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I would like the Romeos' opinions on the matter of maintaining contact with working girls met in MED.

I was in MED recently, got too many numbers to remember who was who. Out of all the girls, there is one I would definitely like to revisit and turn into a date or overnight thing. When we met, her beauty and her charm were enchanting. Conversation was flowing. So, I am keeping communication with her via WhatsApp, but gosh is our conversation one-sided. To her credit, she replies and replies quickly (two obvious good signs), but it is hard to get her to say much other than acknowledge my message with a "Hi."

My question (perhaps an age-old question) is how to cultivate communication? I recognize that I have to look at this from a john / prosti-relationship point-of-view, so how have others managed to turn a one-time meeting into a sustained relationship?

From what I have read, bunch of guys have their regulars. Therefore, opinions and anecdotes are welcome.

[QUOTE=LitmusSmut;2632856]I would like the Romeos' opinions on the matter of maintaining contact with working girls met in MED.

I was in MED recently, got too many numbers to remember who was who. Out of all the girls, there is one I would definitely like to revisit and turn into a date or overnight thing. When we met, her beauty and her charm were enchanting. Conversation was flowing. So, I am keeping communication with her via WhatsApp, but gosh is our conversation one-sided. To her credit, she replies and replies quickly (two obvious good signs), but it is hard to get her to say much other than acknowledge my message with a "Hi."

My question (perhaps an age-old question) is how to cultivate communication? I recognize that I have to look at this from a john / prosti-relationship point-of-view, so how have others managed to turn a one-time meeting into a sustained relationship?

From what I have read, bunch of guys have their regulars. Therefore, opinions and anecdotes are welcome.[/QUOTE]I'm glad you had a good time and connected with somebody, but I hope that you aren't entering dangerous territory when you start talking "relationship". You don't mean actual relationship, correct? There is no relationship, these are not your friends. I wouldn't fully trust even the ones that I've know for years. Basically, it's a mutually beneficial business relationship. Yes, that sounds cold, but it's best to keep that mindset. But there are ones which become regulars because they seem to be genuinely interested in my or pleasing me.

From my experience doing this since 2005 in multiple countries, the ones that reply or say "Hi", or "Hola", and not much more is because they just want to keep themselves on top of your whatsapp chat list, and keep them in your mind, a mental bump. The ones who really enjoy the time with me always ask me about work or my family, or tell me something personal about them. I prefer those over the "Hola" ones. Just saying hola to me means that they have zero interest beyond getting paid. I avoid those.

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She will give company for 50 mil cop per hour. As a wingwoman with you paying transport and for food and drinks at your own discretion.

I never once got asked for my vax card while I was in Colombia. Until I was leaving to go back to the USA And Spirit asked to see it.

The big issue seems to be that they schedule too many arrivals too close together. It is especially bad when you flight is a bit late. My last two flights to MDE were late by about 30-40 minutes, so we all ended up behind the folks from another flight.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2632517]I just got in. The lines were awful. I was at the front and had to wait only 15 minutes but there were like 200 people behind me. I think those folks had to wait 2 hours to get through. Customs is asking for address and phone number of where you are staying and were inputting it into the computer. I think they have done this before, but it seemed to prolong the trip. No one asked for vaccine card. Airline was more concerned about check mig than anyone in customs.

Flights to CTG are crazy high this holiday time $700+ and Spirit flight was full. I paid half that last month and flights in late January are half that as well.

It seems like customs has gotten to be a mess everywhere in Colombia. Thank God I was at the front.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Surfer500;2632526]Yes I'm sure, I'm on the site, and a small fraction of the women are looking for foreigners, let alone guys twenty years or older. And like I said before, if you look like Brad Pitt, are within ten years of the age of the women your looking for, are rich, and fluent in Spanish, there is a huge selection of women. But again, out of all the options out there, it's not really a hook up venue compared to Facebook or Tinder. And yes their are women on the Site that might be interested in you and want to have a good time, but they probably won't fit what your looking for age and looks wise, unless you meet the criteria I described.

So unless you are as I described, and I'm not, and probably over 95% of the guys don't fit what I described either, it will most probably be a waste of time for you.

I've had no success with it, stick to Facebook and Tinder.[/QUOTE]I am a large, heavy man in my upper 50's. I am truthful about my weight and that I am looking for short term relationships. I have been on both sites for about a month now. I am being overwhelmed by my ladies! So far, I have 11 girls who want to spend time with and expect compensation. They know that this is not just for an hour or two, but 3-4 hours and maybe overnight.

These are all girls, under 25. About half with kids. Average 7-8 with one true 9 spinner no kids. I also have about 15 girls with only a few hinting at financial help and rest no mention. Age for these girls more widespread, from 19 to 30. Again, 7-8 girls and one 9. I believe that a couple might want to spend time with me and expect no money, but the rest will. And then I have about 10+ girls, generally 22-44 who have not hinted at needing money at all and two have basically seem real eager to meet and screw, with no compensation mention whatsoever. I still have about 10 contacts that I will get in touch once I am in Medellin. These are all girls I would rate 7-8 and again one 9, at least with clothes on.

