Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2876897]My german SB is exactly this.

A bit shy and borderline boring is what I thought until I had her in the shower.

Yes, I casually walked in when she was freshening up, I undressed and stepped in to the shower with her. I still remember her facial expression. Mouth open, kinda making sense out of me undressing (shower had a glass panel). I walked in, got wet, stood behind her, held her breasts, which were nice and firm with pink nipples, ran my hands down her waist and fingers between her legs. She started moaning, I was super erect rubbing against her wet ass. Water flowing between us.

I bent her over and entered her from behind without even asking. What followed was epic sex in shower with me finishing on her ass.

She jumps out, puts towel on me, wipes urgently and went "let's go to the bedroom".

Since then no looking back. When we meet. We fuck at least 4 times in a night. Then, 2 or 3 times next AM.

Such a sweet sex kitten. Keep her. Don't let her go.[/QUOTE]I'm letting this one go. Honestly it was just too much. At some point I wasn't even enjoying it. I was just trying to stay hard to keep up with her. We went at it 4 times that night, only 2 of which I enjoyed, the first and last because I was aroused for both. The middle ones were her just doing all she could to keep going. Blowing me, hand job, moaning near me. And the minute my dick shows signs of life she was mounting me and trying to keep it going. I appreciate some guys have a sex drive that would be compatible with this. But I just don't see how. I mean after she came, right away there was zero enjoying the moment. 3 seconds later she was telling me to keep going.

It was like eating at a buffet where you can't leave till you finish 4 plates. It's no longer enjoyable at some point. You're thinking I'm done and ready to go home.

I hear you. Makes sense.

The buffet is a good analogy. Thinking of it, there are only two SBs. The german and the Spain ones with whom I enjoy multiple fucks.

Rest are all - "ok, when are you leaving?. I came and I am done" kind of feeling.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2877578]I'm letting this one go. Honestly it was just too much. At some point I wasn't even enjoying it. I was just trying to stay hard to keep up with her. We went at it 4 times that night, only 2 of which I enjoyed, the first and last because I was aroused for both. The middle ones were her just doing all she could to keep going. Blowing me, hand job, moaning near me. And the minute my dick shows signs of life she was mounting me and trying to keep it going. I appreciate some guys have a sex drive that would be compatible with this. But I just don't see how. I mean after she came, right away there was zero enjoying the moment. 3 seconds later she was telling me to keep going.

It was like eating at a buffet where you can't leave till you finish 4 plates. It's no longer enjoyable at some point. You're thinking I'm done and ready to go home.[/QUOTE]

If you are on the mobile app, you have to scroll down and click "apply filters".

Other than that, I can't think of any.

[QUOTE=Zizou23;2877566]Anyone know why when I try to search for gals in CDMX or Rio it just keep giving me results in Las Vegas Nevada? Anyone else encountering this problem? And how do you fix it?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2877848]I hear you. Makes sense.

The buffet is a good analogy. Thinking of it, there are only two SBs. The german and the Spain ones with whom I enjoy multiple fucks.

Rest are all - "ok, when are you leaving?. I came and I am done" kind of feeling.[/QUOTE]OMG the "when are you leaving" vibe? LOL.

I usually insist girls stay the night because I like morning sex. Frankly I gift generously and it makes me feel I'm getting my money's worth. But after that morning bang ends, I start throwing "it's time for you to go" vibes. And it's always awkward. Super short responses because I'm not trying to start new conversations. No discussions of breakfast or coffee. Just "wow it's already 8 am. Geez I slept in. I have such a big day and I'm already behind. " And then I anxiously watch them get dressed and stuff. Sometimes they want to take a shower (which I suspect is because hotel showers are much nicer than their showers at home) and I'm thinking "great she's going to be here another 20 minutes and I just want to checkout and go to Starbucks. "

It's a sad reality that once I've dumped my bag, and there isn't another session on the docket, I just want to get on with my day.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2878071]OMG the "when are you leaving" vibe? LOL.

