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Hi All,
I'm new here, but not new to the hobby (been to Mexico and Thailand). I'm planning a trip to Colombia and I see that a few of you guys have guides / wingmans. I'm planning to stay for a month. So I plan to see some chicas, but also want to site see, hike, check out Guatape, etc. Where do I find a good guide or wingman that's knowledgeable about the mongering scene there? Or if someone can point me in the right direction?
[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2683544]Relatively experienced monger with a strange lack of self confidence? Something doesn't add up. Assuming you're playing it straight, you'll be fine but something doesn't add up in your post. From your experience one would assume you know that first and foremost it's about the money the chicas walk home with, then the money, then comes money, followed by money. Then tips (money) and maybe some regalos (money as gifts). And it's not like you weigh 500 pounds but that guy would get laid, too. I am not implying you should expect to pay anything more than fair market value. Perhaps I should mention I am not a Facebook guy so maybe I am missing something but I don't think so. Good luck and don't worry about it. Are you sure you are experienced?[/QUOTE]
No, I'm not as experienced as you. But I'm not green either. I've mongered in 6 countries to date so I consider myself fairly experienced. I do not hold myself out to be all knowing, far from it. Perhaps 'well-travelled' is more appropriate.
And I'm visiting Colombia for the first time. Girls in different countries may react differently to weight. For example, in Thailand, there would be no problem. In the FKK clubs in Germany, you would definitely have a harder time but would still have a chance with a significant majority of girls.
This is the first time I'm mongering when overweight. Over COVID I've put on over 40lbs. To say it has dented my confidence is an understatement. Please don't be so quick to judge.
[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2683725]No, I'm not as experienced as you. But I'm not green either. I've mongered in 6 countries to date so I consider myself fairly experienced. I do not hold myself out to be all knowing, far from it. Perhaps 'well-travelled' is more appropriate.
And I'm visiting Colombia for the first time. Girls in different countries may react differently to weight. For example, in Thailand, there would be no problem. In the FKK clubs in Germany, you would definitely have a harder time but would still have a chance with a significant majority of girls.
This is the first time I'm mongering when overweight. Over COVID I've put on over 40lbs. To say it has dented my confidence is an understatement. Please don't be so quick to judge.[/QUOTE]Decreased activity levels from not being out and about so much in Medellin due to Covid. The natural exercise I get from walking in Medellin is fantastic. Just the metro steps alone can be a good work out after a few stops.
Ah, but I read you correctly. You can call it judging, I said something didn't add up. And that was this is your first time mongering at a heavier weight, and that it has effected your confidence. That was the missing piece to the puzzle.
I happen to agree with the opinion here that the culture for men from the girls leans toward liking them chubby. I used to be morbidly obese with a BMI of well over 40. Now I am at 25 (diet and exercise only). Except for a couple of the "fashionista" type chicas I know (I like all kinds) who will let me know if am an an ounce overweight, 90% of the girls wish I would gain some weight and they seem to like a little belly. Maybe because I trend towards younger chicas, they want to be reminded of their fathers, but that's a separate issue, jaja.
I'll give you some free advice that you didn't ask for, so maybe it's not worth a plug nickel. The attitude you project about being overweight to the chicas will form their impression of you ten times more than your actual weight. I've known guys who are total studs but have not seen their own dick in years without a mirror or foto, because their fat gets in the way. Even if you have to play some mind games with yourself, act like "you own the place" and the chicas aren't going to notice your weight. You are comparing yourself to yourself, but guess what, they have no idea what you used to look like, you follow?
Good luck, but you don't really need it. You are experienced enough to expect some really fun times. I generally don't believe in direct comparisons. Asti Out.
[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2683641]Some guys don't know how to present themselves, or worse, don't care. From the stories I have been told by the sex workers (SW), that does not go unnoticed by them. But the sex workers are not so stupid to bite the hand that feeds them, for the most part. And probably the same guy who doesn't care he has three inch nose hairs and bad breath isn't going to notice the difference in a SW who is having a little fun on the job, instead of throwing up in the back of her mouth and swallowing it. Maybe the wet mudhole fuckers have it best for simplicity but then I wonder, at what point do you even need a wet hole or warm body? If I felt like that, I would simply stay home, jerk off, and save a bunch of time and money. To each his own.
