Phnom Penh

After my threesome last night I wanted to keep the momentum going with two more girls today. I planned to visit the massage parlour at Paris Hotel early evening and the hostess bars near the river at night. I spent most of the afternoon on the internet before grabbing an early dinner at my hotel.

At 7pm I set off on foot for HOTEL PARIS. It took thirty minutes to find as the directions I had were poor. To get there go to Phsar Thmei market and take the busy Kampuchea Road which leads west. Online someone said that Hotel Paris is 'approximately 400 meters' down this road but I couldn't find it. I asked several tuk-tuk drivers and eventually the oldest one pointed me in the right direction. Hotel Paris is actually about 1 kilometre from the market, located on the right shortly after the large junction with street 169. It's a busy junction with large billboards.

My first impressions of Hotel Paris weren't favourable. It looked small and shabby from the outside and it was easy to see why most tuk-tuk drivers didn't know where it was. Inside a young man on reception was watching football on TV as I walked past and up the stairs. He didn't once look up. On the 1st floor is a snooker hall but it was the 2nd floor that I wanted. At the top of the stairs I heard the chatter of girls that told me I was in the right place. I turned right and entered a room in which lots of girls were sitting on chairs. It couldn't be described as a fishbowl because there was no glass window but it was the same kind of setup. I was ushered to sit on a chair in front and pick my girl.

There were 22 girls, all of whom were wearing matching pink uniforms. All of the girls were young but the selection was average. The person who described this place as 'full of 9/10s' online was obviously a giddy first-timer! Although I didn't see any outstanding candidates, there were plenty of sweet girl-next-door types. I didn't intend wasting a journey so which girl would it be? Several caught my eye but I opted for a girl in the middle of the front row because she smiled warmly whenever I looked at her. The girls either side had to elbow her to tell her she'd been picked. She looked shocked before standing up uncertainly and walking to my side.

At Hotel Paris you get a massage and then extras are negotiated afterwards between you and your girl. I assumed I'd have to pay for the massage upfront at the small cashier desk but instead the girl was handed a ticket before taking my hand and leading me to the stairs. We passed a pretty girl sat on the steps. She was wearing the same pink outfit and was a 9/10 with long curly hair and quite a hispanic face. It's amazing how often you see a stunner shortly after you've already made your choice. We climbed two flights of stairs and walked down a corridor to a large double room. An air-con unit rumbled away in the corner without cooling the air very much. The girls name was Poy and she was 26. She didn't speak much English but was a sweet girl with a warm nature.

I showered and lay on the bed, a towel wrapped around my waist. Poy remained in her pink dress as she massaged me. It wasn't the kind of token effort you sometimes get in places like this, she had skilled hands. After a while she asked me to turn over and continued her work. For 25 minutes I felt completely relaxed. Occasionally her hands accidentally brushed against my groin area and when she was massaging my thighs, I felt myself getting hard. She must have noticed the bulge that had magically appeared under the towel but she didn't say anything.

Normally when I visit a massage parlour, sex is very clearly on the menu, I don't often visit places where extras have to be negotiated afterwards. I wondered what was supposed to happen next. Would she instigate the main event or did I have to take the initiative?

As I was pondering this, she said 'finish'. She sat up and looked at me for a few moments with a shy smile, as if she was inviting me to say something. It occurred to me that maybe she was inexperienced and hadn't worked at Hotel Paris for long. Or perhaps she was shy because I was a foreigner? I gestured for her to lie next to me and she snuggled her warm body against mine.

I held her in my arms as she stroked my chest. Her hand worked its way lower and she loosened my towel before caressing my dick. After a minute she leaned up and asked 'boom boom? ' I nodded and she stood up and went for a shower. When she returned she was naked. She had lovely smooth brown skin and although her tits were small, her nipples were large. She turned the bedroom light off and lay next to me.

Whenever I visit a massage parlour I take my own condom as the ones in Asia can be small. She took it out of its wrapper and tried to roll it on to me but it didn't go on properly. She tried again without success. It was dark so I stood up and walked to the bathroom and switched the light on. She'd tried to put it on the wrong way.

There is nothing like a condom malfunction to make me lose wood. By the time I had rolled it on and lay back on the bed, I wasn't hard. We kissed and she caressed me but once a condom is on, I find it impossible to get hard again. I took it off and we continued kissing but frustratingly nothing was happening. I fingered her pussy but still nothing. A few minutes earlier my dick was rock hard but now because of the condom mishap, I couldn't get it up. Sex must have been so much easier before condoms!

We tried in vain for fifteen minutes before she apologetically told me 'the hour is up'. My heart sank. I couldn't go to a massage parlour and walk away without a fuck. That's the equivalent of not being able to score in brothel!

Poy looked guilty as if it was her fault so I gave her a hug. She had tried her best and the condom problems weren't her fault. Well, actually they were but I didn't blame her. I held her close and we chatted. She was very cute and giggly and suddenly, bizarrely, I felt myself getting hard. When I was trying to get hard nothing happened, but when I relaxed things magically came to life. She noticed and kissed me on the lips while stroking me. Soon I was ready for action.

As expected Hotel Paris's condom was very tight. She spread her legs and I eased in to her as she softly gasped. I fucked her slowly and we kissed. After a few minutes I leaned upright and she rested her ankles on my shoulders as I fucked her harder. Because of the poor air-con I soon got a sweat on, so I lay back and she rode me. She grinded her hips and locked her eyes on mine sexily. I love being rode by cute Asian girls. She had small tits but her nipples were big, so I leaned up and gave them both a suck as she continued thrusting her hips at mine. The condom was uncomfortably tight so I took it off and she finished me with a hand-job.

We got changed and I wondered how much to pay her. My research suggested that $30 is fair, plus a tip for good service. Poy had given an excellent massage and despite the condom problems, had given me 100. We'the also gone well in to the second hour so I figured that $40 would be a fair price. I handed over four crisp notes and she seemed happy enough.

