Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Ehunter]Sometimes you find a girl that turns you on so much your forced to go over budget. Then when she turns into a dud in the sack it is understandable how you may feel sleighed. That is the risk you take though when you go over budget. So I would not call it her overcharging as much as myself overpaying.[/QUOTE]Well put. But good sex is not worth haggling over 500 pesos, that's why I love my regulars. I actually plan my trips around when they have periods. Blood anywhere condoms, sheets, clothes is a sex killer for me. The advantage I have is that I'm not an infrequent visitor.

Patience is my ally because I already have good sex partners. So I don't have to do meet and fuck now sessions. If I see something I like I switch it up and do something different. Maybe a day date to walk cabarette beach or a ride to the fort on the Malecon. I want her to believe I'm a keeper. It puts her in a position that she wants to prove herself to you.

But I don't romance street walkers only girls who feel they are worth something special.

The once a year guy that does a weekend, I feel for you. It's a crap shoot. Buy her a couple drinks. Your looking for a vibe that she is happy to be there with you. One of the tells to look for is if she is impatient with you. Make her wait, buy a couple more drinks. I don't care how fine she is you are in control of this. Size her up as she is sizeing you up. Is she preoccupied with her phone(novio, babysitter, amigas), is she watching your money when you buy drinks etc. Let your hand casually rest on her leg. These preliminaries mean nothing when you get in bed but atleast you were in control initially.

[QUOTE=Ehunter]Sometimes you find a girl that turns you on so much your forced to go over budget. Then when she turns into a dud in the sack it is understandable how you may feel sleighed. That is the risk you take though when you go over budget. So I would not call it her overcharging as much as myself overpaying.[/QUOTE]Down there in 2 weeks. Mind posting her pic(if you have it) to a void the disapointment.

Thanks

Went on my first trip to DR in February and I have to say WOW!

Stayed at the infamous Bb girls were lovely and met other members off this forum.

Visited soo many places and different towns have to say for 1.

Once you get over the stares you get from the locals its nothing but fun and good times.

The beach at sosua have to say its a freelancer paradise.

Soo many girls were the price range is from FREE-2000 Road.

Alot of females willing to drop the panties for free depending on your talking skill but thats if you plan to hit and leave

Trust me I know I got out of there before the request for sometin was made.

But be on top of your game in Sosua.

Even for girls that willi g to give it up just for a good time.

LOL I currently have 1 stalker calling me non stop.

[QUOTE=Da Kid Infa]Went on my first trip to DR in February and I have to say WOW!

Stayed at the infamous Bb girls were lovely and met other members off this forum.

Visited soo many places and different towns have to say for 1.

Once you get over the stares you get from the locals its nothing but fun and good times.

The beach at sosua have to say its a freelancer paradise.

Soo many girls were the price range is from FREE-2000 Road.

Alot of females willing to drop the panties for free depending on your talking skill but thats if you plan to hit and leave

Trust me I know I got out of there before the request for sometin was made.

But be on top of your game in Sosua.

Even for girls that willi g to give it up just for a good time.

LOL I currently have 1 stalker calling me non stop.[/QUOTE]For every bad expierience it's five good expieriences.I love your energy and confidence,but watch out sir.That stalker is going to say her baby is in the hospital and can you help.Then she will say she needs a life saving operation.Then she will say if you dont help her she will have to trick,and it's your fault.You know you fucked up when western union gives you that gold card.Hopefully you will think about this post before you accept it.

[QUOTE=Mr Gogo]Then she will say if you dont help her she will have to trick,and it's your fault.You know you fucked up when western union gives you that gold card.[/QUOTE]
I have to admit that I would have never seen "I'll have to trick and it's your fault" coming, cause I'd be like "wait a minute...weren't you already trick'in when I met you?" lol! This is one of the reasons I do not exchange emails with chicas because I don't want to wake up one day and find myself standing in line at Western Union asking myself "how the fuck did I end up here?"

QUESTION FOR VETS AT THIS:

How do you deal with the issue of keeping in contact with your favorita but at the same time avoid the sob story B.S.? Do you purposely not check your email (the one you set up specifically for this) until about a few weeks before coming back? Or is the best thing to do is just to get their email and not give them yours? Naturally they may feel ignored either way and may decide not to respond to you once you do finally initiate contact.

So what would be a "delicate balance"?

[QUOTE=SavePros321]I have to admit that I would have never seen "I'll have to trick and it's your fault" coming, cause I'd be like "wait a minute...weren't you already trick'in when I met you?" lol! This is one of the reasons I do not exchange emails with chicas because I don't want to wake up one day and find myself standing in line at Western Union asking myself "how the fuck did I end up here?"

QUESTION FOR VETS AT THIS:

How do you deal with the issue of keeping in contact with your favorita but at the same time avoid the sob story B.S.? Do you purposely not check your email (the one you set up specifically for this) until about a few weeks before coming back? Or is the best thing to do is just to get their email and not give them yours? Naturally they may feel ignored either way and may decide not to respond to you once you do finally initiate contact.

