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[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2118136]Although Filipinas are very unreliable and untrustworthy, they expect foreigners to be dependable and transparent.[/QUOTE]So true. And quite a dichotomy: Unreliable and untrustworthy, yet the quickest to drop her panty. Nothing makes sense, yet I like it there.
Me and my buddy Jim were best friends but he was little older then me. Jim was around 48, divorced and 2 grown up kids in US. Suddenly one day we decided we want to visit Philippines to have a good times. Now As for me, I been to Philippines a lot of times, since 2001 and I was very well aware of how things works. We first landed in Manila, and went straight to our rented condo.
We had a lot of fun in bars, pick up girls from streets, online, tinder, our dicks were about to fall off Sometimes we have 4 to 6 girls in our room in a day. Good times.
On the other hand Jim one day went to mall and met someone, she was around 30, no kids and very very gorgeous. They exchanged numbers, and same day she was in our room. According to her she was a nurse and seems to be very nice girl. They had sex, slept together and Jim would not let her go. I said Jim, "Let her go, their are thousands other girls waiting". He said no Marie is going with us everywhere and I am only fucking her. Anyway I said whatever Jim. Jim and Marie were like peas and pie. She would wash his feet at night, massage him and put him to sleep, cry cry cry and say " Jim you are my angel". I never met anyone like you Jim I love you, I will die without you etc. Etccccc.
My fear became real and Jim is in Love with her, and I told him. Once you leave Philippines you leave history behind and forget. Do not fall in love or believe someone say I love you. This was his first time in Philippines.
Anyway we returned to Kentucky, and Jim would talk, text, sent her gift, money and etc all the time. I told Jim, stop this shit, are you crazy? How many thousands time I hear I love you from Pinoy, and you fall in love with her.
Well, its good to be in love and be happy. One day Jim called me, he is flying to Philippines to marry her, bring her to Kentucky and live happy life forever. I begged him, told him not to do it.
To cut the story short, he went to Philippines married her, filed K1 visa for her, and 6 months later she was here in Kentucky. I went for his wedding and wished him the best of luck.
A year and half later, one day Jim called me, come to Jefferson Country Jail and release me, so I went to jail, and paid his bond and released him. He was arrested for domestic violence. And I took him to my home, he said things were perfect till she got her green card, Marie start working in Nursing home and in Hospital 7 days a week and I would hardly see her, and the money she would earn sent all to his family or hide. This went on for months till I sat down with her, and tell her what is going on? She said, I have 5 brothers, 2 sisters, father, mother, uncle and disable nephew to support.
Jim Said "I didn't bring you to America for that, I thought your family was financially okay". She said, no but I got to help them.
They started argument everyday, Marie had a friend in San Diego who showed her trick to call police, and you will be free from your husband, Marie had protective orders against him, and then she filed for divorced.
So Jim story ended, I usually never write in bold words but I will write now " PLEASE DO NOT BRING PHILIPPINE HERE IN USA" Keep them in Philippines and you will be treated like a king. If you bring Pinoy in US, you will lose control.
Philippines is my favorite country, I love the people, food and women But never bring them in US, or fall in love.
Dear friend,
It's good to be have love, its okay to love her Nothing wrong wit that. But remember my advice I visited Philippines for 18 years. I can't recall how many girls loved me, wrote poems sent me gifts. This is why I love Philippines, guy like me, who was many times turned down by middle aged, considered just below average American women.
And here in Philippines I am treated like Jesus. Its feel good to be in Philippines, have fun, enjoy and leave. And come back for some more.
Remember the golden rules of Philippines: 1- Never bring her to United States no matter what. 2- Do not get her pregnant.
If you fallow this 2 rules, you will really enjoy. Yes you can be in love, whatsoever but remember I told you 2 rules.
[QUOTE=Montanaland;2116795]I was lucky enough to visit the Philippines last September and I met a lovely local girl off of tinder (see Angeles report) She along with the other freebie I met through tinder were really clingy. This sweetheart of a girl even sent me a handmade box for my birthday. We skype almost everyday and I guess we are in a relationship. She is middle-class since her and her family own a parts store in the city, but throughout our months of communication she keeps placing herself here (USA) and in our house. Etc. Etc. She even posts love poems / sayings constantly on her facebook.
