Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Robby Burns]Hello all,

I posted this question last week...along with the link to her Latin Cupid profile page. Nobody responded. Here it is again:

[url]http://www.latinamericancupid.com/en/profile/showProfile/ID/2478995?searchposition=2&searchtotal=500[/url]

I spent two hours with her in the bar area of the Tiger Paw Hostel. She charged me $15 per hour to be a guide...but we never left the bar. We had a good time...drinking beer and dancing. (Another American--not an ISG member--split the $30 with me. He was amazed at how beautiful she was.)

I did not know how to "politely" broach the subject of whether or not she was a P4P...so I did not bring it up. I did not see her again during my trip.

Does anybody out there have any experience with Darly (she also uses the name Sair..maybe her middle name)?

She sure doesn't look like a neurosurgeon![/QUOTE]Dude she's a pro - a high priced pro which is why you never saw her agan after she wasted a night in backpacker hostal after making no money. Her profile mentions guys that are 40-97. No offense but you have a ot to learn.

[QUOTE=Cuero99]if hot pussy is to be tapped money must be spent anyway one way or another. I think the keys besides the money to a great experience are does the chica in question actually like you in some way, and does she actually love to fuck? Question.jpg's pose tells me she surely does, good luck Runner Up.[/QUOTE]A lot of guys are looking for a girl who has not fucked every foreigner and local in town. When walking down the street and six guys look over and smile because they have had her this past month ... that can be a little daunting.

This is why he is asking.

If he answers some obvious questions he would not have to ask here.

I just read her description of what she is seeking - it says "the best liars"..LOL

[QUOTE=Robby Burns][url]http://www.latinamericancupid.com/en/profile/showProfile/ID/2478995?searchposition=2&searchtotal=500[/url][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LuckyEddie]A lot of guys are looking for a girl who has not fucked every foreigner and local in town. When walking down the street and six guys look over and smile because they have had her this past month ... that can be a little daunting.

This is why he is asking.

If he answers some obvious questions he would not have to ask here.[/QUOTE]If you think like that about every girl, you'll be VERY lonely.. LOL

Every girl who is seen with a gringo is a *****, simple as that.

A.G.

Yea OK, good luck with that.

[QUOTE=LuckyEddie]A lot of guys are looking for a girl who has not fucked every foreigner and local in town. When walking down the street and six guys look over and smile because they have had her this past month ... that can be a little daunting.

This is why he is asking.

If he answers some obvious questions he would not have to ask here.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Aussie Greg]Every girl who is seen with a gringo is a *****, simple as that.

A.G.[/QUOTE]Very raw but 100% true! That's how the gringo is perceived plain and simple.

[QUOTE=LuckyEddie]A lot of guys are looking for a girl who has not fucked every foreigner and local in town. When walking down the street and six guys look over and smile because they have had her this past month ... that can be a little daunting.

This is why he is asking.

If he answers some obvious questions he would not have to ask here.[/QUOTE]I think the best you can hope for is that she doesn't "feel" like she's slept with every foreigner in town. Now THAT can be daunting.

Gentleman

Can any body suggest a good dentist, us standard in mde. Contact infos please.

Thanks

[QUOTE=LuckyEddie]Dude she's a pro - a high priced pro which is why you never saw her agan after she wasted a night in backpacker hostal after making no money. Her profile mentions guys that are 40-97. No offense but you have a ot to learn.[/QUOTE]Actually, she did not waste a night...because it was two hours in the afternoon at the hostel bar. She had a great time...drinking and dancing...but she never once gave me (or my friend) any indication that she was available for something else.

Believe me...we were both very interested...and would have gladly paid $150-$200 USD to be with her. (I don't know if that is "high-priced" or not)

Wouldn't a pro have given us some type of hint?

Maybe I do have "a lot to learn"...but one thing I do not have to learn is how to be polite if the woman is not giving any indication at all that she is a pro. She already had told me, on the telephone, that she charges $15 per hour to be a guide. And...she lives with her mother (who answered the phone at her home)...so it was not obvious to me, or my friend, that she was a pro.

We spent 2 hours with her, trying to figure it out...but without wanting to insult her.

I am surprised that nobody here has responded by saying that they have been with her...that is, IF she is a pro.

So, if I have a lot to learn, at least I erred on the conservative and polite side.
I did not get to be with her, other than the 2 hours...but I also did not get ripped off. And, I still have something to look forward to.

Any recommendations on how I could have handled this "better"--without getting slapped in the face or kicked in the balls--would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=Robby Burns]Actually, she did not waste a night. Because it was two hours in the afternoon at the hostel bar. She had a great time. Drinking and dancing. But she never once gave me (or my friend) any indication that she was available for something else.

