New Delhi

And what if one aint into SWs? And is more into something a little more upmarket? :)

[QUOTE=Aqua26]Well you can read the forum and figure out where the hot spots are, they have been posted often. Then you go there and try your luck in picking up women.

Cheers[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Daft Fuzz]And what if one aint into SWs? And is more into something a little more upmarket? :)[/QUOTE]I've never posted on ISG about my upmarket experiences because they've usually been set up by friends (so the networking and contacts info isn't mine) but I know, broadly, how it works and other than the quality of merchandise the game is quite the same.

The upmarket scene is not hard to enter. Read what's written in these forums and go out and explore. Go with a friend if you're hesitant to try on your own.

If I were you DF, I'd go to clubs and look objectively at who's there, and who they're with. Almost as a rule, a working girl is careful with her money, so try to go to a particular club on its ladies night. Go early. Look for girls ordering soft drinks or coke themselves and switching to alcohol when a guy is buying.

Look for girls either alone or just with other girlfriends. Look for mismatched couples - a fat balding guy or an older guy or a foreign guy, with a young pretty girl who's touchy-feely.

Over a period of a few weeks, you'll start recognizing some girls that are regular and who match the characteristics above.

Look for someone making eye contact with you. Especially in a place like Delhi where social circles tend to be closed, if you're in a public space and a female you don't know is making eye contact with you and smiling there's a good chance she's professional, or at the very least, interested in something. Either way you're a winner.

Over the years I've acquired an eye for a working girl and SW or upmarket, the signs are more or less the same. Whenever I'm out at a club or a pub if I set my mind to it I can usually tell who the working girls are and who's scoping them.

Short of being introduced to the circuit through someone (from here or otherwise), the only way to get plugged in (pun intended!) is to get out there and start observing/exploring. Be warned that it's not exact science. You may get lucky on your first try, you may have to go back a few times, you may have to go back a lot of times.

The convenient thing about the upmarket prostitute is that she'll usually introduce you to her friends as well, so once you're in, your network will spread, depending on, primarily, how much you want it to.

All things considered though, you can't start till you start. Good luck!

[b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread.[/blue]

Aurangzeb,

Great report and very well put. All this is common sense thinking when you are out there hunting. And it is true any where in the world. For the sake of folks who are not familiar with the Delhi Landscape could someone post a list of bars/clubs that are good hunting grounds. Aqua posted some several months ago. It would be nice to get a similar list thats updated.

Thanks,

Need

[QUOTE=Aurangzeb]Go with a friend if you're hesitant to try on your own.
[/QUOTE]You could take me under ur wing and show me the ropes. I'd be quite the willing understudy! :P.

If any of you are in Gurgaon and don't mind the SW/cheap *****s, then the rickshaw wallah is your friend. There is definitely prostitution going on in Gurgaon. I was offered pussy by a rickshaw guy. I refused it, I don't do the SW thing. Didn't ask him where or how much..but now I'm thinking. May be I'll get a HJ. Probably the safest and cheapest. I'll report on what I find.

N.B: sorry about my rant in my last post. I still think, seniors here should help new comers out, especially since it's so hard to get into the inner circles here in India. It was a piece of cake where I live(US of A, bay area).

Dear fellow monger,

Always remember. It pays to share. Kindly share your contacts in pvt with the seniors. You would always get good leads in return.

Regards

Charlie

Mate the onus of sharing does not fall only on the seniors. What about the newbies? What about the 7 post guys? If you check the forum you will be surprised at how many guys just cooly shoot off a post telling us to send them the contact on their personal email or pm. And what happens if, by any chance, we do send off the contact to their pm? They dont even bother to write an FR about their experience.

Isn't it just natural curtesy to write an FR once you get the contact from some generous forum member?

Instead we see this guy, who got the contact from us, peddling [b] that[/b] contact in exchange for another contact. He does not care that the contact was given to him by a senior and, by rights, he should perhaps ask the senior's permission before passing on the contact.

I have passed on contacts to guys in the past. The result? They use the contact, have fun and then when they are in the mood for a change they post on the forum inviting others to send them contacts in return for a contact that they got from me. Without even bothering to ask me if I needed a secretary to pass on my contacts.

Just had to get that off my chest. Now I feel a bit better.

JSF


[QUOTE=Hindu Stani]If any of you are in Gurgaon and don't mind the SW/cheap *****s, then the rickshaw wallah is your friend. There is definitely prostitution going on in Gurgaon. I was offered pussy by a rickshaw guy. I refused it, I don't do the SW thing. Didn't ask him where or how much..but now I'm thinking. May be I'll get a HJ. Probably the safest and cheapest. I'll report on what I find.

N.B: sorry about my rant in my last post. I still think, seniors here should help new comers out, especially since it's so hard to get into the inner circles here in India. It was a piece of cake where I live(US of A, bay area).[/QUOTE]

I do agree with the seniors. There are many in here who exploiting the forum But, why give your leads out to people who haven't been regular? The 7-post wonder that JSF was talkin about is a good example. Be a little discerning and I guess we would be able to get rid of the "slam-bam thank-you sir" kinds.

I guess I say this cause I'm willing to persevere and wait till I get noticed by some benefactor. But this strategy has obviously not worked. All I have got is advice and sanctimony. No one willing to give me any contacts unless I somehow magically present them with one myself. (Where does a guy start??).