Jaja, amazing how much more free time I have to post here when I am not spending most of my waking hours having sex, jajajaja. I prefer the sex days.
Few random gratuitous fotos from my most recent trip. I try not to repeat fotos but I don't look back. The urban landscape is Ground Zero, surprisingly beautiful, perhaps contrary to the mental image painted by some for how "seedy" and dangerous it is.[/QUOTE]One part of all of this is cultural. Aside from the P4P angle, it's ingrained in most of the girls to not put a man down. It doesn't matter how old, fat or ugly you are, they aren't going to say it to you. Even if you tell them you're old, fat or ugly (with the evidence right in front of their face, they'll disagree. It's a sign that they consider you more than just a customer if they can joke with you about your shortcomings.
[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2683725]No, I'm not as experienced as you. But I'm not green either. I've mongered in 6 countries to date so I consider myself fairly experienced. I do not hold myself out to be all knowing, far from it. Perhaps 'well-travelled' is more appropriate.
And I'm visiting Colombia for the first time. Girls in different countries may react differently to weight. For example, in Thailand, there would be no problem. In the FKK clubs in Germany, you would definitely have a harder time but would still have a chance with a significant majority of girls.
This is the first time I'm mongering when overweight. Over COVID I've put on over 40lbs. To say it has dented my confidence is an understatement. Please don't be so quick to judge.[/QUOTE]Get there and have a good time lots of good advice here so read and then enjoy.
I put on 35 during the virus but lost 10 in 2 weeks there. Lots of walking, eating less and burning the candle at both ends.
Just don't let anyone see your fat wallet.
[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2683669]Hmmm, based off my own personal experiences I can't find much truth to this. And trust me I am no slender guy. Hookers in general will have fun with any dude who is paying them, but I don't think "regular" attractive Latin American women are going after fat middle aged men because they are attracted to his obesity LOL.[/QUOTE]True that.
[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2683687]Ayahuasca, the dude who I sat next to on the Greyhound bus was reallly into it, and we talked about it a lot, for over an hour. He was into all this spiritual awakening stuff. Never heard of it around here or near Medellin but that could be my knowledge gap. Here's why I won't try it.
After talking to the dude in detail about it, and even though I never tried it, Tussi or 2 CB or pink cocaine or the good stuff they make in Colombia sounded to me and to the guy like the preferable option. And I was not trying to do a sales job on the guy. I won't go into details but everything from the logistics, to the effects, lack of side effects, and especially including outcome, tipped the scales in favor of my obviously biased choice. I am not recommending any specific action for anyone else other than relating my own experience.
As always, stories about recreational drugs are purely fictional and are for entertainment purposes only. I am simply doing research for a fictional book I am writing about Medellin. I do not condone the use of illicit drugs and would never buy, sell, transport or use any illegal substances in any countries of the world.[/QUOTE]Basically I am specifically doing research for a fictional book about Ayahuasca because there's been some research suggesting that it helps with PTSD-related depression. So any rumors on the logistics, effects, side effects, or outcome are certainly welcome.
[QUOTE=FRobertson;2683787]Basically I am specifically doing research for a fictional book about Ayahuasca because there's been some research suggesting that it helps with PTSD-related depression. So any rumors on the logistics, effects, side effects, or outcome are certainly welcome.[/QUOTE]It's sad, there has been so much research done on hallucinogens but most of it was buried and dismissed. There is clearly benefits for a lot of mental disorders. There were a lot of just horrible experiments also. Clearly there is a lot to be sorted and it is starting to be opened up again. I think that a lot of people have a tourist sort of ayahuasca tours but I know people who have been invited to have the proper ceremony. You will need a guide if you are doing it properly and not just getting high. Additionally, if you are just getting high it may not be the experience you want. Have you ever done acid? Mushrooms? Peyote?
