No tomatos, green salador cucumbers at Oase's BBQ today. But. New sofas in the cinema. E-coli free.
HB
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No tomatos, green salador cucumbers at Oase's BBQ today. But. New sofas in the cinema. E-coli free.
HB
Now that I have more experience with the FKKs, I can confidently rank the ones I have patronized based on my overall impressions:
1. Oase (facilities not the best but service rules . . . and to the newbie who thought the food wasn't so bad . . . they had the pork cutlet the first time I went there too . . . it's all down hill from there!)
2. Artemis (has some good German pussy in the line-up with all the foreigners . . . but why does one of my top three have to be in a different city?!)
3. Mainhattan (good place to find some fresh and nasty new booty!)
4. Palace (superior facilities overall with lots of lookers . . . but severely lacking in PSE service!)
5. World (big and spacious but didn't see a lot of the kinda tutes I like physically . . . not good for being such a long way from Frankfurt . . . you also have to buy a robe if you prefer one over a towel!)
6. Golden Time (underwhelming facilities not suitable for the winter months with overwhelming number of racist tutes . . . but with the best pricing and the best food too!)
Of course, all is subject to change with further experience and learning.
Hi guys, I want to see what you guys normally do after you rejected a girl. I was at Palace at this one girl kept on asking me to have a session. She was an 8 and was nice about the rejection. She promised that "we'll have a good sex and guaranteed' Anyone would have done her if we see her in the street but in Palace there were better looking girls. She would go back and sit by those sofas. Most of the time she will be sitting next to or close by the girls I'the like to have session with. I didn't want to hurt her feeling or 'slap in the face' by walking to someone next to her and ask for the session. I had to wait until she walked away or the other girls were not in her sight and ask them for a session. Sometimes this became a problem since it wasted my times having to wait until she doesn't see me grabbing other girls.
I think after a few rejections and me going with other girls instead should have given her a hint that she was not my type. Maybe I'm too nice of a guy but how do you normally handle this?
[QUOTE=BadinSweet; 1162560]Hi guys, I want to see what you guys normally do after you rejected a girl. I was at Palace at this one girl kept on asking me to have a session. She was an 8 and was nice about the rejection. She promised that "we'll have a good sex and guaranteed' Anyone would have done her if we see her in the street but in Palace there were better looking girls. She would go back and sit by those sofas. Most of the time she will be sitting next to or close by the girls I'the like to have session with. I didn't want to hurt her feeling or 'slap in the face' by walking to someone next to her and ask for the session. I had to wait until she walked away or the other girls were not in her sight and ask them for a session. Sometimes this became a problem since it wasted my times having to wait until she doesn't see me grabbing other girls.
I think after a few rejections and me going with other girls instead should have given her a hint that she was not my type. Maybe I'm too nice of a guy but how do you normally handle this? [/QUOTE]I have been in a similar situation before and it does make your stay uncomfortable if you allow it to. You must realise and make absolute certain that the girls working in FKK clubs are there to make as much money as possible so they will approach each and every customer. You as a customer pays the entry fee to use all facilities and so YOU have any and every choice who you would like to fuck. The same goes for the girls, but they won't do that because they need to earn YOUR money. It's that simple! Don't goe to FKK thinking you are going to fall in love and marry the girl you are fucking, because that's not going to happen. These girls know what they are there for, so if you the paying customer don't want a girl you don't fancy, then don't pick her. Their feelings of rejection is pretentious, and the next customer that approaches them, they will go. Keep you head on, (the top one) and enjoy yourself, you make the decisions and DON'T GET PERSONALLY INVOLVED! Hope this helps.
Wolf
Just tell her that she's not your type. If you really don't want to fuck her. If you would, but only later. Tell her. The girls should know how to handle rejections. Much worse if you get rejected by a girl.
HB
OK, thanks guys. Next time I will just say I prefer the other hair color or something.
Hi BadinSweet,
How about saying, 'not right now honey, maybe later'. It sounds better and more friendly and she will know that you are maybe still interested. If you are nice to the girls, they will definitely appreciate it and spend time with you WITHOUT asking for money. It worked for me, so I don't see why it should not work for you. There are so many gorgeous girls and it is hard to stick to one type.
Happy hunting!
[QUOTE=Wolverine69; 1163610]Hi BadinSweet,
How about saying, 'not right now honey, maybe later'. It sounds better and more friendly and she will know that you are maybe still interested. If you are nice to the girls, they will definitely appreciate it and spend time with you WITHOUT asking for money. It worked for me, so I don't see why it should not work for you. There are so many gorgeous girls and it is hard to stick to one type.
Happy hunting! [/QUOTE]That is only a good idea if you think you might session with her at some time. When I am absolutely sure I will never ever session with the girl (f. Ex. Lucia at Oase) , I usually say "I don't have any money left" and it works pretty well.
Yeah, Wolverine69, the problem was not about rejecting a girl for later but rejecting them and go with someone else without hurting their feelings.
"No money left" sounds good Henio.
[QUOTE=Wolverine69; 1163610]Hi BadinSweet,
How about saying, 'not right now honey, maybe later'. It sounds better and more friendly and she will know that you are maybe still interested. If you are nice to the girls, they will definitely appreciate it and spend time with you WITHOUT asking for money.
Happy hunting! [/QUOTE]- If you do not intend to go with a girl make this clear after a few minutes. Girls are in a club to make money not to socialize. If she wants to stay OK. But never give a girl the impression you will make a room when your intention only is some talking.
