[QUOTE=GaramHawa;2818704]That's a 100% accurate assessment. Sometime last year I pinged this chick & she agreed to an unpaid M&G (big red flag).
Moral: Classy, non-regular babes will never agree to a meet and greet without an allowance. They are in a different league and the amount invested is totally worth it. It's only the full-time low quality working girls who will M&G for free or cab fare reimbursement. Some mongers may not like it, but that is the reality on SA.[/QUOTE]I don't agree about unpaid M&G. I have met over 100 girls on SA and ALL (except 2) have been unpaid M&G. No one had expected to be paid. I don't do paid meet & greet and have no regrets.
The genuine girls understand that both of us are taking time off to know each other and it we click, they would not like forego earning a few lacs in a long term relationship, because they insisted on being paid to show up for coffee. Of course, I cover cab. I usually meet in a classy place for a meal or drinks, so they know I can afford a sugar relationship.
You might have avoided this situation if you did a VC first, or said we'd meet for a drink before agreeing to anything and both of you have the option to walk away if you don't want to go ahead.
Her excess drinking is not uncommon. The mindset is I am getting something free, which I would not normally afford, let me make the most of it.