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[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2682953]Usualy FB girls agree to BBFS on second or third meet once they get to know you. Probably difficult to get it on the first time itself. Do other BMs also have same experience?[/QUOTE]I agree, as it has been my experience too.
[QUOTE=Oterri;2682937]Thanks for sharing your observations.
Do we need to visit the clubs in Parque Lleras to talk to girls or can one find them on the streets etc. And ask how much LOL?[/QUOTE]No, no need to visit the clubs. Plenty of girls on the streets, ready and willing to talk.
[QUOTE=Norbert61;2682999]As a man who remembers dial phones and a black and white world, I must admit I am not entirely sure it is dignified for me to use emojis. I mean it took me a while to start texting as it is. I mean it was sorta the realm of teenage girls. Any way I use them all the time. Partially to fill out my terse replies in Spanish but I do it when I'm texting in English too. Is this acceptable or does it make me seem like an old remit. I mean I am but I don't want to look anymore like one than I am.[/QUOTE]It's not entirely dignified to be fucking around with with girls young enough to be our grandchildren.
But it's a helluva lot of fun.
A couple of emojis can save some time. Use what works.
[QUOTE=Norbert61;2682999]As a man who remembers dial phones and a black and white world, I must admit I am not entirely sure it is dignified for me to use emojis. I mean it took me a while to start texting as it is. I mean it was sorta the realm of teenage girls. Any way I use them all the time. Partially to fill out my terse replies in Spanish but I do it when I'm texting in English too. Is this acceptable or does it make me seem like an old remit. I mean I am but I don't want to look anymore like one than I am.[/QUOTE]That is a good sign when your "serious" issue is something fun and light, such as emojis. Liked "old remit" which also dated you, jajaja.
When you feel the Medellin Magic, you will notice that your "problems" are stuff like, which chica do I want to fuck next? How do I say "do that again" in Spanish? Do I feel like going to a casa or a strip club? I wonder how many orgasms this chica is going to have in the next hour? I need to turn off my phone to catch a break from all these girls. Jajaja, our problems are nectar compared to the rat race and pussy prison here in the USA.
You raised a good point. When your Spanish is limited emojis go a long way in filling the communication gap. Ninety percent of the misunderstandings between newbies and the girls in Medellin are cultural and not by intent.
Since you are not used to emojis, I suggest you start sparingly and stick to the broad strokes. Happy, sad, affectionate, and don't be afraid to show them you are confused with an emoji (the question mark). Use them like a spice at first. As you get more comfy with them, don't be afraid to stack them or use them instead of words at times. Most of the time when you mouseover an emoji before you send it, there will be a description, which can come in handy. For example, there is a cute rainbow emoji but it means you are identifying with the LGBT community, which may not be your intent.
Not really a "problem" but I believe the chicas will like it more than not if you use emojis, even if it is only on their subconscious level. You don't seem like the guy who is afraid to laugh at himself so have a little fun with it.
Keep On Keepin' On, Emoji Style, jajaja.
For those who were asking about finding a sexy girl to provide cleaning services there might be an option available in the not too distant future.
A retired semi-pro I know was asking me about business ideas and I mentioned getting some girls and setting up a cleaning service, actual cleaning, in lingerie. No idea on pricing yet. The possibility that each girl might be open to providing services beyond cleaning was discussed.
Other than tossing out the idea, I'm not involved in this. I'll pass along more information when I have it.
[QUOTE=Lefeu;2683010]I agree, as it has been my experience too.[/QUOTE]To add my two bits to the discussion of the prospects for BBFS: I've never requested BBFS up-front before the initial get-together with a chica. However, three of my current stable (coincidentally all girls trying to transition themselves from full-time strip club or casa gigs to independent status) have slipped me in bareback (unsolicited and unexpectedly) on the second or third date after some patient DATY on my part got them off and / or my having providing a prolonged. Oiled-up, erotic massage. That said, a couple of my favorite chicas have firmly declined BBFS even with the offer of a significant propina--and even after we have established a good GFE style chemistry over a number of sessions and the sharing of negative HIV tests.
First time in Colombia but am quite experienced in the game (see europe, asia, mexico, etc. Posts).
Anywho, you guys are amazing. FB girl tips were absolutely perfect.
- Landed 8 pm yesterday.
- Had already hit up a bunch of FB girls and booked two to show up at my hotel at 9 pm (knowing they run an hour+ late). Chose the two based on bantering and response time (more likely to not flake). Pre-screened looks and up front said I am paying 200 k plus 50 k taxi and asked if they are ok with besos and sexo no protecion. Still had about 25% of my initial response get past the filtering process. Once at this stage, I couldn't stop them from asking to come over.
- Through security and to my driver by 9 ish.
- She texting me if I'm there yet.
- Tell her soon and she says perfect.
- We arrive within 10 minutes of each other by 9:45 (had enough time to drop bags off and put valuables in the safe).
She checks in at the desk and we sit and have a drink in the outside bar / restaurant. Smokin hot and my type -- thick skinny, huge naturals, bubble butt, very dark features.
