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My fotos keep getting jacked, not sure why
Maybe because they are png's? Not sure what I am doing different. I can't believe they are being censored by admin, they are not controversial. I will try to post them again.
Of course, yes, what TK wrote was a common sense, mature way of approaching the value of any long term relationship. As if often the case, my writing lets me down, especially when I am doing it at 4 AM, jaja. I was referring to a long distance relationship with a chica who a mongerer met here, and then wanted to maintain after her returned to the states. Cutting off support, especially as a temporary step while you gauge the chica's response, can provide valuable information. You can always go back to whatever level of support you like.
I have met too many guys who on the belief that some chica they briefly met here is madly in love with them, sends the girl money after they leave. That's fine, that's up to you, the vast majority of the time she will be playing you, usually with multiple guys. A lot of that depends upon how you met her, as a regular girl versus someone who was hanging out in front of the Vera Cruz Church. That would be your selection bias.
One reason Catgirl and I have made is more than two years is she passed that test. After I first met her and returned home, I refused to send her any support. But over time, I saw how little money she made after a ten or twelve hour work day. Sometimes she would come home with 30 mil COP in her pocket after eating, which is chump change for lot of guys from the USA. And then a couple of her jobs were so freakin' dangerous (e,g, working in a gold mine) that it scared me. And then when I returned to MDE she was always so tired from working that we barely had fun. So I decided to support her and it was a great decision. She stuck by me way before that point and since then during breaks of my support.
I have other girlfriends from MDE who ask me and I refuse them help, but they still want to see me when I come to MDE. The easiest way to handle it is to make it black and white and not give any girls anything extra, but I was reading here about someone who was interested in a more meaningful relationship with the local girls, and that is what sparked me. And call me crazy, but I see life as more of a continuum with shades of gray.
Great feedback! I liked your suggestion about living with her, albeit that is a drastic step. You can learn mountains (pardon the pun) of info about how these people live and breathe when you stay with them, even short term. I have stayed on the sides of mountains more than a few times in the lower and lowest stratas of housing in MDE. Also I have stayed out in the country in a remote mountain top village, and in two different mega-apartment complexes you can see from a distance on the mountain sides in MDE, and I loved it. But I do NOT recommend that for everyone. You have to have your wits about you in those situations, know your way around a little, know how to blend in, and definitely be with people you trust.
I stand by my little acid test, that if you stop sending a chica here money and then you stop hearing from her, you have good intel. You are right TK, she may find a substitute, so like 90% of life, timing is everything. You can always choose to go back to gifting her, that may be the right way to keep her, or you may soon be awarded your first of many degrees from Fool's College. My main point is there are many girls here worth pursuing, but because of selection bias, don't expect to be finding them in the places we commonly discuss here.
The right chica from MDE will show you much more appreciation, emotionally and physically than her counterpart in the USA. Calling them all golddiggers is misguided, because their need is genuine. Colombia is not the land of opportunity that exists in USA, where drive and talent get rewarded. You can have all those things in Medellin and still be suppressed and beat down by the system. If you judge these girls using the values you absorbed from the USA you will get the an inaccurate viewpoint.
Photos, I hope they all upload this time. The preggo is ready to pop. For those of you who follow me, she goes back over two years with me, second only to Catgirl in length of time. That is Amazonia and she held down my Numero Two spot longer than anyone until she got pregnant and moved back to her village five hours away. Well, her due date is this month, and she is back in Medellin waiting to deliver. I would fly over to MDE right now just for her and dip my wick in that prime preggo pussy, but I am down to the wire on the days left on my 2021 tourist visa. Ostee Out!
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Hundreds hot street girls near Plaza Botera
Flew in Sunday night, went to the fancy Andre's Carne de Rez bar and restaurant for a $20 T Bone steak. It was served on hot iron plate, medium, tough, too much gristles, could not cut through with a sharp knife, had to chew on and swallow large pieces. After some fierce hand to hand combat had to give up 3/4 of the steak. Colombians need to develop their cuisine a lot more. I am famish here in Colombia for the last 2 weeks.
Had to buy new luggage. A cab driver drove me to Botero Shopping Mall, an area with hundreds thousands shoppers, tens thousands shops and street carts, nice, clean, civilized, the liveliest scene I have seen in Colombia, may be 50 x the foot traffic in Candelaria area in Bogota.
Before I could find a luggage shop, noticed hundreds of girls leaning on walls in front of little sex hotels. They were scattered but about 100 stand around the church of Vera Cruz, most were kind of heavy for my taste, but quite a few hot spinners whom I would pork at the drop of a hat. Medellin beats all other Colombia cities in quantity and quality of girls, also beat Tijuana by a wide margin.
This cute spinner Daniela in her white short was on the street playing with her friends. Took her to the hotel next door, 300 pesos for CBJ CFS, room costs 10 K Cops or $2. 5. She was fun and sexy in bed. Pumped her a long time. She was moaning, had her arms and legs wrapped around me for security.
Medellin has lots of hot girls working in shops. Most are nice, fun, polite, speak Spanish with high modulation and drawn out vowels like Italians in a charming way. They were also fun and flirting non stop. Guys should be able to find many nice, fun, pretty GFs here.