I like two types of girls. Little petite spinners or the taller the better and if tall, some extra weight acceptable although I prefer slim. Not every girl fits in this category, but about a half do. Most of the girls are short somewhat thick but still with nice figures, including one girl with mammoth breasts, natural I think. I do not like fat asses and avoid those girls. So, my girls range from tiny spinners to tall and amazon like and just about everything, but sexy, in between. I will do into details about my methods, but a good picture, being patience, and careful reading of profiles are the key.

[QUOTE=CageMonkey;2632919]I am a large, heavy man in my upper 50's. I am truthful about my weight and that I am looking for short term relationships. I have been on both sites for about a month now. I am being overwhelmed by my ladies! So far, I have 11 girls who want to spend time with and expect compensation. They know that this is not just for an hour or two, but 3-4 hours and maybe overnight.

These are all girls, under 25. About half with kids. Average 7-8 with one true 9 spinner no kids. I also have about 15 girls with only a few hinting at financial help and rest no mention. Age for these girls more widespread, from 19 to 30. Again, 7-8 girls and one 9. I believe that a couple might want to spend time with me and expect no money, but the rest will. And then I have about 10+ girls, generally 22-44 who have not hinted at needing money at all and two have basically seem real eager to meet and screw, with no compensation mention whatsoever. I still have about 10 contacts that I will get in touch once I am in Medellin. These are all girls I would rate 7-8 and again one 9, at least with clothes on.

I like two types of girls. Little petite spinners or the taller the better and if tall, some extra weight acceptable although I prefer slim. Not every girl fits in this category, but about a half do. Most of the girls are short somewhat thick but still with nice figures, including one girl with mammoth breasts, natural I think. I do not like fat asses and avoid those girls. So, my girls range from tiny spinners to tall and amazon like and just about everything, but sexy, in between. I will do into details about my methods, but a good picture, being patience, and careful reading of profiles are the key.[/QUOTE]I forgot to mention. About half are Latina Cupid and other half Colombia Cupid. The Latina Cupid girls are more overt in letting you know they seek pay for play.

Fuck Covid and it's devil spawn Omicron, I'm coming to Medellin on 12/16 for10 days. Any fellow mongers want to grab a drink and hang out? Send me a PM if you're down.

[QUOTE=Queens35;2632845] It's not official yet, but the writing is on the wall, that's where this thing is heading.
If not, you're running out of places that don't require vaccines.
[/QUOTE]I don't think its that's simple TBH. I think there are still some twists and turns to come. What happens when more of the world realises that they have bought in to a never ending cycle of vaxs? What happens when ppls realise that new variants make the vax almost worthless? What happens when more people realise that COVID isn't actually dangerous at all if your healthy.

It seems to be a bit of a race of time at the moment, between the pro-vax sheeple view and the pro-science anti-mandate view. To me, it is not clear who will win out, especailly since its so easy to fake a vax card to buy time. Bit like faking an onward ticket when you arrive in a new country.

When I said I read about other hors d'erves mongers with girls they had on call, available for any southbound visit, that is what I meant by relationship. (I have found it hard to be articulate when type on a phone and I got to keep it quick so the sever doesn't kick me before I post.) Yeah, nah, yeah, relationships are dead to me. That's why I decided to buy skin to skin affection instead of trying to earn it.

On the same page as you about one-word replies. I would have liked to do a bit more than just stay on the top of her phone's chat history, aka try to learn a bit about each other, but I learned before in life to not try too hard. Yes, I double and tripled texted other girls in the past and killed whatever interest there may have been. Lesson learned. I have just occasionally messaged this one these past few months and will try a little harder in the week or two leading up to a January return. I'll prolly ask more direct questions and try to set a meeting or two up for then, but in the interim since she's not trying I'm matching her level.

One thing I can say is cool is she's not asking for money. Buuut. She's not asking anything! LOL.

My original post was hoping to glimpse into how to secure that connection in the month prior to heading to MED again. My guess, like with all skittish creatures such as girls and horses, is I can't force it. It takes time and trust and occasions. All of which I can't do from a far. I guess I'll find out if we'll be able to meet around NY.

[QUOTE=Queens35;2632898]I'm glad you had a good time and connected with somebody, but I hope that you aren't entering dangerous territory when you start talking "relationship". You don't mean actual relationship, correct? There is no relationship, these are not your friends. I wouldn't fully trust even the ones that I've know for years. Basically, it's a mutually beneficial business relationship. Yes, that sounds cold, but it's best to keep that mindset. But there are ones which become regulars because they seem to be genuinely interested in my or pleasing me.

