Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2682486]How can somebody have sex with a person and be not sure if that is person is trans or not? Serious question. Have sex change surgeries become so good?[/QUOTE]You ask them up front and I have never had one lie in Medellin. This can get important when the tranny in question is the cutest girl out there. All you have to say is, "trans?" Don't do it with body language or facial expression like something bad just happened or is going to happen if she says yes. Be neutral and leave the possibility open in their mind that you might actually be looking for a tranny, and then they will be eager to tell you the truth.

I realize your concern was more about after the dirty deed. The Internet story goes the surgeries are so good now they can fool a gynecologist. If your mind believes it, then it's real. There are trannies who are more girl than most of the girls out there. I don't think it's ever happened to me, but if it did and the parts were all functional, I would lose any sleep over it.

Contrast this with the ladyboys in Thailand who will try to trick you. Once they get you in a hotel room, they ain't leaving' until they get paid, and it can get violent in a hurry. Many of them are expert martial artists and they are twice as strong as you would expect.

I know, you are big muscular Special Forces bad ass. Jajajaja, you are dead meat. No matter what happens in the room, if they don't get paid, next time you go out four of them will approach, and while are thinking you still have the upper hand because you actually believe that shit you have been telling yourself all these years, four more ladyboys show up, all with little four-inch knives. Once the action starts, four more. And they are skilled fighters.

They all start sticking you, not once, each knife 4-8-12 times (I am stuck on fours in case you haven't noticed by now). Your black belt and Green Beret are useless. The more you resist, the more bodys pour in and the more holes you acquire. Before long you are not dying from any one wound, but weak from blood loss. They might stop, they might not and let you bleed out, to death. Depends on how big of an asshole you were and are.

I laugh here too when a guy (rarely, thank gawd) suggests he is too big and bad to be beat. All that does is maybe buy you some time. If you ever get the upperhand, they will return later that day, the next day, whenever with overwhelming force and you will lose. Bet on it.

Attitude is everything, not size, not skill. Don't give them a reason to come back at you and it's easy to stay out of trouble. Hitting a girl is a great way to get ventilated with a bunch of knife holes. By then you deserve it. We rail on these chicas all the time for their nefarious behaviors, but some of the stories they have told me assure me, they are the ones who are at risk, and they get fucked over waaaay more than we do.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682616]What would make someone want to fuck a facebook hooker raw that everybody is fucking, but not fuck a hooker from any other place raw that everybody is also fucking? Sounds like a what you don't know won't hurt you deal. That facebook chick could be living in as much squalor that chicks in the Maracaibo back rooms are working in.[/QUOTE]Shhhhhhhhhhh let him live in his private mental island where he's uncovering regular girls who don't do this sort of thing normally.

[QUOTE=UsaInEurope;2682603]Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.[/QUOTE]Why would you get the sense every girl will do raw sex? Every girl won't swallow. Every girl won't do anal. Every girl won't give a blowjob in a theater. Certainly every girl isn't going to offer BBFS.

Especially girls from escort services, strip clubs and casas won't for certain skip the condom, or agree to it with some anonymous person reaching out to them. I'm not saying none will agree to it, but you're probably going to have more trouble finding it using the more commercial options.

I've had BBFS offered without discussion several times in Medellin. Which is how I learned that I prefer condoms to antibiotics. However, everyone has different preferences.

Your best bet is to have the condom discussion face to face. However, you'll likely get shutdown quite often.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2682533]I don't know. I really wasn't speaking for the girls or even for other mongers but for myself. I enjoy the emotional entanglement and the multi levels in the relationships with these chicas.

What you call amusingly a Fleshlight with tits I usually refer to as a wet mud hole although I suppose that's slightly redundant. In my style I probably create unnecessary complications but I enjoy it.

I always remember that Huckleberry Finn sign hanging in my grandfather's garage as I was growing up that said, "he is happiest who is contented with the least" so probably the wet mud hole fuckers are the Smart Ones, I don't know. I try to be true to myself with very little implication that my style suits others.

I believe more people learn what not to do from me then what to do.

All my posts this round are on my phone with wonky internet access on a Greyhound bus so forgive me.[/QUOTE]Yes. I was agreeing with you- besides forming a human connection it is the decent way to treat people. Though I have been guilty of doing it the other way.

[QUOTE=TedFerguson;2682191]I'm thinking out loud, and would love others' opinions on my generalizations. This is still my 2nd week here ever and there's a lot to learn. If I'm off base, please tell me.

Another observation in the last few days regarding Airbnb vs hotels. I ended up at a crappy Airbnb for my second two weeks here and the host wouldn't accept alterations to the dates and charged me 50% for canceling. Nearly every time I've airbnb'ed in modern countries the hosts were more than accommodating about me moving out if I didn't like a place. Not here. Many of the Airbnbs are managed by companies in clusters of little apartments. Many of can be booked via other websites which don't have these unreasonable cancellation policies. I would go that route next time if I wanted an apartment.

