Bangkok Reports

What a report man! Loved it! Specially the part about the Sidelines and the regular girls. Glad to hear that you were able to salvage things with that regular girl after that ladyboy wasted your time.

I tried contacting some girls from a sideline site here in Chiang Mai but no luck, no reply from them yet. Will try again in BKK.

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882]I have scoured this forum for intel for a while so only fair I give something back by the way of reports. I stayed 1 week in August then another 3 in November / December so this is a summation of the best of both trips. My health held me back a little, but some top class encounters were still had and it was good to see things getting fairly close to the pre pandemic levels.
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[QUOTE=Sprite133;2775086]What a report man! Loved it! Specially the part about the Sidelines and the regular girls. Glad to hear that you were able to salvage things with that regular girl after that ladyboy wasted your time.

I tried contacting some girls from a sideline site here in Chiang Mai but no luck, no reply from them yet. Will try again in BKK.[/QUOTE]Agree. Epic report CW. So fun to read. Esp about recovering after standing that poor girl up and calling her a man-****. The double whammy. Epic save.

[QUOTE=SiamMan;2774932]This describes perfectly the situation for many of us here. Having lived here for over 20 years, my regular serial mongering days are long behind me. I am happily living with my long-term wife and our kids. As long as I take good care of them and treat them well then everyone is happy. This allows me to go out one or two nights a week for terrific sex and hang out for fun with my chosen favorite lady. Everyone is happy with this arrangement, including my "mistress", or " bit on the side" in English parlance, or "Gik" in Thai parlance, who I also treat very well, although I'm not rich enough to take on as a fully fledged "Mia Noi". As GOATSCROT says, it is this arrangement that keeps our marriage, and I'm sure many others, together.[/QUOTE]It's a pretty awesome way to live, isn't it? Couldn't imagine living back in the West where it's frowned upon. No wonder there's so many divorces.

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882]I have scoured this forum for intel for a while so only fair I give something back by the way of reports.[/QUOTE]Thanks for this amazing report! I hope it gets marked for the "Best Of".

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882]Sideline girls. Thought I would have a dabble with a couple the women I saw on TSG sideline website[/QUOTE]What is TSG? Assuming it is [URL]sidelinethailand.com[/URL], I don't understand some of the acronyms, even with Google Translate. For example, what is "can remove cleavage", does that mean finish on tits? I couldn't find a glossary on this forum, but I am happy to compile one if people are interested and willing to contribute answers.

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882] (ladyboy story) I was 99% sure this one was dead. I would not have held it against her if she said "fuck you" and never wanted to hear from me again. After a few hours of cooling off I messaged her the next night and asked if I could take her out to say sorry in person. She turned up at mine with 12 beers and loved to drink, we had dinner out then back to mine where she insisted we plough through all of them and proceeded to have a wild session with multiple rounds until 6 am then more when we woke up before lunch. Petite and a real wildcat, what a turnaround. We went out a few more times over my stay too but she did quickly try to get very clingy.[/QUOTE]Only in Thailand, wow!

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882]Potential scam / jail bait warning.

Thought this one was worth a mention in case any of you run into her on TF. Matched with a cutie called Emma who's profile said 23. After some chit chat she wanted to meet later that day which I did. I rock up and she is wearing a school uniform and looks super young. Then when she was asking about coming back to my condo within 30 minutes I was on high alert. I asked how old she actually is and she said 18 and got her ID out and flashed it at me. I asked her to let me inspect it more closely and she is 17. She was still a bit pushy about wanting to come back but I obvs sent her home alone. She kept messaging saying she wants sex etc.

I since notice she creates a few profiles on TF all under the name of Emma or Emily. Her whatsapp photo is very explicit etc. I wonder if the whole thing is a bit of a set up to rope someone in and extort money etc. Something about it is dodgy as fuck. Has anyone else spoken to her?[/QUOTE]Thanks for the warning! As another caution, I met a deaf girl named Nan on TF who had a rash all around her chest and pelvic region, which made me think she might be a ladyboy.

If you wanted to use TF strictly to find non hookers, would putting in the ad NO HOOKERS in the Thai language work. Since there are so many options to get hookers in Thailand having one spot to weed them out sounds good. Will it work.