I usually insist girls stay the night because I like morning sex. Frankly I gift generously and it makes me feel I'm getting my money's worth. But after that morning bang ends, I start throwing "it's time for you to go" vibes. And it's always awkward. Super short responses because I'm not trying to start new conversations. No discussions of breakfast or coffee. Just "wow it's already 8 am. Geez I slept in. I have such a big day and I'm already behind. " And then I anxiously watch them get dressed and stuff. Sometimes they want to take a shower (which I suspect is because hotel showers are much nicer than their showers at home) and I'm thinking "great she's going to be here another 20 minutes and I just want to checkout and go to Starbucks. "

It's a sad reality that once I've dumped my bag, and there isn't another session on the docket, I just want to get on with my day.[/QUOTE]I am prob a bit unusual but I like the dating part. Not just dinner and go to room. But if she stays over then brunch and the pool or whatever. I enjoy hanging with hot girls 1/3 my age. (Half my age is way too old and boring. 😋)

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2878113]I enjoy hanging with hot girls 1/3 my age. (Half my age is way too old and boring. 😋)[/QUOTE]Isn't that such an interesting dynamic? When I set age range, the target is 20-23. Once a girl is 24,25, she's pushing it. 27 or 28 I've never gone that high. That's high mileage to me. I totally assume they are better conversationalists, have more to say. But I also feel like if I'm renting a car I'the rather rent a newer model.

I think when I put it that way, I almost sound, maybe just a tad, a teensy bit, possibly just possibly a bit misogynistic. Maybe.

I don't mean to suggest women's value goes down after 23. I just mean their sex value to me goes down. And since I'm married and not looking for another wife, that's their value. Don't need a girlfriend. Just a non-annoying hot toy to pipe into.

Definitely had the same glitch you encountered for about 10 days. I emailed support and looks like they fixed it (at least Rio).

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[QUOTE=Gfefan;2877849]If you are on the mobile app, you have to scroll down and click "apply filters".

Other than that, I can't think of any.[/QUOTE]

I Dmed Seeking page on Instagram and its fixed now thanks for the help all!

When I'm in Germany I want the fastest thing on the lot, anywhere else I couldn't care less unless I'm specifically using it for a road trip then the newer the better.

I saw a young 30's girl for a while who's life was a complete mess. She was fairly new to the scene, or so I believe. I didn't have any more or less trouble getting along with her than I did any other girl. But I seem to do best with girls in their mid twenties. I can pull them younger but it's difficult to have any kind of small talk with them let aline a date. I usually filter them at 21, I want to be able to grab a drink. It's bad enough they get carded.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2878148]Isn't that such an interesting dynamic? When I set age range, the target is 20-23. Once a girl is 24,25, she's pushing it. 27 or 28 I've never gone that high. That's high mileage to me. I totally assume they are better conversationalists, have more to say. But I also feel like if I'm renting a car I'the rather rent a newer model.

I think when I put it that way, I almost sound, maybe just a tad, a teensy bit, possibly just possibly a bit misogynistic. Maybe.

I don't mean to suggest women's value goes down after 23. I just mean their sex value to me goes down. And since I'm married and not looking for another wife, that's their value. Don't need a girlfriend. Just a non-annoying hot toy to pipe into.[/QUOTE]

Somehow once the dick gets his share, my brain switches off with most girls.

I want the non rushed GFE but the day after is just boring. The two exceptiona are my German and Spain SBs (German 23, Spanish 28) are exceptiona. Even that is only for a day or two. That is why I don't take them on tripa.

The only person I can hangout happily with / without sex is my wife Ironically, I fish outside because fiahing at one place is boring, and then find the new place boring right after I catch the fish that I go back to my fiahing spot.

Something off with the brain wiring.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2878113]I am prob a bit unusual but I like the dating part. Not just dinner and go to room. But if she stays over then brunch and the pool or whatever. I enjoy hanging with hot girls 1/3 my age. (Half my age is way too old and boring. 😋)[/QUOTE]

Most of my and your Seeking is short term a few dates, or a weekend. Every once in a while you hit one that ends up almost like an LTR. Like Elvis is tied up big time with his hottie. Shayla and I are still NSA but def have that long term comfort thing going on. Yes it's not as electric as at first but the sex can still be epic.

For those that like a good Penthouse forum read, read on. Here's how the other night went down.

Arrived at Shayla's for date night as usual and chatted for quite some time. We moved to the bed and watched Netflix for a bit, her in the crook of my arm.