Right now I'm in a brand name hotel, with no chica fee if she doesn't sleep over. It's only marginally more awkward to check her in at the front desk but also way more comfortable, air conditioned, safe to the nines and I don't have to deal with any unprofessionalism from the staff.[/QUOTE]You listed several reasons why I prefer hotels to BnB's. There is a lot of personal preference. Guest fees range from zero, to 5-10 thousand, usually in the 30-50 thousand range, on up to 100.000. All amounts in Colombian pesos.

Your hotel sounds great. I wouldn't share the info unless you enjoy shooting yourself in the foot. Only takes a few greasy slobs to tell their friends, who tell their friends, and before you know it, the place is ruined for mongering. I know of a similar hotel, zero fees, small, clean super comfy, great location to metro and things to do. Will never reveal. Well, maybe to close friends. Mongering is "I got your back" while at the same time, "Every man for himself. " Don't expect to be spoon fed (not you) the stuff that I put in the time and leg work to set up (sometimes many months), and yeah that incudes chicas. Ostee Out.

[QUOTE=UsaInEurope;2682603]Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.[/QUOTE]If you are asking a girl off mileroticos or PP and you ask by text you are almost certain to get a no. There's a really strong chance she's not the one on the other end of the phone so nobody is going to commit her to that sight unseen. Your odds with these girls will still be long but you have to ask in person. So assume you are getting CFS and choose accordingly then you can make your case when you are in the room and ffs don't be cheap. You are better off using other avenues if you are looking FR this. Also there is prolly not much difference in getting an STD from a centro girl or a SA or FB girl. They are all fucking a large pool of guys who are all fucking a large pool of girls and if she will do you raw on a first visit, they are doing everyone raw.

Here for my second trip. I have been reading a lot of the posts, I just wanted to say what a great forum this is. I can provide some of my insight that I have seen in the last few days. First off, if you have any thoughts in your head like, wow she kinda looks like a guy, it's a man.

FB: be picky. There are so many to choose from, and so many that are down, be picky. Prices vary, but I think the sweet spot is 200 k plus taxi. You'll find cheaper and more expensive. So if a 300 k hottie is the one you want, hook it up. I'd also recommend to not accept their first rate. I usually say wow that's more than I thought. Then they drop their price.

Tinder: same as above. Be picky! Don't swipe right on just anyone. For me, the prices offered have been the same as the FB girls.

Parque Lleras: is an eye candy paradise. So many to choose from. Lots of 7-8. I'd say a handful of nines that get scooped up immediately. Good point to add here, if you see that nine, take her then. Stop hunting. She won't be available for long. I'd avoid Gustos. Those ladies want $300 USD. Trust me, it's not worth it unless you're super lazy, or money is no object. And if money is no object, just leave and go to Vegas. Leave Medellin for us.

I'll add casas and Twitter to my next post.

[QUOTE=WonderBoyz;2681265]A bit about me: young man from the Midwest. Never mongered abroad, but have done a far share stuff the good ole' USA.

I land in Medellin from Cartagena at around 3 pm. I know it's expensive to use Hotel M's cab service, but I was so tired from traveling (I've been on the road for 5 weeks), just having a driver with my nametag at the airport exit made it worth the cost IMO.[/QUOTE]WOW! Absolutely legendary report, thanks for sharing! I'm pretty young too. Possibly younger than you so you're definitely not the only one browsing around these parts. Don't have any plans for a trip to Colombia yet though. Need to work on my Spanish and slowly dip my feet in (a tamer) CDMX first using mostly Seeking Arrangements.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2682641]Your best bet is to have the condom discussion face to face. However, you'll likely get shutdown quite often.[/QUOTE]JjBee62 is very knowledgeable about the Medellin scene. So his recommendations are always worth considering.

I have a different experience, however. When I want a specialized service, I tend to bring it up up-front. Let's say with a FB girl, I tell her what my preferences are. We don't have an appointment yet (una cita) so I think I get more consideration. Instead of BBFS (although that should play out similarly) let's say I want to take photos and / or video clips (I do like to do that). I tell her that this is one of my favorite things. Some girls will say sure no problem as long as you promise not to share them. Some will say that it is a deal breaker. Still others will sense there is an opportunity and ask what kind of tip (propina) I'm willing to pay for it. So, what is the relevance?

Well the girl that says sure. If you wait and bring it up face to face, she will know she is already there and will simply ask for a sizeable tip. The girl who would say "No" will still say no. She has a boyfriend or family concerns and it isn't worth the risk (or so she thinks). So, now you either continued on with the date or pay her to leave (taxis and some kind of tip to compensate her for wasting her time) The one who would ask for a tip will do the same thing face to face but she will try to squeeze you for an even bigger tip. Afterall, she is there and you're begging her to work you over for some extra cash.

So all in all, my experience is that it is better to be up-front about what you want whether it be photos / videos, or BBFS or anal or oral w / o. I think you save yourself some money and you keep from wasting your time if your predilection is a no-go for her.

