All this talk has got me itching real bad to head down this Saturday. I may at least go on down and spend an hour or 2 with my favorite SW or try to find one of these Monterrey girls I been haring about in HK as well as get some drinks and tacos.
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All this talk has got me itching real bad to head down this Saturday. I may at least go on down and spend an hour or 2 with my favorite SW or try to find one of these Monterrey girls I been haring about in HK as well as get some drinks and tacos.
Guitar I wouldn't go with your gut on this one, your gut will steer you wrong. But years ago I kind of fell for a working girl, I mean I still went to massage parlors and stuff while she shopped or whatever, but still I liked her and spent the majority of my time in Costa Rica with her. I don't think there is a chance for it to work out, no matter how great you treat her and how much better you know her life will be with you it just won't change who she is. You obviously like latin girls, and fortunately for you if you're a 6 you are an 8 in the latin world, you get 2 extra points for being a gringo, maybe even a extra. 5 if you are light skinned. If I were you I would continue going to Tijuana, obviously you aren't going to stop, and I would find a local latin store and spend an hour there every week eating, shopping whatever that latin store happens to provide find a way to use it. Then if you see a girl you think is pretty ask her out, to help you learn spanish, go to a concert or whatever floats your boat. I have dated a lot of latin girls here in the US and they are way easier to start a date with, it might not go somewhere, but atleast your rejection rate will be lower. American girls are more stop you before it starts which kills the confidence a bit. I would suggest not thinking of this girl in Tijuana as anything more than a freebie, she will never be a friend or a girlfriend. Latin women are crazy, they just are and that's one thing we love about them, but add crazy infront of a hooker and it's just setting things up for disaster. You probably could meet a cool girl in Las Pulgas or Dubai also but it's way too much work crossing back and forth over the border so I would focus more locally then when you learn spanish I think Mexican ladies will be a very easy beast to tame. I usually can have a half assed conversation with a girl but that's not enough I'm breaking down and going to take Spanish classes, I'm around it all the time but it still doesn't help me learn fast enough.
I have a FWB who is Bi. We are going down to Tijuana this month. She will probably hook up on her own, but we will do at least one 3-way. Where is the best bang for the buck so to speak on finding chicks that really want to play with her. How about going rates? I know what I usually pay. 60-80 for club girls (HK, AB, CC etc.) and 20-25 for SGs in the alley.
What should I expect my friend to pay for girl on girl, and for a three-way session?
Thanks.
Maybe I am just looking for a chica who will make me listen to her count to 100 in English. .
Actually recently I am going to go to Asia for my business trip, I have a ATF who I met at a "sauna" who is preparing to take time off work to hang out with me. Blood is already boiling just thinking about that. But that shall be something for the Asia board.
On spending time in regular places in Tijuana, you know, if I could, I seriously would. First things first, is to try and get in touch with her again tomorrow to confirm the time (thanks Keg for the translation)
[QUOTE=Madisonguy;1192458]Guitar I wouldn't go with your gut on this one, your gut will steer you wrong. But years ago I kind of fell for a working girl, I mean I still went to massage parlors and stuff while she shopped or whatever, but still I liked her and spent the majority of my time in Costa Rica with her. I don't think there is a chance for it to work out, no matter how great you treat her and how much better you know her life will be with you it just won't change who she is. You obviously like latin girls, and fortunately for you if you're a 6 you are an 8 in the latin world, you get 2 extra points for being a gringo, maybe even a extra. 5 if you are light skinned. If I were you I would continue going to Tijuana, obviously you aren't going to stop, and I would find a local latin store and spend an hour there every week eating, shopping whatever that latin store happens to provide find a way to use it. Then if you see a girl you think is pretty ask her out, to help you learn spanish, go to a concert or whatever floats your boat. I have dated a lot of latin girls here in the US and they are way easier to start a date with, it might not go somewhere, but atleast your rejection rate will be lower. American girls are more stop you before it starts which kills the confidence a bit. I would suggest not thinking of this girl in Tijuana as anything more than a freebie, she will never be a friend or a girlfriend. Latin women are crazy, they just are and that's one thing we love about them, but add crazy infront of a hooker and it's just setting things up for disaster. You probably could meet a cool girl in Las Pulgas or Dubai also but it's way too much work crossing back and forth over the border so I would focus more locally then when you learn spanish I think Mexican ladies will be a very easy beast to tame. I usually can have a half assed conversation with a girl but that's not enough I'm breaking down and going to take Spanish classes, I'm around it all the time but it still doesn't help me learn fast enough.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FlapJacK;1192438]All this talk has got me itching real bad to head down this Saturday. I may at least go on down and spend an hour or 2 with my favorite SW or try to find one of these Monterrey girls I been haring about in HK as well as get some drinks and tacos.[/QUOTE]Amen to that
Ok so yesterday I'am down in Calexico working right next to the POE to Mexicali. And my ATF texts me, so I text back can you meet me in Mexicali tonight. She didn't even make some excuse why she couldn't come. Her text back was take care and kisses. So I get all pissed, and I'am like what a *****. I'am thinking I 'am going to have to find a new chica who can count to a thousand. Then I started thinking maybe that translation app I use screwed up. I put in "me puede responder esta noche en Mexicali" so if anyone can tell me what I actually said it would be appreciated. I did check google translate and it said something different.
