Variable for older customers? Sure.
[QUOTE=GrapeMan;2828478]You're super experienced, but this is also a if you're not an older man, things go a lot easier. So take some YMMV across the spectrum here. If I've been clear with the girls what's going to happen, and she brings a friend, I haven't had issues. The variability of how girls treat board members and other patrons are really all over the place.
Oddly enough, I've often found the 'second girl' is many times more into lesbian than the first and that's not at all uncommon on why they were chosen to join. A funny one was I can't remember the club, it wasn't Eden, but might have been, not sure, I feel it wasn't. A bunch of decent girls, asked who would do two girl lesbian to mamasan, she recommended one, I wasn't on board with it, but the girls heard what I wanted and a few were like raised there hand and said they did, choose one (not one mamasan said), she just looked at a friend and I said ok. In the room the girl I choose was english OK and said the other girl is one that likes lesbian the most so she does threesomes with all the other girls, but she's often not a first choice pick so other girls often pick her for lesbian, since she's into it.[/QUOTE]It is also dramatically variable based on the looks, age and level of competence and confidence of the girls one chooses.
I have known guys in their 20's and 30's, much better looking than I am or was at their age, even more fluent in Thai than I am and have mongered here plenty, lived here for months at time in fact who report the exact same Yes Upfront vs No In The Room bullshit I mentioned. Often.
But, like me, they tend to take girls who are definitely not needy for customers, never short on cash and don't work in the accept-all-comers so-called PSE shops.