So what would be a "delicate balance"?[/QUOTE]It all depends on your mongering style. In my last 3 trips iv'e had 7 girls(3 regulars, 4 strays). My man Sabor does seven in a weekend. So if your goal is a high kill rate, why do you need to backtrack? Some guys just want that new trophy.

I stay in touch with my regulars but don't send money. They know when I'm there I will be fair. We never discuss money. But they know I'm there often so they know its steady money.

To answer your question on" how to stay in touch and avoid the bullshit", that's impossible initially. They have to try you to see if they can get away with it. But after you repeatedly cry broke, this will stop and they will concentrate on your next visit.

Is there a "delicate balance"to maintain contact? Good question.

Most women I know in the Dr don't have personal computers. They usually go to the internet cafes.

I live alone, so I'm constantly getting"I miss you"text messages from my 3 regulars. Plus the once a month phone call to check my visiting dates. But if I had a wife at home and could only have contact via e-mail, everything relies on her getting to a computer. So to answer your question the "delicate balance"is for you to get her number and call her(use number block). As you said she is your favorita.

[QUOTE=SavePros321]How do you deal with the issue of keeping in contact with your favorita but at the same time avoid the sob story B.S.? Do you purposely not check your email (the one you set up specifically for this) until about a few weeks before coming back? Or is the best thing to do is just to get their email and not give them yours? Naturally they may feel ignored either way and may decide not to respond to you once you do finally initiate contact.[/QUOTE]I usually don't keep in contact with hookers. Most of them breeze in and breeze out anyway. Then the ones that stay usually become run down after a while. I have not been going to Sosua long. I think maybe just over 3 years. But I have seen stars turn to shit. This includes getting big ass beer bellies, letting their hair go, etc. Plus I am a guy of variety. I like to try different ones. Hell, if I wanted to fuck the same chick I would just get ONE steady girlfriend. Then to have to pay to fuck the same one? Nahhh. There are too many around to be doing that.

I can count on one hand the times I have done that in any place on earth. [1 in Thailand, 1 in Brazil, 3 in Sosua (with 1 I did not have to pay the first time, one I haven't had to pay since the first time, and another I never had to pay.)] The one that I never had to pay I met in front of Classico's. She said she was a student and it was her first time. The next morning she wouldn't accept the money saying she did not like the idea of taking money for sex (so I assume she was telling the truth.)

This girl I did keep in contact with through messenger. We would talk often and she would say how much she wanted to get married and have a family. She is one of the few who has asked me for money ex post facto. And I could understand the situation then. It was when that hurricane ripped through the DR a while back. She said she would take anything I could give her. Still my answer, as it always is, was just because I am American does not mean I am rich. I have many bills myself and a daughter to take care of. That usually shuts them up. ***

She has since married some guy from Canada who I guess she met online, and just recently had her first child. But she still lives in the DR and he in Canada.

The thing is they see us when we are off on vacation balling and having a good time. They don't see the part when we are slaving to make money and eating Ramen noodles everyday so we can make it happen. That is how we get billed as bottomless money pits and ATMs.

The other Sosua chick, who I haven't had to pay since the first time, was the one who when we met I did a threesome with her and her aunt. I couldn't help but get her contact info because of her big hips and ass coupled with an hourglass shape. I talk to her in messenger every blue moon as well. I notified her a couple of weeks ago before I went to Sosua. I never got a chance to call her because my girlfriend came from Santiago. Then when we were in Latino's I ran into her son. When I got back home and saw her on messenger I asked if her son told her I saw him and she said yes and wanted to know why I didn't call or come by. My usual answer to chicks who ask this: I was waiting on you to call me or come to the club! She said she does not go there all the time.

***I don’t get this mentality. I am sitting her in Barranquilla, Colombia. As I write this report I am going back and forth texting this non-pro who I hit yesterday. She decides to wake up and send me a text asking if I could loan her US$50 because her daughter needs books for school. I told her no. Then she asks me not to put the pictures I took of her on the internet. I’m like why would I do that, they are private. So she says that she is going to leave the house to see if someone can loan her the money. I told her in that case I am going to leave Barranquilla since I won’t be able to see her. Now this is the part where I always get tripped up. She said that she wants to be my girlfriend but this implies that she has a daughter who I will have to help her with financially. I tell her but your daughter has a father and I also have a daughter whom I have to help. She says she needs a man that will help her and asks if I am going to help her. So I tell her that I want a girlfriend, not a puta.

Like Pretty Tony said in The Mack, “I keep ‘em looking good, but NOOO DOUGH!”

To answer your question more directly, I naturally don’t keep in email contact with hookers. How much could we possibly have in common that we need to write letters back and forth? Now sending a quick “Hi. How is everything going down your way?” on messenger is okay every once in a while. Or maybe take their number and if you get bored or have a dry spell next time you are in town (which generally won’t happen) ring them up. Trust me, they will not feel ignored. They will have plenty other guys who are keeping them company. The only ignored feeling they will have is when you are not giving them money.

