She means she does not take a professional approach to it
[QUOTE=MissMaryHinge;2735719]Met a super-cute popsy on Tf then moved to line where we had some back and forth.
I suspected she was freelancer and when I asked her to meet for drink, she said she got paid for meets and sex. She offered to meet with her friends at Havana Social on soi11. Nice looking place.
She offered BJ and sex for 2 k. I asked about 2 shots bb inc anal for 3 k. She agreed. I might counter for 2.5 k.
I think maybe the bb was a misreading. Need to confirm.
She said she has a normal decent job and just charges for sex for extra spending money. I said oh. You're freelance. She said no, I'm not that.
How can we, do they with this situation describe them if not freelance? Maybe the tag has a stigma she prefer to avoid.[/QUOTE]LOL. This even stumps long time punters here. I have met many girls on the BTS, at restaurants, in malls, on TF, etc who were hot enough to interest me in dating them. They might say they are not freelancers but, sure enough, after we set a date to meet privately they will ask if I intend to have sex with them and if so, it isn't going to be free. "How much can you give me?" or "Will you take care of me?" and so on.
And, yes, they usually have regular jobs or own their own business. A non sex-related business.
I am thinking of one typical example of this. She is a very sexy lady. I met her on the BTS train. She might show up at a Hillary bar or a club. But when my fellow punter buddies see her and she throws her arms around me, later they will ask, "Wow! Is she a freelancer"?
"Well", I tell them, "not exactly. I have never seen her show up on Tinder, TF or anywhere else looking for customers. Although she visits friends who own businesses in the lower Sukhumvit area, I have never seen her stroll down the street, flirt or give the eye to potential customers passing by. Never seen her stop to chat with a man. Never seen her wave at a man on the street to get his attention. Never seen her in or outside Thermae, Beer Garden or the like.
She would not accept being handed off or introduced to someone as a potential customer. Because she is not looking for customers in that way. You need to meet her and chat her up just as you would a potential date back in your home country. And she isn't going on a date with you unless she likes you and is interested in having dinner with you, going to the movies together, traveling together, whatever. She just isn't going to fuck you for free. " LOL.
My buddies will balk and snort, "Well, then she's a freelancer!" She fucks for money"!
LOL. Still, not exactly. She is never actually strolling around or hitting the online sites looking for customers. Men see her, want to meet her, introduce themselves, make a case for why she should go on a date with them just like in real life and if she is interested she'll say Yes. If not, she'll say No. But the sex, if any, is not going to be free, that's all.
She simply knows she's got something worth money. Good money. With an inevitable Sell By date on it. So she's not giving it away for nothing. You need to be a legitimate date who happens to pay her if and when you have sex with her, that's all.
This particular girl also has no qualms about posting photos of her and her latest "boyfriend" kissing, cuddling, drinking, partying and traveling together right on the same social network account her next new suitor will get from her to set up his date with her.
Not exactly a professional freelancer's approach, right? That's because she isn't a professional feelancer. Other than the Line account and phone number I have for her, I wouldn't have the slightest idea where a "customer" would go to find her and "book" her, if there is such a thing with her. You just have to hang around, ride the BTS train and hope to happen to meet her to say Hello and introduce yourself.
There are tons of regular girls with regular jobs who operate this way in Thailand if they are attractive enough to make it happen.