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Holyfemme says her name is Carla. We exchanged messages in DIA for weeks and she gave me her phone number but never answered it when I was there. Flake.

[QUOTE=ChiefThinker; 1267257]Hi!

I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.

I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.

"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"

In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:

"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)

I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.

BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.

Thanks in advance for any info you can share.[/QUOTE]

[quote=wazoo; 1267308]i appreciate all the good advice here about how to handle the request of this new filipina friend who wants to invite some friends when we go out to party. i should add a little context here. i have been a frequent traveler to east asia for the last 20 years. i know that it would be simplest to just go to a bar and pick out a different girl every night i'm in manila. i've done more than my share of that in china, japan, and korea and frankly am bored with that whole scene. having sex with a total stranger just doesn't excite me much anymore. i spent some evenings in china last year with high end working girls who were as beautiful as magazine models. i am hoping for something more personal in phils since language is not an issue and the girls tend to be warm-hearted and romantic. i want to establish a relationship with someone through chat and then enjoy a few days with her while i'm there. if get along well, i'd really rather just stick with one rather than shoo her away in order to meet another the next night. i've got 3 or 4 likely candidates i'm talking to now. the one in question actually is my backup choice at the moment. she is a massage therapist at a legit spa near ac. she usually video chats from work and i see the shop and all her friends in uniform. they often join in to laugh and talk with me if customers are around. we've hit it off very well. she's never asked or even hinted for money. there's no evidence on facebook of a filipino boyfriend or western hookups, just lots of shots of she and her friends out together. i know that money is really tight for her, but she is willing to miss a couple of days of work, probably with the expectation that i will give her more than she could make at the spa. she originally is from the manila area, and so i guess wanted to see some friends while she's in town. this girl and her friends are just tons of fun, so i wouldn't mind funding a karaoke or dancing evening if i can limit the time and peso investment to something reasonable. it would be fun for me too. i have no desire to bed any of her friends. following the advice here, as time for my trip gets closer i'll be more explicit about my expectations for sex and also make sure that i can limit the numbers of friends and the time we'll spend with them. i've already told her that my main focus is to spend time with her, not her friends, and she seemed to like that. i'll also follow the suggestion here about the club and how to handle the drinks and snacks. if this particular girl gets too demanding or balks about staying with me in the hotel, i have a few others in the works who are very clear about how we'll spend out time together. i can switch to one of them quite easily.

i now have been duly warned about the need to be clear about my expectations and set firm limits. and also that i should expect the unexpected. thanks. i can work out exit strategies in advance and won't get suckered into anything. forewarned is forearmed.[/quote]sounds like a plan. i would suggest you tell her that first you want to spend a day or two with her alone before the party after all thats why you are there. she would not object to that. also if you can at least get an idea from her what that evening will include it could be a good advantage as at least you know in advance what to expect. for instance if they want to go to few discos (say around makati) then you may be in for 500 peso entrance fee per person which very quickly could get expensive. resto bars as you initially suggested are ok but again try and watch what they order as its quite common for them to order ridicules amounts of food. also if you end up in a place like that my tip to you is try and get a table far from the stage as they tend to be way to loud and you can forget about conversation. karaoke bars are also funny. it depends on where you go to and how much of a sucker the manager figures you are. imo its best for you to step in and tell him what you want and look like you know the deal as oppose to letting the girls do the negotiating for you.

anyway my question to you is this what you want? what i mean is, is this how you picture your gf experience? do you want to go to places like that or perhaps maybe you prefer something else but you are going with this just to make her happy? i read that you don't mind doing it but do you want to do it? there are plenty of ways to enjoy a gf experience and plenty of alternative ways to have fun, cinemas, sight seeing, day trip out of manila. work out what you want to do rather then keeping her happy, trust me it won't change a thing for her. don't get me wrong i am not saying don't take the girls out and i have done it many times but my intentions have always been more sinister then yours hence it was what i wanted each time i did it. you will find that filipinas don't think like we do. if you have a budget as to what your willing to spend and if this night out means less tip for her then its probably better to not bother with it. what you will spend that night is more then she makes in 2 weeks if not more. also now that we have more detail from your last post there is another potential red flag. most girls due to the reputation of ac especially in her line of work are not always open and honest with their friends back in their hometowns as to what they do mostly being afraid of gossip. i very much doubt it her friends will know she is a massage therapist in pampanga lol as they will all assume she provides happy ends even if that may not (uniforms mean fuck all, i hope you understand why may not is in capitals) be the case. what this means is she may want to parade her poreigner to her friends and god knows what sort of story she has told them so once again expect the unexpected. i wouldn't be surprised if the 2 or 3 friends you may have allowed to come up turn to 10 or so, so perhaps you may need to reiterate this quite heavily and maybe its a good idea to meet up somewhere else before deciding where you will go. i once made the mistake of meeting my girl and her two friends in cowboy grill but then another lot of "colleagues" tuned out and joined table. needless to say when she asked if she can order extra cos they are all hungry i was put into a tight spot. i got out of it by saying i thought we are there just for drinks and i have work so i need to go, i paid the bill up to that stage and got out of dodge. there was no way i was going to pick up a bill for another dozen friends half of them male.

