Medellin Reports

I am not suggesting anyone set up some poor needy Colombian chica for a tailspin by pulling the rug out from under her, and then sadistically watch her do a nosedive. I am suggesting as a test and with cause, you can tell a girl who you support, maybe only partially, maybe only slightly, that you will no longer be helping her, and her response can be very revealing. Ten seconds later you can return to baseline or whatever you choose.

References to wives confuse me because yes, these are girlfriends, emphasis on multiple and I am not pretending to be monogamous with any of them. And their need is genuine, this is not a culture specific to Play 4 Pay, this is Colombian culture and how 80% of these girls live.

I met more than a few guys who fell into this pattern of assistance, and have never seen the handwriting on the wall for what it is, which is the girls' only interest in them is financial. That may seem obvious or even laughable to you or me, but if you have talked to a gringo with this mindset, they can be very delusional. I am writing to those guys in case this thought has not occurred to them before.

Sending or giving money to a girl for reasons other than you believe she is madly in love with you, is a separate subject.

Finally, another thing I have noticed about these girls, both those I have assisted and have not, they somehow make it through all their most dire predictions. Their stories of what will happen to them if they don't get whatever needed support is full of predictions of homelessness, starvation, illness, and yes even death from lack of medical care. But guess what? Somehow and someway even when they don't get the money from you that they must have to survive, they don't get kicked out their apartment, they don't starve, they don't bleed to death, and they don't lose custody of their children.

Colombianas somehow always seem to manage to live for another day, and are ready for whatever or whoever comes next. I am pointing that out for the guys who might feel guilty, when they shouldn't. As is usually the case with me, the guys who glean info from me are not the frequent fliers here who already have everything figured out for themselves, and who I would point out represent a minority, albeit vocal, and I include myself in that group. I can't prove it, but I believe in the silent majority here and that's my audience. Although, I always welcome feedback.

I almost sound like I am arguing against now myself because I believe that if you want to, cultivating long term relationships with the right girls from Medellin can be very rewarding. That was on my mind in the beginning. But as I developed the thought, I didn't want to see a less experienced monger get hooked for supporting some of these very clever girls. Unpredictably, for me at least, the focus became the one paragraph with my little acid test about telling the girl you will withhold support, that I considered to be tangential to my main points. I'll take the blame for the sucky writing, jajaja.

[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2634980]Flew in Sunday night, went to the fancy Andre's Carne de Rez bar and restaurant for a $20 T Bone steak. It was served on hot iron plate, medium, tough, too much gristles, could not cut through with a sharp knife, had to chew on and swallow large pieces. After some fierce hand to hand combat had to give up 3/4 of the steak. Colombians need to develop their cuisine a lot more. I am famish here in Colombia for the last 2 weeks.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the review but as an aside. You will notice if you drive out of the city that any pasture land is on about a 30 degree pitch. This gives the cattle lots of exercise and prolly makes them healthy as fuck when they get smashed in the melon. Unfortunately it makes them tough as fuck- in Colombia, Ecuador or Peru if you want a good steak you can pay extra FR US or Argy beef. Otherwise, make sure your knife is sharp, order well cooked (BLEH!) and chew each bite 100 times.

[QUOTE=Wolf662;2631016]However she is worth friending on FB I think because she is friends with almost every MED girl I friend on FB. If she looks as good naked as she does in her pics I'd probably do her once even if she just laid there. LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm going for a few weeks tomorrow. She was on my TDL but ya. I am seeing that she is also mutual friends with a lot of other girls who are hot af. Anyone want to comment if there is a culture of shitty service with these girls. That may be my answer also. They are pretty much straight up ho's but ya. I know. Not completely- it could be a YMMV thing.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2635226]Shop around, there are several options out of Europe and the US that offer the same deal or better.[/QUOTE]Really? Name a better option for US citizens. Schwab is completely fee free, has no minimum balance, refunds all ATM fees all over the world immediately (some posters say the fees back at the end of the month but I get them back immediately), pays competitive interest on cash balances, and has no sales commissions if you do want to invest. E-Trade refunds all ATM fees but turns around and charges a 1% "foreign transaction fee." Both Schwab and E-Trade do charge 1% on foreign purchases made with a debit card but there is never a reason to do that. Also, my CS card was compromised when I was in Bum Fuck, Honduras and they overnighted me a new card via DHL. I saw on the envelope it cost almost $115 US. You can lock and unlock the card on the website.