Believe me. We were both very interested. And would have gladly paid $150-$200 USD to be with her. (I don't know if that is "high-priced" or not)

Wouldn't a pro have given us some type of hint?

Maybe I do have "a lot to learn". But one thing I do not have to learn is how to be polite if the woman is not giving any indication at all that she is a pro. She already had told me, on the telephone, that she charges $15 per hour to be a guide. And. She lives with her mother (who answered the phone at her home). So it was not obvious to me, or my friend, that she was a pro.

We spent 2 hours with her, trying to figure it out. But without wanting to insult her.

I am surprised that nobody here has responded by saying that they have been with her. That is, IF she is a pro.

So, if I have a lot to learn, at least I erred on the conservative and polite side.

I did not get to be with her, other than the 2 hours. But I also did not get ripped off. And, I still have something to look forward to.

Any recommendations on how I could have handled this "better"-without getting slapped in the face or kicked in the balls-would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]The majority of this community would "GASP" at $150-$200 for a date. Depending on the girl I'd say why the hell not? That's like 3 hands of Black Jack in Vegas for me.

I agree with you to to error on the side of polite and caution. But no signals at all? No sexy look, no touching, no calling you baby? Stuff like that?

Quietly say to her "lets go to my room later"

"vamos a mi habitación? "

Either she says $100 access all areas (or something similar) and you can use that as a BASE for negotiation. (DO NOT accept the first offer, laugh at it and halve it and check her reaction). Do the "I'm poor but you're fanstastic routine and here's my next offer. "

Or she goes "OK", in which case you make it clear there's no dinero involved and you've got what we call a "freebie".

Or she goes not tonight dog-breath and wanders off. In which case also a result: you aren't wasting your time, go grab another chica pronto.

Note: the girl in your original post is available no question.

This training video has been posted before and relates to street girls in tijuana, but the principle's the same.

Take a look at it could help you (remember to put dots back in.):

Www youtube com/watch? V=qtnCkE5RpK0

[QUOTE=Robby Burns]Actually, she did not waste a night...because it was two hours in the afternoon at the hostel bar. She had a great time...drinking and dancing...but she never once gave me (or my friend) any indication that she was available for something else.

Believe me...we were both very interested...and would have gladly paid $150-$200 USD to be with her. (I don't know if that is "high-priced" or not)

Wouldn't a pro have given us some type of hint?

Maybe I do have "a lot to learn"...but one thing I do not have to learn is how to be polite if the woman is not giving any indication at all that she is a pro. She already had told me, on the telephone, that she charges $15 per hour to be a guide. And...she lives with her mother (who answered the phone at her home)...so it was not obvious to me, or my friend, that she was a pro.

We spent 2 hours with her, trying to figure it out...but without wanting to insult her.

I am surprised that nobody here has responded by saying that they have been with her...that is, IF she is a pro.

So, if I have a lot to learn, at least I erred on the conservative and polite side.
I did not get to be with her, other than the 2 hours...but I also did not get ripped off. And, I still have something to look forward to.

Any recommendations on how I could have handled this "better"--without getting slapped in the face or kicked in the balls--would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]There are tons of girls out there. The odds of someone from here seeing her is low. If you want to see if she'll put it. Treat her like any other girl! Take her out to dinner. Ask her to bring a friend for your friend. If things go well, take her to the side, say that you like her and ask if she wants to stay the night with you. Basic dating 101 really.

Hi Aussie,

I've had 2 real girlfriends since I have been in Colombia, 2 years with each, going on third relationship now. All 3 from serious families, with careers or jobs. None of which know or were aware of the degree of prostitution in Medellin, or that would consider any amount of money in exchange for sex. So they are out there, but then, I don't look like your ordinary gringo and I speak Spanish fluently.

I know, I'm a dog, have phucked hundreds and hundreds of women while at the same time having serious relationships. Can't hide it, you've all read my reports. Well, that's Medellin for you, and anyways, it was my job, ha, ha!

Frank Casio!

[QUOTE=Aussie Greg]Every girl who is seen with a gringo is a *****, simple as that.

A.G.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Robby Burns] ... Wouldn't a pro have given us some type of hint?

Maybe I do have "a lot to learn"...but one thing I do not have to learn is how to be polite if the woman is not giving any indication at all that she is a pro. She already had told me, on the telephone, that she charges $15 per hour to be a guide. And...she lives with her mother (who answered the phone at her home)...so it was not obvious to me, or my friend, that she was a pro.

We spent 2 hours with her, trying to figure it out...but without wanting to insult her.[/QUOTE]A pro is not normally shy about letting you know she's in the game.

You did good amigo, had fun and apparently she did too.

You could always drop hints.

Tell her you'd like to see her more, take her out, help her out a little, etc.

Her responses will let you know if she's a pro or maybe you'll end up on a date with a sexy non-pro.

Either way, you win.

Have fun