So as time passed, I suggested massage and stripped to my skivvies. I give her quite a good and focused massage but after a while start thinking of sex. So I take off her pants and start hip thrust sliding my balls over her ass crack while massaging and eventually grow a chub and then a full fledged hardon. It feels great. After some time I move off the bed and around to where her face is.

She is lying on her belly and props herself on her elbows and takes me in her mouth. This is an amazing position because I can continue to give her an amazing back massage while she blows the fuck out of me. This is super win win because she is happy to BJ and enjoy the massage. Def going to repeat this!

Kinda like 69 it's distracting to do something while being blown. So it feels great but not going to blow a load and can go on forever. We are definitely at this for 20+ minutes. When I feel I might blow, I direct her on some ball work as well and it feels amazing. Got to fuck her now!

I put a pillow under her belly and mount her legs closed from behind. This feels amazing. She's no longer watching TV but face buried in the pillow gasping and sighing and generally heightening the experience for me. She feels amazing bareback, as always, and I threaten to blow a load a few times. I find if I rear back onto my knees the thrusting sensation is less intense and I can back away from the edge. Then I lean back over and pound another 100 strokes! Damn this is some great fucking.

At some point I find myself overheating from a massive amount of fucking and ask her to come on top. Last few times on top she's done RCG which feels great but I love to see her face. Tonight she mounts up traditional CG face to face. Lovely.

She has an amazing way of riding cowgirl where she puts the tops of her feet on top of your thighs to control the action very precisely. And of late she's been doing this thing we both love where she will very slowly take you all the way to the point of exiting where the tip is barely in and then slowly reinsert all the way deep. And then almost full exit. OMG it's amazing.

Sex kitten that she is she adds soft ball work to this by reaching around with her left hand and softly massaging my balls while she fucks me super slow. OMG. This is just the ticket and I build quite fast. I pull out and I am about to shoot but really don't just want to jack it. I am able to hold onto the shot for about five more seconds as she repositions to take me in her mouth. Good girl! As soon as her lips hit my dick I start firing and drop a good bit of load in her mouth and some on her cheek and some drips down to my tummy. Fuck it was hard to hold that last shot but epic when it came.

She pops up and cleans me up with a warm wash cloth. She always does this and it's so girlfriendy I love it. A bit more Netflix and wind down and off I go. An epic date.

I don't think there's anything wrong with your wiring at all. We've been programmed for millenia to spread our seed. You're never going to beat evolution. The only decision you meet to make is whether you want to "keep your vows" or whatever nonsense you believe in or bang some hot chick who's asking for something tangible in return. I have no issue with that at all, you're two consenting adults. Fuck what anybody else thinks.

I loved my wife, I still love her, and would do anything for her except agreeing to not have sex with other women. I've tried it and it makes me a miserable human being so I don't fight the biological urge anymore. It's moot now because we're divorced. With the exception of one SB I never said nor was it expected that we were exclusive. I was in love with that SB and that one really hurt when it ended. The one I'm with now is a 9 with a model figure, waist is about 3 feet long,. I'm not in live with her and we don't do ask much as I've done with my other SBs but she's working for me and I'm reasonably sure she's happy too.

I will admit that my route caused other problems like I didn't really want to bang the wife as often and that took a toll on the relationship. But nothings perfect when you play this game already attached to someone who probably doesn't know what you're up to.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2878388]Somehow once the dick gets his share, my brain switches off with most girls.

I want the non rushed GFE but the day after is just boring. The two exceptiona are my German and Spain SBs (German 23, Spanish 28) are exceptiona. Even that is only for a day or two. That is why I don't take them on tripa.

The only person I can hangout happily with / without sex is my wife Ironically, I fish outside because fiahing at one place is boring, and then find the new place boring right after I catch the fish that I go back to my fiahing spot.

Something off with the brain wiring.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2878388]The only person I can hangout happily with / without sex is my wife Ironically, I fish outside because fiahing at one place is boring, and then find the new place boring right after I catch the fish that I go back to my fiahing spot.

Something off with the brain wiring.[/QUOTE]Nah, it is normal. See the link: [URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect[/URL].