- If you know a girl longer clearly it can happen that she comes to you just for some small talk. That is ok.
- What I really hate is people saying "Maybe later / Vielleicht später" when they mean NO.
B30
[QUOTE=BadinSweet; 1163755]Yeah, Wolverine69, the problem was not about rejecting a girl for later but rejecting them and go with someone else without hurting their feelings.
"No money left" sounds good Henio. [/QUOTE]This happens all the time, and you rarely get it right. Most girls understand a polite and friendly fob off, but some occasionally get really upset.
Happened to me yesterday at Oase. Girl has done it the last three times I've been at the club: sits on your lap, talks sweetly at you, sticks her tongue down your throat, gets the bad news. I've always consistently told her it wasn't going to happen in a friendly way.
This time she objected that the past two times I'd rejected her after she'd been kissing me only for me to "go off with a Romanian" (interesting prejudice) a few minutes later. Got angry. Tried to calm her down by saying I had no obligations here, and that it was her choice how she approached me. And would she kindly get off my balls because she was rather heavy and I needed the blood for that slim, young gorgeous Romanian spinner over there by the bar in a few minutes time. No, forget the last bit. Whatever. She wasn't happy.
She would have been unhappy whatever I'd told her, one of those you can't tell you don't like her type. That can really make for a scene in my experience. I was just a lightning rod for a girl frustrated at regular rejections. I don't see why I should have to tell her my type looks rather better than the rear end of a VW bus anyway. If she remembered what happened last time so well, why did she approach again? Stupid. She should get the message.
We did repair matters somewhat later when en passant I demanded loudly that she not kiss me, but she's a hopeless case, I am sure.
Be gentle, polite, friendly, and hope they get the message. But you won't always get it right. Move on.
The argument about not having enough money does work soundly. I do use that. But it was 11. 45 in the morning. Not even Henio gets through sessions that fast. LOL.
For Oase reference: otherwise an unspectacular club visit: two repeats with Tessa, Germany and Judith, Hungary. The latter again a remarkable session. I've never been with any girl as often as with Judith, but each time she hits the spot, finds something different, fantastic instincts the girl. For me the reference in matters service. And she looks great too.
Regretted a dip with a Spanish Romanian called Annie with startling pink lipstick, great tits, but little technique or enthusiasm in the room.
[QUOTE=Toscana;1163789]The argument about not having enough money does work soundly. I do use that. But it was 11. 45 in the morning. Not even Henio gets through sessions that fast. LOL.[/QUOTE]Ahh, but that is where I use the variation "I am waiting for my friend who has my money. The damn bastard is late once again". Actually have not used that one in Germany, but works great in the Spanish club scene.
[QUOTE=Henio;1163799]Ahh, but that is where I use the variation "I am waiting for my friend who has my money. The damn bastard is late once again". Actually have not used that one in Germany, but works great in the Spanish club scene.[/QUOTE]You're right. In fact, if you are waiting for someone, that is a successful temporizing excuse. They have little alternative but to respect that. It helps if it's true, however, and may not stop them from trying to hit on you later. You could write a book on these interchanges. Or make a video?
I sometimes even tell them I'm waiting for my brother.
[QUOTE=Toscana;1163924]You're right. You could write a book on these interchanges.[/QUOTE]Henio is indeed a master when it come to deception of the ladies. .
[QUOTE=Toscana;1163924]I sometimes even tell them I'm waiting for my brother.[/QUOTE]And I have actually used the excuse that I am waiting for my sister. You know that you have a bright one on the line when you can actually convince her that ole' sis is actually going to give the working girl's lifestyle a try for a few days. And you know for sure that you've got Madam Curie on the hook if you can convince her that mamma will be walking through the doors any minute now, just to check out a new moonlighting possibility.
Cheers,
Dedalus,
[QUOTE=Big30; 1163786]- If you do not intend to go with a girl make this clear after a few minutes. Girls are in a club to make money not to socialize. If she wants to stay OK. But never give a girl the impression you will make a room when your intention only is some talking.
- If you know a girl longer clearly it can happen that she comes to you just for some small talk. That is ok.
- What I really hate is people saying "Maybe later / Vielleicht späanother site" when they mean NO.
B30[/QUOTE]Hi Big30,
It is premature to write off most girls in these FKK clubs because most of them are at least a 7. Now the reason why I tell them not right now, maybe later is because when I first walk into an FKK club, I don't want a girl in my face pestering me for a session. I like to settle down, have a drink or two, check out the rest of the talent and then make my choice. Now when I went to FKK Mainhattan, as soon as I walked into the bar area, this girl came over, she was from Hungary, an 8 with an amazing ass, black hair, gorgeous face and she would'nt let me settle down. So I politely mentioned to her that I will see her later, which I did eventually about 11pm. I arrived there at 6pm and just wanted to sample all the facilities and unwind, have dinner, sauna, jacuzzi, fuck some girls etc. Now I did take her at 11pm and my suffering balls, SHE WAS FANTASTIC! S he gave me the best blowjob this side of the Atlantic, she screamed like a banshee and when I took her doggy style she squirted and came all over my balls. I spent an hour with her and she made me cum three times and only charged me euro100 for the hour. So hence I never refuse a girl outright, but politely reserve them for later. I came back to work yesterday and my balls are still feeling her amazing orgasms. I'm going back to FKK Mainhattan in August to sample those that got away. YEAH BABY!