I ate at one of the small restaurants opposite Heart of Darkness. This area has lots of freelancers. In an hour I saw three great girls walk past from my kerb-side vantage point. Cambodians have curvier bodies than their Thai neighbours, great news for a boob lover like me. I felt happily buzzed after a few beers and seeing pretty girls walk past had got me in the mood for more action. Initially I planned to go to the hostess bars near the river but I wasn't in the mood. I didn't have the energy to go from bar to bar, answering the same questions over and over again. You need to be in the right frame of mind to go on bar-crawls. I would visit them tomorrow night instead.

I decided that I'd find a girl in a nightclub instead. It's an easy way to get action as you don't have to spend time getting to know a girl or splashing out on lady-drinks, you just see a girl you like and go for it. Pontoon is the most popular but I decided to go to Heart of Darkness for old time sake. I visited it four years ago with a friend who didn't approve of pay-for-play, so I was on my best behaviour. Even so, I got approached by several cuties including one foxy girl who came up for air after kissing me and showed me a message on her phone. It said 'you got the money, I got the honey'.

I entered HEART OF DARKNESS just after midnight. It was free to enter. It's a small nightclub which makes it ideal for scouting for freelancers. On my last visit the available girls stood between the bar and the dance floor on the right but I didn't see any likely candidates. I sat on a stool overlooking the dance floor instead. There were 20 people dancing including two young white men I presumed to be backpackers. Most people dancing were Cambodian. The tricky part of picking up girls in nightclubs is knowing which are good girls and which are looking to hook up. It's not recommended to try and pull a hottie as her boyfriend watches! Two young Cambodian girls were dancing in front of me, completely oblivious to the attention they were getting from Cambodian guys. They were more interested in the young backpackers.

By 12. 45am the place was starting to fill up but there weren't many obvious freelancers so I decided to go to Pontoon. As I was walking out I saw several girls near the bar, so I deliberately stood next to them to take the final swigs from my bottle of beer. Within seconds I felt a tap on my shoulder. Bingo. 'Where you from? ' asked a girl in a sexy black dress. She was wearing pink lipstick and her low-cut top revealed a sizeable pair of tits. We exchanged small-talk before she led me to a dark corner. She was a great kisser with big soft lips and she loved to tease with her tongue. My cock voted yes.

It was 1am and although I wanted to visit Pontoon, I was happy with the girl. So far on this trip I'd taken lots of slim girls but this girl had plenty of curves. We agreed on a price of $25 for short-time. Before leaving I went to the toilet. I was glad I did as my face was covered in pink lipstick. A cool Cambodian guy with gelled hair found this very funny. It took two minutes to walk back to my hotel but on the pavement outside she became flustered. 'I no have I'd card' she told me, 'we go guest-house? ' I didn't like the idea so gave her a dollar for her troubles and we parted company.

Not to worry, PONTOON was just a block away. It was free to enter and I was immediately impressed. There was a swish chill-out bar as soon as I walked in and a large club to the right. The time was 1. 30am and the dance floor was crowded with people dancing to the pumping music. Dozens of Cambodian girls stood on the perimeter of the dance floor, always a good sign. I bought myself a beer (for the steep price of $3. 50) and a girl recognised me at the bar. It was the young girl I shared a beer with on my first night in Phnom Penh. She and her friend were latched on to two middle-aged men.

I looked for somewhere to sit. In nightclubs location is everything. You need to see and be seen. Between the bar and the dance floor is usually the prime spot but all of the stools were taken. I spotted an empty couch next to the dance floor so quickly claimed it. Immediately two young girls sat on the other end of the couch. At first I thought they were just on a night out but then they started glancing towards me and smiling. They leaned across to clink bottles and soon afterwards they had wriggled along the couch and we were chatting.

One was a 6/10 and was wearing the shortest skirt I have ever seen while the other was a 9/10 Vietnamese girl with light brown hair. Both girls were 21. I decided to test the water by asking what they do for jobs and their giggles gave it away. We'd only been chatting for a few minutes when one of them asked whether I'd like to have a threesome with them. They were both highly fuckable but were too businesslike and rushed. Even so, I was tempted. Then they ruined their chances by asking 'you buy us drinks? ' Had they been more relaxed I'd probably have taken them both.

I left Pontoon and remembered the pretty girl in yellow I'd seen in WALKABOUT on my first afternoon in Phnom Penh. She told me that she loved me and if she was there I would give her chance to prove it. Sadly the bar was almost empty with only five average looking girls and a sprinkling of customers. Although Walkabout is a 24 hour venue, it felt sleepy. In stark contrast Manila Bay Café would be teeming with girls at 2. 30am. I decided to go back to Heart of Darkness.

As I was walking down the street, dodging tuk-tuks parked on the pavement, a girl shouted 'hello'. It was Miss Pink Lipstick from Heart of Darkness. 'I have I'd' she said, 'follow me'. I was hypnotised by her large tits so I obediently followed. She walked me to a table outside Sorya Golden Mall where her friend was sat.

Her friend was a very obvious ladyboy. Amusingly she handed her I'd card over. I looked at the photo and the resemblance was minimal. One had straight black hair, the other had curly blond hair and their faces looked completely different. I doubted that the card would fool security at my hotel but I was desperate to get in to her knickers so was willing to try anything. We walked back to Blue Tongue and she handed over her friends I'd card to the security guard behind reception. He looked at it, then up to her, then at the card again before waving us through.

Incredibly it had worked. As we were in the lift though, something occurred to me. The girl had taken an I'd card from her ladyboy friend. Was I taking a ladyboy back to my room? She had fake tits which are usually a sign. In my room we got undressed and I watched with trepidation as she wriggled out of her black dress. She was all woman. Game on.

She gave me a spectacular blowjob. It was deep and slurpy and her pink lipstick got everywhere, adding to the sleaze. Some girls are submissive but this girl liked to take control. She jumped on to all fours and invited me to fuck her doggy-style. As I did so, she said 'harder, faster' and took my hand and placed it over her dangling tits. It was the kind of sleazy sex I wanted after all of the cute girls I'd been with so far. Variety is the spice of life.

Her blowjob skills were so good I took off the condom off and invited her to suck me again. It was a proper porn-style blow-job and when she heard me coming she leaned away and watched as I shot my load up to my neck.