We were together for 2 days. But she insists on waiting for me and she communicates with me multiple times a day. She is 28 and still lives with mom / dad, 3 siblings. Is she trying to set the hook in getting to the USA or is she really in love? What do I do?[/QUOTE]
Holy shit! But I imagine there are a lot of foregone conclusions like this from other foolhardies. I rest my case.
[QUOTE=MohdirFan82;2118345]Me and my buddy Jim were best friends but he was little older then me. Jim was around 48, divorced and 2 grown up kids in US. Suddenly one day we decided we want to visit Philippines to have a good times. Now As for me, I been to Philippines a lot of times, since 2001 and I was very well aware of how things works. We first landed in Manila, and went straight to our rented condo.
We had a lot of fun in bars, pick up girls from streets, online, tinder, our dicks were about to fall off Sometimes we have 4 to 6 girls in our room in a day. Good times.
On the other hand Jim one day went to mall and met someone, she was around 30, no kids and very very gorgeous. They exchanged numbers, and same day she was in our room. According to her she was a nurse and seems to be very nice girl. They had sex, slept together and Jim would not let her go. I said Jim, "Let her go, their are thousands other girls waiting". He said no Marie is going with us everywhere and I am only fucking her. Anyway I said whatever Jim. Jim and Marie were like peas and pie. She would wash his feet at night, massage him and put him to sleep, cry cry cry and say " Jim you are my angel". I never met anyone like you Jim I love you, I will die without you etc. Etccccc..[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MohdirFan82;2118350]Dear friend,
It's good to be have love, its okay to love her Nothing wrong wit that. But remember my advice I visited Philippines for 18 years. I can't recall how many girls loved me, wrote poems sent me gifts. This is why I love Philippines, guy like me, who was many times turned down by middle aged, considered just below average American women.
And here in Philippines I am treated like Jesus. Its feel good to be in Philippines, have fun, enjoy and leave. And come back for some more.
Remember the golden rules of Philippines: 1- Never bring her to United States no matter what. 2- Do not get her pregnant.
If you fallow this 2 rules, you will really enjoy. Yes you can be in love, whatsoever but remember I told you 2 rules.[/QUOTE]Excellent advice. I hope he follows it.
[QUOTE=MohdirFan82;2118350]Remember the golden rules of Philippines: 1- Never bring her to United States no matter what. 2- Do not get her pregnant. If you fallow this 2 rules, you will really enjoy. Yes you can be in love, whatsoever but remember I told you 2 rules.[/QUOTE]I live in a city of about 250,000. The local Filipino-American association has a little over 200 member families. At one time I was active in the organization and got to know many of the members. Approximately a quarter of the families were built around couples in which the husband was American and the wife Filipina. Most of these had kids, most of the kids were in their teens, and a few had raised their mixed race kids into adulthood.
Over the eight years of my involvement with the organization I knew of two families which seemed to experience some sort of abuse. In one a caucasian husband was often verbally abusive to his wife; since it often appeared in public at association events it was hard to miss. I ran into them recently in a local Walmart and was surprised at how much more amiable they seemed than in the past. They've been together about a dozen years.
In the other relationship a young African-American man was alledgedly abusing his Filipina fiancee, who had been in the states less than a month. She reported to other women in the association that he was abusing her physically and forcing her into sex several times daily against her will. She did not report the situation to authorities, but local association members helped raise enough money for a return flight to the Philippines.
So the families to which I am referring constitute a sample of more than 40 families, and all but two of these appear from the outside to be stable family units. I have found that the bamboo grapevine prevails in Filipino-American communities just as it does in Philippine communities, so when families are in uproar it's unlikely to remain a secret.
Cases like the one you describe attract attention, but are they representative? I too know of two negative cases, but I also know of more than 40 cases that do not appear to have resulted in disaster. Moreover, there were detectable warnings that your friend ignored. So, as succinct, elegant, and easy to remember as your two rules are, can you really say they're based on generalizable evidence?
I am considering two other possible explanations: a) our local authorities know about the lethality of Filipina-American marriages and are putting something in the water supply as an antidote; or b) unbeknownst to non-Filipiinos, my local Fil-Am association has put out advance notice that "we accept only happy families. ".
