In Tokyo already and looking
I seem to have ended up in Tokyo stupidly without having done much research. The last time I checked this forum was a couple of months ago, but could not find much to go on. I have read the posts for the last 2 months and am somewhat confused. I am here for 4 nights and would greatly appreciate some help on the following:1. I speak zero Japanese. Is it still possible to get some action?2. I am happy to settle for BBBJ and if possible CIM.3. What is Sumata?4. How much does it cost at UCLA Littlebear and where is it? Also, given Zcorps experience, is it worth trying given my lack of Japanese?5. I am at a hotel in Roppongi, Minato-ku.6. I would like to spend a max of about US$100 equivalent!Any assistance is welcome on such short notice. Please feel free to PM me if more convenient. Also, if any fellow monger would like to meet up for a drink, let me know. I have a local rental mobile and can PM it as necessary.Many thanks,Pegasus
Don't Ask: "What Can this Shop do for Gaijin Costumers"
[QUOTE=Zcorps]I headed over to UCLA since I was in the area. I walk up and this time I meet a different Tenchou. At first he welcomes me, but he says that this is only a handjob/touching place. I react by saying "Sou desu ka? Demo soko ha fera ga kaitearu..." (But bj is written write there) at which point he responds by saying it's impossible for foreigners to recieve fera (I hear things in english, not Japanese so I forgot his exact words), and starts pushing me out the door. If this were america I would have asked him to stop touching me, and if he insisted on pushing, I would have punched him square in the jaw. But unfortunately this is not America, it's Japan. Some of you might think I'm leaving something out, but I'm not. I don't feel I was particularly offensive. [/QUOTE]I was not present at the scene, so I can only speculate what went wrong here.You write that you objected to the Tenchou's explanation by pointing to a sign on the wall.This might have given him the impression that you don't recognize his authority to decide what happens in his shop.A better approach might have been to just ask for the girl you had the last time. If she is available (maybe after some waiting time), fine, you can discuss details about the level of her service later directly with her.If not, you get a much better way out of the situation, without either party losing face or getting angry. You would just come back some other time.Anyway, I think the discussion should not be about what level of service some particular shop is ready to provide as a matter of general policy. It should be what individual girls are ready to do.In this particular situation that would mean you understand his explanation as "the girls free right now don't want to do more than hand service for you" as opposed to "this shop does not give you more than hand service as a matter of policy".And it would mean you don't answer by discussing the general policy of the shop (which is not for you to decide), but by asking if there are girls working here who are comfortable with the level of service you want (you already know the answer here), and then, when it would be convenient to show up to meet them.The same principle holds when someone enters a new shop, with no prior information from this board. Your pulse doing overtime, sweat flowing down your brow, you pop the big question:"What can this shop do for Gaijin costumers?"No.You ask:"Is there any girl working here comfortable with providing service for me?"Big difference.If the Tenchou wants to answer the first question in the affirmative, he basically commits all his girls to serving you and all your friends from this board. He can't do that if he has even one girl in his lineup that is not comfortable with the idea.If, on the other hand, he gives the nice answer to the other question, all he has to find is one girl that is ready for you.It should be obvious that your chances of scoring are much better in that case.