Take a ton of pics of her and converse in my broken Spanish. Taking pics of girls is the key -- they just love performing for cameras!
Make out at the table then take it upstairs. More dancing, minibar beers (still a thing here! Shower and get down to business. BBFS and all. Had to kick her out around 1 a after a very long day and knowing that I wanted to be able to go in the morning again.
Woke up to a bunch of kissy face emojis and asking to come back. Maybe.
Woke up with a massive headache that I still haven't kicked. Sucks.
Anyway, ate a shitton for breakfast at the hotel buffet and drank my weight in coffee. So now I'm shaking and hurting. Brilliant.
Grabbed a Didi and hightailed it to New Life. Guy was way too talkative -- and as we approached asked what it was. I could only say "mujeres" and felt OK with that since you all highlighted how it's not a frowned upon thing here. He half sighed and dropped me off. I paid cash (main difference vs. Uber / Lyft that you pay in cash) and before I got out he said, "be careful here -- don't wander. " At 10:30 am. Lots of guys hanging around the corner. I'm fairly streetwise and didn't get a bad vibe at all. But putting it out there as it was a local's information.
Just as described -- blue door, enter, push button, go up. Thick girl with her tits hanging out gives me the rundown -- RTTF to know the drill. Just as mentioned.
Love lineups -- even at that early hour I probably had 12 to choose from. The hottest was Liliana (Lily) -- a short curvy almost black Colombiana who had on a see-through top, hard in shape culo grande and wild hair (short fro dyed blue) and incredible eyes and dimples. God damn. Easy choice.
Head up to the room. Shower. Covered everything (as expected, didn't even ask). Incredible performance.
The only new piece of info I'd add to the below reports is I was expecting to say how much time I wanted to spend first. I hate that -- say too short and you get rushed or don't finish. Say too long and overpay or what not. This is brilliant -- you just go into the room, fuck, whatever, and your time is your time. Ingenious! Why isn't that the way everywhere?!
Final thought as I go to nap -- Wow -- it's just amazing how good at sex professional women are. Sure, you pay them to leave. But I still like even a fake or superficial connection. But, man, a girl who knows how to suck (my gfs all get tired too easily, jaw hurts, can't fit it, etc). Just can't get that feeling from a "normal" girl. And I usually don't like my girls riding on top because they don't know how to do it. They sit down heavy and grind back and forth -- wilt. Or go up too high and fall out. Just never on point. But a professional. Unf.
[QUOTE=UsaInEurope;2683282]- Had already hit up a bunch of FB girls and booked two to show up at my hotel at 9 pm (knowing they run an hour+ late). Chose the two based on bantering and response time (more likely to not flake).
- She texting me if I'm there yet.[/QUOTE]What happened to the other chick? You said you booked two, but only mentioned one coming.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2683299]What happened to the other chick? You said you booked two, but only mentioned one coming.[/QUOTE]Redirected to tonight.
These FB girls don't seem to flake here.
So I have been having lots of fun on SA. If you spend an hour clicking and flirting you will be up to your neck in no time. The trouble is getting the schedule right. Today I had a little freaky spinner lined up. Not my normal MO but variety is the spice of life. She's an hour late of course (these girls don't have a punctual bone in their body when you are not fucking them) - well she's a vennie and she doesn't have her ID so I am fucked-- she can't come in- I gave her her cab fare and a bit more. I had the same damn thing in December with a skokka girl but I didn't think I had to mention it. I was all set up for a double header today in honour of opening day- now of course I don't have time to zip out to a brothel or to centro before the second half of the double header shows up. I mean I probably would if I assumed she would be an hour late which I am sure she will be. Anyway I thought I had better mention it to the second girl and I imagine she was probably a little insulted but if this happens again. I am buying a tent to set up in the park.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2683055]For those who were asking about finding a sexy girl to provide cleaning services there might be an option available in the not too distant future.
A retired semi-pro I know was asking me about business ideas and I mentioned getting some girls and setting up a cleaning service, actual cleaning, in lingerie. No idea on pricing yet. The possibility that each girl might be open to providing services beyond cleaning was discussed.
Other than tossing out the idea, I'm not involved in this. I'll pass along more information when I have it.[/QUOTE]This is an awesome idea. It could never work in Canada BTW. There if a woman fucks you and cleans your house. She gets half your house.
[QUOTE=Norbert61;2683322]This is an awesome idea. It could never work in Canada BTW. There if a woman fucks you and cleans your house. She gets half your house.[/QUOTE]True that. Just talked to a friend 30 minutes ago. His wife divorced him a year ago. Even split of kids. He pays child support.
She also gets alimony. Even though the gov't pays her $75 k a year disability.
Then he gets a super rich GF who takes him on vacations. She gets wind of it, says he held out on her and is suing him for house / and HIS GIRLFRIEND'S MONEY.
NA chicks be fucking entitled gold digging crazy yo. Get that fucking prenup!
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2683055]For those who were asking about finding a sexy girl to provide cleaning services there might be an option available in the not too distant future.