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[QUOTE=FRobertson;2683787]Basically I am specifically doing research for a fictional book about Ayahuasca because there's been some research suggesting that it helps with PTSD-related depression. So any rumors on the logistics, effects, side effects or outcome are certainly welcome.[/QUOTE]I am actually planning on coming to Medellin to do an Ayahuasca retreat in the next few months. I have done a fair amount of research, and yes it is known to work quite well. I know a lot, clinically speaking, about PTSD; particularly, C-PTSD.
Hit the travel announcements section and post your dates and hope a generous monger is in town. I don't know of any mongering guide service I mean I know guys that stay at the mansion and stuff that's probably as convenient as it gets. There's a few Medellin youtubers who have "consultation" fees to teach you the basics but honestly its a pretty straightforward DIY mongering destination. Just take care not to be downtown at night and keep your wits about you and follow what ID call the basic advice in any developing foreign country.
[QUOTE=AdayOkay;2683724]Hi All,
I'm new here, but not new to the hobby (been to Mexico and Thailand). I'm planning a trip to Colombia and I see that a few of you guys have guides / wingmans. I'm planning to stay for a month. So I plan to see some chicas, but also want to site see, hike, check out Guatape, etc. Where do I find a good guide or wingman that's knowledgeable about the mongering scene there? Or if someone can point me in the right direction?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AdayOkay;2683724]Hi All,
I'm new here, but not new to the hobby (been to Mexico and Thailand). I'm planning a trip to Colombia and I see that a few of you guys have guides / wingmans. I'm planning to stay for a month. So I plan to see some chicas, but also want to site see, hike, check out Guatape, etc. Where do I find a good guide or wingman that's knowledgeable about the mongering scene there? Or if someone can point me in the right direction?[/QUOTE]I have a driver / interpreter / shopper / trusted friend who will take you around Medellin. He's not especially knowledgeable about mongering but he is reliable and speaks fluent English and was extremely helpful on my trip. If you buy a membership I can shoot his WhatsApp to you in a private message.
[QUOTE=Norbert61;2683812]It's sad, there has been so much research done on hallucinogens but most of it was buried and dismissed. There is clearly benefits for a lot of mental disorders. There were a lot of just horrible experiments also. Clearly there is a lot to be sorted and it is starting to be opened up again. I think that a lot of people have a tourist sort of ayahuasca tours but I know people who have been invited to have the proper ceremony. You will need a guide if you are doing it properly and not just getting high. Additionally, if you are just getting high it may not be the experience you want. Have you ever done acid? Mushrooms? Peyote?[/QUOTE]Yes, my impression about psilocibin research was that in the USA it's insanely difficult, nearly impossible, to gain access to it for research purposes as the govt put it on Schedule I, with no "known" medical uses. So we can't discover medical uses because we can't have access to it because it has no known medical uses. Brilliant logic.
I don't do recreational drugs, I did have mushrooms a few times at locations where they are legal and I could get them from legal sources. No peyote (I am open to it but needs to be in a safe place from a reputable source) and no acid. Mostly because of possible permanent adverse effects when done wrong, but also question of trustworthy source being that I am not connected to the community of users.
I have a feeling that the tourist sort of ayahuasca may not be helpful to the same extent a proper ceremony would be. So that's what I'm trying to find.
There was a news story a few years back when a US tourist got lost in some kind of a parallel universe while in ayahuasca ceremony (couldn't find his way back from one hut to another) but he was found a week or two later. Very strange, I thought.
Hey all,
Planning on going to Medellin for the first time next month. Been RTFF and seeing great info. If anyone has any helpful hint would be appreciated. I'm hoping to develop some FB contacts. What's the best way to go about this? Does anyone have a FB contact they could share to help me get started? Much appreciation!
Just came across this video and I immediately knew where I have to share it. Are Facebook girls typically as hot as the blondie he's fucking at the end? If not, I'm very curious how this bloke went about surrounding his way around a network of so many 8/10 - 10/10 Colombiana cam girls so I can at least become the second most alpha male in South America? Actually, that silver 2nd place trophy is probably reserved for some of you more experienced mongers in this forum but if I can make the top 100 or even top 1000 on the list I'll die a happy man jajaja.
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