you mentioned that you have plenty of experience with bar girls elsewhere in asia which is good but very different to phils. language, closer culture to the west, more desperate girls plus the general go with the flow popcorn mentality that filipinas have makes this a fairly unique place. some of my most memorable short time (few days, up to a week) gf experiences have been with burgos st bar girls. i would go to some of the more fun bars like rogues, talk to few girls, buy a ladies drink or two find the one i want then explain i want her for the night with the possibility of maybe few days if we hit it off. i would tell her what that includes, ie, what on my mind for that particular girlfriend experience and see what she says. this over the years has included sex in public, holidaying to some nice places in phils, bringing her as my gf/sex slave to some remote places in phils where action is very limited or impossible to find, bondage and so on. i would pay the barfine once or twice until she trusts me and then work out a deal with her to skip the barfine. some girls get fined for not turning up to work but we are talking few hundred peso which you simply reimburse. last girl i did this with turned out to be ex disco promoter for few of the top clubs in manila and i had great time with her for a week. just the savings on night entertainment worked out far more then what my costs were to keep her, feed her and even take her shopping. no entrance fee anywhere, no cues and most of the time free drinks and vip treatment in some of the hottest manila clubs. we even ended up seeing a concert in arneta colosseum for free (a band i wanted to see and i was going to pay the tickets for both of us which worked out around $130 for both at the time). another that i am still in touch with and i will see in june is no longer a bar girl she is back in uni and can't wait to introduce me to her new uni friends. she was like pit bull, in clubs she would go hunt for another girl for threesome and almost always come back with another bombshell that was happy to come back to the hotel with us. cost for the second girl - picking up her drink tab, breakfast and taxi money next morning (i would give her 1000 peso anyway but that was never discussed and my bar girl would not offer anyone money when she was picking girls up). i know this is not what you wanted but keep this in mind as a back up. don't overcomplicated your first trip as others have advised before. you will find that sometimes girls on dia are very different in real life so if you find that you have sacrificed on beauty too much then this becomes an option, no offense but i doubt that you can talk politics, economics, art or anything you are into with the massage girl from ac.

good luck and i hope you get most of your gf experience.

McDon, thanks. I sent you a PM.

[QUOTE=ChiefThinker; 1267257]Hi!

I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.

I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.

"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"

In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:

"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)

I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.

BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.

Thanks in advance for any info you can share.[/QUOTE]Hmm I find it amusing when guys are willing to trade info on a few DIA contacts as if somehow they have found water in the middle of the desert. It's about equal to holding a few sardines in the middle of a large fish market. There are HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of filipinas online and even more in the Philippines that are willing to make friends with a foreigner and possibly go back to the hotel.

It's pointless to try and trade info on a few specific women because it's always YMMV. Some guys are younger vs. Older, better looking vs. Fugly or have a better chat personality and might click well with one woman while the next guy strikes out. Also different women prefer different types of guys, some want older guys and some younger guys. Again YMMV.

Only time trading a profile that seems warranted is when a woman possesses a certain skill set that some might desire such as, S&M sub or dom, preggy or post-preggy and gives milk, a certain body part or type that is exceptional, offers or provides threesomes or some other sexual services such as greek.

Not a dig in any way on ChiefThinker, just my thoughts on recent events.

Wazoo, agree with the other posters here. Cowboy grille is a good place. Stay away from makati, and don't go anywhere near the Greenbelt area. These girls will always pick the most expensive item from the menu. Don't be surprised if you do get screwed. That would spoil the fun right? Ask how many are going? And make sure they are all girls! Depending on the place, alcohol costs are different. I am actually there end of this month.

The other thing, best advice is avoid this situation all together. I think based on that you wrote, and just like the other gentlemens advice, and if you really want to go through with this, Cowboy Grille.

CT

[QUOTE=D Cups;1267352]Holyfemme says her name is Carla. We exchanged messages in DIA for weeks and she gave me her phone number but never answered it when I was there. Flake.[/QUOTE]You are "somewhat" correct, she can be a flake at times but worth the effort IMHO. Did you try texting her? She always responded to my texts in fairly short order. She does claim very limited availability due to school and work and says she cannot answer her phone during class or when working.

Of course, YMMV but her photos are real and she comes close to your size preference in the chest department.