She asked if she could stay all night. I was tempted but she had no I'd and I didn't think it was wise to fall asleep with an untraceable freelancer in my room. 'We fuck again in morning' she said and rubbed my cock. The thought of a 'blowjob alarm call' appealed but I decided against it. As she squeezed back in to her sexy black dress I realised that I didn't know her name. It was Jenny. She carefully applied some more pink lipstick and I gave her $25 plus a small tip before she left.

It had been a good day. I'd fucked a cutie from Paris Hotel and a sex-bomb from Heart of Darkness. Phnom Penh was delivering me the kind of variety and excitement I had hoped for.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot;1429562]It had been a good day. I'd fucked a cutie from Paris Hotel and a sex-bomb from Heart of Darkness. Phnom Penh was delivering me the kind of variety and excitement I had hoped for.[/QUOTE]Good to hear that things went well that day. Your first day back in PP in a while? Remember that some days in PP things go great, sometimes they don't go at all. YMMV big time in PP.

The "Heart" can have their music so loud that long term hearing loss is a distinct possibility. That factor has chased me out of there many a time. And it even chases out their regular clientele too and the place is sometimes empty because of it, even late at night. Until someone removes the monkey from the handle and the music is reduced to loud as to permanently deafening.

Kicking Jenny of the pink lipstick out before going to sleep was also a very good move. The way things are in PP these days, you would almost certainly have been ripped off. THe most porn-like the sex, the less trustworthy the provider, at least in PP.

You were also right to turn down the threesome offer. First, there is a law in Cambodia against debauchery. Two girls having sex with one man or even two girls in the same room while one is having sex with the man is considered debauchery and you can get into quite serious trouble for it. I am not saying that the pair you met were trying to set you up but it is a distinct possibility that they could be notifying the cops of your room number, spare key provided by the management gives them access and BINGO it is a nice payday for the PIGS. It would not be beyond the realms of possibility that the hotel porter could be the one to make the report but this would be unlikely at the Blue Tongue.

Again, my experience with a threesome in PP was a very long time ago, I think it must have been before the advent of the law on debauchery. I took two girls from Sophies (shut many years ago) back to a flea-pit hotel on the riverfront (there were none other in those days). Neither of the girls would interact and one wanted to be in the bathroom while I was doing the other. Despite their interaction in the bar earlier, the action is very different in the room.

Third, it is never easy to keep tabs on one girl, never mind two when it comes to security. And freelancers. No comeback at all.

The Paris hotel. Another very hit and miss place. The place is miles away from the river or Heart and certainly too far to walk in the rain, heat or dust. And the last time I went in a modop (motorbike taxi) , the dust almost did me in. I have had great experiences in the Paris and some of the worst too. Your pick was probably the best, someone who is not so experienced as to try to exploit you and try to hook you for even more money or someone who is so inexperienced as to be afraid to even shag you and gives you the worst hand job ever.

I hope that luck stays with you and that more great experiences come your way in good old Phnom Penh.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot;1429562]It had been a good day. I'd fucked a cutie from Paris Hotel and a sex-bomb from Heart of Darkness. Phnom Penh was delivering me the kind of variety and excitement I had hoped for.[/QUOTE]Good one, Lance.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot; 1429295]It took me five minutes to walk to LE CYRCEE from Walkabout. It's located on a quiet stretch of Street 49 near the junction with Street 130. There were few signs of activity outside. The time was 7. 15pm when I entered. I was shown to a stool next to the bar and immediately six pretty young girls surrounded me and lavished me with attention. A few of the more confident ones bombarded me with questions (where you from? What your name?) while the shyer ones stroked my arms and held my hand. The standard of girls was quite impressive.

It was a small bar with an upstairs balcony. There were six customers including a silver haired man who was chatting with a beautiful curly-haired 9/10. There were 25 girls and those that weren't with a customer were sat near the entrance. When a customer entered, available girls would swarm around them like bees around honey. I spotted a very pretty girl sat opposite the bar who was exactly my type. She was young with straight, jet-black hair but as I was admiring her, another customer walked in and she went to sit alongside him.

I had six girls surrounding me. I was tempted by a sweet girl with braces on her teeth who just stared shyly at me and didn't speak a word. But then I remembered that threesomes are available in Cyrcee. The two girls stood to my right were both cute and seemed to be good friends given the way they huddled up to each other. I offered them each a drink and the other girls dispersed.

The girls had the kind of fresh-faced innocence I like. Panha had beautiful dark skin and mesmerizing eyes while her friend Ada had a curvy body and was Vietnamese. Both girls were 21 years old and cute rather than sexy. In other words they were the type of girls I like. If I could organize a threesome with these young cuties, I'd be extremely happy. In previous trips to Asia I've had five threesomes but never with girls this young.

I bought them a cocktail each and we chatted. They were sweet girls and not at all commercial (I'm not a fan of girls talking dirty or grabbing my crotch!). I decided to try my luck. 'I pay bar-fine, two together, okay? ' I asked and they nodded eagerly. I knew that they would ask for $25 so I told them I would give them $20 each and 'a tip if you make me smile'. They laughed and accepted. I paid their bar-fines ($5 per girl) and settled my drinks bill.

The girls took a hand each and led me to a hotel over the road. A room was $5 for an hour, considerably cheaper than the short-time rooms in Siem Reap! We climbed to the fourth floor and a small, windowless room with two hard single beds. It wasn't luxurious but it did have air-con and a shower so was perfectly adequate.

We showered together. Panha was dark-skinned with small tits while Ada was curvier with enticingly firm see-cup breasts. I dried myself and lay on the bed nearest the air-con with the girls either side of me. I enjoyed leaning to my right and kissing Panha and then the other side and kissing Ada. Panha was shyer and kissed with her mouth closed but Ada was a great kisser and teased me by flicking her tongue in to my mouth. Inevitably this got me hard. The girls seemed to find this fascinating. They studied my dick closely and were clearly having a conversation about it in Cambodian before they giggled to each other.

Ada sucked me first, giving me a nice uncovered blowjob as Panha licked my nipples and kissed my chest. I lay back in ecstasy. I love the sense of anticipation that precedes a threesome. I was about to fuck two pretty young Cambodian girls.