[QUOTE=Norbert61;2682700]Yes. I was agreeing with you- besides forming a human connection it is the decent way to treat people. Though I have been guilty of doing it the other way.[/QUOTE]You weren't "guilty" of anything, other than doing what we all do when sometimes the priority is to get your rocks off and send the chica on her way with minimal involvement. We pay them to leave, as the saying goes. One of the great things about Pay for Play, is you can sort of "choose" the depth you want to go to with the chica you penetrate, pun intended.

Not every chica can be nor should be your "friend". But if you click, and are looking for GFE, the Medellin culture is great for taking it to that level.

At the same time, I am audacious enough to believe that I am not just getting GFE from my Top Girls, but they are actual friends and in the Medellin culture, that means the vast majority of the time they love sex and they will want to share that experience with you. Gawd, I love Medellin.

Disclaimer: My "system" of maintaining a list of Top Ten chicas developed itself for the purpose of maintaining a relationship with Catgirl at the top, while still letting us both date others. The dynamic shifted during my most recent trip when she went on TikTok for the first time. Within a few weeks, she blew up to over 140 K followers. I don't know why I was surprised because she is hawt as fuck and very photogenic.

Catgirl suddenly had a new confidence, and a steady stream of admirers. I was happy with the extra money she was making. My main question for her was, "Am I still your Number One?" She convinced me I am her Numero Uno, which is all that really matters as long as we are both otherwise happy with how we are getting treated in our relationship.

Finally, I will close with this recent anecdote. I still find my Holy Grail for meeting girls has been and continues to be personal referrals from the girls I already know. Sure, if the first chica is into you she will want to "share the wealth" with her friends, but there is also a huge factor of wanting to make me happy.

On my last day, I was running on fumes. I thought it was a seven girl day but when I went back and wrote it down, it was eight. Scarlet asked me if she could bring Cheery over, and I said no. She asked again. I told Scarlet that Cheery could come but I would not pay her one peso.

Cheery came and started to get naked when I politely reminded her that I was happy to see her but as I told Scarlet before, she was going to get any money. She hesitated for about five seconds then said, "I am here to see you and I wanted to say goodbye. " I still did not promise anything specific but I did say to her, "That was the right answer."

The three of us had our best session to date with several different specific three-way positions that I was calling out like a football quarterback. Scarlet and Cherry ran their routes like an expert tight end and wide receiver, jeje, and we managed a few scoring drives.

We went at it for almost three hours and only stopped because the chicas at the puta hotel across the street were Whassapping me closer and closer together telling me to get myself over their ASAP. I gave Cheery 250 mil COP in the end but she would have left without a peso or regret. We both teared up a little during a long hug and I even get a little choked up now writing about it.

Those are very enriching experiences for me that don't or haven't happened to me anywhere else in the world. No better place in the world for me than Medellin to Keep On Keepin' On.

Thanks for sharing your observations.

Do we need to visit the clubs in Parque Lleras to talk to girls or can one find them on the streets etc. And ask how much LOL?

[QUOTE=Jcgivesos;2682828]Here for my second trip. I have been reading a lot of the posts, I just wanted to say what a great forum this is. I can provide some of my insight that I have seen in the last few days. First off, if you have any thoughts in your head like, wow she kinda looks like a guy, it's a man.

FB: be picky. There are so many to choose from, and so many that are down, be picky. Prices vary, but I think the sweet spot is 200 k plus taxi. You'll find cheaper and more expensive. So if a 300 k hottie is the one you want, hook it up. I'd also recommend to not accept their first rate. I usually say wow that's more than I thought. Then they drop their price.

Tinder: same as above. Be picky! Don't swipe right on just anyone. For me, the prices offered have been the same as the FB girls..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=UsaInEurope;2682603]Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.[/QUOTE]Usualy FB girls agree to BBFS on second or third meet once they get to know you. Probably difficult to get it on the first time itself. Do other BMs also have same experience?

[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2682953]Usualy FB girls agree to BBFS on second or third meet once they get to know you. Probably difficult to get it on the first time itself. Do other BMs also have same experience?[/QUOTE]No. I get it on the first visit or else it isn't available at all. (Haven't tried offering huge sums of money to convince any of the no-way ones. They'd have to be 9's or higher for me to even think about that. Indifferent.).

OK. So I do not pour over this forum like Penthouse letters so others may also have observed this. I was strolling home from Lleras last night about 11 - I was going down Calle 10 and was a few blocks down the hill when on one of the side streets to the left there was a hopping club and a lot of shit going on. The whole street was also right maggoty with working girls. Like a hundred anyway. I did not indulge but I am going back. I will put better coordinates in later.

As a man who remembers dial phones and a black and white world, I must admit I am not entirely sure it is dignified for me to use emojis. I mean it took me a while to start texting as it is. I mean it was sorta the realm of teenage girls. Any way I use them all the time. Partially to fill out my terse replies in Spanish but I do it when I'm texting in English too. Is this acceptable or does it make me seem like an old remit. I mean I am but I don't want to look anymore like one than I am.