[QUOTE=SiamMan;2774932]This describes perfectly the situation for many of us here. Having lived here for over 20 years, my regular serial mongering days are long behind me. I am happily living with my long-term wife and our kids. As long as I take good care of them and treat them well then everyone is happy. This allows me to go out one or two nights a week for terrific sex and hang out for fun with my chosen favorite lady. Everyone is happy with this arrangement, including my "mistress", or " bit on the side" in English parlance, or "Gik" in Thai parlance, who I also treat very well, although I'm not rich enough to take on as a fully fledged "Mia Noi". As GOATSCROT says, it is this arrangement that keeps our marriage, and I'm sure many others, together.[/QUOTE]OK, I get it, but what's the point of having a long-term wife, when you're allowed to have a mistress (or mistresses)? I can understand it if you wanted kids, and fell madly in love with her. But apart from that I don't see the advantage. You go out once or twice a week 'for terrific sex with your chosen favorite lady'. Does this mean that the sex with your wife is not that great anymore, or even non-existent? If so, what's the point of keeping her?

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2775261]OK, I get it, but what's the point of having a long-term wife, when you're allowed to have a mistress (or mistresses)? I can understand it if you wanted kids, and fell madly in love with her. But apart from that I don't see the advantage. You go out once or twice a week 'for terrific sex with your chosen favorite lady'. Does this mean that the sex with your wife is not that great anymore, or even non-existent? If so, what's the point of keeping her?[/QUOTE]The point is your with someone who is your companion and that you get along well with. You enjoy each other's company, travel together, grow old together, and take care of each other. Sex fades no matter who you are with, and really is nothing to base a relationship on anyway. But a true bond grows. Asians have this figured out. Sex is like riding a roller coaster. You don't want to live at the amusement park.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2775261]OK, I get it, but what's the point of having a long-term wife, when you're allowed to have a mistress (or mistresses)? I can understand it if you wanted kids, and fell madly in love with her. But apart from that I don't see the advantage. You go out once or twice a week 'for terrific sex with your chosen favorite lady'. Does this mean that the sex with your wife is not that great anymore, or even non-existent? If so, what's the point of keeping her?[/QUOTE]Like [B]Goatscrot[/B] says. Bottom line, best form of long term health care. Asians don't put their family in nursing homes. They're taken care of at home. And if someone goes to the hospital, some family member stays with them all the time. It takes TIME and effort to be accepted as family, and those 19 year 1000 baht airheads aren't signing up for the duration. It's been decades since I've been to Pattaya, but walking along the beach road during the day, seeing the decrepit old coots sitting there, knowing that someday that might be me, made a pack with a buddy, if either of us got to that state, the other would do a favor and terminate said state. Asians think westerners are barbarians when it comes to taking care of parents and spouses.

A friend had a devil of a time, a fellow countryman, declining health, his [I]main squeeze[/I] bailed when it got tiresome to roll him over, so those bedsores [S]...[/S] Then admitted to hospital, no visitors [S]...[/S] Finally the hassle of working through the hospital bills, dispose of the body, correspondence between Belgium, the embassy [S]...[/S]. You think she's the love of your life, get sick, and see how long THAT lasts WITHOUT being considered FAMILY. She just might be moving YOU to the shed and inviting her boyfriend in to the master bedroom.

Just one more factor, methinks. I know, it won't happen to you. Time's a cruel b*tch, and waits for no man.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2775261]OK, I get it, but what's the point of having a long-term wife, when you're allowed to have a mistress (or mistresses)? I can understand it if you wanted kids, and fell madly in love with her. But apart from that I don't see the advantage. You go out once or twice a week 'for terrific sex with your chosen favorite lady'. Does this mean that the sex with your wife is not that great anymore, or even non-existent? If so, what's the point of keeping her?[/QUOTE]I think GOATSCROT has already answered your question perfectly, so not much more I can add, other than to say that irrespective of the quality, or not, of the sex-life there is so much more to a close relationship established over 20 years. In most cases after 20 years together the excitement of sex inevitably fades, but that on its own is no reason to question the "point of keeping her" as you put it. So if that excitement can be had by spending time with a beautiful, young and willing woman elsewhere that need not be seen as a threat to the primary relationship.

