Medellin Reports

First I ran Google Translate set on "Bombastic" in order to make sure I understood your post, jeje.

I have noticed this kissing aversion among the Colombianas for quite some time now.

Sex workers in general from different countries often have the reputation for not kissing, but here it crosses over into the personal culture.

Yeah, it does seem kind of weird and inconsistent at first blush. How about this one? There are a lot of chicas who consider fucking less personal than receiving oral sex, here and in other countries.

I like to do a visual and sniff inspection before I will put my face on a pussy but some of the trashiest girls get "shy" when you first start staring at their pussies with the lights on. I politely tell them I have to see it before I can play with or enter it, and then I muster up some kind of compliment about how cute I think their pussy looks.

I know, I know, you (not you) don't care what a pussy looks like. Well, I'm telling you that the chicas care a lot about whether their pussies are perceived as attractive or not. One of the most fun things I do if I am with a group of girls is we all take turns looking at one chica's pussy at a time and talking about the size, shape, etc. Obviously, you have to keep that fun and certainly not mean-spririted but after breaking the ice like that I find that is just one more inhibition that can be overcome leading to great sex.

But I digress. You were asking about kissing, right? Jeje.

These chicas are not kissing their boyfriends, either. The ones who do kiss overcame their cultural upbringing in order to be more marketable to gringos who want to kiss.

Of course I am generalizing but invariably some wingnut here will post about the chica he met here who was the "best" kisser, and miss the point.

I am telling you, kissing is not something they consider enjoyable, unless you are kissing their clit or they are kissing your schwanson.

I can't think of any of my Top Ten Chicas who "love" to kiss. A few will do it when I initiate it. A couple of them do it but make face like they have a mouthful of alum.

Remember Caribe? She didn't want anything near her face. When I axed her about it she said, "Yeah, one of my boyfriends broke up with me because I would not kiss him."

I kid because I love. . . To kid, so don't change your writing style as I know you won't. I like being able to identify a writer (you) from a mile away without having to look at the User name, makes you stand out favorably among a group littered with with near illiterate Neanderthals, jeje. Pretend like you care what I think.

Maybe the chicas read dear old Sigumund, who psychoanalyzed and killed the passion of kissing as follows." .. . A man who will kiss a girl's lips passionately. . . The sexual use of the mucous membranes of the lips and mouth. . . May perhaps be disgusted at the idea of using her toothbrush". Jajajajaja Ostee Ooouuuuuut.

[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2685452]Here's a somewhat amusing topic prompted by a couple of failed negotiations at Fase Dos and Energia Fantasia with two chicas of choice my recent last week in Medellinand a topic which I don't recall having been pondered on this thread.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I never cease to be amused (and somewhat bemused) by the number of working girls who are more than willing to have you thrust your bareback member down their throats (with or without a "propina") but will categorically refuse DFK even for the offer of a generous tip. And (in my experience at least) one more rarely encounters the contraryDFK s; BBBJ no. It's as if these putas while spreading their legs for strangers multiple times per day, remain intent on saving the French kisses for their novias (or perhaps for the few clients that they would rate as a 9 or a 10). BBBJ and screwing (at least CFS) is somehow seen as much less intimate and personal than a little passionate foreplay / making out (even if the passion is as faked as all the "Mi cario", "Mi amor" WhatsApp messages that they send out daily.).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DonMedellin;2685237]There are always several girls by the stairs heading up to Parque Barrio station, as well as by the art gallery wall not far from those stairs. Are they just like the girls at ground zero? Based on my observation, the sometimes seem to be alone, but in a few minutes they would be talking to their boyfriends or pimps nearby. What's the deal with them?[/QUOTE]Are they just like the girls at ground zero. Yes, they are no different except that they congregate at the bottom of the stairs as hopefully someone will pull them before walking down to ground zero where there will be a lot more girls for guys to choose from.

They are primarily Venezuelans, and I've seen some cute ones there from time to time, yet it will be hit or miss. And yes you will see them alone, hanging with other girls, and the boyfriends that come by.

Prior to the Pandemic I don't recall seeing girls working the stairs, and with the influx of so many Venezuelans that are all vying for customers, maybe they are thinking a really horny guy just getting off at the Berrio Station will immediately pull someone before making the rounds at ground zero.

Next time I'm down there I might out of curiosity ask a few of them why they choose to work that spot.

[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2685452].......By contrast, this triggers memories (from High School days back in the 1950's) of make-out sessions with virginal 15 year olds who, while determined to preserve their maidenheads for some future Prince Charming on their wedding nights, were perfectly content to French kiss on the first or second date, promiscuous tongue-probing action and all. Kisses right up there with those newsreel smooches of fiances greeting their GI boyfriends just off a plane home from a front line tour of duty.