[QUOTE=SoapySmith;2118487]I live in a city of about 250,000. The local Filipino-American association has a little over 200 member families. At one time I was active in the organization and got to know many of the members. Approximately a quarter of the families were built around couples in which the husband was American and the wife Filipina. Most of these had kids, most of the kids were in their teens, and a few had raised their mixed race kids into adulthood.
Over the eight years of my involvement with the organization I knew of two families which seemed to experience some sort of abuse. In one a caucasian husband was often verbally abusive to his wife; since it often appeared in public at association events it was hard to miss. I ran into them recently in a local Walmart and was surprised at how much more amiable they seemed than in the past. They've been together about a dozen years.
In the other relationship a young African-American man was alledgedly abusing his Filipina fiancee, who had been in the states less than a month. She reported to other women in the association that he was abusing her physically and forcing her into sex several times daily against her will. She did not report the situation to authorities, but local association members helped raise enough money for a return flight to the Philippines.
So the families to which I am referring constitute a sample of more than 40 families, and all but two of these appear from the outside to be stable family units. I have found that the bamboo grapevine prevails in Filipino-American communities just as it does in Philippine communities, so when families are in uproar it's unlikely to remain a secret.
Cases like the one you describe attract attention, but are they representative? I too know of two negative cases, but I also know of more than 40 cases that do not appear to have resulted in disaster. Moreover, there were detectable warnings that your friend ignored. So, as succinct, elegant, and easy to remember as your two rules are, can you really say they're based on generalizable evidence?
I am considering two other possible explanations: a) our local authorities know about the lethality of Filipina-American marriages and are putting something in the water supply as an antidote; or b) unbeknownst to non-Filipiinos, my local Fil-Am association has put out advance notice that "we accept only happy families. ".[/QUOTE]Flawed comparison. These are Kentuckians to begin with! All heresay again about Fil-Am failed marriages. I believe there are more successful ones than failed ones.
Someone would be an idiot to not think the Pinay wife would not help her family and to not budget accordingly.
SS thanks for the real story.
Well the girl normally is marrying guys much older than themselves, for financial stability (incl's money transfers to her mum and dad).
The guy marries for young willing sex.
Not enough, for a long term relationship.
Its the old story: "Why buy a book, when you can join the library" And the Phils library is a very big library indeed. Phils. Spoiled for choice (variety) , for life, and at half the cost.
[QUOTE=Dg8787;2118494]Flawed comparison. These are Kentuckians to begin with! All heresay again about Fil-Am failed marriages. I believe there are more successful ones than failed ones.
Someone would be an idiot to not think the Pinay wife would not help her family and to not budget accordingly.
SS thanks for the real story.[/QUOTE]I think the comparison is flawed. Of course I don't know the basis of the relationship of the 40 couples mentioned, but I'm guessing that they weren't based on spending a mere two days together. I've been happily committed to the same woman here for 16+ years, and it's been the best relationship of my life, but we did not make a commitment to each other after two days. I'm friendly with dozens of foreigners here in Davao who have been married / involved with the same woman for lengthy periods, but again, these relationships evolved normally, over time, much as they would in the West.
GE.
[QUOTE=MohdirFan82;2118345]Me and my buddy Jim were best friends but he was little older then me. Jim was around 48, divorced and 2 grown up kids in US. Suddenly one day we decided we want to visit Philippines to have a good times. Now As for me, I been to Philippines a lot of times, since 2001 and I was very well aware of how things works. We first landed in Manila, and went straight to our rented condo.
We had a lot of fun in bars, pick up girls from streets, online, tinder, our dicks were about to fall off Sometimes we have 4 to 6 girls in our room in a day. Good times.
On the other hand Jim one day went to mall and met someone, she was around 30, no kids and very very gorgeous. They exchanged numbers, and same day she was in our room. According to her she was a nurse and seems to be very nice girl..[/QUOTE]MohdirFan82,
Thanks for sharing. You did all you could to help your friend Jim, without infringing on his right to make his own decisions no matter how stupid. As the saying goes, there is no fool like an old fool. After a divorce, many men make bad relationship decisions, as they go through a rebound phase in a subconscious attempt to plug the hole left in their lives. Predatory women can tune into this vulnerability and exploit it by playing the role of the "loving" partner. Marie had Jim in a thrall, and he refused to heed your warnings. He fell victim to his neediness and ego. Jim was not thinking with a sober mind otherwise, he would have realize that Marie was doing some rather corny acting when she washed his feet and dried it with her hair, weeping all the while and calling him an angel. LOL!