I wanted to fuck Panha first. I put a condom on and slid in to her tight pussy. At first I grinded slowly in to her as Ada positioned herself behind me and tickled my balls, then I leaned upright and fucked Panha harder as kissed Ada over my shoulder. Sometimes threesomes are just a case of fucking one girl after another but these girls made an effort. I lay on my back and it was a great sight seeing a pretty girl like Panha riding me. She was the shyer of the two and closed her eyes tightly as she bounced up and down on me. Her nipples were erect. Ada leaned across me and let me suck her nipples before we resumed french-kissing.

I changed girls. Ada was more experienced and had the kind of body I like. I enjoyed giving her a good pounding in mish before lying back and inviting her to ride me. She was noisier than Panha, groaning loudly as she skilfully rocked her hips on mine and I grasped those lovely tits of hers. Panha lay next to me and stroked my chest as I shot my load. I pulled their warm bodies close as I got my breath back.

Although it wasn't a proper porn-style threesome with the girls kissing or going down on each other, it was a really enjoyable threesome with two pretty young girls. We showered together and I gave them a decent tip each which they were delighted with. They were lovely girls and eager to please, so deserved it. I waved them goodbye on the street and watched as they tottered on their high heels back towards the bar.

I was extremely impressed by Le Cyrcee. A girl costs $20 for an hour and you must pay $5 for her bar-fine and $3 for a mandatory lady-drink. That's just $28 for a girl which is great value considering the young girls available and the fact that threesomes are also on the menu. Incidentally, it's not compulsory you take your girl (s) to the short-time hotel over the road, you can use your hotel if you like and long-time is also available for just $40. In other words, Cyrcee has plenty of great girls who are available for cheap prices. What more could you want?

In my opinion Cyrcee is another of Asia's top sex venues, along with the likes of Manila Bay Café, Fields Avenue, Hotel Classic, Nataree, Nana Plaza, the X-houses of Sanur and the brothels of Surabaya. Later in the trip I'd be going to another place high on the list, Walking Street in Pattaya.

NOTE: this is a continuation on my diary from the Bangkok and Siem Reap threads.[/QUOTE]I agree with your assessment except to say that I find Le Cyrcee to be much better on average than Manila Bay Cafe because you are guaranteed a standard of care there. Manila Bay is freelancer territory and you don't know what you are taking home some of the time.

If I were to risk a threesome (given the laws on debauchery as I mentioned in my previous post) , I would source the girls from Le Cyrcee and take them to the hotel across the road because both establishments need your custom and are not going to do anything to jeopardize that. And at Le Cyrcee you are more likely to find a pair who will play along if not actually interact sexually.

The second last time I visited I got a gorgeous one. She looked Mexican with long wavy hair and a red dress. She also know how to make a man very happy and she had those nice curves that evolution has granted the Cambodian females. She must have been in demand but there was no rush, no hustle, no nonsense.

Even a not-so-good lay at Le Cyrcee is far better than the best that many waterfront bars can offer. As I said, you are guaranteed a standard and at a reasonable price with no bargaining. $28 short time, $40 ++ long time.

Great report Sir Lancelot. I will have to try to find these two for myself when I am in PP next week.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot; 1429295]A minibus picked me up at 7. 45am and the journey from Siem Reap down to Phnom Penh took six hours.

Despite the fact I'd only fucked two girls in Siem Reap, it had been a good diversion. Angkor what is a must-see for any self-respecting tourist so the small girlie scene in Siem Reap is an added bonus. The prices are high but you'd expect that in a tourist town. Top Town and Sok San both delivered me...[/QUOTE]

It was a blast to complete. They want to "heal" us.

[url]http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/SexHelpPhnomPenh2[/url]

I suggest everybody spends a few minutes to complete and give his thoughts in the "comments" space. That'll show those busybody NGO wankers they should mind their own fucking business.

Here are some of their dumb biaised questions :

10. Why do you think men use prostitutes? (Pick one or more)

Loneliness

Lack of intimacy

Need for love

Desire for power

Other

If other what

13. How did you respond when you were touched?

Told her / him to stop

Ignored it

Encouraged them to continue

15. How often do you have had an erotic massage?

How often do you have had an erotic massage? Weekly

Monthly

Infrequently

Never

Why not "daily"?

22. Do you feel depressed or discouraged about some aspect of your sexual behavior?

23. Have you ever sought counseling / therapy for sexual behavior you did not like?

*25. Do you think that the NGO community should actively address prostitution?

Do you think that the NGO community should actively address prostitution? Yes

No

Don't know

If Yes, How could / should they do this?

*26. Do you think that the NGO community should address demand of prostitution with the expatriate men and tourists that use prostitutes?

Do you think that the NGO community should address demand of prostitution with the expatriate men and tourists that use prostitutes? Yes

No

Don't know

If Yes, How could / should they do this?

[QUOTE=Logos; 1429773]23. Have you ever sought counseling / therapy for sexual behavior you did not like?

*25. Do you think that the NGO community should actively address prostitution?

*26. Do you think that the NGO community should address demand of prostitution with the expatriate men and tourists that use prostitutes?[/QUOTE]23: next step is opening a counselling center self funded by the mongerers: ST and LT sessions, no BF.

25: next step is taking control of ISG so that the proceeds will fund the NGO (vicious circle, but hey, I feel some of them are used to this)

26: next step is taking control of brothels, go-go's and MP and put in their own girls to work, replacing the local girls, all of a sudden the demand will disappear.

Just did it for fun. I guess it is NOT what they expected, ha ha.

[QUOTE=Simian;1429609]You were also right to turn down the threesome offer. First, there is a law in Cambodia against debauchery. Two girls having sex with one man or even two girls in the same room while one is having sex with the man is considered debauchery and you can get into quite serious trouble for it.[/QUOTE]I didn't know this but it's interesting to know for future. Have you heard of any cases of set-ups? It's not hard to imagine a scenerio in which two girls and a corrupt police officer might be working together to take bribes from tourists.

[QUOTE=Simian;1429609]The Paris hotel. Another very hit and miss place. The place is miles away from the river or Heart and certainly too far to walk in the rain, heat or dust.[/QUOTE]I actually did walk there from the Heart of Darkness area. It's not too far, about 1km from Phsar Thmei market along a busy road. It had gone dark but was still very humid. I needed a can of coke to cool down before I entered!