From my experience doing this since 2005 in multiple countries, the ones that reply or say "Hi", or "Hola", and not much more is because they just want to keep themselves on top of your whatsapp chat list, and keep them in your mind, a mental bump. The ones who really enjoy the time with me always ask me about work or my family, or tell me something personal about them. I prefer those over the "Hola" ones. Just saying hola to me means that they have zero interest beyond getting paid. I avoid those.[/QUOTE]

Hey guys, I just booked 3 nights at the mansion on December 30,31, and Jan 1. Due to waiting too long, I couldn't all 3 nights at M1, which is what I prefer due to being close to the bar next door. So I have to stay at M2 on Dec 31. I've been to M1 twice already, but never M2 and don't even know where that is. They told me it's 2 blocks away up the hill. Has anyone here ever stayed at M2? If so how close / far of a walk is it time wise? And is it safe to walk from M1 to M2 late at night or is it better to take a cab? Sorry for the many questions but since I will be at M2 on New Year's Eve and planning on spending that night at the bar next to M1, I want to prepare myself. TIA.

[QUOTE=LvZooMan211;2632970]Hey guys, I just booked 3 nights at the mansion on December 30,31, and Jan 1. Due to waiting too long, I couldn't all 3 nights at M1, which is what I prefer due to being close to the bar next door. So I have to stay at M2 on Dec 31. I've been to M1 twice already, but never M2 and don't even know where that is. They told me it's 2 blocks away up the hill. Has anyone here ever stayed at M2? If so how close / far of a walk is it time wise? And is it safe to walk from M1 to M2 late at night or is it better to take a cab? Sorry for the many questions but since I will be at M2 on New Year's Eve and planning on spending that night at the bar next to M1, I want to prepare myself. TIA.[/QUOTE]It is about 2 blocks, 300 meters up the hill. Hill is steep, so it is a good cardio work out going uphill. Going downhill, no sweat. Walk is safe, even at night. Street has been turned into a one-way traffic lane, going down hill, so taking a cab from M1 to M2 involved circling around back to the top of the hill. Rooms are nice.

[QUOTE=LitmusSmut;2632856]I would like the Romeos' opinions on the matter of maintaining contact with working girls met in MED.

I was in MED recently, got too many numbers to remember who was who. Out of all the girls, there is one I would definitely like to revisit and turn into a date or overnight thing. When we met, her beauty and her charm were enchanting. Conversation was flowing. So, I am keeping communication with her via WhatsApp, but gosh is our conversation one-sided. To her credit, she replies and replies quickly (two obvious good signs), but it is hard to get her to say much other than acknowledge my message with a "Hi."

My question (perhaps an age-old question) is how to cultivate communication? I recognize that I have to look at this from a john / prosti-relationship point-of-view, so how have others managed to turn a one-time meeting into a sustained relationship?

From what I have read, bunch of guys have their regulars. Therefore, opinions and anecdotes are welcome.[/QUOTE]Not a personal knock but if you are good with communicating with American girls you should have no problems with Colombians. There is no secret advice or strategy after being yourself.

If you're awkward with Americans you will be awkward with Colombians. Not the end of the world, you need to work on that and look into working on prolonging conversations, don't do what 1000 simps do to beautiful women "how are you" "you're beautiful, how was your day' = Boring.

Look at what she likes to do: hobbies, interests and go from there.

[QUOTE=Surfer500;2632831]Yes best not travel from Poblado to Centro after 5 PM on the Metro, but a cab will take a long time.[/QUOTE]Yeah, but it seems that its pack all the time in either direction any time of the day compared to a few years ago.

Your right about that! The metro doesn't get caught in traffic, which reminds me why I often chose the Metro over a cab. The cabs seem to get caught in traffic either direction unless traveling late into the night hours. Like today, I took a cab in both directions, but it seems to take at least twice as long going to Poblado from El centro by cab, and that's if the cab driver even know where he's going, which can triple the time of the trip. What I started doing (way back) to simplify it for the cab drivers is when travel from El centro to Poblado is to take a cab on carrera 46 Oriental headed towards Poblado and then do the exact opposite when traveling back to El centro from Poblado, which is take a cab on Carrera 43 A headed towards El centro. This way the cab drivers only have travel in a straigh direction, instead taking you on a tour of Medellin.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2632952] especailly since its so easy to fake a vax card to buy time. Bit like faking an onward ticket when you arrive in a new country.[/QUOTE]Except for faking a vax card could sicken and kill a lot of other people, while faking onward travel does not. Just pointing that out for you.

[QUOTE=LitmusSmut;2632856] So, I am keeping communication with her via WhatsApp, but gosh is our conversation one-sided. To her credit, she replies and replies quickly (two obvious good signs), but it is hard to get her to say much other than acknowledge my message with a "Hi."[/QUOTE]She's just not into you, dude.