Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

I agree with Sammon. There are two main categories of girl on DIA. Those looking for relationships and those looking for fun (money). The dividing line between the two is quite blurred and the relationship seekers can often become money seekers if circumstances dictate. I always skirt around the sex / money question waiting for the girl to mention it as they usually do. However I make clear by my profile spiel and the tone of the online / SMS chat, that I'm not interested in a serious thing and am only looking for a little fun and most girls know this when they contact me. I have not yet met a girl from DIA who has arrived expecting a friendly platonic tete a tete. They come expecting sex. There can be no misunderstanding and so far with the many DIA girls that I have met, there has not been any.

Don't believe the nonsense girls put in their profile blurb. Crap about not wanting to play and only looking for serious relationships. I was supposed to be meeting a girl yesterday (I couldn't make it) who had all this in her pen picture and more and from her picture (and her FB photos) looked as if butter wouldn't melt in her mouth. During a text chat she asked me what kind of girls I was looking for in DIA. I replied 'just casual friends but I mostly find girls who want tip in return for sex. LOL'. She immediately replied 'ok I try? LOL'. I have had several similar conversations with other supposedly 'good' girls.

DIA is a game for adults and the girls know the rules far better than we do. Do not be afraid of upsetting their fine girly sensibilities by mentioning jiggy-jiggy. They are probably just waiting for you to stop talking meaningless shit and get to the point!

Thank you X. Much appreciated!

Barba.

MrE wrote: Hello, beautiful. What do you study? I will be in Cebu soon. Maybe I can meet you and you can show me your city.

Mg wrote: 4 hrs. 10 mins ago.

Ok sir I will be your servant please call if you arrived in cebu my no is 09. Thank you sir I really need money I don't have job and I didn't finished stuies so if you arrived I will be your servant or tourist guide thank you hope see you soon tc!

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational; 1234159]MrE wrote: Hello, beautiful. What do you study? I will be in Cebu soon. Maybe I can meet you and you can show me your city.

Mg wrote: 4 hrs. 10 mins ago.

Ok sir I will be your servant please call if you arrived in cebu my no is 09. Thank you sir I really need money I don't have job and I didn't finished stuies so if you arrived I will be your servant or tourist guide thank you hope see you soon tc![/QUOTE]I hope you have a nice maid uniform to pack LOL. She sounds keen to impress.

[QUOTE=Jb Life; 1233902]Greetings,

This is my first post in the Philippines board. I live in South Korea and the ladies here do the trick for me but vacation time is almost here and I'd rather monger someplace a bit north of 0degrees C. After lurking and reading all of the seniors members posts all I can say is thank you. I am trying to get into DiA, I've had a few chats and cam viewings with some girls. One seemed promising, she worked at a bar was willing to show me around in the day / come over after work at night, a looker in my opinion. Then today I messaged her and all hell broke loose. Some one (not her I presume) is on her yahoo and is telling me this sob story about how she is actually his girlfriend, her baby daddy took her daughter away, she is currently 6 months pregnant. I was floored but at the same time skeptical. I've seen her on cam and even though she is sitting down she sitting on the floor and I can see her whole body. Maybe Filipinas don't show until very late or she is pregnant with the worlds smallest baby. I don't know! Has anyone had anything like this happen?

Second I went back to the DiA well. Not to be put off by the minor set back I turned my attention to the Angeles area and ladies there. Found a girl added her on YM we chat a bit and go on cam. She's chatting with other people I can see, talking on the phone say it's her sister, seems overall uninterested in what we are doing. This is quite the opposite of how most of my conversations have gone. I mention I may be coming through the area and ask her if she can guide me and she says sure."Great, foot in the door" I think. Then when I start asking about things to do she starts with the "up to you"s if it was up to my we be locked in a room for a couple of days but I obviously can't just say that! (Right?) But at every turn she was like 'up to you' I guess what I am asking here as someone who has RTFF this and others, but no boots on the ground exp."up to you" is a phrase all Filipinas use working and not? Or might she have some experience in this field and be testing me.

Sorry for being questions I hope to add something more to this board than I can in the SK bored, that scene is a bit played out.

Cheers![/QUOTE]Your first situation sounds like someone opened her YM either because she forgot to log out or one of her "friends" and thought they would just "have a laugh". Angeles is one of the more difficult areas to find DIA fun in the Phils. DIA is always a long shot for the girls as maybe only 2-3% of the people they chat too will show up and meet. If a pretty girl is in a place like AC looking to find a foreigner it's generally far easier to simply walk around town in a short skirt and she will get approached within 5 minutes so why bother with the net cafe route? That said you can fimd some OK DIA girls in AC but its not as easy as Manila and Cebu. As has been said many times before on this board the best approach with DIA is just to be upfront and clear about what you are hoping to achieve. Otherwise you risk wasting huge amounts of time taking girls and their freinds to jolly bees etc with no pay off.

