How to find a wingman for initiation?
I will be in MDE for the first time and would love to have a wingman show me the casas in El centro and some other fun places. Just looking for sex, nothing else. But how do I find such a wingman. English speaking of course? Please PM me any suggestions if you don't want to post publicly.
TIA.
March 17 - March 31 Medellin 1st time complete
I won't write every single day and every single episode but summarize best I can of the two weeks in Medellin. My first time, no Spanish and I was solo.
1. The place: I stayed at the orange suites an entire apartment with full kitchen $65 per day (Pobalado) central to everywhere and walking distance from Parque Lleras, Gustos, and any other night club in Poblado. Guest friendly (up to four people allowed with Cedula) can spend the night or whatever floats your boat with 24 hour security and zero hassle for guest. Coffee shops, nice restaurants, and stores all on the same street and neighborhood. Staff was cool not much English but we made it work no complaints here.
2. The chicas: I was there 14 days and had 19 chicks ranging from 19 to oldest 25. I went the FB route but 3 were from walk-ups at Parque Lleras. The one thing I can say is that I was on a streak of GFE and no condoms (if that is what you are into I am) but just as a heads up I was told by this forum and it is true to ask up-front when talking to the girls so there won't be any misunderstandings because I did have some. I paid a little more a couple of times (for no condom) but looking back could have been a hustle because why would you do it for more money? If you don't do it then you don't but negotiating upfront with original price will stop all of that. I averaged 250 -300 mil for the FB chicks the Parque Lleras girls was 200 mil each time. I tried to make it a variety of girls Buenos Aires, Belo, north, south, dark, light and in between. I was able to do that and it was pretty easy because I find out that every chick could be had it was mind-blowing for me. I don't drink liquor but I will tell you to have a bottle of vodka, Jose, Corona and a bag of those bum bum suckers and that is a hoe kit LOL the chicks love it. I can cook so I would have something made and they love to eat also and that was cheaper than taking them out (but do you). I never had any spend the night out of all the girls I think one got me for 200 mil I could never find it after she left. It was the first girl I had when I got there 19 and drop dead beautiful to me but was slipping did not put it in my safe. Besides that of my own making every chick was straight up and did any and everything I asked them to do. My MO was to make them shower when they got there they all loved to dance naked and I took pictures and selfies with them and the whole time talking or whatever everyone naked no one had a problem not even one (so the paying for pictures never happened to me). I had a threesome that was fucking awesome and nasty that I told myself would do in Medellin was not really a turn-off but they were both doing snorting that pink stuff and I am not down with it myself but I am not opposed to whoever do it. Obviously it put them on a cloud because I have not seen that much dick sucking, ass licking and pussy eating in my life time LOL it was 500 mil plus taxi so 550 mill. The chicks stayed anywhere from 2 to 4 hours when they asked how long I always said an hour or so no chick ever stayed just an hour. Centro was a little ahead of my speed and experience meaning you have to be a vet with a good eye because everything is moving so fast down there. I went twice but could not grasp the right way to go about it and I seen a lot of bottom barrel chicks IMO but I was walking fast and that is just what I seen. I know it can't be like that because too many brothers here swear on Centro I just did not see it when I went. One of my biggest regrets is not going to parque Lleras more I went the last four nights I was there (was locked in on the FB chicks) my God that place is very surreal I did not expect what I seen and you can have your pick of the litter and unlike facebook you see what you dealing with in the flesh and it is cheaper a win win (hey you live and you learn). So I will be a regular at Lleras next time I promise it is so worth it. I went to Gustos and the chick said 300 she was bad so I said cool then she said it was $300 USD for an hour so I kindly brought her the drink she was drinking said no thank you and got the hell out that club will not go back. Honest she was not any more beautiful than the facebook or Lleras girls so I have no idea why gusto girls think that shit will fly but I guess they do catch there man every now and then but was not going to be me. I did not do La Isla as many times as I said I would I did not, nor any Casas I will be back October and will be better educated and versed on Medellin and will do them both. I went to Cartagena for a weekend and did not like it at all I wrote on here why so no need to detail here. I can't imagine any other place better than Medellin for mongering myself I have not been every where but it will be hard pressed to convince me that it is a land with that many beautiful girls with beautiful natural bodies and angels faces for the taking and for the price to be better (maybe Brazil but I doubt cheaper). I will be back October 27th for two weeks again and I can not wait. FYI this time I will know at least conversational Spanish it will be a way better enjoyment speaking the language. You can get by, have fun, enjoy yourself, fuck a 1000 chicas and navigate the city without it but it will be times 3 million to learn at least the basics of Spanish and that I will do and be prepared when I go back. Thank you a trillion times to this forum it is spot on and I implore all newbies to Medellin to heed it's message because it will prepare you if you read and follow.
Medellin on Seeking Week 2
Hit stride this week with Seeking. My goal is to find a long term sugar baby I feel comfortable exploring Colombia and other nearby countries with, as well as having fun on the way. Generally I like girls who I can have a conversation with, I. E. Dinner followed by dessert at my place.
Monday was an Italian dinner with a 21 year old (mediocre and monotonous like most Italian food). She is a snazzy dresser and seemed smart, albeit lacking patience with my bad Spanish. Extremely creative sexually. Secretive. Odd even. The type you want to explore further. I saw her again on Friday for even worse Italian food, a movie and shopping (my idea). She didn't seem to be into the shopping and left a bit more abruptly than I liked. My main takeaway was to not compromise on the food that makes me feel best.
Tuesday was my main squeeze from last week, who brought my produce from her family farm, including an avocado almost the size of my head. Beat avocado ever. I don't think I'm going back to Haas avocados. I enjoyed my time with her but lost interest sexually. Even so, she demonstrates the right level of affection and thus is special to me. We'll probably meet as friends in the future, and see how she likes that.
Wednesday's date reminded me that traffic at 5 pm is pretty bad. She was almost 45 minutes late but worth it. Excellent presentation and instant chemistry. I saw her again on Saturday for lunch (even worse traffic) followed by a sampling of tv shows about Pablo Escobar (Narcos, Surviving Escobar and Patron del Mal). One of those people whose hard life makes a stronger person, and thus the best candidate for a longer term arrangement.
Thursday was unique. I ended up seeing a barrio girl who I had great communication over text but poor in real life. Little chemistry and I could feel the sadness in her difficult life (not a fan of complex emotions). Nevertheless, she was 19, hot, and wanted me to choke her. She was the only one to thank me after the date, and also the only one with an odd fishy smell afterwards. The learnings here are complex. First, the barrio girls seem to be better in bed and maybe more grateful. But also more risky in terms of hygiene. Not sure if I want to go down that route again in the future.
Sunday was a fitness model. Great conversation, albeit she was a little uncomfortable with me. She kept fixing her hair, looking in the mirror. Very professional. Called me baby a lot. Don't know a good way to let her know that makes her sound like a hooker. Nevertheless, a smart ambitious girl with a great body. Great taste in music. Tempted to repeat.
Conclusion: This week proved Seeking is what dating should be. A way to guarantee your 20 year old date will come to a restaurant of your choosing followed by your place afterwards. While not as beautiful as Eastern Europeans, Colombians are hot enough and psychologically simpler than most women, with a genuine drive to be happy and share that happiness with others.
As an overall experience, Medellin is the best I've had so far. Even my friends back home say I look happier. I'm tempted to see how much the girls in Argentina sacrifice in terms of personality to be as hot as they are in their pics.