My recent Seeking experience in Paris part I
In January, I posted a few observations about my initial contacts with same ladies on Seeking in the Paris thread of the France forum here on ISG. I noted that I was cautiously optimistic about my chances during my upcoming visit. I came back from my one week trip to Paris earlier this month and here is my brief report.
I met three desirable ladies in person (I will call them Femme 1, Femme 2 and Femme 3), had dinner with all three and sex with two of the three. I didn't pay anything beyond the cost of dinner for the social time that I spent with all three and I paid 300 Euros each to the two that I had sex with.
Femme 1 was the first one that I met on my second night in Paris. She is a 30 ish, pretty, fit, blond, well educated and interesting single woman who is employed fulltime at a financial institution. It was easy to set up a date with her and she never mentioned money even once during our messaging on WhatsApp. In fact, since we never did consummate our relationship, she never mentioned money when I was with her in person either. She was the most attractive of the three women that I met. In the USA a woman with her looks could easily command $500+ on a PPM basis on Seeking.
We started off with a drink at a cafe close to my hotel and she seemed interested in spending more time with me so I suggested dinner at a nearby nice but modest restaurant and she agreed. Though she spoke some English, my French was much better than her English and so we conversed in French. The conversation flowed pretty easily and I found myself feeling that it was hard to believe that things could go so well, especially compared to how challenging it can be to find desirable women where I live in the USA (mid size city in the southeast USA). Dinner and wine were good and we walked back to my hotel. I invited her to come up to my room to "listen to some music" since we had talked about our tastes in music (I always travel with a Sony mini speaker for such occasions). I was surprised when she accepted because it was late and she had to work the next day but when good fortune smiles on me, I don't don't question it.
So we went up to my room and sitting close to each other, we listened to and talked about music. In the back of mind, I kept thinking that she would give me a clear signal to discuss sex and a price that would please her and me but she never ventured there. Strangely, I got the feeling that she viewed Seeking as more or less a normal dating site and that sex on a first date was just not something that she did. She mentioned that a friend of hers had met a guy on Seeking and gotten married to him.
Since she was not giving me the green light, I didn't want to offend her by making an explicit proposition so I didn't, but I was hoping that maybe a second date the next day would lead to sex. We did hold hands and we kissed lightly a couple times. Nevertheless, I was puzzled. Why would she pick me, old enough to be her father to go on a normal date with? I was well-qualified to be her client in a mutually satisfying business deal, but I couldn't understand why she would spend her time with me--a foreigner, in town for only a week and significantly older than her-- on a normal date. But I enjoyed spending time with her and I wasn't bothered by the fact that we clearly were not going to have sex that night.
We eventually called it a night and she said she would like to see me again while I was in town, maybe to do something during the day on her day off or to have another dinner. I said I would love that and she left. Since it has been a while since I had had a dinner companion of her beauty and charm, I was happy with my evening and hopeful for a different end to a second meeting.
My recent Seeking experience in Paris part II
Femme 1 followed up with me the next day, but only to say that she was too tired and too busy at work to meet me that evening. I replied that I understood and let her know that I would really like to meet her again but I decided not to invest any more time and energy in her, since I would be in Paris only for several more days. If I had been sticking around longer, then I think there would have been a decent chance to turn the relationship into something worthwhile (including sex for $) but I just didn't have time, especially considering that I had other contacts to explore.
So I moved on to Femme 2. Her photos were very nice-she had a French girl next door innocence look that was very appealing but also a couple sexy bathing suit shots that were even more appealing. Also, reading between the lines of her profile, she seemed much more open to playing ball right from the start. I messaged her on WhatsApp the next day, following up on a few exchanges that we had had while I was still in the USA. She was eager and available that same night. I was somewhat relieved when she turned the back and forth on WhatsApp to the topic of compensation and specifics of a meeting. I proposed dinner and then "intimacy" back at my room for that night. She said that her rate was 400 Euros for such a PPM encounter and I replied that I was "used to" paying 200. Without hesitation she countered with 300 and I accepted.