Hi JB,"up to you" is the national motto in the PI. Good luck, man. I used to be stationed at Osan but got transferred to Clark in the 80s. Been in love with the PI ever since.

[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt; 1234117]I agree with Sammon. There are two main categories of girl on DIA. Those looking for relationships and those looking for fun (money). The dividing line between the two is quite blurred and the relationship seekers can often become money seekers if circumstances dictate. I always skirt around the sex / money question waiting for the girl to mention it as they usually do. However I make clear by my profile spiel and the tone of the online / SMS chat, that I'm not interested in a serious thing and am only looking for a little fun and most girls know this when they contact me. I have not yet met a girl from DIA who has arrived expecting a friendly platonic tete a tete. They come expecting sex. There can be no misunderstanding and so far with the many DIA girls that I have met, there has not been any.

Don't believe the nonsense girls put in their profile blurb. Crap about not wanting to play and only looking for serious relationships. I was supposed to be meeting a girl yesterday (I couldn't make it) who had all this in her pen picture and more and from her picture (and her FB photos) looked as if butter wouldn't melt in her mouth. During a text chat she asked me what kind of girls I was looking for in DIA. I replied 'just casual friends but I mostly find girls who want tip in return for sex. LOL'. She immediately replied 'ok I try? LOL'. I have had several similar conversations with other supposedly 'good' girls.

DIA is a game for adults and the girls know the rules far better than we do. Do not be afraid of upsetting their fine girly sensibilities by mentioning jiggy-jiggy. They are probably just waiting for you to stop talking meaningless shit and get to the point![/QUOTE]Totally agree with everything Cunning Stunt says. I'll also just add that there's no harm in cutting to the chase and asking for exactly what you're looking for. If your target denies being interested / available for a sexy hook-up or seems like too much of a drama mama, simply move on to the next. Always better to be straightforward and honest in my opinion. Just saves time and reduces the risk of any misunderstanding later on.

Earlier this week, I started chatting with this Pinay I met on DIA. I had attempted to connect with her before my last trip to PI in early fall and couldn't quite get her online to close the deal before my trip. This week, I chatted her up when I saw her online. This time she was available immediately for a chat on cam. Whaoh! What a looker! I love her face, her complexion and the way she dressed. She was tastefully dressed and sexy as hell (she gave me an instant woody-which cannot be bad for the girl I am with). Her voice was great. Her English was very much above all other Pinays I've chatted with online.

However, her story don't quite match observable facts. She says that she is about to turn 25 (I think, in fact she is going to be 25 today now I think of it). She says that she is a single mother of a one and half year old boy. Her boy lives with her parents in the province. The father of her baby died of a heart attack (hmmm, I am thinking that heart attacks must be very common in PI as this is about the fourth or fifth DIA girl I chatted with this year who told me their boyfriends died of it). When I pressed her for when her boyfriend died, she said six months ago. Ok. Sorry to hear about your loss lady. But, she didn't seem all that emotional about the death. Hmmm, red flag number one. She did the jiggy with this boy less than 2. 5 years ago. Could her heart have grown that cold in that short amount of time?

She doesn't have a job. She is looking for a job. Also, she is looking for LTR with a foreigner (specifically) that may turn into a potential marriage. Ok. She is living in an apartment with one of her friends and her American husband (some dude from Pennsylvania). She was alone in the room. I asked her if she plays with both of her friend and her American husband. She didn't seem to understand the question. Ok, no big deal. Either she didn't really understand or she pretended not to. She is using her friend's computer to chat (more on this later).

Yesterday, she ask me if I have met other girls on DIA. Yes. Met them in person? Yes. Paid them?"What? No, I didn't pay them." She asked me why. Strange question. For a brief moment, I contemplated pursuing her line of questioning to see if she will come out and ask me for money. Now, I have a suspicion that she is skilled scammer. Hmmm. But, instead I said "because they liked me and it wasn't that kind of relationship." Is it my inner freud wanting her to turn out to be real here? I want her to be real 'cause I do want to bone her for real (scammer or not). Our chat sessions are generally very upbeat and happy. I can see myself with her for real. She looks great, dresses, speaks and carries herself well. She likes to sing. She sang to me during one of our chats.

Anyway, I was still wondering about her question about paying my previous PI girls. Therefore, I asked her if she ever worked in a bar. She said "what? No. I am not that kind of girl." Ok. I dropped it and we moved on to other things.