[QUOTE=Pinche Gringo;1429675]Great report Sir Lancelot. I will have to try to find these two for myself when I am in PP next week.[/QUOTE]Thank you. Check out the bars on the riverside too. I'm just about to post a report.

Good luck!

I had ten days left of my trip and wanted to spend the last week in Pattaya, Thailand's 'Sin City'. The easiest way to get there from Phnom Penh is to fly to Bangkok and then take a two hour trip by taxi or bus. I decided on a different route. I booked a bus ticket down to Sihanoukville ($7) on Cambodia's south coast, where I'd relax on the beach for a few days and explore its small pay-for-play scene. Then I'd head across the border to Pattaya.

That meant I had one final night in Phnom Penh. I wanted to visit the hostess bars concentrated on Streets 104, 108 and 136. My plan was to visit all three streets in one night, visiting two or three bars in each. That would mean lots of bars, lots of drinking and lots of girls to talk to.

It promised to be a long night so I saved my energy by having a relaxing afternoon. I ate well at a roadside diner before walking to STREET 136. It took 15 minutes to walk there from Walkabout and I arrived at 7. 30pm. It's a lively street with lots of restaurants and girlie bars. It was busy with tourists due to its proximity to the river where lots of the more expensive hotels are located. I slowly walked up and down the street to get a taste. There are about 20 bars with names like Moonshine, One3Six. 69 Bar and Las Vegas. Each bar had five or six girls sat outside. Most were average although I did some younger and prettier girls outside Lemon and Oasis.

I decided to start at CANDY, supposedly the largest bar with the most girls. It's located on a corner and split over two storeys. There weren't many customers except for a few older gents playing Connect 4 with girls at the bar. I bought a drink and went for a walk around. There were about 40 girls and the standard wasn't too inspiring. I went upstairs and saw a few pretty ones playing pool with customers. I stood on the balcony overlooking the street and noticed a curtained area in the corner with a seat inside. I wondered whether it was a 'naughty boys corner' like some of the Bangkok gogo bars.

I walked back downstairs. Most girls were near the entrance so I sat on a stool nearby. Within seconds three girls surrounded me and began bombarding me with the usual questions. All three were probably in their 30s and average looking. The oldest didn't speak a word of English so massaged my shoulders. Soon after two younger girls came to my table who were more the type I was looking for. Both were 7/10's with long curly hair and lovely dark skin.

Whenever I have lots of attention from lots of girls I play a game. I tell the girls that I will buy a drink for the girl who can guess closest to my age. The girls always enjoy playing and it causes lots of excitement. That said, I nearly threw my drink over the first girl who guessed 45!

I let each girl have a guess and they each gave it some thought before answering. 35? 32? 28? 33? 'One of you has got it right' I said and the girls leaned closer, expectantly. 'It's you' I said and pointed to the girl who guessed 35. Usually I fix it so the prettiest girl wins even if they guess incorrectly but in this case she was the closest. She shrieked with laughter and I bought her a cocktail for $3. 25 (my Angkor beer cost $2). Normally this is the cue for the losing girls to leave but they all stayed at my table and the oldest girl continued massaging my shoulders. Have they never heard of the expression 'three's a crowd' (or five, six, seven)?

The winners name was Nee and she had a pretty girl-next-door look. She had a sweet smile and her red dress revealed a slim body with tempting curves. We chatted for ten minutes before it was time for me to leave. I had lots of bars to visit so needed to keep moving. She was a nice girl so I told her 'maybe I see you later'. I gave a small tip to the older girl who massaged my shoulders which she seemed surprised by. The bar-fine in Candy is $10 and it's up to you to negotiate with the girl. Figures online start from $25 for short-time.

I decided to try LEMON next as it had the prettiest selection of girls sat outside. It was a narrow bar lined with stools with a pool table at the end. I was the only customer. I sat down and was immediately surrounded by six girls and I was impressed by the quality. All were young and the girl who did most of the talking had a sexy confidence about her and a glint in her eye. Her long curly hair was tied in a ponytail.

There was one standout option, a petite young girl in a yellow top. She was a 10/10 and I couldn't take my eyes off her. She didn't speak, she just smiled cutely. I let her win my 'guess my age' game and bought her drink.

Her name was Alena and she was 19 years old. We chatted and she affectionately cuddled up to me. At one point she stroked my cheek and told me how handsome I was. I always take compliments from bar-girls with a pinch of salt but it's always nice to hear! Despite the fact that she spoke limited English, we sparked. She seemed to like me and I definitely liked her. We had a game of pool and each time I bent down to take a shot with my back to the bar, the curly-haired girl pinched my bum. When I turned around she looked away innocently.

I would happily have paid Alena's bar-fine but it was too early and I wanted to visit more bars. It was my last night in Phnom Penh after all. Apparently some girls in these hostess bars are picky with which customers they go with so I asked Alena if she would like to go with me. She smiled and nodded. I told her that I had to meet a friend but I hoped to see her again later.

I was impressed with Lemon. There were only 10 girls but four were strong contenders and Alena was the kind of girl I fantasise about meeting in Asia. My beer cost $1. 50 and the lady-drink was $3. If you take a girl the bar-fine is $10.

I decided to walk to STREET 104 as supposedly it is where the best looking girls work. It took ten minutes to walk there along the riverfront. It's a smaller street and doesn't have the same lively atmosphere as Street 136. There were no girls sat outside, just lots of eager tuk-tuk drivers beneath an array of neon bar-signs for bars like Vixens, One Zero Four, Oscars and Zanzibar.

AIRFORCE is meant to have the prettiest girls so I walked in. It was a cosy bar but unlike Lemon it was very busy. All of the tables were taken so I sat on a stool at the end of the bar where immediately I was pounced upon by five girls. The oldest massaged my shoulders again as the other four fired questions at me. They were all young and one particularly caught my eye. She was a 9/10 with blond curly hair, pale skin and a distinctive face with 'chipmunk cheeks'. She was the flirtiest too and her eyes twinkled when she talked. I let her win 'guess my age' and bought her a $3 cocktail.