Mr Enternational,

I am kinda curious about this girl and her aunt.

Kinda freaky.

How can a brotha get her msn IM or sumn?

[QUOTE=SavePros321]I have to admit that I would have never seen "I'll have to trick and it's your fault" coming, cause I'd be like "wait a minute...weren't you already trick'in when I met you?" lol! This is one of the reasons I do not exchange emails with chicas because I don't want to wake up one day and find myself standing in line at Western Union asking myself "how the fuck did I end up here?"

QUESTION FOR VETS AT THIS:

How do you deal with the issue of keeping in contact with your favorita but at the same time avoid the sob story B.S.? Do you purposely not check your email (the one you set up specifically for this) until about a few weeks before coming back? Or is the best thing to do is just to get their email and not give them yours? Naturally they may feel ignored either way and may decide not to respond to you once you do finally initiate contact.

So what would be a "delicate balance"?[/QUOTE]Like one of my homeboys told me "you will see her again. In the same place you met her". When you go back she will be right there again. But I do get their number and msn I'm and send them a text or chat via I'm. I come at them like I am just being a friend. Sure they are going to try you as far as money, because that is their job. Its your job to say 'no' or you just may send a $50 bux every once in awhile if you know its going for a good purpose, but in general. Hell naawwww.Also, if you do send them a little 50 bux, then you will get free pum pum whn you do see them.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]...Still my answer, as it always is, was just because I am American does not mean I am rich.

...Then when we were in Latino's I ran into her son. When I got back home and saw her on messenger I asked if her son told her I saw him and she said yes and wanted to know why I didn't call or come by.
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Although my Spanish is very good, I am not exactly sure the best way to phrase this so if a native speaker can chime in I would appreciate it. If I had to... I would say, [I]Desde porque yo soy Americano, no piensa que estoy rico. No estoy. Tengo una nina, cuentas apagar... y mas.[/I] If this grammatically correct and proper sentence???

Running into the son just goes to show how small the DR is. The more time you spend there the higher the likelihood shit like this will happen. I like my regulars to be from out of the area because it minimizes these types of disasters. But to be completely fair, she is playing you in this game too which is probably the biggest reason why she does not get super angry.

[QUOTE=SavePros321]...How do you deal with the issue of keeping in contact with your favorita but at the same time avoid the sob story B.S.? [/QUOTE]
This is a great question.

My chicas… I don’t phone, write or email. When I return, I let them know only when I am ready to see them and I make it look like I just arrived. They get excited that I thought enough to tell them of my return and all is good.

If they ask why I don’t phone I tell them I am not a phone person, even with my mother. Same with email or snail mail.

I got one girl who gave me 10 different phone numbers of all her family for me to call in case we loose normal contact.

[QUOTE=Ehunter]This is a great question.

My chicas… I don’t phone, write or email. When I return, I let them know only when I am ready to see them and I make it look like I just arrived. They get excited that I thought enough to tell them of my return and all is good.

If they ask why I don’t phone I tell them I am not a phone person, even with my mother. Same with email or snail mail.

I got one girl who gave me 10 different phone numbers of all her family for me to call in case we loose normal contact.[/QUOTE]

That sounds like a very good method! The only thing I would be worried about is what Mr. Enternational points out:

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]But I have seen stars turn to shit. This includes getting big ass beer bellies, letting their hair go, etc.[/QUOTE]

I think I would try initiate contact about two weeks prior to coming and try to get her to either send me some current pics or chat on webcam (if I've been away for 6 months or longer). And even then I would probably make it seem that I am only entertaining the thought of returning. I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings if she is no longer up to my standards and get her hopes up about earning some quick cash. I'm not flying way the hell out there to pay for a 4 or 5 when there will be a fresh new batch of 7 or 8's on the scene!

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational] But I have seen stars turn to shit. This includes getting big ass beer bellies, letting their hair go, etc. .[/QUOTE]Yes you are right about this. There is a sexy chica named mari from santiago but wrks in sosua. Used to be sexxii about a year and a half ago, but now you can see she is going downhill. When I first met her, I cld tell she was 'fresh' to the scene bc she wasnt really trippin off of money and she was sweeet. Last time I saw her, her gut was out there. She told me 'mi muy gorda'. I'm like yea. I called her to my room and before we got to it I asked how much. She told me 3mill. I'm like are you crazy?. Anyway, I gave her 1500, but I can tell she is now hardened by the sosua life. Her sweetness was totally gone. When we first met we would talk about life in general and kick it like friends but now straight business. Another one bites the dust. But she is a good fuck.

I'll be damn I must be on some kind of screen list. My posts are nowhere to be found then they mysteriously appear buried at the bottom of the page. But I guess someone tagged me.

Looking to buy a vacation/investment home in the Caribbean. Would this be the forum to ask advice for the DR as in which area would be the best, least expensive etc.?

If so my top priorities are diving, cost of property, airfare from the states (Florida), and of course quality of living as in safety and comfort although I don't expect American type comforts (fast food, Wal-mart etc.) nor do I want them.

Thanks in advance.

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