A retired semi-pro I know was asking me about business ideas and I mentioned getting some girls and setting up a cleaning service, actual cleaning, in lingerie. No idea on pricing yet. The possibility that each girl might be open to providing services beyond cleaning was discussed.
Other than tossing out the idea, I'm not involved in this. I'll pass along more information when I have it.[/QUOTE]I had a facebook girl over on my past trip after I was feeling bad from too much partying the night before. After telling here I wanted someone over to help take of me and help me feel better she came over to my apartment. She cleaning the whole thing, did laundry, folded my clothes, swept the floors, tidied the bathroom, made the bed and grabbed me what ever I needed as I relaxed. I ordered food and drinks off of Rappi, as my way, just looking to have a good time and I like to share. Once I got a couple bottles of electrolights in me I was feeling better she proceeded to give me BBFS, on the couch, then in the jaccuzi and then on the bed doggie style. Really a wonderful experience, 200 k + taxis. Still chat with her on WhatsApp, if I get the snip-snip before my next trip, I look forward to cream-pieing the daylights out of her. Couple pics because it is nice to share. A maid service does sound nice and probably might be a lot cheap but this girl was an angel and took nice care of me.
[QUOTE=UsaInEurope;2683286]Wow -- it's just amazing how good at sex professional women are. Sure, you pay them to leave. But I still like even a fake or superficial connection. But, man, a girl who knows how to suck (my gfs all get tired too easily, jaw hurts, can't fit it, etc). Just can't get that feeling from a "normal" girl. And I usually don't like my girls riding on top because they don't know how to do it. They sit down heavy and grind back and forth -- wilt. Or go up too high and fall out. Just never on point. But a professional. Unf.[/QUOTE]Ah, somewhere betwixt and between lies the fantasy and girl of your dreams. Like most anything worthwhile, it takes a little extra energy depending on your style (dayum, I got a poem started without trying, jeje). I write from the perspective of an hombre with long-term goals in Medellin.
There is a natural sexuality in the culture in Medellin. I have had 18 year old girls here with whom I was their first Pay 4 Play experience (thank you, Secret), blow me away with their spontaneous sexual techniques and emotion. Supposedly I was going to show them the ropes, and instead they showed me stuff I had never seen before that they were creating on the fly. Au natural.
And then there are the experienced pros but with their list of "do's and don'ts".
And everything in between.
Not always a good thing, but I've had my fair share of full-time sex workers "flip" on me, meaning they start to feel emotionally involved as we see each other more frequently and the encounters get more personal.
As far as regular girlfriends who could use a little sexual training? Practice, practice, practice, jeje. That should hold true for girlfriends anywhere, not just in Medellin. I am a firm believer that your best sex should be with your Numero Uno chica. In the real world, she might not be the best at everything, but she should be the closest all-around winner without much compromise, IMO.
Jaw and mouth muscles can be conditioned. Sphincters trained to snap back. I am never shy about telling a chica what I want her to do. Sometimes patience is required. Other times the gratification is more instantaneous. One chica recently told me that she would "never" do deep throat or take it up the ass, and then do both that same session.
Contrast that with a chica with whom I've been working with in Medellin for over a year now. I called her the most conservative girl in Colombia, here before. She was considering becoming a nun. I have eaten dinner with her family, and she and her mom did an excellent job of dying my hair a while back.
She had been with one guy before me, missionary position only, and had never given a blowjob. I have not fucked her yet, but we will, she promises. Not important. A couple of my mongering friends think I am crazy letting it drag out like this. I am loving current state and this prolonged foreplay. Her pussy is such low mileage plus a genetic gift that if she told me she was a virgin, I would've believed her. She had not opened her pussy in almost two years.
She was one of the chicas I saw on my recent last day in Medellin. I gave her the first orgasm of her life with my tongue and finger and she was a natural, although it kinda seemed like she didn't know where to go with it during the session.
She was on her back and I had a pillow under her ass which I usually do to get a better angle. She kept grabbing my hair to direct my face and would rapidly switch from the top at her clit to the bottom on her asshole, and in between to get my tongue as deep as it could go in her pussy hole.
After about 15 minutes I knew she was going to have a climax. Around 20 minutes in, she started with some strong isolated contractions that flexed her entire ass and pulled her poontang and bung hole back into her body. She kept lifting her hips in the air. She would spread her legs as far as she could and then plop down and pull her knees up to her ears. She seemed like no matter how good it felt, she didn't want to miss what it felt like in a different position. Definitely a newbie but I never saw anything like it, and so natural. Hawter than fuk fuk fuk.
Absolutely no doubt when she climaxed from the visible strong contractions and the animal sounds coming out of her mouth. Soaking wet with crystal clear fluid and a wet spot on the pillow bigger than my head.
She was so sexy during the afterglow. While she was rinsing out her pussy in the shower (aka a French douche), I asked her, "Didn't you say you never had an orgasm before?" She said, "Yes". Then I said something kinda stupid because I still wasn't sure exactly what she meant, when I said, "So that was your first orgasm". She paused, looked at me, gave me a little eye roll then smiled and said, "Obviously"!
Ostee Out and if we all Keep On Keepin' On, we will somehow get through this together, jajajaja.