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 1267579]Hmm I find it amusing when guys are willing to trade info on a few DIA contacts as if somehow they have found water in the middle of the desert. It's about equal to holding a few sardines in the middle of a large fish market. There are HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of filipinas online and even more in the Philippines that are willing to make friends with a foreigner and possibly go back to the hotel.

It's pointless to try and trade info on a few specific women because it's always YMMV. Some guys are younger vs. Older, better looking vs. Fugly or have a better chat personality and might click well with one woman while the next guy strikes out. Also different women prefer different types of guys, some want older guys and some younger guys. Again YMMV.

Only time trading a profile that seems warranted is when a woman possesses a certain skill set that some might desire such as, S&M sub or dom, preggy or post-preggy and gives milk, a certain body part or type that is exceptional, offers or provides threesomes or some other sexual services such as greek.

Not a dig in any way on ChiefThinker, just my thoughts on recent events.[/QUOTE]No offense taken and you are absolutely correct in the YMMV. Etc.

The reason I posted the way I did was simply to show I was not trying to just "mooch" info without offering anything in return. Since I have no field reports I did not want someone to look up my few post and judge me as only asking for info without providing any. I was just hoping someone had actually met one of the girls I listed and if not I'm still willing to offer my info to anyone via PM on the ones I have personally met.

In any case, I can't wait till I arrive on Friday night. If anyone is in the P. Burgos area and wants to grab a cold one just let me know.

PS Gangles, I tried to PM you but your box is full.

[QUOTE=ChiefThinker; 1267257]Hi!

I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.

I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.

"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"

In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:

"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)

I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.

BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.

Thanks in advance for any info you can share.[/QUOTE]No need to trade anything about DIA contacts. It is a free and open forum and if you put your criteria you will get what you are looking for.

As for coming to room, opening legs, how much money is asked or given, good in sex etc who knows? Just because one person had a good time with the girl has nothing to do with another person being happy.

It all depends on personalities, chemistry, likes and dislikes to have a good time.

Just spend some time searching and anybody can hook up. Prettier ones and those living with parents take a little longer. Just today I was chatting with a good looking girl and she said she cannot stay with me overnight because of her job and staying with parents and have to explain. However she is game for meeting. Maybe she is open for afternoon delight. We will see.

Sometimes these girls play games making them look like 2 day old virgins. Reality maybe different. It is always better to tell them directlky that you are looking for a good time. Soon after that their innocense vanishes and some are ready while others say they are not like that. Hit enough girls and you will be rewarded.

Why would we not trade info about DIA or other contacts? That is the exact reason why I asked ISG mgmt to create this thread and it has been an extremely popular thread. (sorry if that sounds like self promotion, but "chat" is the second thread I hit after the photo thread)

Several people here at ISG have given me contact info or in some cases personally introduced me to ladies. Thank you gentlemen. X (aka Klutz)

[QUOTE=Sammon;1267649]No need to trade anything about DIA contacts. .[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChiefThinker;1267257]"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot"[/QUOTE]Half of your list are ladyboys the other half are very suss. Filter mate, filter!

This one messaged me yesterday. Pretty self-explanatory ad. Wish they could all be so clear.

[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/simpleignorant.html[/url]

Her look doesn't do it for me. Nor does her age / weight look accurate on her profile. But I know from the Thai threads there are mature chasers out there. AsianRain

I had this sweet young spinner ([url]http://www.dateinasia.com/babydailyn09.html[/url]). Definitely a newbie on the game. Kinda shy and reserved. Slim and petite with A-cup tits with perfect pencil eraser nips. Nice hard ass. Plump juicy clit and loved to have it licked. She wasn't very active and needed to be led. Lick this. Suck that. Get on top now. Highlight of the session was when she went into cowgirl and impaled her tight little fuck box squarely on my rod. The "oh sheeet oh sheet oh sheets" started as she rocked back and forth faster and faster until she had a nice orgasm. Definitely knew how to get paid twice. Flipped her over for mish and pounded to completion.

It was really a blow and go session without any chemistry. Would not repeat. Just a nice quickie toy for spinner lovers. YMMV. Asked her if she was using DIA frequently to find customers. She said I was her third. Clearly on a mission to find more foreigners to monetize her twat. Enjoy DIA, AsianRain

Which one of these two dating sites would you guys suggest to use to find a potential filipina mate. Thanks for any feedback.

TW

[QUOTE=Fast Buck Artist;1267882]Half of your list are ladyboys the other half are very suss. Filter mate, filter![/QUOTE]Honeymoon is a cam girl. She is pretty and will give out free pics, though.

If you want to find some great gals for "Fun", then TAGGED worked very well for me. And its FREE