She stood between my knees and we chatted. Her name was Mon and I was surprised when she told me that she was 24 as she looked younger. She had a nice body and was the type I would happily bar-fine in the blink of an eye on any other night. She was great fun too. We played a game of 'stares' and she kissed me on the lips to try and make me laugh. Her cheeky personality suggested she'd be a good performer in the bedroom.

I bought a drink for the older girl who was massaging my shoulders too. Normally I limit myself to one lady-drink for every drink I have but I sensed that she didn't get many bought for her and she was doing a good job. Her face lit up and she ordered a strawberry cocktail in a Martini glass. This gesture served a duel purpose because it told Mon that I am generous, a quality bar-girls look for in a man!

According to reports online, lots of girls in Airforce say that they won't go with customers but Mon nodded when I asked whether she accepted bar-fines.

In my opinion she was the prettiest girl in the bar so I wonder whether their availability boils down to personal choice. I'm 37 and when I go out I like to make an effort. On this night I was wearing my smartest long-sleeved shirt and I'd splashed aftershave on too, which Asian girls seem to think is the height of luxury ('you smell nice' she told me). I also smile a lot and like have fun with the girls, which increases the chances of a girl wanting to go with me. My modus operandi is to try and make a girl like me rather than make it too much like a business transaction and I suppose it's in bars like this where my approach pays off. Men who make no effort with their appearance, who bluntly ask 'do you do anal? ', aren't likely to succeed with pretty girls who know there will be another customer just around the corner.

I was impressed by Airforce. It had about 30 girls, a fair percentage of whom were lookers. I watched as a cute young spinner tried her luck with an ex-pat twice her size and at one point a young girl walked past with an average face but big wobbly tits. Airforce has a good atmosphere with lots of customers and lots of laughter. The bar-fine is $7.

I liked Mon but I wanted to see more bars so for the second time in the night I walked away from a pretty girl. I cursed to myself. Why had I waited until my last night in Phnom Penh to visit these bars? I was having lots of fun and was meeting some stunning girls available for cheap prices.

Another bar that receives good mentions is ROSE BAR, across the street from Airforce. I entered at 10. 15pm and it was packed with customers and thick with cigarette smoke. It was another narrow bar and most of the tables were taken by single men surrounded by girls. There were probably 40 girls and some were very easy on the eye. I sat at a free table and within seconds five girls surrounded me. One was young and lots of fun. She was only a 2/10 but she kept staring at me and when I made a point of staring back, she told me 'I love you', much to the other girls amusement. I gave her a hug and told her 'we marry tomorrow, okay? ' which was greeted by an ear-piercing scream. The other girls found this very funny.

The prettiest girl looked like a young Lucy Lu and had an elegance about her. I bought her a $3 lady-drink but sadly she hardly spoke a word of English so conversation soon dried up. Sat next to her was a fresh-faced young girl who seemed new to the business. She was very shy and just stared at me the whole time like I was the first white man she'd ever seen. I figured she might need a confidence boost so, feeling generous, I bought her a lady-drink before I left. She was surprised and looked at the other girl for instruction of what to do. I told her it had been lovely to meet her and left.

It was 11pm. Originally I had hoped to visit the bars on Street 108 (located on the intersection with Street 51) but I decided that the time had come to take a girl. Normally I bar-fine later in the night but I had two standout options and I knew that if I left it too long they might get bar-fined by someone else. Alena in particular was very special and I didn't want to miss out. I headed back to Street 136. 'Please still be there' I prayed as I approached Lemon.

She wasn't sat outside so I walked in. I couldn't see Alena and when a girl I recognised from earlier saw me, she told me that Alena had left as she was 'feeling sick'. This is usually bar-girl speak for 'getting laid by another customer'. I ordered a beer to drown my sorrows and got served by a very cute girl who I hadn't seen earlier. She had a breathtaking face and when she found out that I was looking for Alena she chimed 'she my sister! '. Wow, they have some good genes in that family!

Just as I was debating whether it was okay to bar-fine the hot sister of a girl I liked, Alena walked in to the bar. She wasn't wearing the same pretty outfit as earlier, she was wearing jeans and a T-shirt. She gave me a hug but she wasn't as bubbly as earlier. 'Not feeling well' she said and patted her stomach. I felt guilty for cynically thinking that she had been bar-fined! She must have been resting somewhere nearby and one of the girls from Lemon must have told her that I'd returned. I gave her a few of the sickness tablets I always carry with me at all times whenever I'm in Asia.

She rested her head on my shoulder and at one point I thought she had fallen asleep. I suspected I wouldn't be getting any action with her tonight so I decided to finish my beer and return to Airforce to bar-fine Mon. I gulped down the last few mouthfuls prompting Alena to ask 'what you do now? '. I explained to her that I really liked her but if she was ill she needed to rest. 'I okay now' she replied before staring at me with big dark eyes. I asked her whether she'd like to go back to my hotel with me and she nodded. 'Short-time okay? ' she asked. That suited me fine.

Knowing how much to pay was tricky. Online suggests that the going rate for short-time on Street 136 is anything between $25 and $50 depending on the girl, your negotiating skills and the time of night. Alena was one of the youngest, prettiest girls I had seen so I thought I'd be wasting time if I went in too low. I suggested $30 and she accepted straight away.

I paid the $10 bar-fine with my drinks bill and we jumped in to the back of a tuk-tuk outside the bar. We waved to the other girls from Lemon as we drove away. Alena held my hand on the short journey and seemed to be back to her bubbly self.

Back in my room we lay on the bed but disappointingly she kissed with her mouth clothed. 'You wan massage? ' she asked. I took my shirt off and she massaged my shoulders. It was relaxing so I pretended to snore. I gave her a back massage in return, insisting that she took her top off to make it easier. I firmly rubbed her velvety smooth skin and perhaps she sensed my mounting excitement because she wriggled from beneath me and said 'I go shower now'.