Don't fool yourselves fellow esteemed board members. While all this mia this mia that is real, it is not a Win Win for all involved.

Be careful be discreet.

Think the official Wife. Who here wants to be her. No offense.

[QUOTE=TomThumbbs;2775306]Don't fool yourselves fellow esteemed board members. While all this mia this mia that is real, it is not a Win Win for all involved.

Be careful be discreet.

Think the official Wife. Who here wants to be her. No offense.[/QUOTE]There's a lot of Thailand Youtubers (Western males) that are married or have serious live in girlfriends. Watching their channels here and there I don't get the impression that their wife / GF is good with them having a gik. I just don't think most women would go for this type if arrangement.

He just wants companionship at this point. Any monger on here over 50 understands his post. Sex with a 18 yo is always better than a 60 year old but being the old guy at the club or the old guy in Thailand still doing one night stands in his 60's and 70's is considered pathetic.

I'm starting to tire of the mongering scene now that I'm in my 50's. I want to be in a real relationship now but I can't stand older women. They are awful. I'm really looking to meet a 20 something that isn't a hooker to start settling down with. I just don't know how to go about it. I don't want to be doing this in my 60's.

[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2775346]He just wants companionship at this point. Any monger on here over 50 understands his post. Sex with a 18 yo is always better than a 60 year old but being the old guy at the club or the old guy in Thailand still doing one night stands in his 60's and 70's is considered pathetic.

I'm starting to tire of the mongering scene now that I'm in my 50's. I want to be in a real relationship now but I can't stand older women. They are awful. I'm really looking to meet a 20 something that isn't a hooker to start settling down with. I just don't know how to go about it. I don't want to be doing this in my 60's.[/QUOTE]Why not, its fun.

I like being pathetic.

[QUOTE=ChillWinston88;2774882]

I also got chatting with a 20 year old architect student and later that night she said she was at home drinking beer alone, I was also in bed and said it was a shame we were both alone. She asked if she can come round. I did a video call to check it was all as it seemed and told her to come. 30 minutes later she says she is outside my condo so I go down. As I walk into reception a woman approaches me who looked a little similar but a lot rougher, she smiled as I approached and said "nice to meet you". Her deep voice screamed ladyboy so I was immediately thinking it was a weird set up. Wanting to get her away from my condo I suggested going for a beer. So we sit down in the German beer house place, she was steaming drunk and kept asking to go to my room which I kept declining. She told me she was a sex worker. At this point I still think the whole thing is just a set up so I make it clear to her that she will not have me and she should just go to find a customer elsewhere so she then stormed off. An Aussie guy had heard the whole interaction and we had a laugh about it, then had a beer with him for an hour before looking at my phone and seeing about 20 missed calls from her which I just ignored. On getting home she was still messaging me and the conversation went something like.

Her: "why did you do this to me, why did you even say you meet me".

Me: "look, you told me you were a student but it turns out you were a ladyboy hooker, you wasted my time etc".

Her (very upset by now): "wtf, I am not like that, you insult me, I can't believe how you treat me".

Me: "what the hell are you on about, you sat opposite me a couple of hours ago and told me you wanted sex for money".

Her: "What?? I didn't even meet you. I waited outside your place calling you for nearly 2 hours".

At this point I look back at the time of those missed calls and it turns out they were exactly when I was sitting down with that ladyboy in the bar. Fuck!. The penny dropped, I had mistaken the ladyboy who smiled at me nicely in reception with the girl I was supposed to meet. What a fuck up. I then video call her right away to profoundly apologise and try to explain myself, she is in tears and not impressed. How the hell did I go from having a cute student come to mine to doing this to her. FML.
[/QUOTE]What a fantastic report and hilarious too. Thanks!

[QUOTE=TomThumbbs;2775306]Don't fool yourselves fellow esteemed board members. While all this mia this mia that is real, it is not a Win Win for all involved.

Be careful be discreet.

Think the official Wife. Who here wants to be her. No offense.[/QUOTE]If a tree falls in the woods and there's no one around to hear it, does it make a sound? Methinks not. As long as one understands about respect, about not causing a loss of face, no harm, no foul.