So anything better than Charles Schwab must be really, really good, so please let us know.

I booked in a converted Spanish mansion next to Santa Fe mall. Agoda advertised it as right at the edge of Parc Lleras but it's about 1 mile South right on Carr Poblano or 43 A. It's nice, green, clean, unhurried neighborhood.

The place is an old Spanish colonial building with red clay tiles. The place is decorated with old pics of naked women, just like an old bordello. An old woman and her charming, educated late 20's daughter run the place. They were very polite and helpful, more like living with Spanish high society than a hotel. They gave me 3 keys for the front door and room, said no one is around after 9 at night, so I have to lock up. Can sneak all kinds of girls in at night hehe.

After many disappointments with food in BOG and MDE, I found the 30 or so places in Santa Fe food court fresh, delicious and cheap. You can have 3 meals a day here from 9 - 9. Took UBER ride to Parcs Lleras, only 10 minutes, 20 K Cops at night. Ha Long at P Lleras has a good menu with good, hot, aromatic Pho, open 12 to 11. But the civies in Santa Fe mall are almost all heavy and chunky with big butts, thick thighs by their mid 20's, no slim, lanky Spanish beauties here.

Took a 49 K cops ($12) Charter why Turismo city tour, 7-hour Spanish-only van tour, pick up and delivery to hotel, walking to most noteworthy spots, including the replica of indigenous village El Pueblito on the mountain top, Metro ride and Metro cable ride to the Eastern mountain top. Lots of fun, cheap and so worth it.

Except the slimy and grimy areas in El Centro and around Parc Lleras, Medellin is nice, clean, lush green, well kept, with majestic mountain ranges, beautiful sceneries, worth visiting just for sight seeing alone, far better than Bogota in every aspect.

The bros should forget about the rotten Lleras pussies, get out of the hotel rooms and do some sight seeing, mingling with the nice, helpful, gracious people of Medellin.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2635383]I am not suggesting anyone set up some poor needy Colombian chica for a tailspin by pulling the rug out from under her, and then sadistically watch her do a nosedive.
Unpredictably, for me at least, the focus became the one paragraph with my little acid test about telling the girl you will withhold support, that I considered to be tangential to my main points. I'll take the blame for the sucky writing, jajaja.[/QUOTE]Hehe. I am sticking w my original suggestion. Treat people like human beings, and they are more likely to treat you like one. Try to understand their situation and the factors that guide their decisions.

I have a friend from USA that has a "GF" here. They are always arguing and finishing. He gets frustrated bcos he says he "gives her everything she could want" - he "takes care of her" when he is here, she has "all she wants". But the truth of the matter is that he does no such thing bcos he lacks all ability to understand her situation. She has a child and is young. She is a SW. She can take care of herself and her child already. So why should she sacrifice that? What happens if they finish? He is offering her no security, no future, nothing extra to what she has already. In fact, he is taking her best years when she could meet someone that is willing to secure her future. So she is actually wasting her time on him bcos he doesn't understand her needs or is willing to help her.

He is just too blinded to see things from her persepctive. He thinks she is a selfish bltch that just wants money. She is a nice girl. She is being reasonable. She is thinking of her future.

[QUOTE=Gilolo;2634846]How can you find the girls on facebook? Do you have some names to give me? I don't know any girl on facebook from Colombia.

In fact till now, I always monger in Thailand and Cambodia but it will me my first time in Colombia.[/QUOTE]Bro add me on your facebook, my faux profile is frank wright. I have a thousand FB girls. 90% are dimes. I will add you.

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I dunno, I did not do a deep dive and one of my ex-professional level critiques of the evidence but this is just too good to not throw it against the wall and see what sticks, jajajaja.