The original experiments with rats applied the following protocol: A male rat was placed into an enclosed large box with four or five female rats in heat. He immediately began to mate with all the female rats repeatedly until he eventually became exhausted. The females continued nudging and licking him, yet he did not respond. When a novel female was introduced into the box, he became alert and began to mate once again with the new female.

You see you are normal for a rat. We all are. LOL.

When a novel female was presented, initially, there was a small increase in the levels of dopamine, however, after continued copulation with the novel female, a significant increase in dopamine levels was observed.

Dopamine is powerful stuff. Without it, the zeal for life IMO goes away. Thing is you have cortisol, stress, and regret. Chances are that new hottie is not going to be better in bed than the one you have in hand, and there is stress with performance and getting ripped off and when the big head has to tell the little head who is boss. That is why I tried to have at least 3 SBs in hand while always looking to upgrade. If I rotated three, the dopamine novelty was still there. It was not as high as the first time but there was no boredom with the women.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2878388]Somehow once the dick gets his share, my brain switches off with most girls.

I want the non rushed GFE but the day after is just boring. The two exceptiona are my German and Spain SBs (German 23, Spanish 28) are exceptiona. Even that is only for a day or two. That is why I don't take them on tripa.[/QUOTE]As for trips, the best is if you can get two (or more) women who really like each other mentally and ideally physically and then you will not get bored. It is hard to not get bored if you are with one person the whole time.

More from the link: In an earlier experiment, also conducted by Carr et al. , they found that, unlike male rats, female rats preferred the odor of a familiar partner rather than the odor of a novel partner.

That practically explains it all right?

Thank God we are all so much more advanced than rats. LOL.

Met a very nice girl in the US. What a surprise end to 2023.

Been chatting for a while. She came across as a decent chick. Met for coffee (yes coffee only) and she refused to let me buy her. We bought our own coffees.

The chat was so nice that we ended up spending 2. 5 hours at a coffee shop. Went for a walk, few kisses and that's it. Nothing more.

Then we met again after a week. This time, we met for dinner and then her place.

She is good looking but a bit short in height. Sex was OK, not fabulous.

Will definitely repeat as she has a great attitude and invests in building conmections and is not one of those golden pussies. Her asks are very reasonable. She did tell me she is shy at first and then opens up. So, hoping the sex gets better in 2024.

Looking back, 2023 has been a great year with learnings.

Europe has continued to return on past investments. Couple new Europeam ones picked up including the squirter. But, the top 3 from 2022 remains top three in 2023.

Found a good SB in SFO only to have her ghost me. Found a decent SB in US to do it in the woods but then lost interest. Found the one that negotiated a high amount when I had a bulge in pants (lesson learned. Never negotiate when little man is erect) but she is by far the best looks. Will try her for a lower ppm.

Ended the year with finding a girl with good head on shoulders.

Looking forward to my Europe trips in 2024. Starts with Spain in Feb.

Advance Happy New Year fellow seekers. Have fun, stay safe. Treat them well and make them treat you well. Cheers!

Thanks GFEfsn for the recap. Super excited you have found a new or prospect. My 2023 turned out spectacular as well. A shade fewer girls total than 2022 but still an epic number. But more important some amazing quality.

In my lifetime I have only been with 5 girls who are 9. 5 ers. And two were this year! Gaby at Monte Carlo in Rio and Manuella an SA girl in Rio. Amazing optics. And Manuella was a 9. 5 all around as well.

And somehow magically I scored a 10. Only girl I have ever rated a ten. Absolutely perfect looking in all respects. Rolls out of bed looking like a goddess. An actual ten. And I got to spend three days with her in Athens. A true one for the books.

A pile of amazing hotties in Brazil and Thailand. And some solid stuff in Germany/Spain/Austria as well.

And of course Shayla the home girl is still going strong two years in.

Been quite a year but plan for 2024 to be just as amazing (but without meeting a ten).

And heres the amazing thing. I am not special, maybe a bit better than average looking. And I have money but so do most of us that play the game. But in 2019 I literally had no game. Hadnt been on a date in nearly 40 years! And here I am four years later convincing a ten to go to Athens with me at an insanely low daily rate, plus I have a full time mistress.

This is beyond my wildest dreams. With persistence u will find the gems and bed the gems and get better at it each time. It is absolutely possible for all of us if we put in the effort.