So, I suppose the smarter men of the species directly get to the contact-begging (requesting??) mode. The child that cries certainly does get fed first. At this rate, am gonna starve to death ! :). All i'm saying is, Seniors, choose who you give ur leads out to. Gratitude is not a currency many deal in over here.

Persevering,

DF ("",)

[QUOTE=Daft Fuzz]

I guess I say this cause I'm willing to persevere and wait till I get noticed by some benefactor. But this strategy has obviously not worked. All I have got is advice and sanctimony. No one willing to give me any contacts unless I somehow magically present them with one myself. (Where does a guy start??).


Persevering,

DF ("",)[/QUOTE]Not trying to lecture but It would be nice if you posted your experiences. Even bad experiences will be greatly appreciated if you point out to the forum members what to avoid. I know it might sound selfish asking you ( this you is not[b] you[/b] in particular just a general you all) to post your bad experiences so that others benefit from your bad experience by avoiding going with a particular WG or MP etc.

What would be great is to name the names of those who rip you off or give a lousy service. Once you start contributing you will get recognition as a fellow forum member and will find it easier to get contacts from seniors.

I remember when I came to Delhi in 2004 I got a lot of pm from the senior regulars on the forum advising me on what to do and what not to do, where to go etc. Got a few contacts too. But unfortunately got caught up in beaurocratic jumble and did not get a chance to indulge. So there were no reports at that time. I thank all the forum members(you know who you are) who gave me contacts at that time. And my offer of reciprocal contacts still stands. Whenever you guys are in my part of the world (dubai currently, Mumbai maybe in a few months) give me a shout and It will be my pleasure to pass on what contacts I have.

I once asked a fellow monger from Srilanka for a contact in mumbai. And he promptly gave me the contact. He does not know me from Adam. But I guess he has seen the two or perhaps three FRs that I have posted so far on the forum and decided I was an alright guy. Thanks buddy.

It did turn into a lecture. Sorry for that guys.

Justfun

Hi fellows,

I should say I do agree with JSF. Just to avoid the fly by night mongers, the seniors do not willfully give the contact numbers to any tom, dick or harry. Excuse the Pun, but some of our experinces in the forum have not been good.

One needs to gradually grow as a monger and share your experiences, good or bad with others. You may not give out personal names, but at least try to understand that the reason we all visit the forum is to share new ideas and places and females for entertainment and fun. All of us have been new to the forum when we join but just by posting our experiences, we gain confidence of the senior mongers who thereafter accept us as one of them. In my opinion it is the best way as we all can access the messages written by any particular member on the forum.

Have a great time and share it with others. Enjoy WSG.

Charlie

I agreed with JSF and Chico, giving contact to unknown people is not at all good for anyone. It may not only bring the SW in the limelight and open to all sort of threats with strangers calling her at odd hours asking for service. There are many people who ask for contacts so bluntly without realising that we have developed contacts after lot of groundwork. These ladies would never like to disclose their identity, no matter how much they like you. Moreover, it is not advisable for you Daff, may be it's a trap for you and you might get ripped off.

It's better to use your own common sense before giving any contact to anyone. I don't want to offend anyone but just being on this Board/Forum, doesn't entitle anyone to ask for contact as his right but he must establish his reputation before asking for contacts.

Hindustani and I are plannin to hook up and check out the scene in Gurgaon. Let's see what happens. I'd love to have an FR to post. Just never had the opportunity in Del.

JSF, Chico agree with everything you had to say.

JF/ChickLu/Chico and others

Absolutely agree with the three of you. I monger all over the world and have shared contacts often. The challenge sometimes is that our own contacts keep changing.

I had a really bad experience a few months ago of sharing the contact of WG in India with someone in this forum who has had only 6 posts. Seemed like a decent sort who asked politely and offered to reicprocate in the furture and also more importantly post an FR. So I guess everything needed to give someone the benefit of th doubt

Guess what happened, when I ran into the lady in question a week ago, she informed she was being harassed by a guy after she met him the first time. When she politely informed him that she didnt do some stuff, he actually hit her and threatened to have her kicked out of India (she is from nepal). The name she gave me for the guy matched 100% with the guy I gave the lead to. She has gotten so scared that she has left town and doesnt know when she will come back. Felt really bad for her and of course there goes one of my contacts.

So newcomers and periodic visitors, dont be surprised if we regulars are wary of sharing until you have earned your stripes. For me it will be a long time before I give my leads to anyone new anytime soon.

:)

[QUOTE=Daft Fuzz]Hindustani and I are plannin to hook up and check out the scene in Gurgaon. Let's see what happens.[/QUOTE]Be sure to let us know how it turns out - whichever way it does! We're rooting for ya!

Aurangzeb

[QUOTE=Daft Fuzz]You could take me under ur wing and show me the ropes. I'd be quite the willing understudy! :P.[/QUOTE]Hey I'd love to man, but I've just got too much to lose in the off-chance that someone recognizes me. I've often wanted to monger with someone (I think it'd be a blast) but for personal reasons, I'm forced to do my mongering in total anonymity OR, on the very rare occassion, with time trusted friends that I know are completely safe.

Let me also say, for the record, that you're probably the best 'junior' member that I've seen in this forurm - if I had contacts to pass on, I'd give them to you. The only 'contacts' I have are the couple of SWs that I use from time to time and I've done my best (for everyone here) to pass that information on by way of descriptions, rates, and photographs. The upmarket experiences I've had, as I've said before, were set up by (said) friends, so I don't have those contacts.

Stick with it. You'll do well.

-Aurangzeb