Seems paradoxical. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Then there is my Catholic schoolmate who adamantly refused me vaginal probing while willingly giving up her culo for carnal action.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2685441]Of Candy Girls, Cart Girls, Street Girls, Window Washer Girls (jeje), Ground Zero Girls, you are noticing the Metro Stairs Girls or Chicas. And like practically every girl in the country, they are on a continuum for Pay 4 Play.[/QUOTE]The Coffee Girls are the prototype in this category. Prob some other categories of P4P street girls I left out but you get the gist.

[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2685452]Here's a somewhat amusing topic prompted by a couple of failed negotiations at Fase Dos and Energia Fantasia with two chicas of choice my recent last week in Medellinand a topic which I don't recall having been pondered on this thread.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I never cease to be amused (and somewhat bemused) by the number of working girls who are more than willing to have you thrust your bareback member down their throats (with or without a "propina") but will categorically refuse DFK even for the offer of a generous tip. And (in my experience at least) one more rarely encounters the contraryDFK s; BBBJ no. It's as if these putas while spreading their legs for strangers multiple times per day, remain intent on saving the French kisses for their novias (or perhaps for the few clients that they would rate as a 9 or a 10). BBBJ and screwing (at least CFS) is somehow seen as much less intimate and personal than a little passionate foreplay / making out (even if the passion is as faked as all the "Mi cario", "Mi amor" WhatsApp messages that they send out daily.).

By contrast, this triggers memories (from High School days back in the 1950's) of make-out sessions with virginal 15 year olds who, while determined to preserve their maidenheads for some future Prince Charming on their wedding nights, were perfectly content to French kiss on the first or second date, promiscuous tongue-probing action and all.[/QUOTE]It is kinda a big deal for me and one of the big reasons I focused on SA girls. Even there, there seems to be some that will barely tolerate it and some that are quite good and I think? Enjoy it. I can tell you it is a lot easier to find girls that kiss here in Colombia than in the Dominican. In fact there is a girl coming over shortly that seems to like the tonsil hockey pretty well. Maybe it is just to make me happy. Who knows. I'm not sure about the cultural bar that Osteo talks about. I mean if you read the Colombian review boards, DFK is something the guys there talk about. So presumably it is something that occurs in non P4P encounters with Colombians. Oh well, I guess the whole thing is about what I want in exchange for money.

[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2685452]I don't know about the rest of you, but I never cease to be amused (and somewhat bemused) by the number of working girls who are more than willing to have you thrust your bareback member down their throats (with or without a "propina") but will categorically refuse DFK even for the offer of a generous tip.

By contrast, this triggers memories (from High School days back in the 1950's) of make-out sessions with virginal 15 year olds who, [/QUOTE]Did you really just compare hookers of 2022 with teenagers exploring their bodies in the 1950's? Even as I have gotten older I am much less inclined to tongue kiss with even normal chicks. It just no longer appeals to me. But I understand that being a hooker seems it would be part of the job description.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2685496]First I ran Google Translate set on "Bombastic" in order to make sure I understood your post, jeje.

I have noticed this kissing aversion among the Colombianas for quite some time now.

Sex workers in general from different countries often have the reputation for not kissing, but here it crosses over into the personal culture.

Yeah, it does seem kind of weird and inconsistent at first blush. How about this one? There are a lot of chicas who consider fucking less personal than receiving oral sex, here and in other countries.

I like to do a visual and sniff inspection before I will put my face on a pussy but some of the trashiest girls get "shy" when you first start staring at their pussies with the lights on. I politely tell them I have to see it before I can play with or enter it, and then I muster up some kind of compliment about how cute I think their pussy looks.

I know, I know, you (not you) don't care what a pussy looks like. Well, I'm telling you that the chicas care a lot about whether their pussies are perceived as attractive or not. One of the most fun things I do if I am with a group of girls is we all take turns looking at one chica's pussy at a time and talking about the size, shape, etc. Obviously, you have to keep that fun and certainly not mean-spririted but after breaking the ice like that I find that is just one more inhibition that can be overcome leading to great sex.[/QUOTE]I have made out with dozens of girls in Medellin, GFE and making out are the reason why I travel to Medellin. I am more careful with it now as I try to avoid getting strep throat from it- that and eating ass, most of the time its not worth the strep throat for 2 days and antibiotics. To each their own though.

[QUOTE=AdayOkay;2683724]Hi All,

I'm new here, but not new to the hobby (been to Mexico and Thailand). I'm planning a trip to Colombia and I see that a few of you guys have guides / wingmans. I'm planning to stay for a month. So I plan to see some chicas, but also want to site see, hike, check out Guatape, etc. Where do I find a good guide or wingman that's knowledgeable about the mongering scene there? Or if someone can point me in the right direction?[/QUOTE]I could use a wingman to get introduced to casa scene in centro. Please PM me if you found a good one.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2685563]Did you really just compare hookers of 2022 with teenagers exploring their bodies in the 1950's? Even as I have gotten older I am much less inclined to tongue kiss with even normal chicks. It just no longer appeals to me. But I understand that being a hooker seems it would be part of the job description.[/QUOTE]Prepagos, putas, hookers or whatever you want to call them usually only kiss their boyfriends or someone they have feelings for because to them kissing is an intimate thing expressing those emotions they have for the person they are kissing. That is a very basic and old rule. Never been part of their job description.