She arrived at my hotel on time and upon meeting her in person, I liked her look but she didn't really measure up to Femme 1 in looks and charm. It was clear to me that she had done this more than a few times and maybe I wasn't catching her on her best night. Like Femme 1, she worked in finance and maybe found her job less than fulfilling and kind of boring. She had a good education and had spent a year in northern California at an American university business school. Interestingly, it was during that year that one of her classmates and friends had turned her on to Seeking. She must have been much in demand in her role as the French college girl sugar baby in America.
Dinner was fine and she was interesting to talk to. Her English was excellent and we conversed back and forth in both languages. I didn't like the restaurant where we wound up and I didn't find her as charming and appealing as Femme 1. But she was cute, young, had a pretty nice body and there were no doubts about what we would do back in my room.
So we returned to my room and got down to business. She performed well but I didn't feel any real passion during the encounter. Maybe she was thinking that I would not be around for repeat business so she didn't have to put on her best performance. I liked her, I enjoyed her company and the sex was pretty good (especially after the previous letdown with Femme 1), but if I had been staying in Paris for a while, I would not have wanted to meet her again. It seemed like there were lots more possibilities out there.
So the next day, I messaged on WhatsApp a couple more ladies with whom I had already made contact. Both responded positively to me and I got the feeling that both would be fun dates who would also provide what a man wants, though neither one brought up the subject of money. I actually like that because it made it feel like more of a challenge to reach a satisfying deal. Neither one could meet that night but both could meet the following night. I liked the looks of both-one was a more mature, MILFy and very attractive North African woman and the other was a younger (25) Eurasian cutie. I love women with a look that is a bit exotic so they both appealed to me. It was a tough choice but I picked the younger Eurasian.
So I set up a dinner date with Femme 3, the Eurasian, for the following night. We consulted about the restaurant and she recommended a traditional French place that would be convenient for both of us to reach.
She even made a reservation.
The next evening I found her waiting outside the restaurant at the appointed hour. Her photos are very nice and she lived up to them. She is a mix of southeast Asian and European and the result is very appealing. She carries a little extra weight but in a nice way with womanly curves and nice boobs. Her face is model pretty with perfect skin and a pretty smile.
She was a very charming and fun dinner companion and the meal was very good. We shared a bottle of wine and the dinner passed enjoyably. We walked back to my hotel and I invited her up to "listen to music", but I don't think I even needed to use that line again. She was happy to come back to my room.
Once in the room, she was very coy. I knew she was willing to have sex but she allowed me to move things along. After a while we wound up lounging on the bed and I initiated some physical contact including some light kisses. Wow! It was like I lit a fire inside her. She kissed back enthusiastically. With tongues. This girl was a kisser extraordinaire. She loved to kiss and allowed free roaming of my hands.
However, I wasn't sure that I was ready to take her on that night. I was tired from a long day of activity and the wine and the food didn't put me in my best form for sex. Also we still hadn't discussed her compensation. I proposed that we meet again the next night and do the bedroom activities first and then go to another dinner. I mentioned a number (300 Euros) and she said that would be good. So after more kissing and cuddling she left and I looked forward to the next night.
She returned to my hotel early the next evening and we proceeded directly to where we had left off the night before. As she undressed, she revealed that she was wearing some nice lingerie including matching white bra, panties, garter belt and stockings. I had not asked for that, but what a nice, thoughtful gesture on her part. She looked fabulous and the whole package got my motor running. The sex was great, especially in doggie position facing the full length mirror on the bathroom door (located very close to the bed in my tiny hotel room).
We finished up and went out for another nice dinner at an Italian place that she also had recommended.
So I feel like I had a successful Seeking experience in Paris. I had never used it before outside of my home area and I didn't know what to expect. But all in all, it was far better and easier to find, meet and and enjoy the intimate companionship of desirable women than in my home area. And still reasonably priced, considering that Paris is an expensive city. Quite apart from the three women that I met, I had a great time in Paris. But adding in those three interesting encounters made my week in Paris that much more enjoyable.
CDMX report. Mexican SDs do exist:.
Hi all,
Just like title says: Mexican (living in cdmx, not only visiting) do exist.
We understand local culture, but your input is much appreciated.
Yes, we might increase prices for you all (not that it'll make any difference to your finances, but it helps avoid exploitation).
It's great here (MX in general, cdmx in particular), just give back what's fair.