[QUOTE=Hugotheman;1192733]Ok so yesterday I'am down in Calexico working right next to the POE to Mexicali. And my ATF texts me, so I text back can you meet me in Mexicali tonight. She didn't even make some excuse why she couldn't come. Her text back was take care and kisses. So I get all pissed, and I'am like what a *****. I'am thinking I 'am going to have to find a new chica who can count to a thousand. Then I started thinking maybe that translation app I use screwed up. I put in "me puede responder esta noche en Mexicali" so if anyone can tell me what I actually said it would be appreciated. I did check google translate and it said something different.[/QUOTE]Respond to me tonight, in Mexicali.
Maybe she thinks you're batshit crazy? Ha ha ha. :D :D
Try something like Por favor, encontrarme en Mexicali, esta noche.
Or encuentreme (accent over the second e. Don't have a Spanish keyboard) might be a bit more correct.
Either way, she'll get the point.
This stuff works most Farmacia Similaries have it 219 pesos for 4 100 milligram pills roughly $4. 50 per pill stuff works great bought in Similiares Rosarito most have in Tijuana, national chain in Mexico, works great I am 67, no mail order hassles, druggist says hard to keep in stock! Enjoy! Since they are a National chain would trust poduct consistent.
[QUOTE=Big John 1;1192862]This stuff works most Farmacia Similaries have it 219 pesos for 4 100 milligram pills roughly $4. 50 per pill stuff works great bought in Similiares Rosarito most have in Tijuana, national chain in Mexico, works great I am 67, no mail order hassles, druggist says hard to keep in stock! Enjoy! Since they are a National chain would trust poduct consistent.[/QUOTE]They sell good stuff. I brought back 6 bags of their eucalyptus lollipops. They work way better than halls and are a lot cheaper.
My ATF #1 sent me a message for lunch tomorrow. Looks like she likes pizza. To go or not to go.
[QUOTE=Guitarrefreak; 1192583]Maybe I am just looking for a chica who will make me listen to her count to 100 in English. .
Actually recently I am going to go to Asia for my business trip, I have a ATF who I met at a "sauna" who is preparing to take time off work to hang out with me. Blood is already boiling just thinking about that. But that shall be something for the Asia board.
On spending time in regular places in Tijuana, you know, if I could, I seriously would. First things first, is to try and get in touch with her again tomorrow to confirm the time (thanks Keg for the translation) [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Guitarrefreak; 1191901]Can someone help me translate
"si? Que haces? Te echo de menos" <- I think this just means she misses me?
And.
"podemos ir a comer el viernes" <- I am not sure if this means she wants to have a meal together on Friday, but I don't know if it implies lunch or dinner.
Google translate aint helping here.[/QUOTE]A little late on the translation but I'd like to help. I'm usually on the Colombian Forum but I'm planning a long awaited trip to Tijuana so I've been following the posts for some time now. The first question / pregunta "Que haces".What are you doing? The second statement "Te echo de menos" is more of a statement used in Spain or Castellano. In Colombia they would say "Me haces falta" or "Me haces mucha falta" or "Te extrano". All meaning the same of course "I miss you." The last question is pretty obvious "Podemos ir a comer el viernes?".Do you want to go out and eat on Friday? It's irrelevant what meal, could be anytime, lunch or dinner. She's leaving it up to you as they all do in their machista, man pays for everything society. It's up to you to be creative o romantic or whatever. Bottom line, she's free, she's down, you have her attention and that's all that matters.
A later post it was asked about the slang for 3pm. No slang just shorten the response another fellow member gave. You could say "A las Tres de la tarde", but no need. It's a given that's its going to be in the afternoon and not in the morning. So any spanish speaker would simply say it shorter "A las Tres".