[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2685452]Here's a somewhat amusing topic prompted by a couple of failed negotiations at Fase Dos and Energia Fantasia with two chicas of choice my recent last week in Medellinand a topic which I don't recall having been pondered on this thread.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I never cease to be amused (and somewhat bemused) by the number of working girls who are more than willing to have you thrust your bareback member down their throats (with or without a "propina") but will categorically refuse DFK even for the offer of a generous tip. And (in my experience at least) one more rarely encounters the contraryDFK s; BBBJ no. It's as if these putas while spreading their legs for strangers multiple times per day, remain intent on saving the French kisses for their novias (or perhaps for the few clients that they would rate as a 9 or a 10). BBBJ and screwing (at least CFS) is somehow seen as much less intimate and personal than a little passionate foreplay / making out (even if the passion is as faked as all the "Mi cario", "Mi amor" WhatsApp messages that they send out daily.).

By contrast, this triggers memories (from High School days back in the 1950's) of make-out sessions with virginal 15 year olds who, while determined to preserve their maidenheads for some future Prince Charming on their wedding nights, were perfectly content to French kiss on the first or second date, promiscuous tongue-probing action and all. Kisses right up there with those newsreel smooches of fiances greeting their GI boyfriends just off a plane home from a front line tour of duty.[/QUOTE]For working girls, ofc. The vast majority would rather receive oral or give BBBJ than DFK. I think kissing is seen as more intimate, and the sex is just business. ID say compared to only like 25% of sw, at least 75% of casa girls you get DFK during ratos in centro. It's kind of a cultural thing, in Brazil they DFK (and initiate it) a lot more.

And Paulie, Osteo was talking about his experiences with sw, not non-pros; I assume. No need to jump in white knighting, we're all men here.

I'm contemplating flying a Colombian girl to PJU for a few nights at an all inclusive in a couple of months. Coming to MDE soon and will do some scouting.

Assuming I find someone I like and feel I can get along with for a few nights, (1) is this a bad idea, and (2) how much do you think is fair for this?

(Not really interested in Dominican girls).

I found my, albeit limited, experience about 50% of the girls I got off FB did DFK. I guess they just actually really like me JEJEJE!

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2685506]The Coffee Girls are the prototype in this category. Prob some other categories of P4P street girls I left out but you get the gist.[/QUOTE]The majority of the coffee girls do not go to the room, and the majority of them are not worth writing home about.

They actually can earn a living, earning between 15 to 30 K on a good day. I've gone with a few of them, and they explained to me that they pay for a flask of coffee, and the proceeds after the flask is empty is there's to keep.

Contrary to what some may think, they are not of the "point and shoot" variety like most of all the other girls walking around the Veracruz area.

It needs to be finessed when dealing with them so as not to insult them, because as I mentioned, the majority of them actually earn a living selling coffee.

If handled properly, they will not be offended by your advances.

The coffee girl's know what goes on in and around the Veracruz area, so if your Spanish is good enough, I do not discourage anyone from striking up a conversation with one you find appealing.

However you may end up going thru a bunch of them before finding one that goes to the room.

[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2685572]I have made out with dozens of girls in Medellin, GFE and making out are the reason why I travel to Medellin. I am more careful with it now as I try to avoid getting strep throat from it- that and eating ass, most of the time its not worth the strep throat for 2 days and antibiotics. To each their own though.[/QUOTE]I still believe the natural culture here is more adverse to kissing than for it, but as I also mentioned, there are plenty of chicas who recognize a marketing opportunity when they see one, jeje.

The real reason I posted this is a plug for Listerine. I use it after any potential oral transfer of unwanted flora and I have never even had a fever blister.

And there was the incredible testimonial here a while back about the beauty queen who gave ten thousand blowjobs and used Listerine after each one and never had an adverse outcome.

Normally, testimonials like that are the lowest level of evidence, but sometimes they can be very compelling. Also, I would recommend against brushing your teeth just before or after any kind of oral encounter since that opens up your gums to the bacteria instead of protecting them. At least that's the theory. Ostee Out.

[QUOTE=SmokersRule;2685622]I'm contemplating flying a Colombian girl to PJU for a few nights at an all inclusive in a couple of months. Coming to MDE soon and will do some scouting. (Not really interested in Dominican girls).[/QUOTE]There are Venezuelans and Colombians in Punta Cana (PUJ). Just look on Skokka.