After showering, she lay naked on the bed next to me. She had a very petite body and although her tits were small, she had firm bullet-like nipples. We kissed again, this time our hands wandering over each other's body. I put a condom on and she tightened her face as I slid in to her. 'You big, slowly' she said, her eyes tightly closed. I wondered whether I was her first barang. Her pussy was tight so I slowly eased in and out. She started kissing me passionately with her tongue and groaned softly when I kissed her on the neck. It was the kind of girlfriend sex I crave.

I lay on my back and invited her to ride me. Alena just sat there, giggled and shook her head. I suggested doggy but she lay down on her back and spread her legs invitingly. Perhaps because she had been ill earlier she just wanted to lie back and let me do the work? More likely she was inexperienced with foreigners I thought. I slid back in to her and before long I was hammering in to her pussy as she dug her fingernails in to my back and groaned loudly.

On the down-side it was inexperienced sex in just one position. That's the price I pay for targeting innocent girls who look fresh to the business! But I wasn't complaining. Here I was fucking a gorgeous 19 year old girl-of-my-dreams for just $30. Sometimes you have to pinch yourself when you're in Asia. I came in a shuddering climax and we showered again.

Before she left, I asked for some photos. She obliged by pulling lots of silly faces and jumping up and down on the bed making funny poses. I don't think I've met a girl with such an infectious personality. At one point she pushed the bedside table against a picture on the wall and stood in front of it, impersonating the dancing apsara. After she put her shoes back on, I said 'I give you tip'. As a joke I handed her a 100 riel note, the lowest value note in my wallet and she thumped me on the arm. I gave her $10 instead. It was very generous considering she had offered me a limited menu but I genuinely believed that she had been ill and I appreciated her efforts in coming with me. She kissed me on the cheek and gave me a big hug before she left. I waved her goodbye and watched as she walked away down the corridor. What a fantastic girl.

The time was 1am and I considered going to Airforce to bar-fine Mon. But bar-crawls are exhausting. It's not just the heat and the alcohol, it's the endless questions. Also I wasn't guaranteed seeing Mon again and if she was still there, chances were she'd be with another customer. Besides, I'm a big fan of leaving places on the right note and Alena was a great way to end my time in Phnom Penh.

The bus to Sihanoukville was picking me up early next morning so I did some packing and went to bed.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot; 1429562]At Hotel Paris you get a massage and then extras are negotiated afterwards between you and your girl. I assumed I'd have to pay for the massage upfront at the small cashier desk but instead the girl was handed a ticket before taking my hand and leading me to the stairs. We passed a pretty girl sat on the steps. She was wearing the same pink outfit and was a 9/10 with long curly hair and quite a hispanic face. It's amazing how often you see a stunner shortly after you've already made your choice. We climbed two flights of stairs and walked down a corridor to a large double room. An air-con unit rumbled away in the corner without cooling the air very much. The girls name was Poy and she was 26. She didn't speak much English but was a sweet girl with a warm nature.

We got changed and I wondered how much to pay her. My research suggested that $30 is fair, plus a tip for good service. Poy had given an excellent massage and despite the condom problems, had given me 100. We'the also gone well in to the second hour so I figured that $40 would be a fair price. I handed over four crisp notes and she seemed happy enough.[/QUOTE]I have been following your reports thru SEA. Saw Paris girl and searched thru the reports for her. She is really really cute and I'm glad you were able to sample her wares. You are having just too much fun for one guy. :)

Love the reports for their depth and completeness. Good luck and see you in the Pat's thread.

Slim

[QUOTE=Nvslim; 1430964]I have been following your reports thru SEA. Saw Paris girl and searched thru the reports for her. She is really really cute and I'm glad you were able to sample her wares. You are having just too much fun for one guy. .

Love the reports for their depth and completeness. Good luck and see you in the Pat's thread.

Slim[/QUOTE]Thanks for the compliments and I'm glad you're enjoying my diary.

Paris had some nice girls but they were sweet, smily 'girl-next-door' types, not the stunning types you sometimes get in the Thai massage parlours. I had no problem with that because as you'll know from my diary, I like the sweet and innocent types who love to smile. Paris had quite a lot of girls and they were all young. I was the only customer at the time. I was pleased with my choice of girl but as we were walking to the room I saw a very pretty girl sat on the steps. It's amazing how often you see a great girl just after you've comitted to another girl!

As I said in my diary, if you go Paris, take your own condom. I did but due to the unfortunate condom malfunction, I had to use one of Hotel Paris's, which was quite tight.

Incidentally, just a quick THANK YOU to everyone who patiently answered my questions on this forum before my trip. It was largely thanks to you guys that I was able to have such an enjoyable time. I will certainly go back to Phnom Penh.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot; 1429941]I didn't know this but it's interesting to know for future. Have you heard of any cases of set-ups? It's not hard to imagine a scenerio in which two girls and a corrupt police officer might be working together to take bribes from tourists.

I actually did walk there from the Heart of Darkness area. It's not too far, about 1km from Phsar Thmei market along a busy road. It had gone dark but was still very humid. I needed a can of coke to cool down before I entered!

Thank you. Check out the bars on the riverside too. I'm just about to post a report.

Good luck![/QUOTE]Yes, I did hear of such police setups regarding the old debauchery law scam. Hard to parse exactly what transpires behind the scenes and who is responsible for connecting the dots for the cops in such cases. Sometimes it is not the girls. One foreigner guy who I trust told me about a case where he brought two girls back to his place. The cops were there about 30 minutes later but the second girl was not in the same room with the first girl and the guy. So no big payout for them that night.

The Khmer cops are not going to scam locals who are connected; nor will they try the scam on foreigner residents who are well-connected. They prefer the tourist as their mark.

THat road to the Paris Hotel was all dug up a few years ago with huge amounts of dust in the dry season and hard to navigate on foot. I always prefer to take transport to my mongering destination of choice as I am getting older and I prefer to keep my energy for the main event and to reduce the grumpy factor.

I read your account of the girl from the bar. 136 street, I think. Granted that I was not there but I would strongly suspect that she had done ST with a customer and was not ill, as she claimed. The girls who go with customers in those bars prefer to do ST always except at the end of the night when there are no other opportunities. It allows them to get more cash per night, especially earlier in the evening. She may not have been as innocent as she let on, preferring mish to get you off quickly rather than give you too much action given that she was on the job at least one time earlier in the evening and she may have been planning to hook another before closing time. Also, many of the girls in those bars sleep upstairs. She arriving from elsewhere in her street clothes would strongly indicate a prior ST arrangement.

