Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2859796]Just checked SA. Berlin optics seem to be good.

Thanks for bringing it up. Somehow Berlin never popped up for me as a choice. Been confined to NRW within Germany given FKK serve as backups there. Or I went to Spain.

Will add Berlin to wishlist.

BTW, what filters do you use for search criteria?[/QUOTE]I basically use the same search criteria for all my hunts on SA and sort from there.

18-33 because they all tend to subtract at least 2 years from their actual age.

All the slim body types.

Pictures.

I leave ethnicities open because most pick mixed anyway.

Photos of course.

FYI, any of them who say Latina / columbia / Brazil are mostly pros from my chats that I had so crossed off list first.

If you want to just empty your nuts Frankfurt is great because of the Fkks but SA is good there also.

Berlin is pretty easy and cheap (or free, but of course the dinners and drinks).

Canada has always been my fish in the barrel but this is so easy here.

Women are better looking though in Montreal / Vancouver imo.

So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you can’t walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.

Super helpful. Thanks.

Tall, fit Caucasian is my "go-to". I am over 6 ft myself.

BBFS, CIP. Are bonus. Pin put on Berlin.

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2860125]So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you cant walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.[/QUOTE]

I went out with a girl last weekend for the first time. Things went well, ended up at my place but didn't have sex because she was waiting for a hsv 2 lab result and wanted to be safe. She didn't go into details and I was glad she told me. We got along well so I saw her again this weekend. I didn't want to bring up the lab over text but when it came up we were already making out. She hadn't gotten the result yet but felt better and left it up to me. I may have made a big mistake and went for it using a rubber. Sex was great, she stayed over but my issue is I made plans with a different girl this week who I've seen before. Should I be safe and cancel? Or meet her for dinner and let her know I want to wait a little?

This has been very helpful thread.

My main experiences have been massage and escorts.

Recently I had tried FWB relationship with a young Latino.

And it's working out very well.

Seen her for six dates over past 6 months.

The dates last anywhere 4-8 hours ending with sex.

She does good BBBJ, prefers covered mish, showers together.

Lots of DFK. She has some kinks like wanting to being tied up.

I feel lucky to have found her through an agency, initially as an escort-client relationship.

We hit it off and when she left agency to find more legitimate work.

We arrange me to act as a SD as a side hustle.

I give her 300 dollars per meet and she doesn't pry into my private life.

She told me she moving back to Mexico next month so I'm sadden.

As this arrangement will come to an end.

I never really had success with Seeking in the past but I think I will try again due to this FWB experience.

Might drive me crazy doing the leg work but I want to find another gem.

Great report. So how old are you since you said none of the girls you met asked for donations. I've experienced that 20% of the time (once in Berlin), but I'm over 50 (though pretty fit and have been told I'm very good looking) so I'm not going to attract many under 30's without some financial incentives.

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2860125]So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you cant walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2860595]I went out with a girl last weekend for the first time. Things went well, ended up at my place but didn't have sex because she was waiting for a hsv 2 lab result and wanted to be safe. She didn't go into details and I was glad she told me. We got along well so I saw her again this weekend. I didn't want to bring up the lab over text but when it came up we were already making out. She hadn't gotten the result yet but felt better and left it up to me. I may have made a big mistake and went for it using a rubber. Sex was great, she stayed over but my issue is I made plans with a different girl this week who I've seen before. Should I be safe and cancel? Or meet her for dinner and let her know I want to wait a little?[/QUOTE]Did you say WITH rubber? I think the chances of catching anything with a rubber are very small.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2860684]Did you say WITH rubber? I think the chances of catching anything with a rubber are very small.[/QUOTE]I am with Steve on this one, as long as there is no active infection, rubber up and go.

[QUOTE=JonnySutton;2860679]Great report. So how old are you since you said none of the girls you met asked for donations. I've experienced that 20% of the time (once in Berlin), but I'm over 50 (though pretty fit and have been told I'm very good looking) so I'm not going to attract many under 30's without some financial incentives.[/QUOTE]I turned 49 yesterday, but have been told I don't look more than 35. Could be the shaved head and beard, but my beard is almost 70% gray.

I am very fit though and really into fashion. I've been told I'm very handsome, but we all have.

However, I think a lot has to do with the vibe / experience they get on the pre-game date. I don't think about cost when it comes to dinners / drinks / bottles etc because if I was alone I would pay for the top end anyway for myself, so it's just an extra I have to pay.

Additionally, like many of you I have been traveling for 20 years and tend to stay and visit many of the same places so have developed relationships that get me good tables / seats etc. So what I believe happens is that they get this vision in their mind that this is what it's going to be like for them through out this relationship and they want that life. It's an illusion that they fall into. I will tell you, it leads to a lot of clingers though.

Hmm, I live in Berlin and I also used SA in the past. Frankly, I do not found this story very credible. Except you are famous in some way or another. .

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2860125]So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you cant walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.[/QUOTE]

SA is trying to get me to sign up. Offering a 20% discount.

I am tired of US women and not biting the bait. Leveraging existing phone numbers and hoping one or two will fall in bed.

If anyone would like the code, pm me. Happy to share (doesn't look like it is a code tied to my account. No Harm trying).

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2860684]Did you say WITH rubber? I think the chances of catching anything with a rubber are very small.[/QUOTE]Yeah with rubber.

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2860720]I turned 49 yesterday, but have been told I don't look more than 35. Could be the shaved head and beard, but my beard is almost 70% gray.

I am very fit though and really into fashion. I've been told I'm very handsome, but we all have.

However, I think a lot has to do with the vibe / experience they get on the pre-game date. I don't think about cost when it comes to dinners / drinks / bottles etc because if I was alone I would pay for the top end anyway for myself, so it's just an extra I have to pay.

Additionally, like many of you I have been traveling for 20 years and tend to stay and visit many of the same places so have developed relationships that get me good tables / seats etc. So what I believe happens is that they get this vision in their mind that this is what it's going to be like for them through out this relationship and they want that life. It's an illusion that they fall into. I will tell you, it leads to a lot of clingers though.[/QUOTE]Do most of you travel for work? I know steve has regulars in the US but I'm curious if anyone has a regular arrangement at home vs mainly using it when traveling.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2860767]Do most of you travel for work? I know steve has regulars in the US but I'm curious if anyone has a regular arrangement at home vs mainly using it when traveling.[/QUOTE]For me it was a progression. At first I only ever did the hookers and club scene and always abroad. Then COVID was the mother of invention and I found SA for domestic trips because all international was shut down. But still only during travel for first year. Then decided to try discreetly at home. Worked well. Amped that up quite a bit to where I had a regular girl pretty much. But still maybe once or twice a month. Also no one quite satisfactory in all respects. Then of course Shayla the goddess and the slippery slope to full on mistress.

It all started with a handjob in Tokyo 20+ years ago. And here we are in mistress land! It's a slippery slope!

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2860762]SA is trying to get me to sign up. Offering a 20% discount.

I am tired of US women and not biting the bait. Leveraging existing phone numbers and hoping one or two will fall in bed.

If anyone would like the code, pm me. Happy to share (doesn't look like it is a code tied to my account. No Harm trying).[/QUOTE]I think SA sends you the discount promo right after your subscription expires. I got that discout too, its 25%, I got the email 3 times this weeks, I haven't re subscribed because I'm already fking a few sugar babies right now, but as soon as I get bored ot them, ill re sign and find some new ones.