Long Term Overrated and Brasileiras
[QUOTE=TedFerguson;2889525]This made me laugh Maybe I've had my appetizer then and should move on?
Can you tell me what you mean in more detail? Like you think Brazilians are bad at serious relationships (this came up in a past conversation with a Swede who lived in Brazil for a few years)?[/QUOTE]Ted dude. Been forever. Glad you are doing well. Some good advice in here. I guess I will add my perspective. First on long term. I've had a local mistress for two years. First year was absolutely great. Second year less great. I mean she's amazing. But also I get her drama and depression. And the sex is slowing down in intensity and length. So the long term thing is great. But it gets less good. So def consider that.
I have a saying I was reminding a friend of today. "Don't fuck with the fantasy. " What we do here on Seeking is primarily fantasy. Because real girlfriends and wives suck. We don't want that! We want fake girlfriends who give us all the good and none of the bad. As you get to know a girl u want to help her. You ask her what's up. You counsel her. And you fuck the fantasy! Don't fuck with the fantasy!
Second Brasileiras. We all love them for their open devil may care attitude. So they make great fake girlfriends. But unless you are super polyamorous with no jealous bones in your body they tend to make shitty monogamous girlfriends. They just aren't monogamous by nature. And neither am I. So I totally respect it. Just don't have any illusions.
Actually two Brasileiras I fuckrd got engaged a month or two later! Wtf? Yep. And of course the famous Thifany being one. When I found she was engaged I wished her luck in her life. She said "Why should anything change? He knows what I do from time to time. As does he. And he likes men also. " Hahaha Brasileiras are unique. Never think otherwise.
The lowdown on Brazilians
[QUOTE=TedFerguson;2889525]This made me laugh Maybe I've had my appetizer then and should move on?
Can you tell me what you mean in more detail? Like you think Brazilians are bad at serious relationships (this came up in a past conversation with a Swede who lived in Brazil for a few years)?[/QUOTE]Brazilian women tend to be audacious. Most of them are more extroverted than any other nationality I know. I think part of it is due to cultural upbringing there. They are raised to pursue what they want, which is often men, particularly those with money or status, which aren't necessarily Brazilian men.
I had sex with more Brazilians, than any other nationality. My findings are that most of them having great difficulty being truthful. They also tend to be high minded, incredibly stubborn, and sometimes unrealistic. But then again, many women are that way, not just Brazilians. But definitely the untruthful thing with Brazilians. A recent survey indicated they cheat more than any other South American country.
A prominent one sticks out in my mind that I met back in early 2019, about a year before Covid hit, when P4 P in the US will still viable. Beautiful girl in her mid 30's, with dark skin, and very shapely breasts, although augmented. On the thinner side with excellent hygiene. When I first met her, she gave me whatever I wanted, including extra time each appointment, and CIM, among other things. Of course at 400 an hour, she was a deal I could not pass up. Especially given now you have to pay 600 an hour for garbage, or $1,000+ for something decent. Anyway. I was seeing her multiple times a week in general.
After a couple of months, I informed her the frequency of our visits would have to slow down because I was going to spend some of my leisure money on other stuff, not related to sex. She responds by saying "But I still want to see you as often, let me drop your rate from 400 to 250. " Of course I took her up on the offer.
But then around the same time something happened. I don't want to get into what, and it may not have been her fault, but her reply and reasoning were basically total bullshit, and obviously her head was in the clouds. Now, this did not stop me form continuing to see her, but the quality of her service diminished after that. Within 6 months she developed an attitude, and the value I was getting even for 250 an hour didn't really seem to add up anymore. Plus she lied to me, and I was sick of dealing with her hypocrisy. I was the one to eventually break it off, even though she reached out to me.
So, in summary, she started off great, but less than a year later, what she was offering was basically trashy service, most especially compared to what I was getting in the beginning. She immigrated to the country around 2016 or so, didn't know a lick of English at the time, and married some guy to get her green card, who she has since divorced. Though she claimed the marriage was legit in the beginning, until he started psychologically abusing her. And to show her hypocrisy, she later describes the same ex husband as a "close friend. " That's her 2nd divorce, she also divorced a guy back in Brazil.
She's the type of person that cannot be reasoned with, even if you laid the facts right out in front of her. She would still uphold her own beliefs. I guess her brain is just defective I would say this is the kind of experience I would expect from a Brazilian sex worker, particularly one that moves to the USA.
Money is a very powerful motivator
Ignore it and contact her. If you hit it off say something like "Do you mind if we do ppm until we get comfortable with each other?" I've been seeing my sb for 7 months and we're still on ppm. The important thing is that she knows your reliable. She won't care about an allowance after that.
[QUOTE=VanessasClient;2890094]How do you all react when you see a Seeking profile and the woman has "NO PPM! As the only thing in the title line?[/QUOTE]