The question is: did she speak some English. The more fluent the English spoken by the girls in those bars, the longer they have been in the bar and the more sexually experienced they are and the more experienced they are at playing / manipulating the foreigner. Granted the mongering gods were smiling on you and the girl had some charm about her and at the end of the day you had overall a very entertaining experience. But remove some of the girl's charm or throw in the fact that the girl "suddenly and unexpectedly" starts her period while only wanting to do mish in the hope that you will finish before you realise. Then the experience becomes much more of an irritant and a let-down, as I can vouch.

What you really did get right was how you approached the bars, by going in and scoping out the place first, not buying everyone a drink but having a good method of restricting ladydrinks to the girl you wanted by getting them to guess your age (I tried to get them to guess my penis size but with the usual disastrous results!) and checking that the chosen girl would barfine. The worst way to approach such bars is with the aim of getting laid. They will stick you with a pretty girl who does ladydrinks only but who does not understand English well enough to be able to tell you. Hmmmm. Go with your attitude of I'm having a good time, buy one ladydrink for the girl you choose after spending time checking them out without saying no to anyone. Of course, if you just refuse to buy ladydrinks while looking around, that can be held against you too and more games can be played. Your humorous way of choosing the girl was just right.

But then, I find myself getting grumpy with all this nonsense, especially when I remember the way things were not so long ago when some guys met such great girls in bars that they ended up marrying them. All bargirls back then went with customers. It was part of the job description. Even the mamasans went with customers if the customer wanted.

Don't get me wrong. If a girl does not want to go with a customer, that is her prerogative and I am all in favor of providers having a get-out clause if they run up against a customer who is nasty or unpleasant in some way. In the past, they usually said that they were having their period or were sick in some way. But bars providing girls who can hardly speak a word of English and only do ladydrinks is just a way of pumping money out of tourists.

There now does not seem to be any benefit to paying a barfine either. If she rips you off, steals or scams you, you can complain but the bar will do nothing (or most of them will do nothing). If you see a girl you like, chances are she only does ladydrinks. I find that irritating.

For all these reasons, I tend to stay away from these bars except to have an occasional drink and watch the strange stuff that happens. That is why when in Phnom Penh I tend to frequent onsite places (massage with FS, one onsite bar and Le Cycee). If I have a secure place for my valuables and I am in the mood for a different experience, I may go for a freelancer who will be happy with LT, if I so choose, and I can work on the chemistry. And if I buy a FL a drink, it is usually not the crazy inflated prices as in those girlie bars.

[QUOTE=Simian;1431177]I read your account of the girl from the bar. 136 street, I think. Granted that I was not there but I would strongly suspect that she had done ST with a customer and was not ill, as she claimed.[/QUOTE]You may be right as about an hour and a half passed between my trips to Lemon, certainly enough time to squeeze in a quick short-time. If she did, good on her! But on the whole I believe her story, purely because earlier in the night she was so bubbly and lively but when I returned she actually looked quite ill and a bit sorry for herself and when I offered her some tablets she gratefully accepted. In fact there was such a marked difference in her demeanour I was set to leave Lemon and go back to Airport. She spoke very little English, to such a degree a waitress had to act as translator when I was asking about her bar-fine. My instinct is that she was new to business.

[QUOTE=Simian;1431177]What you really did get right was how you approached the bars, by going in and scoping out the place first, and checking that the chosen girl would barfine.[/QUOTE]All three girls I asked said that they accepted bar-fines. I should point out that I'm 36, athletic, pale-skinned and blue-eyed and generally I get along very well with the girls but I think if you present yourself well and are prepared to have a bit of fun with the girl, she is far more likely to accept your bar-fine request than if you dress scruffily and weigh in with 'do you do anal? ' inside the first five minutes. My impresion of these bars, like you say, is that they're great places to go and have a bit of fun and then just see what happens. You need to have a beer bar mentality rather than a gogo bar mentality.

[QUOTE=Simian;1431177]If I have a secure place for my valuables and I am in the mood for a different experience, I may go for a freelancer who will be happy with LT, if I so choose, and I can work on the chemistry. And if I buy a FL a drink, it is usually not the crazy inflated prices as in those girlie bars.[/QUOTE]I saw a lot of freelancers around the Golden Sorya Mall / Heart of Darkness area. When I return I will definitely spend time exploring the freelance possibilities because some of them were a high standard.

[QUOTE=Sir Lancelot; 1431375]I should point out that I'm 36, athletic, pale-skinned and blue-eyed and generally I get along very well with the girls but I think if you present yourself well and are prepared to have a bit of fun with the girl, she is far more likely to accept your bar-fine request than if you dress scruffily and weigh in with 'do you do anal? ' inside the first five minutes. My impresion of these bars, like you say, is that they're great places to go and have a bit of fun and then just see what happens. You need to have a beer bar mentality rather than a gogo bar mentality.

I saw a lot of freelancers around the Golden Sorya Mall / Heart of Darkness area. When I return I will definitely spend time exploring the freelance possibilities because some of them were a high standard.[/QUOTE]I agree that if you look good, I. E. In good shape, dress well and respect others, are not a drunk nor a drug addict, you are not going to have any problems with the women. I am not Lancelot's age, those days have been over a long time ago but I work out regularly at a health club and am in a very good shape and mostly pass for around 40 years old though I am not. I started keeping in shape since I was a little kid. I also dress well, designer clothes. I treat everyone with respect, including working girls. Also, I like to talk and start a conversation and laugh a bit. I no longer drink much at all. Those days have been over a long time ago. So, the women are always there. It takes two to tango.

Lancelot, the Golden Sorya Mall / Heart of Darkness area is known as street 51 area. Pontoon night club is there too. I had no problems bringing freelancers back to the room every night. Not one stole anything. You have to make the room WG safe. There must be a safe in the room. Leave just what you want to give the girl somewhere. Look your valuables either in your suitcases or safe and put the keys in the safe. Just be monger smart and have fun. Life is good.