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[QUOTE=MojoBandit;2442848]So guys that are in country need to know all the chica's cedula numbers so they know which ones to call over on which days. LOL But on a serious note this schedule does not address gringos or foreigners . So how are gringos supposed to take care of basics like grocery, pharmacy, bank errands etc? I know there is Rappi but not everything can be done that way. I personally would find a chica who could do some of this also but not all of it so what are the gringos there doing? Or gringo is caught out going to the pharmacy or bank?[/QUOTE]I show them my passport and they use my passport number to enter stores. Some are A-holes and will not let me in on the wrong day even when there is no line (ARA). Sometimes business is slow and there is nobody at the door and you just walk in (Justo y Bueno). Walked 2 miles then 3 another day. Carrying a bag, walking fast, and alone nobody bothered me (I am in Barranquilla so is less strict I think). I go to store every 2-3 days to get drinks and change mostly. Several police see me out every time and no problems. It is hot here so I wear shorts and sandals so they know I am "foreigner" walking down the street.

[QUOTE=LoveItHere69;2443085]I show them my passport and they use my passport number to enter stores. Some are A-holes and will not let me in on the wrong day even when there is no line (ARA). Sometimes business is slow and there is nobody at the door and you just walk in (Justo y Bueno). Walked 2 miles then 3 another day. Carrying a bag, walking fast, and alone nobody bothered me (I am in Barranquilla so is less strict I think). I go to store every 2-3 days to get drinks and change mostly. Several police see me out every time and no problems. It is hot here so I wear shorts and sandals so they know I am "foreigner" walking down the street.[/QUOTE]Great report this is the info needed going forward. Will you be headed to Cartegena?

[QUOTE=Duncan216;2442903]I'm fine with letting a woman choose to take plan b or have an abortion, it's her body. A man should have a choice to support the kid / woman or not. Otherwise you have a ton of women claiming they are on birth control or stealing condoms / poking holes in them to land a monthly payday for 18 years.

I did a long term rent with a girl for a few weeks. She was fine with me blowing my load in her but I was always paranoid that she was trying to get me on the hook for a monthly paycheck. After the first week or so, I started using a condom and making sure all liquids went into the sink.

Has anyone had a situation where you offered a girl plan be and she refused and even though she's in Colombia and you are in the US or Canada, you still got to pay some kind of monthly fee? I guess I could avoid this situation by not using my real name and not telling them where I come from but it's a little hard to do with a long term rent. They can spot your name on documents if you "work from home" and spot your passport. Trying to figure out the risk of doing another long term sin condom rent.[/QUOTE]I'm going to say this and do not mean it to be judgmental. But if you BBFS, you inherently accept that risk. I'm not talking about the girls who trick men about being on the pill. But even that is a gray area. But talking about fake names, abandoning a girl in the country just doesn't feel right at all. I am really not trying to get on a high horse here. But I don't find a man shirking his responsibility acceptable. To each their own. And sure, she knows the risk too. She also has multiple partners. I understand it's a complex issue. But I just don't know my conscience would allow me to ghost a responsibility like that. I don't BBFS, but just my two cents. No offense meant here at all. I truly am not judging.

[QUOTE=FunLuvr;2443077]I don't need advice from someone who admitted he does not know how to manage his financial life.[/QUOTE]Then why did you ask?

Sorry, but I don't have a financial life. Just one of those plain, everyday normal lives most people are born with. I grew up on government cheese and VA survivor benefits.

Broke doesn't scare me. I have no fear of being poor. Again. Admitting mistakes doesn't worry me either. I make them, admit them and hope someone learns from them. That's one of the reasons this board exists, so we can help others learn from our mistakes.

What is it you're worried about?

[QUOTE=YyzTravel;2442899]All that being said then Elvis, do you go bareback often then? It sounds like a lot of STIs / STDs can either be treated, prevented, vaccinated against, etc. What is the criteria you use when going bareback that makes you feel comfortable?[/QUOTE]Yyz, there was a huge study back in 2002 that had all the major health organizations in on it. The goal was to show condoms worked for STDs. The result was the opposite, and it was buried. It totally changed my thinking on sex and condoms.

The working women in Colombia are hyperparanoid about going bare. Apparently, the government scares the crap out of them about AIDS and condoms there. What I find is the regular women I have met on Seeking Arrangement are much more okay with it. I go bare with all of them are once I get to know them.

I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work. I think that they do but I cannot prove it. The other big vaccine to take is Hepatitis be. Hepatitis be is 100 x more infectious than HIV.

I do not cum inside of them. What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once. It is like $3 in Colombia and you can buy it OTC. Levonorgestrel works by suppressing ovulation. If the ovum or egg is released in the Fallopian tube prior to your having sex, it does not work, so it is not 100%, but neither are condoms. Do not give it and have the woman say that she will take it later. Make sure that she takes it in front of you. It works for 3 days officially, it probably really works for 5.

