Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[QUOTE=SonicBoom1;2462972]Well, first of all, I'm sorry to hear about your situation, it must be very difficult for you. I kind of agree with what CactusJack said. What might help is a loving partner who can help you gain your confidence back. I unfortunately don't know how one goes about doing that. You could find a sugar baby who cares about you, but in India they are difficult to find. You could perhaps travel and find someone in a different country but I'm not sure if you have the means and / or the interest to do that. Hopefully you'll get a GF who could help you out.

I had a similar situation after a difficult time in my life, but I came out of it by myself. That should give you some hope.[/QUOTE]The answer that he might be looking for is to how to prevent his mind from going for masturbation. You need to understand masturbation itself is not harmful until done in excess. Once a week or once a mont is good. And if a person doesn't have a GF, there are a variety of ways to keep oneself busy. I always advice people to do things which will tire them physically so that they don't get time to open their laptops and watch porn. I understand because of lockdown many people are doing that. But instead you can be a volunteer and help people in these difficult times. Not everyone can afford a GF, and will having a GF comes additional headaches.

I don't know what iam experiencing due to covid I can't even go to see doctor. My penis tip skin (uncircumsised) was tight and it has swelling one side half.

While I am applying coconut oil it get relieved; but not cured fully still having it

Iam experiencing pain sometimes / randomly in tip of penis; before these problems came I feel an vibration feeling in tip of penis for 5 days and it stops automaticaly then it all happens while urinating it feels good.

Please help me guys is it an sti?

[QUOTE=KevinDen;2465179]I don't know what iam experiencing due to covid I can't even go to see doctor. My penis tip skin (uncircumsised) was tight and it has swelling one side half.

While I am applying coconut oil it get relieved; but not cured fully still having it

Iam experiencing pain sometimes / randomly in tip of penis; before these problems came I feel an vibration feeling in tip of penis for 5 days and it stops automaticaly then it all happens while urinating it feels good.

Please help me guys is it an sti?[/QUOTE]Maybe you have injured yourself unknowingly or in your sleep. If it's swelling then blood must have accumulated which is sign of injury. You must visit a doctor and get checked. Or if due to covid you are unable to go then try to call and seek advice either by phone or online.

[QUOTE=KevinDen;2465179]I don't know what iam experiencing due to covid I can't even go to see doctor. My penis tip skin (uncircumsised) was tight and it has swelling one side half.

While I am applying coconut oil it get relieved; but not cured fully still having it

Iam experiencing pain sometimes / randomly in tip of penis; before these problems came I feel an vibration feeling in tip of penis for 5 days and it stops automaticaly then it all happens while urinating it feels good.

Please help me guys is it an sti?[/QUOTE]Hi bro,

Even I had skin tight problem. Work it ASAP. As you are from Chennai, please visit MetroMale clinic. PM me if you have any other doubt.

Any doctors in this forum request for help.

Can msg in private.

Did you have phimosis problem? Or just tight skin?

[QUOTE=HardLance;2465349]Hi bro,

Even I had skin tight problem. Work it ASAP. As you are from Chennai, please visit MetroMale clinic. PM me if you have any other doubt.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuuteBoy;2456475]Hello forum members,

Please take some time to help me out. I am posting here after exhausting all other sources, hoping to get some valuable advice.

I am 34, working and IT. My department is literally a heaven to pick girls. The atmosphere is very open, with the director himself having an affair with 3 of his managers. In our parties, outings, guys get girls drunk and touch them. Long story short, it is a casual workplace. I am someone who is got a very high libido, but have been a virgin. Being in the said atmosphere, I thought of venturing into mongering. Got to know of ISG & visited a girl. Since it was my first experience, it did nto go well. I did not.

During this Covid-19 times, when it is unsafe to venture out, please take sometime out to advice / help me. Did you have any such experience and how did you overcome it? Do you recommend any tablets (apart from anti depressants that I have already tried) that can help me get back my libido?[/QUOTE]Hey, advice will be you need to increase your testosterone level and some simple life style changes:

1. Try not to give fuck. Libido and ED have negative feedback cycles. If you feel you are loosing it during session, just ignore and enjoy time with the girl as a companion. Also suggest don't go to only shot places. Ask around for girls who give good GFE and behave well in your city and go to them. Don't go for pure looks and shots only.

2. Visit spas and try to make conversations with girls. You need to be comfortable talking with girls. You need to be confident around females. They are normally soft spoken and respectful.

3. Now avoid porn as much as possible. This will not happen in a day. Try to schedule it after a couple of days. You will see the quality of the orgasm will also increase. I have personally jerked off 4-5 times a day and also one a week to experiment. You will see the difference. On day 6, you will see what horniness is.

4. Start working out no matter how fit you are. It increases testosterone and you will see the difference. More than cardio, do strength workout. Don't take covid as an excuse and buy a couple of pair of dumbells which are just challenging enough, not too difficult. There are plenty of youtube programs. Even Johny Sins has a fitness channel. Well he can't be wrong.

5. Try to eat cleanly. Start eating more protein based food and kesar milk. Do your research and try to change your food habit. I have seen many of these implications on myself.

But remember point 1. I had many first had experience, where I got limp and due to anxiety it went worst. Just think the WG / Girl is also a humans with blood and flesh and all humans have short comings. You can also try little bit tantrik stuff and orgasm control. Google them.

Are penis rings good? Or they harm us?

[QUOTE=Tamsam;2473475]Are penis rings good? Or they harm us?[/QUOTE]Both I would say. If you are going to use it for short time then it's good say for half an hour or so. But don't take it if you have taken a blue pill or used some performance enhancers. It just blocks the blood flow back to normal and you run the risk of hospitalization.

In spite of homeopathic treatment and some ointment, my Molluscum contagiosum warts o penile foreskins are not going away. Can anyone help?

Even with a super sexy girl, if I wear condom I loose erection. I am too afraid to go unprotected sex. Any hope for me?

[QUOTE=Ssseeking;2477207]Even with a super sexy girl, if I wear condom I loose erection. I am too afraid to go unprotected sex. Any hope for me?[/QUOTE]Probably you are not getting enough foreplay.

[QUOTE=Tamsam;2473475]Are penis rings good? Or they harm us?[/QUOTE]Mostly harm, because it hinders blood circulation.

Hello brethren,

I am having pain in my left testicles.

Is it because I didn't had sex for 10 days or any other reason.

Please help me out in this.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=CrazyIndie;2473740]In spite of homeopathic treatment and some ointment, my Molluscum contagiosum warts o penile foreskins are not going away. Can anyone help?[/QUOTE]A combination of 2 creams (1) salicylic acid creams (2) I don't know the name, works. Visit a Dermatologist. If nothing works Cryosurgery is the last option.