Perhaps, you feel guilty about taking Jim to the Philippines to monger seeing how it all went wrong for him. You are not to blame. You were more than a good friend to him, bailing him out of jail when Marie had him locked up for a session with Fleece Johnson. Maybe, you should have left him in there a bit longer just to be sure that he learned his lesson. Many other old fools with follow in his foolish footsteps with the full encouragement of those hoping to fuck an imported Filipina on the rather large and growing aftermarket. Much like Jim, they will not listen until it is too late. LOL!
Marie is making good undeclared income at the nursing home giving blowjobs to the elderly men there in return for cash and inclusion in their wills. With a nice gig like that it is no wonder that she works 7 nights each week. Once she cleans out Jim and takes his house, she will be living the American dream. Marie will have the full support of most American women and men, as Jim committed the ultimate sin of marrying a woman 18 years younger than him. Therefore, he is a qualified pervert and had it coming as far as they are concerned.
Maybe, the coming immigration reforms that intend to make the system merit-based and end chain migration might make it harder for men to make fools of themselves. Until then, there will be many others like Jim. Interestingly, in the Philippines, they would never allow a foreigner to do such a thing to a Filipino. However, Jim can expect no such support from fellow Americans.
I am back in Bangkok, perhaps where I belong. I am staying in touch via Line with the Burgos "massage" girl who did provide a GFE every time I was with her. A week ago she hit me up for a "loan" as it is slow and Christmas is coming. When she asked I did not cut all ties as I enjoy her when we are focused on her business. I just explained that I never do that because there are so many women and I am not a bank. We got past that and jokes on Line continue. One topic is I am trying to get her to rim me. She is laughing but is not going for it. Last night when she got past the greeting part she wrote that she is at home because "we have typhoon now". I expressed my surprise and eventually we were back to sex talk again. I then told her that I would soon be off to the blow job bar where lady rims me with HJ. No response. I add that this time I am taking 2 and one will rim me while the other blows me. No response. Before I headed out I looked up Manila weather and saw that all was well with a chance of light rain and a light breeze blowing. I guess she gave up on what was intended to be another round of asking for money to be sent to her. Or I broke her heart as she thought she was the only one.
[QUOTE=Crazy4Thai;2118583]I am back ......................[/QUOTE]I never give them contact info. Pain in the neck. Face to face, pussy to penis. That's it!
[QUOTE=Crazy4Thai;2118583] because "we have typhoon now". I expressed my surprise and eventually we were back to sex talk again. I then told her that I would soon be off to the blow job bar where lady rims me with HJ. No response. I add that this time I am taking 2 and one will rim me while the other blows me. No response. Before I headed out I looked up Manila weather and saw that all was well with a chance of light rain and a light breeze blowing. I guess she gave up on what was intended to be another round of asking for money to be sent to her. Or I broke her heart as she thought she was the only one.[/QUOTE]I've had one girl hitting me up for various things over the past week. Yesterday's line was parent's house destroyed in the typhoon. I guess these lines must work on someone.
BD.
[QUOTE=SoapySmith;2118487]I live in a city of about 250,000. The local Filipino-American association has a little over 200 member families. At one time I was active in the organization and got to know many of the members. Approximately a quarter of the families were built around couples in which the husband was American and the wife Filipina. [/QUOTE]Just wondering what the other 75% of the families was built around. Divorced couples?
I have Pinoy girl friend for 12 years, she is the best thing. From 12 years we had up and downs. But in the end we settle out own problems and not even one time the police knock on my door to punish me. It doesn't happen in US, you can even get arrested and punished for asking your wife for sex, let alone domestic issues.
My advice applies to me and people who think they like to be in control. Simply you stay men in Philippines, if you have issue with women you replace her with better one. It doesn't happen in US, if pay thousands to get rid of girl who dearly in love with and now she is Americanised and act like women in West which try to escape and ran to Philippines.
If you have a women in Phillipines, treat her right, be good to her. And when you have issue that can't be resolved, it's easy to replace.
[QUOTE=Mogwai;2118678]Just wondering what the other 75% of the families was built around. Divorced couples?[/QUOTE]