If I am going to be with a girl a long time and see her again and again, I will either tell them to get an implant or give them or have them get a shot of medroxyprogesterone every 3 months. I think medroxyprogesterone is available over the counter in Colombia as well. It is almost impossible for them to get pregnant after the shot. Again, it is something I like to see injected myself.

One last thing to point out is that latex allergies are a real deal. No one wants to talk about this because the dermatitis associated with latex looks like a STD, but it is not. I have had this put on a steroid cream and the bumps went away. I have been tested for everything and it was not a STD. The bumps are common. Far less common is anaphylaxis but latex anaphylaxis is real and can be deadly.

As you can see, I am a helluva more concerned about pregnancy than STDs.

I know mine is a minority view, but I am skeptical of so much the government says about sex and did my own research. I am not recommending anyone follow my lead. But I have not had any issues when I follow my protocol.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2443197]The working women in Colombia are hyperparanoid about going bare. Apparently, the government scares the crap out of them about AIDS and condoms there. What I find is the regular women I have met on Seeking Arrangement are much more okay with it. I go bare with all of them are once I get to know them.

I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work. I think that they do but I cannot prove it. The other big vaccine to take is Hepatitis be. Hepatitis be is 100 x more infectious than HIV.[/QUOTE]Elvis. Thanks for the thought out response! I'm not worried about the pregnancy, I got fixed quite a few years back and go back to check annually to ensure it sticks. Which antibiotics do you use? Also, you mentioned Seeking Arrangements. Is that the seeking dot com website I save seen? Looking to get a few Colombian girls lined up before I go and was curious if this was the best route over Colombia Cupid.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2443197]

...I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work...

... What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once....

... and did my own research...[/QUOTE]What kind of "research"?

Frankly, you are a menace to public health.

[QUOTE=JohnClayton;2443220]What kind of "research"?

Frankly, you are a menace to public health.[/QUOTE]The attacks here are getting to be a bit much. I think we all need to realize people have differing opinions and experiences. Just because they do not match your own opinions or conclusions, that doesn't mean it is wrong. Worse, taking things out of context or omitting important pieces. The OP was not trying to change your mind. Just the opposite.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2443197]I know mine is a minority view, but I am skeptical of so much the government says about sex and did my own research. I am not recommending anyone follow my lead. But I have not had any issues when I follow my protocol.[/QUOTE]He shared his experience. Will I change my practices? No. But I won't claim my opinion is more important or valuable. The OP has even spelled out his logic and why he came to that conclusion.

And no, I have no clue who the OP is. I have no relation to him (that I'm aware of LOL). And he is capable of speaking for himself. I'm just done with the personal attacks.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2443197]
I do not cum inside of them. What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once. [/QUOTE]If you don't cum inside, are they confused about the need for the Plan B?

[QUOTE=LeyenLouvain;2443238]If you don't cum inside, are they confused about the need for the Plan B?[/QUOTE]Actually most women are impressed that you care about not getting them pregnant. In fact, I prefer women take the plan be before sex.

I do not know about everyone else but I had a woman tell me when giving me a BBBJ that she could taste me cumming prematurely. I am not sure how common that is, but it seems like it is an issue with me.

[QUOTE=JohnClayton;2443220]
Frankly, you are a menace to public health.[/QUOTE]You're welcome!

[QUOTE=YyzTravel;2443200]Which antibiotics do you use? Also, you mentioned Seeking Arrangements. Is that the seeking dot com website I save seen? Looking to get a few Colombian girls lined up before I go and was curious if this was the best route over Colombia Cupid.[/QUOTE]Yes, I use seeking.

I will send you a PM about the medications.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2443197]As you can see, I am a helluva more concerned about pregnancy than STDs.
[/QUOTE]I have never had an STD. And 2 of the regular girls I have fucked a lot have all told me they had discovered they had an std. One said she had clamdidia and the other said she had Gonnahoria. I was tested for each and it was negative. Even if I were to get an Std I could use an antibiotic and get rid of it.

I would be more worried about getting a girl pregnant and paying child support for 18 years, for a kid I rarely could see.

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2443225]The attacks here are getting to be a bit much. I think we all need to realize people have differing opinions and experiences. Just because they do not match your own opinions or conclusions, that doesn't mean it is wrong...[/QUOTE]I was speaking as a (former) medical professional with a fairly long career in public health. Antibiotics are precious to humankind, and their casual, incorrect and indiscriminate use promotes antibiotic resistance.

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2443152]I'm going to say this and do not mean it to be judgmental. But if you BBFS, you inherently accept that risk. I'm not talking about the girls who trick men about being on the pill. But even that is a gray area. But talking about fake names, abandoning a girl in the country just doesn't feel right at all. I am really not trying to get on a high horse here. But I don't find a man shirking his responsibility acceptable. No offense meant here at all. I truly am not judging.[/QUOTE]I respect your opinion Dcrist. Here is mine. As long as women have the right to choose whether or not to have a child, a man not married to that woman should have the choice on whether he supports the child or not. By making support based on being a sperm donor versus a conscious choice made by a man, the courts of the Western world have demeaned and invalidated the value of marriage IMO. I think pro-choice is a two way street.