Another post said the Google translation for "I'll call you on Thursday to confirm" was " Te dare una llamada el jueves para confirmar. You can make it shorter with "Te llamare el jueves para confirmar". I think that will help you more since you want it simple and sweet. Peace
[QUOTE=Madisonguy;1192458]Guitar I wouldn't go with your gut on this one, your gut will steer you wrong. But years ago I kind of fell for a working girl, I mean I still went to massage parlors and stuff while she shopped or whatever, but still I liked her and spent the majority of my time in Costa Rica with her. I don't think there is a chance for it to work out, no matter how great you treat her and how much better you know her life will be with you it just won't change who she is. You obviously like latin girls, and fortunately for you if you're a 6 you are an 8 in the latin world, you get 2 extra points for being a gringo, maybe even a extra. 5 if you are light skinned. If I were you I would continue going to Tijuana, obviously you aren't going to stop, and I would find a local latin store and spend an hour there every week eating, shopping whatever that latin store happens to provide find a way to use it. Then if you see a girl you think is pretty ask her out, to help you learn spanish, go to a concert or whatever floats your boat. I have dated a lot of latin girls here in the US and they are way easier to start a date with, it might not go somewhere, but atleast your rejection rate will be lower. American girls are more stop you before it starts which kills the confidence a bit. I would suggest not thinking of this girl in Tijuana as anything more than a freebie, she will never be a friend or a girlfriend. Latin women are crazy, they just are and that's one thing we love about them, but add crazy infront of a hooker and it's just setting things up for disaster. You probably could meet a cool girl in Las Pulgas or Dubai also but it's way too much work crossing back and forth over the border so I would focus more locally then when you learn spanish I think Mexican ladies will be a very easy beast to tame. I usually can have a half assed conversation with a girl but that's not enough I'm breaking down and going to take Spanish classes, I'm around it all the time but it still doesn't help me learn fast enough.[/QUOTE]Madison, I've been there as well with a WG from Colombia. At the end of the day, you did enjoy her company didn't you? I thoroughly enjoyed my time with my chica while it lasted. I saw my girl for three weeks and had lots of fun. It feels good when you don't have to pay for it and there's no rush for anything. Americans come from a different culture and clearly treat their women differently and it shines over and over and over again. One just can't be a pushover; and to be very weary when money is mentioned even jokingly.
Guitarrefreak clearly enjoys her company and maybe even have a small crush. There's nothing wrong with him putting his "bid" in so to speak. He can come out of this unblemished if he plays it cool. I suggest not putting your heart into it, at least not for a while, no matter what she says; Keep it cute and innocent. Women, especially latin women, don't like to show you all their cards (Poker Analogy). He obviously knows her profession, and willingly accepts it without putting too much judgment on it. If she's down for pizza or tamales or seafood, I say it's all good and to go for it. She can be a friend, maybe even a good friend. A freebie most definitely. With a little time spent together, that can improve on the intimacy part which if you think about it is the best part. Nothing's free in this world, let alone the vagina. A small insignificant gesture or small attention goes a REALLY long way in LatinoAmerica. I guarantee she would've told somebody where she's going and they will ask her how it went afterwards. So I would get the next size up on the pizza, if you were going to order a medium get a large instead so that they'll be leftovers-that's the key. So after the meal eaten together, she'll have leftovers to bring back home. Everybody in the household will be talking about how good the pizza was at their next meal, and she'll be snickering inside know ing it's true. So I would recommend going to a place with excellent pizza, most likely somewhere she hasn't gotten if it's possible and if there's time to research it. Americans are experts at knowing the best places to eat Pizza. No need to get dramatic or too romantic, but the gesture itself she'll remember for a while. A typical thing to do in Colombia in High School, when going to see a girl you like, would be to bring her a chocolatina (something sweet like a candybar; seems kinda funny but it works there like a charm more than roses I would have to say). Have fun. Keep it light. Be like Mr. Big from Sex and the City. Always the gentleman, and you'll see soon enough how quickly they start using the "L" word. Doesn't mean she means it but it's always nice to hear. She'll be texting you all the time asking to go out whenever you're in town. And that's when the real games begin to your advantage. Peace.