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I live in Los Angeles and I have been enjoying the scene in Tijuana for over 30 years. Lot's of great options but you really never have to leave Hong Kong. The owners really get it. During the lockdown from Covid they almost doubled the size of the club by expanding into the adjacent properties. On a typical weekend night, there must be at least 150 girls. Also, I think because of the overall hit to the Mexican economy, there have never been more beautiful girls than right now. That said I'm ready for some new adventures and I am landing in Medellin the 3rd week of January. Would appreciate anyone that already knows the ropes there and will be there during that time to contact me.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2635383]I am not suggesting anyone set up some poor needy Colombian chica for a tailspin by pulling the rug out from under her, and then sadistically watch her do a nosedive. I am suggesting as a test and with cause, you can tell a girl who you support, maybe only partially, maybe only slightly, that you will no longer be helping her, and her response can be very revealing. Ten seconds later you can return to baseline or whatever you choose.

References to wives confuse me because yes, these are girlfriends, emphasis on multiple and I am not pretending to be monogamous with any of them. And their need is genuine, this is not a culture specific to Play 4 Pay, this is Colombian culture and how 80% of these girls live.[/QUOTE]Yeah, you really do not get it. Pulling money away from a woman is a john move. And if you feel the need to pull money to get clarity on a woman, let me help you out, she is a ho. Period. All you are really doing is asking her to be a better actress.

[QUOTE=ChuchoLoco;2635202]Title is the answer. Highly recommended debit card.[/QUOTE]Oh I see. Thanks. Forgive my ignorance, but this is the card you'd get stateside? Basically open a charles schwab account prior to travel?

[QUOTE=MilkDog08;2635445]Bro add me on your facebook, my faux profile is frank wright. I have a thousand FB girls. 90% are dimes. I will add you.[/QUOTE]LOL there's about a thousand frank wrights man.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2635414]Hehe. I am sticking w my original suggestion. Treat people like human beings, and they are more likely to treat you like one. Try to understand their situation and the factors that guide their decisions.

I have a friend from USA that has a "GF" here. They are always arguing and finishing. He gets frustrated bcos he says he "gives her everything she could want" - he "takes care of her" when he is here, she has "all she wants". But the truth of the matter is that he does no such thing bcos he lacks all ability to understand her situation. She has a child and is young. She is a SW. She can take care of herself and her child already. So why should she sacrifice that? What happens if they finish? He is offering her no security, no future, nothing extra to what she has already. In fact, he is taking her best years when she could meet someone that is willing to secure her future. So she is actually wasting her time on him bcos he doesn't understand her needs or is willing to help her.

He is just too blinded to see things from her persepctive. He thinks she is a selfish bltch that just wants money. She is a nice girl. She is being reasonable. She is thinking of her future.[/QUOTE]100% on this. The vast majority of the time we, the "boyfriend", have no idea of either the cost that the GF is facing, and how she is to live her life. If you want a GF here or in CR or anywhere similar and you want it exclusive, etc. Be prepared to be married basically. Otherwise give her the freedom to manage her future by not expecting her to be exclusive to you, etc.

[QUOTE=VasyaPetya;2635526]Oh I see. Thanks. Forgive my ignorance, but this is the card you'd get stateside? Basically open a charles schwab account prior to travel?[/QUOTE]Well I did it from USA on internet so I assume probably from anywhere but go to their website to find out more. Card was sent to my home and opening the account was easy enough. I have only made a couple deposits so I don't know much more but they have great customer service that can answer all your questions.

This is funny. Charles Schwab is like a religion on this website. I won't respond to what reads like a product promotion brochure other than to say I stand by my post. My advice was to shop around. Anyone who doesn't want to do that can base their personal finance decisions on what is posted on a punter web site, good luck with that.

[QUOTE=Huacho;2635401]Really? Name a better option for US citizens. Schwab is completely fee free, has no minimum balance, refunds all ATM fees all over the world immediately (some posters say the fees back at the end of the month but I get them back immediately), pays competitive interest on cash balances, and has no sales commissions if you do want to invest. E-Trade refunds all ATM fees but turns around and charges a 1% "foreign transaction fee." Both Schwab and E-Trade do charge 1% on foreign purchases made with a debit card but there is never a reason to do that. Also, my CS card was compromised when I was in Bum Fuck, Honduras and they overnighted me a new card via DHL. I saw on the envelope it cost almost $115 US. You can lock and unlock the card on the website.

So anything better than Charles Schwab must be really, really good, so please let us know.[/QUOTE]