Some of my contrary experiences and observations
[QUOTE=TimTimms;2768972]Might be posted double. Similar Thoughts.
Imagine bar hopping. You showing your 10 to everyone. You the Man.
Then all her Friends show up wanting a Drinkie-. Are you Brave enough to say F. K OFF.
...[/QUOTE]Actually, yes. Well, "Fuck Off" would be too harsh. But I will buy 1 Lady Drink for 1 of my chosen girl's "friend, sister, cousin", whatever. Then when the follow up friend, sister, cousin shows up asking for a drink and I don't want to buy them one I simply wai, smile and say "Mai dai. " (can not). I will even refuse that way when my girl asks me to buy one for them if I am not interested in meeting the new girl. An exception might be a LD for the mamasan in that bar if my girl is in tight with her or whatever.
Contrary to what seems to be other posters' experiences, refusng to buy LDs for my chosen girl's friends, even if asked to by her, has never negatively effected my session with that girl later. That is, IF I have secured an upfront agreement from her before paying her barfine or taking her that we will have DFK, DATY, BBBJ and Real Sex without a condom. If it is only a "Go With The Flow And See What Happens In The Room" situation, any nightmare scenario can and, for me, often does follow based on anything, everything or nothing that happens prior to bedtime sex.
But I must be one of those "psychos" mentioned here every now and then, LOL, because my experiences over the past 10 years of living and mongering here run contrary to what I read here on a whole host of issues, not just that one.
Among them:
- Note I said I will buy the mamasan a Lady Drink in the above situation. I used to avoid mamasans, thinking as most seem to believe here that they are unnecessary interlopers. Yes, they would be if you are fine with whatever basic standard Thai P4 P fare the girl is going to dole out to you and your only negotiation points are regarding price and maybe ST vs LT. You don't want a mamasan involved in that. But if you like the idea that the mamasan might be very helpful in bringing girls to you who have been vetted for the very services, with you, that I cited above in my upfront agreement requests, buy that old bag a LD, be friendly with her, tell her what you like, want, need for a Happy Barfine Experience and chances are very good she will save you a lot of wasted LD purchases in the future for prospects that will never work out well for you anyway.
- I have no problem reducing the fee for a girl on subsequent sessions if I am dazzled enough by her to want repeats. Oh, she might balk a bit when you tell her the new rate. But I have repeated many times with girls I took from bars who would not budge from, say, 3000 for ST (on my terms) the first time for 2000 - 2500 on subsequent sessions.
- I find young and above average looking Bangkok gogo girls to be far more agreeable to my above cited upfront agreement requests than less attractive, supposedly more desperate girls on the street or supposedly more sexually raunchy girls in the specifically Happy Ending or PSE shops.
To name just a few.
And my contrary experiences don't only go positive for me:
- I have never met a "poor" Thai prostitute who is forced to do any damn thing she isn't ok to do for any amount of money high or low. Not talking about street girls who collapse drunk and unconscious on the sidewalk. But just about every one of them above that are certainly not "poor" by Thai standards. Hell, not even "poor" by USA standards if you've traveled much around the states. So this idea that they are living a terrible lives doing horrible things they hate to do for ugly old men just does not jive with my experiences and observations over the years. Thai prostitutes of any age and physical appearance have never been reluctant to say "NO" to me for any and all of my above cited requests as long as there is at least one other customer prospect in the area. And there always is. That is also something worth remembering when they hit you with that "my baby has no milk, my grandma is sick and has no money" stuff. Thai prostitutes we meet in these red light districts are not "poor".
A related topic:
- Multiple sessions and repeats do not improve the chances of BBFS+CIP with a Thai girl, P4 P or regular, who initially said "No" to it with me. LOL. At least not up to and including 3-4 repeats. Again, talking about how some of MY experiences run contrary to what I read here.
As always, YMMV.
Whoops! That went sideways.
So, after finishing the report, I headed back out to Soi 24. As I briskly walked toward my destination, I took stock of how I was feeling. A little tired, a little lethargic but still good to go. Huh, unfortunately there was something niggling at the back of my mind that I TOTALLY chose to ignore.
I reached the little alleyway on Soi 24 and made my way to Addict. I passed by a LOT of ladies who were just as acceptable but for some reason I fixated on Addict. When I entered, there was a lineup in progress. The mamasan quickly ushered me to the sofa to make a pick. So many ladies smiling at me. Who to pick? I threw caution to the wind and picked a lovely young woman and off we went. Up in the room, she started filling the jacuzzi and scampered off to get her basket of goodies. I undressed and waited, that niggling feeling started growing as well.
She got back soon enough and not long after, we were both undressed. She motioned me to get on my front so she can massage me while waiting for the water to fill. The massage itself was fair (only because I had such an intense session hours earlier) so I used the time to check her out. She was slim bordering on skinny and sported man-made boobs (well proportioned though) and I admit she was very attractive. When the water reached an acceptable level, we both entered and she started washing me. At this point, with all the fondling going on, I should technically be sporting a note-worthy erection but.
It was only when she was giving me a blowjob did my little friend rise, albeit reluctantly, to the occasion. Unfortunately, when we got out, the little fucker went back to sleep. THAT was when it hit me. My body has not yet recovered sufficiently from the intense massage session. It worked brilliantly with the first therapist because it was immediately after resurrection. It worked magically with the Sideline chick because I was well rested. It failed this time because I was still in recovery mode. I'll give it to her, she tried, and mightily but. Nothing. So, rather than both of us being morose, I got her to lie down and went to town on her lady bits. It wasn't long before her soft moans got louder and her body started mashing herself into my face. I must have done something right when her hips started bucking and shuddering on my mouth. With a loud hiss and a yelp, she orgasmed. I was totally surprised by the look of shock and embarrassment on her face. She quickly hopped off the bed to clean herself. She admitted to me that that was the first time someone made her come.
She redoubled her efforts to get an erection going but. In the end, she had me in a firm grip and jacked me off. THAT was intense. I did pop a load in the end.
Moral of the story. Rest and recuperate after an intense massage session before heading out to play.
See you next time!!