[QUOTE=Hugotheman;1192733]Ok so yesterday I'am down in Calexico working right next to the POE to Mexicali. And my ATF texts me, so I text back can you meet me in Mexicali tonight. She didn't even make some excuse why she couldn't come. Her text back was take care and kisses. So I get all pissed, and I'am like what a *****. I'am thinking I 'am going to have to find a new chica who can count to a thousand. Then I started thinking maybe that translation app I use screwed up. I put in "me puede responder esta noche en Mexicali" so if anyone can tell me what I actually said it would be appreciated. I did check google translate and it said something different.[/QUOTE]Hugo, the correct way to say it would've been "Nos podemos ver esta noche en Mexicali?" The application made it sound weird like " Can you answer me tonight in Mexicali?" I don't know why but you shorten the first word, it sounds better instead of saying Nosotros. Actually you could've dropped the Nos all together."Podemos ver esta noche en Mexicali?" is also a possibility. I'm happy to help all fellow members with translation whenever possible. Estoy a la orden-I'm at your service. Peace
[QUOTE=Colbrotha; 1193006]Madison, I've been there as well with a WG from Colombia. At the end of the day, you did enjoy her company didn't you? I thoroughly enjoyed my time with my chica while it lasted. I saw my girl for three weeks and had lots of fun. It feels good when you don't have to pay for it and there's no rush for anything. Americans come from a different culture and clearly treat their women differently and it shines over and over and over again. One just can't be a pushover; and to be very weary when money is mentioned even jokingly.
Guitarrefreak clearly enjoys her company and maybe even have a small crush. There's nothing wrong with him putting his "bid" in so to speak. He can come out of this unblemished if he plays it cool. I suggest not putting your heart into it, at least not for a while, no matter what she says; Keep it cute and innocent. Women, especially latin women, don't like to show you all their cards (Poker Analogy). He obviously knows her profession, and willingly accepts it without putting too much judgment on it. If she's down for pizza or tamales or seafood, I say it's all good and to go for it. She can be a friend, maybe even a good friend. A freebie most definitely. With a little time spent together, that can improve on the intimacy part which if you think about it is the best part. Nothing's free in this world, let alone the vagina. A small insignificant gesture or small attention goes a REALLY long way in LatinoAmerica. I guarantee she would've told somebody where she's going and they will ask her how it went afterwards. So I would get the next size up on the pizza, if you were going to order a medium get a large instead so that they'll be leftovers-that's the key. So after the meal eaten together, she'll have leftovers to bring back home. Everybody in the household will be talking about how good the pizza was at their next meal, and she'll be snickering inside know ing it's true. So I would recommend going to a place with excellent pizza, most likely somewhere she hasn't gotten if it's possible and if there's time to research it. Americans are experts at knowing the best places to eat Pizza. No need to get dramatic or too romantic, but the gesture itself she'll remember for a while. A typical thing to do in Colombia in High School, when going to see a girl you like, would be to bring her a chocolatina (something sweet like a candybar; seems kinda funny but it works there like a charm more than roses I would have to say). Have fun. Keep it light. Be like Mr. Big from Sex and the City. Always the gentleman, and you'll see soon enough how quickly they start using the "L" word. Doesn't mean she means it but it's always nice to hear. She'll be texting you all the time asking to go out whenever you're in town. And that's when the real games begin to your advantage. Peace.[/QUOTE]Yeah that's what I was trying to say, have fun but don't get too emotionally attached. But I still think it's impossible on your first one and you're better off finding a girl local to you, you are in latin country. It kind of helps in that you don't use the L word with them, to me te amo doesn't mean shit and I tell every girl I see there te amo and mi amor. Mi amor is a lot more normal in their culture though so that one doesn't mean that much to them. Not sure it te amo is as strong as I love you here, I know it means the same thing but I love you here is a big deal in a relationship.
On a side note I have been back home for like 3 days and I'm already eager for a trip to Philippines or CR. I might have to seek some help as looking through my bank statements for the year there hasn't been a month where I didn't go somewhere to supress an itch that just will never stop.
[QUOTE=Misteroc; 1192521]I have a FWB who is Bi. We are going down to Tijuana this month. She will probably hook up on her own, but we will do at least one 3-way. Where is the best bang for the buck so to speak on finding chicks that really want to play with her. How about going rates? I know what I usually pay. 60-80 for club girls (HK, AB, CC etc.) and 20-25 for SGs in the alley.
What should I expect my friend to pay for girl on girl, and for a three-way session?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Try Joanna at Chicago Club. She has always been involved in my best threesomes. She speaks good English also. $60 half hour or $100 for hour. Be prepared to pay for the room for both Joanna and your friend. In other words $24 per half hour instead of $12 per half hour. Tell her that Mike recommended her.