In all our chats she does not seem to have any issues getting on the computer whenever I ask her to. Red flag number two. Her saying that she is using her friends computer is likely not true. [I think I will ask her more questions about her friends next time we chat. ]

Judging by her clothes, hair and make-up, I would suspect that she is getting money on a regular basis-probably from other online friends. Red flag number three. Perhaps, her friend (and friend's husband) have provided her with money to maintain herself well. Perhaps she is a real pro. She might soon tell me some sob story for money. I plan to explore these areas in coming weeks. Too bad I won't be able to travel to PI for another month or two to bang her, pay her and find out in person. I hope I can get to spend time with this beauty before she disappears into the ether.

What Mr. E said about not chatting with these girls until right before a trip is so true. This girl will probably loose interest in me if I don't give her a firm date for my trip. She needs money and it comes through in very subtle ways.

BL2K

[QUOTE=Blacklisted2010;1234361]Yesterday, she ask me if I have met other girls on DIA. Yes. Met them in person? Yes. Paid them?"What? No, I didn't pay them."[/QUOTE]Instead of answering the last question I would have asked a question of my own."Why? Do you want me to (Do I need to) pay you?"

The following is from the DIA profile of someone who sent me a message (she is 40 and I have no particular interest in her so can't be bothered to write and ask) :

"my hobbies are swimming, dancing, badminton, ice skate and firing. As of now I'm busy with my aerobics class"

I can't figure out what "firing" is supposed to be. I assume it is a typo, mispronunciation, or misspelling but maybe she likes making fires or firing guns?

[QUOTE=JPF; 1234411]The following is from the DIA profile of someone who sent me a message (she is 40 and I have no particular interest in her so can't be bothered to write and ask) :

"my hobbies are swimming, dancing, badminton, ice skate and firing. As of now I'm busy with my aerobics class"

I can't figure out what "firing" is supposed to be. I assume it is a typo, mispronunciation, or misspelling but maybe she likes making fires or firing guns?[/QUOTE]What's her DIA name I'll ask her for you? Does her profile really say "ice skate"? I'll ask about that also.

Good point. I should've. I am sure time will tell. If she is legit, there won't be a need. And if it comes up again, I'll be better prepared.

Thanks,

BL.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1234372]Instead of answering the last question I would have asked a question of my own."Why? Do you want me to (Do I need to) pay you?"[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JPF; 1234411]The following is from the DIA profile of someone who sent me a message (she is 40 and I have no particular interest in her so can't be bothered to write and ask) :

"my hobbies are swimming, dancing, badminton, ice skate and firing. As of now I'm busy with my aerobics class"

I can't figure out what "firing" is supposed to be. I assume it is a typo, mispronunciation, or misspelling but maybe she likes making fires or firing guns?[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Punter 127;1234468]What's her DIA name I'll ask her for you? Does her profile really say "ice skate"? I'll ask about that also.[/QUOTE]Her hobbies seem fairly diverse for a woman in the Philippines, but not unusual for someone with better than a middle-class upbringing. MOA in Manila does have a large ice rink and many kids can be seen daily trying it out. Some are pretty good and if you are lucky enough to be in the mall when the more experienced figure skaters have practice, they can put on a good show.

No idea what 'firing' could be. It's worth noting she did spell the other words correctly and that leads me to think she possibly just cut and pasted another persons profile description. Common practice for girls to copy a friend or relatives profile info or someone she thought had a better description without even thinking about it.

Why not send her a message and ask her direct. With a few messages exchanged back and forth you can tell if she is for real or all bola2.

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 1234482]Her hobbies seem fairly diverse for a woman in the Philippines, but not unusual for someone with better than a middle-class upbringing. MOA in Manila does have a large ice rink and many kids can be seen daily trying it out. Some are pretty good and if you are lucky enough to be in the mall when the more experienced figure skaters have practice, they can put on a good show.

No idea what 'firing' could be. It's worth noting she did spell the other words correctly and that leads me to think she possibly just cut and pasted another persons profile description. Common practice for girls to copy a friend or relatives profile info or someone she thought had a better description without even thinking about it.

Why not send her a message and ask her direct. With a few messages exchanged back and forth you can tell if she is for real or all bola2.[/QUOTE]Live and learn as they say, I didn't know they had an ice rink in Manila. But that could be because I don't like Manila and avoid it as much as possible. JPF implies she's to old, which 40 is old for Pinay, but I would be willing to 'chat her' just so I could find out about 'firing', and hey old gals like a little bola bola sometimes too.

Bl2k sounds like a scammer I would say has a few guys sending her money. Some girls like her give free sex so enjoy