 4 months in Medellin this year and usually max out the 6 month tourist visa annually. The majority of people who are participating in the P4P market in Colombia are Colombians. No one is paying a months pay to fuck some strange, and that goes for Medellin, Bogota, Cali, or anywhere else in Colombia. Women are, however, getting quite good at fleecing foreigners who think in dollars and go to La Isla and throw 1's like a bunch of idiots thinking it's an American strip club.

But your insinuation that the previous poster's pricing ranges are no longer valid is asinine. You're welcome to pay whatever the hell you want, but posting that these prices are in any way normal in Colombia is not helpful for anyone who is looking to visit Colombia. Unless you're pulling a psyop and trying to get less people to visit Colombia for box.

[QUOTE=Intelligencium;2852555]Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.[/QUOTE]I am prone to worry too. And overprepare. But you have literally nothing to worry about.

Consider how preposterous it would be for LE. To not fish where the fish are in massage parlors, on HX, on bedpage, but to literally jump thru the hoops of setting dates with a guy on seeking to trap him.

Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2852714]I am prone to worry too. And overprepare. But you have literally nothing to worry about.

Consider how preposterous it would be for LE. To not fish where the fish are in massage parlors, on HX, on bedpage, but to literally jump thru the hoops of setting dates with a guy on seeking to trap him.

Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.[/QUOTE]Thanks! Extortion is one worry I have too. But I'm hiding my real identity well (I think). My wallet is hidden in the room, I'll make sure she leaves before I go to my car etc. Fingers crossed.

[QUOTE=Intelligencium;2852555]Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.[/QUOTE]I've done Seeking in US with over 40 girls. If you have been chatting and setting up the date LE has no time for such bullshit. And it needs to be quid pro quo "money for sex" which SA never is. I really never discuss it in person which is safest. But if you do then don't ever get as explicit as money for sex. And in the room you will not pay her till after. LE is not going to have sex with you. So no money exchanged till 100% not LE. I usually put it in an unmarked envelope under the ice bucket or phone and put it in her bag later after sex.

Short story. Don't worry.

[QUOTE=JohnS123;2852678]I'm sorry MiamiBoy1, but are you talking about Colombia? Because, if so, your prices are completely off. I have spent around 4 months in Medellin this year and usually max out the 6 month tourist visa annually. The majority of people who are participating in the P4P market in Colombia are Colombians. No one is paying a months pay to fuck some strange, and that goes for Medellin, Bogota, Cali, or anywhere else in Colombia. Women are, however, getting quite good at fleecing foreigners who think in dollars and go to La Isla and throw 1's like a bunch of idiots thinking it's an American strip club.

But your insinuation that the previous poster's pricing ranges are no longer valid is asinine. You're welcome to pay whatever the hell you want, but posting that these prices are in any way normal in Colombia is not helpful for anyone who is looking to visit Colombia. Unless you're pulling a psyop and trying to get less people to visit Colombia for box.[/QUOTE]Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.

Nothing to worry. Try meeting at a social setting. Always - before sex.

Helps weed out crazies, druggies, and cons. LE on SA. Highly unlikely.

Be prepared for underage idiots, though. In the US, parents of underage can press charges even later on. I posted about this in the past.

Bottomline. US is shitty. But I will not worry about LE on SA. Do take common sense precautions though. Like Steve said always pay after and pay discrete (money not paid hand to hand also allows for a non-transactional illusion).

[QUOTE=Intelligencium;2852555]Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2852757]Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.[/QUOTE]If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD (800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD (275,000 COP) - 140 USD (550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2852757]Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.[/QUOTE]If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD ( 800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD ( 275,000 COP) - 140 USD ( 550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2852714]
Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.[/QUOTE]These were my major concerns after meeting red flag girl. I'm still amazed she gave me my money back after she backed out. I was an idiot for going to see her (to be fair the red flags weren't waving like crazy until I was half way there) but she was so fucking hot I wanted to see her. That whole thing still blows my mind.

The main thing is just try and talk a decent amount before you meet and you can gauge the craziness.

[QUOTE=JohnS123;2852838]If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD ( 800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD ( 275,000 COP) - 140 USD ( 550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.[/QUOTE]I responded to Elvis simply because the rates he posted is what he used to pay back in the day. He has a girlfriend now, and has been in the relationship for quite some time, so he is not up to date when it comes to current rates. I don't know what you consider to be the norm or the standard. I stated the facts, because I just got back from Colombia and had been using Seeking while I was there. The rates change over time, and what used to be the norm or the standard some time ago, is no longer the norm. Like it or not, 200+ USD is what good looking girls want these days, and not for an overnight date, but for 2-3 hours max. Any major city in Latin or South America (CDMX, SP, Rio, Bogota, Buenos Aires, etc) got the same rates if you are looking for quality. Medellin is no exception. Heck, you won't even find that many 8's on Seeking in medellin because most of them are off market, traveling, etc.